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What is your number one fantasy? Posted: 10/5/2009 10:37:53 AM
My number one fantasy is to be deployed to Afghanistan and to leave the FOB and sneak off with a U.S. soldier in a Hummvee and have sex with him in the back seat and then get out and lay a ground sheet on top of the sand and do it again. Ahhhh the thought of sneaking around and knowing we could possibly get caught Haha, its not all its cracked up to be. Sure its a bit of a thrill, but the conditions just really aren't the greatest. At least in Iraq. Maybe Afghan is different, but as a healthcare professional, a solid 1/3 of my issues were dealing with STD's and UTI's. Sorry to take the wind out of your sail.

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What is your number one fantasy? Posted: 10/5/2009 10:32:14 AM
1 - What is your number one fantasy? Audrey Hepburn, Rachel McAdams, Brody Dalle, Scarlett Johanssen, Katy Perry, and Natalie Portman pillow fighting over who gets to take advantage of me first. 2 - Or is there more than one, depending on the "emotional climate?" Does there need to be? 3 - Do you want to pursue this fantasy, or are you happy with it remaining "just a fantasy?" If there was a way to pursue it, I'd love to. 4 - Have you or would you share your fantasies with your partner? Totally, its the natural evolution of things. If you ate a taco every day, you'd want to figure out a way to dress it up every now and again. Try a different recipe... or something.

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When I still had optimism Posted: 10/5/2009 9:19:26 AM
Unspoken Truths An outpouring of unspoken truths between us lie. Born not of each other, only of myself, divided yet collected on the ground where at last they have chosen to give me rest. Aye, it is true that these truths are not the only creation to have recently claimed success on escape from my mind - but more apparent and brilliant than my common sense, perhaps, which has been found a detriment to my quivering lips unsure of where to both begin, and ultimately, end when I speak of you. If it is ultimately the truth that sets us free, then I shall pray that these unspoken should find their way to you in some manner that would befit your grace. Should they climb your statuesque model of bones and curves? Surely they would fall in love as I, and never strive to reach altitude higher than your collarbone. Perhaps then on this cool night they would choose to set course through your veins from the tips of your fingers, only to become incensed by your warm heart... and in choosing to dwell, concede their quest. I look upon your eyes in veils and know with the last of my breath I would fight to free you from them, if only for sake of knowing the truth. If only it were my choice. If in doubt of abandon, look in my eyes compared to a sea of grey souls and know that I am genuine. How could I possibly show you? I know. I shall pick from the mess of the rubble of what I was, to what I am, and lean forward on the branch of what I will be to reach you. I shall hold on to these self-evident truths, and when the time is right, I shall seal them between us with a kiss. These sweet, unspoken truths, remain for their purpose is not to be told. Instead, they are meant to be held for a brief moment in time and more if we should so choose. A moment, exactly. Like. This.

Life, Love, And Skittles

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Would You? Posted: 8/29/2009 11:21:14 PM
Just wondering if any of you would continue a conversation with someone if you felt there wasn't any chemistry. A woman emailed me recently and wanted to talk, and we ended up talking for about 2 hours or so. At the end of the conversation, I asked her if she wanted to talk again and she basically said "honestly I don't think theres any chemistry" etc. etc. I know what that means, but I think its a little odd to not be upfront about it. Like, why carry on in a conversation and flirt and whatnot for an hour plus... and THEN be like, oh by the way I don't want to talk to you? It kind of threw me for a loop.

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Rudeness? Posted: 8/26/2009 4:41:59 PM
Nope, just a message out of the blue from someone I had viewed recently. Never even sent her a message, it was pretty weird. I don't think she has all of her screws in place.

