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prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Longterm FB Posted: 1/22/2009 6:54:28 AM
Thanks for your opinions guys. Yes, we've both had other relationships over that time period, and, no, I don't want anything more out of it. I was just wondering if it was common.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Longterm FB Posted: 1/21/2009 8:56:55 PM
Not necessarily have to stop. That's why I asked the question.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Longterm FB Posted: 1/21/2009 8:49:06 PM
What's the longest term FB relationship that you have had? I'm interested to see whether it's common for people to maintain theses arrangements over a long period of time. 2 years, 5 years, 10 years? I have had one for over 10 years.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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can having sex be confused with making love? Posted: 1/21/2009 8:21:18 PM
is it possible to feel someone has made love to you, someone you have been with for awhile , not just a couple of dates,..only to find out it was only sex to them with no emotional attachment? No, because someone can't make love "to" you. They make love with you. Two people having sex are just having sex. One person trying to 'make love' and one person having sex are just having sex. Two people making love with one another are making love. It can't be mistaken. It's soul/body vs body.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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My new girlfriend just moved in but will not sleep with me Posted: 1/19/2009 7:56:08 PM
Yeah, she's using you.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Is it ever wise to date somebody from the office? Posted: 1/19/2009 8:05:14 AM
I met my last boyfriend at work and we were together for 3 and half years. I think if you actually really know the person before you start dating them then it's as wise as dating anyone you meet anywhere. If you just start dating before you know them then you could be setting yourself up for trouble if it doesn't work out. It would be a lot more awkward. But if you have a solid relationship with them beforehand and it doesn't work out chances are it won't be a big deal if/after you break up.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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money inside her bra Posted: 1/19/2009 7:58:35 AM
I keep my iPod in my bra quite often when I don't have pockets.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 139 (view)

Best Songs to Dance Like A Slut to? Posted: 1/18/2009 5:44:08 PM
Vamp- Trentemoller Sweetest Perfection- Depeche Mode

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Is it important to classify what type of sex it was? Posted: 1/18/2009 1:22:15 PM
It's not important at all.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 128 (view)

Is Ignorance Bliss? Posted: 1/11/2009 8:18:39 PM
I found this thread very interesting. I don't think that my intelligence has affected made forming personal relationships more difficult on the the whole. I've just had to adapt myself to the other people's intelligence levels and enjoy them for what they can offer. That being said, it does make one different from the norm and it can be frustrating not to be able to engage with all people at the level where you feel most yourself. Blank stares suck. And although I don't dumb myself down, I speak using plainer language and talk about very different things with people who I've already tested to see how 'smart' they are. Wow, that sounds incredibly arrogant! I've never really let myself think about this topic, but it's true. Hmmm. And in terms of romantic relationships, I just accept that I haven't found my intellectual match but a mate doesn't have to fulfill every need. Hmmm.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/8/2009 7:57:09 PM
Being a taller woman, I know that it's the short ones that usually seem to give me attention. Or maybe it's the shorter ones that grab my attention. I have a gnome/elf like man fetish. tss