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Rudeness? Posted: 8/26/2009 4:38:04 PM
Seriously, who writes things like "Good luck, you'll need it buddy." Totally uncalled for. Psh. I mean, I was raised under the "if you don't have something nice to say" rule. If you're checking people out or you get a message, I would think that most people would at least have common courtesy to be polite. Sorry for the rant ;)

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are opposite sex relationships appropriate immediatly following an affair Posted: 8/18/2009 8:10:59 PM
If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its probably still a cheater. That said, after an affair if you wanted to rebuild a happy relationship, I would think everything would be out in the open and she wouldn't WANT to have contact with any other guys for awhile. Sounds shady to me. $.02

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What does a younger woman (below 25) look for in an older man (over 30)? Posted: 8/18/2009 7:30:40 PM
Thats not what he's asking people. Generally, women that are younger and look to older men value the life experience, insight, and wisdom that older men have. Also, maturity and sense of security also come into play. While I would definitely suggest not being an age-ist, if its not important to you to have someone that you have more in common with as far as generational experiences (remember LBJ? She doesn't.), I know of a few friends who have made it work. It depends on the people involved, if you're both goodhearted and easy to compromise I think you'd have pretty good luck.

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TV Show - Dating in the Dark - One Comment Posted: 8/18/2009 7:25:26 PM
Silly goose, thats not how television works! If its not hurtful, emotionally detrimental, and/or slanderous... its not TV. The only thing that sells even remotely close to sex is something mortifyingly cruel. So, why not both?

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Unspoken Truths Posted: 8/12/2009 9:54:32 AM
I still like this.

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Is this too much in my profile? Posted: 8/12/2009 9:51:20 AM
Its not wordy, otherwise I'm screwed.

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Hmm. Posted: 8/12/2009 9:26:11 AM
Awesome, constructive, I like it!

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What are the percentages? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:52:58 AM
"The majority* of young women who have children by this age are low income" Thats what I was hitting on but if you're able to have kids that young and support everyone including yourself, then hey by all means make your paper. It just seemed to me that there was a disproportionate amount of women on here under 21 that have had one or a few kids, and it was a sad observation. And I wondered if it was, perhaps, proportional to the United States in general and is really just an observation of the declining state of our nation. Its kind of scary.

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Hmm. Posted: 8/12/2009 8:42:59 AM
"I've made changes and would like further opinions." =)

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What are the percentages? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:21:01 AM
What are the percentages of women under 21 with kids? A lot of times I see 21 and 22 year olds with 2 or more kids, and really, I just feel bad for them. Its starting to become a pandemic. Its not a disqualifier, but if someone already has 2 or 3 kids and you want some of your own, it wouldn't really make sense unless you plan on living in a trailer for 20 years (or you're a doctor?). Just wondering.

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Hmm. Posted: 8/11/2009 8:16:20 PM
And here I thought black and white meant classy! Derrrrrrrrrrrrn! ;)

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I must give off an odor or something Posted: 8/11/2009 8:15:23 PM
I say, don't get serious. Playful and fun is the way to go, men will respond to it much better. Overall, I can't pick too much that hasn't already been said, other than good luck!

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Hmm. Posted: 8/11/2009 7:59:47 PM
Maybe I'm not coming across well? Or too well? All I'm saying is, I'm trying to not write a novel but still try to get across my fantastic personality. shrug So with that said, check me out and feel free to impart some helpful advice!

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guy's truth Posted: 8/11/2009 7:49:16 PM
After reading the previous post, I concur.

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Love and NO Physical Attraction Posted: 8/11/2009 7:45:22 PM
If theres one thing I've learned from catching millionaire matchmaker on bravo at work, there needs to be a "shwing" factor. I think its a combination of the exterior and interior. If you find faults in one, its accepting flaws and idiosyncrasies that constitutes love. Not in spite of flaws, but because of them.