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Unusual Compliments Posted: 1/8/2009 4:49:56 PM
I got complimented on my upper chest veins once. Because 'they look like a map'.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Academics dating over 30 Posted: 11/11/2008 7:07:02 PM
Try seeking academics who don't work or attend the same university as you.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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How did your parents meet? Posted: 9/7/2008 7:48:11 PM
My parents were both in France for a year abroad at university. A guy was hassling my Mum on the bus and my Dad went and sat next to her and pretended to be her boyfriend so the guy'd leave her alone. My Mum asked my Dad back to her apartment for coffee. They've been married 32 years.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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OMG... Is that your ? NO come on.. I'm over 30... they're my ??? Posted: 9/7/2008 6:15:00 PM
I like my 'man'. It's simple, not cutesy, and conveys the message.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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flashers and peeping toms? whats up with them... Posted: 8/18/2008 5:34:38 PM
When I was around 20 my best friend and I were walking on a trail by the river. I looked across the river and saw a deer bounding through the trees. I looked again and it was a guy shaking his willy at us! It was one of the funniest things ever. My friend freaked out though.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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What is the sexiest thing you have ever done? Posted: 8/18/2008 5:27:40 PM
One of the sexiest things I have done was done to me. After some crazy wild sex in the living room we were expecting our friends back from the bar (years ago) and he dressed me. Underwear, bra, top, pants, leg by leg and even did up my fly. I found that so sexy and still think about.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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smell plays a big part......!!! Posted: 8/11/2008 4:34:13 PM
Smell plays a huge part! I love head smell- my ex used to tease me for sniffing his head all the time. I read an interesting article that suggested that in modern times, because of daily showering, perfumes etc. that family bonds have been weakened because their are less pheromones to create those bonds. It's very plausible. Dirty hair being blowdried has got to be one of the worst smells ever.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person? Posted: 12/13/2007 5:28:20 PM
I definitely spend a lot more time on being creative and making it exciting when I am truly in love. You have to care strongly for someone to put that much thought and imagination into making it great.I've only ever deepthroated one man and he is my greatest love. It's been a long time since I did that to someone I just 'liked' and I've not put the effort into it as with someone I 'love'.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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sex and spirituality Posted: 12/13/2007 4:29:04 PM
I think that sex can become spontaneously spiritual but some people would not recognize it as such. I believe that you have to concentrate on the spiritual aspects while you are having sex in order to access and open your spirit. It is possible that only one partner feel spiritual, but when both partners are concentrating on that same circular giving and receiving of energy the experience can be amazing and can be frightening. It takes time to work up to a level of worship of one another. A few times I have felt a strong force come out of my heart with his, but we aren't able (fear) to maintain the joint force of energy. I am curious to see what would happen if we concentrated on the energy flow. For me it is like when I lie down in a forest and just listen and feel the Earth I feel connected and my soul is nourished.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why are most men looking for Friends with Benefits? Posted: 10/13/2007 5:50:56 PM
Because calling someone your "lover" sounds hokey nowadays. Semantics. I myself think it a shame not to use your body while it is young or any age while your seeking a partner. And having a "friend with benefits" or casually dating someone allows you to enjoy sex while looking for a LTR.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 182 (view)

Is it better to be alone Or settle for someone that is not Your type. Posted: 9/13/2007 4:52:17 PM
I have chosen to be alone instead of settle, but if it had been really important for me to have kids young I might have settled in order to get that.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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If You Could Fix One Mistake Posted: 9/13/2007 4:37:28 PM
I would have done what my heart wanted and not what I thought I should do.

prov518

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Do women like seeing guys naked? Posted: 9/10/2007 6:36:40 PM
Yes, yes, much more so when they are erect though. But the whole body not just their genitals. That being said, I think the erect penis is a lot more attractive than a vagina.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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women and makeup Posted: 9/10/2007 6:25:08 PM
A lot of women who trowel it on wear it as a mask. It is something to hide behind. Many women it actually does make them look better. Some of my supposed beautiful friends are quite plain without their makeup. Myself, I only wear it for something special like a wedding or going out to show that I have put some effort in. But I'm lucky I have a lot of contrast in my colouring so I don't need any.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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why cats? women love them, why? Posted: 9/10/2007 6:07:17 PM
I always wondered that too. My roommate made us have one and it was always sticking its butt in my face. Very annoying!

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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29 Forever Posted: 9/9/2007 3:09:59 PM
I don't get the point of lying. Do you want people to think you are a really old looking 29 year old?

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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does your mind wonder while makeing love? Posted: 9/8/2007 5:28:34 PM
I can't say that's ever happened to me.I don't know when there would be time to be thinking about anything else except whats happening.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 9/8/2007 5:00:13 PM
Yes, I would. I'm not a big fan of receiving. I like to give though, I actually dated someone who didn't like to receive it and that did not last long.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Do men really want women like their Mom? Posted: 9/6/2007 7:12:32 PM
I think it depends on the relationship a man has with his mother and that is reflected in these posts. I know men who have mothers they do not hold in high esteem and have married someone extremely different. And others who have married someone VERY similar. I find that the women who are similar to the Mums-in-law get along WAY better with each other.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/5/2007 4:20:59 PM
Definitely not, as the rest of the relationship died, so did that part.

prov518

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more on credit cards Posted: 9/5/2007 10:02:29 AM
I would definitely NOT spend my last months on earth stealing. I don't steal now why would I start when I'm about to die. Not paying credit cards, claiming bankruptcy etc. is stealing. They sohuld bring back some form of debtor's punishment. Not prison, but maybe hard labour.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Ground Hog Day and OCD ' Whats the Difference ? Posted: 9/2/2007 6:53:31 PM
My younger brother has it and it is a terrible thing. I've yelled at him in the past for behaviours that I know he can't help but it seems like he was just doing it to be aggravating. It's hard to understand. In the past 6 months he has started on a new medication that has helped him tremendously, so there is treatment. I do believe we have all experienced it at some time, in some form, just like most everyone has been depressed but not necessarily suffered from clinical depression.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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His and Hers Bedrooms? Posted: 9/2/2007 6:44:07 PM
My ex and I had separate bedrooms. I would have preferred we shared a bed and bedroom, but then I got used to it. He would stay up later, but would tuck me in most nights, it was nice ritual. When we moved to another place that had only one bedroom we still had our own separate beds. I quite liked that. Next time I live with a man I will insist on sharing a bed but go for a King sized bed.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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relationships with unmatching intellectual levels Posted: 9/2/2007 6:30:43 PM
I would not date someone who was significantly intellectually different than me (higher or lower). Education level attained, however, is unimportant. I find that intellectually stimulating people are those who are curious and constantly willing to learn. I never get bored of having things explained to me or explaining things to someone as long as we are both interested in the topic.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Have you ever waited for a love? Posted: 9/2/2007 6:14:21 PM
I am sort of waiting for a love right now. We have never lived in the same town.We are from a small town with few good job prospects for my skills. We saw each other for a few years when I was 18 then I stopped it cuz it was too hard to be so far away. (4 hrs) We started seeing each other again a couple years later. When I graduated from university I moved to a city about an hour away from where he lives to be closer. I met another guy and saw them both for almost a year (they both knew) and eventually got serious with the guy who lived in the same town. I regret that decision. When we broke up 2 or so years later and I have a house and the security and sense of accomplishment. I looked up the first guy 3 months after we broke up and he had a g/f. We began seeing each other and she got pregnant about 3 months into starting to see each other. Now, I am trying to date new guys but I know that I really want to be with this man. I have been out with a few other guys but I really know I want to be with the first one.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Would you Canadians move to the U.S,Would you Americans move to Canada if you met someone on here? Posted: 8/14/2007 6:45:27 PM
I would never, ever live in the U.S. Although there are some wonderful individuals hailing from there the culture is just way too different.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Marriage-An Extinct Vocation Posted: 8/14/2007 6:18:08 PM
I think it still is a positive experience for those people that stay married. 50% means that half of the people stay together. You just have to choose to marry someone who BELIEVES in marriage as if divorce was NOT an option. There have been no divorces in my immediate family and I honestly believe none of my brothers nor myself will divorce once we marry. We were to taught to choose well and choose the RIGHT person. Or maybe if everyone started dying at 40 again, then marriages wouldn't have to last so long. lol

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Moaning Posted: 8/14/2007 6:08:22 PM
Moaning is the best, it lets you know how much they like it. It's great figuring out the type of moans as to how much they are enjoying what's happening. There is this one pitch of moan that if I get the guy I sleep with to make it I feel like I won the lottery!

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 131 (view)

Two Questions About Cheating: 1) Why? & 2) Always a Cheater? Posted: 8/14/2007 5:53:55 PM
Dave 1234- I absolutely love what you have said about sex being the core of a relationship.My definition of sex includes all types of physicality. I believe when you allow yourself full expression through your sexuality your personality is shown. Who you are in the bedroom is essentially who you are in life. Your qualities; selfishness, generosity, playfulness etc. are apparent. A couple's interaction in the bedroom will also mirror how they will be together in life, ability to work together, to solve problems together etc. One off cheaters are most likely not always cheaters, people make mistakes.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 75 (view)

Blissful SEX... Have you experienced it? Posted: 8/14/2007 5:47:49 PM
Yes, I have experience this many times with a particular partner and on occasion with others. It is a blessing and a curse. A blessing, because there is nothing else in this life that can compare. A curse, because if you let that person go you may never get that feeling back with someone else.

prov518

Joined: 8/10/2007

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She sticks her tongue in WHA??? Posted: 8/14/2007 5:40:38 PM
I also thought this was just a normal part of giving head. If you don't like it though, she should respect that and stop.

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