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Unspoken Truths Posted: 3/9/2009 4:51:27 AM
An outpouring of unspoken truths between us lie. Born not of each other, only of myself, divided yet collected on the ground where at last they have chosen to give me rest. Aye, it is true that these truths are not the only creation to have recently claimed success on escape from my mind - but more apparent and brilliant than my common sense, perhaps, which has been found a detriment to my quivering lips unsure of where to both begin, and ultimately, end when I speak of you. If it is ultimately the truth that sets us free, then I shall pray that these unspoken should find their way to you in some manner that would befit your grace. Should they climb your statuesque model of bones and curves? Surely they would fall in love as I, and never strive to reach altitude higher than your collarbone. Perhaps then on this cool night they would choose to set course through your veins from the tips of your fingers, only to become incensed by your warm heart... and in choosing to dwell, concede their quest. I look upon your eyes in veils and know with the last of my breath I would fight to free you from them, if only for sake of knowing the truth. If only it were my choice. If in doubt of abandon, look in my eyes compared to a sea of grey souls and know that I am genuine. How could I possibly show you? I know. I shall pick from the mess of the rubble of what I was, to what I am, and lean forward on the branch of what I will be to reach you. I shall hold on to these self-evident truths, and when the time is right, I shall seal them between us with a kiss. These sweet, unspoken truths, remain for their purpose is not to be told. Instead, they are meant to be held for a brief moment in time and more if we should so choose. A moment, exactly. Like. This.

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Is being called the wrong name a big deal? Posted: 3/9/2009 4:50:33 AM
After the first time, I would have been offended.

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Being the other woman Posted: 11/29/2008 8:53:09 AM
What possible positive could come out of that situation? None. That should answer the question in and of itself.

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Confused- what happened? Posted: 11/29/2008 8:25:51 AM
my guess would be that something happened after the first phone call. either he got cold feet, he ended up getting sidetracked (it does happen with men), or if you left him a message when he wasn't answering it could have thrown him off. have you talked to him since?

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Ask and Englishman to review your profile, be warned I never pull the punches and I am 100% honest Posted: 7/15/2007 6:09:18 PM
sign me up too ;)

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Hollywood Director'll rate your profile... Posted: 7/15/2007 5:10:51 PM
Ok ok so I pretty much copied and pasted my my space, but its a start right? And I think the pics I put up are fairly decent... ?

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I dont beat around the bush if you want it straight? Posted: 7/15/2007 5:00:52 PM
help!?! I have no idea what I'm doing...

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Online Dating Guide for Men: Part Deux Posted: 7/15/2007 4:58:45 PM
this isn't a dating guide, its standard netiquette for the most part.

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Let's start as friends Posted: 7/15/2007 4:37:06 PM
I think that women say this, they're basically saying that they're not going to be putting out anytime soon because they have a guard up, most likely from being burned in the past from someone who just wanted to get in (and out of) their pants. Its also an extra out if they don't find you attractive or feel a certain chemistry, a nice way of saying "I don't want to date you but I'm a nice enough person to still talk to you".

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Just friends? Posted: 7/15/2007 4:19:44 PM
well its not just here, I'm talking in a broad spectrum... unless you meet someone through friends its usually awkward, and when all of your friends are basically military, you all know the same people anyway

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Just friends? Posted: 7/15/2007 3:31:18 PM
... no edit function. Drrrrrr. Also, I doubt I could volunteer ANYWHERE at the moment considering the lack of vehicle and the fact that I'm working a 10-16 hour day 5-6 days a week plus holidays. From what I hear my hook up is going to be over in Iraq the same time as I am, and therefore I should be able to access the internet at least once a week. =)

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Just friends? Posted: 7/15/2007 3:27:44 PM
For clarification, I don't have problems meeting new people, I just don't get a lot of time to do so. Most of my friends male and female, are military and as such I will either see them on a daily basis or they will be on their own mission by fall. It also doesn't help that I've had to take my car back home in preparation to leave, so the internet is pretty huge at the moment. I guess my biggest irk was that people automatically assumed I had an agenda rather than getting to know me... its... frustrating. lol

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Just friends? Posted: 7/15/2007 3:04:37 PM
Does anyone believe in just being friends with the opposite sex anymore? I'm currently in the army and about to deploy in a month or two, and without getting too far into it I would like to meet some new people to become friends with and stay in contact with while I'm overseas (I don't have a family)... the problem is, if you message a woman (I think) they automatically assume I'm either looking for a fling or a long-distance relationship, both of which couldn't be further from the truth. And if you message a dude, they think you're weird or gay. So: is it possible to still make new friends this day in age? Or has everyone had similar experience to mine? (Maybe its just me?) Thanks for reading

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