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 Author Thread: Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!???
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!???
Posted: 6/13/2008 11:59:45 AM

it all boils down to,,"PERSONAL HYGIEN" an taking care of your body an yourself..especially during sexual acts that when the most germs are being spread..

LOL The last thing I am thinking about during a sex act might be "Gee, I wonder if she has germs getting on me!".

Personal hygien is an all the time thing not just during sexual acts. On the other hand I don't go scrub up every time I touch something that might have germs on it.

Getting dirty is natural, if you don't get dirty often enough during your life how will your body ever learn keep its resistances up?

After you get dirty then getting clean is a natural progression. Rushing off to scrub away every essence of your love making right after just lets your lover know you think they are gross and disgusting and you have to remove any taint of them as soon as possible.

So many people on this site are almost phobic about germs. It isn't surprising so many of them aren't getting laid on any regular basis.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Would you ever sell yourself.........?
Posted: 6/13/2008 8:43:08 AM
I asked a woman if she would fvck me for a million dollars and she said "Heck yes.".

Then I asked her if she would fvck me for a buck and she said "No way. What kind of girl do you think I am?".

I answered "We have already established that and now we are just****ring over the price.".
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 217 (view)
 
Do men still look for old fashioned girls?
Posted: 6/13/2008 6:36:48 AM

You'll never know how she is in the bedroom till you earn that right and for most males out there you will never know.

Why is it some people think "old fashioned" equals stuck up and egotistical?

"Old fashioned" is a term some people use to justify their behavior, it has nothing to do with a grander societal norm. Just from reading the posts I see most of the people are basing their concept of "old fashion" on some relatively recent history that when you look deeper into it isn't nearly as quaint and wholesum as they would like to believe.

We should all go about dating the "old fashion' way. Us guys can get a our women by a raid on the a near by tribe or we can buy a daughter from a father.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 127 (view)
 
What CD is in Your Car Now?.....
Posted: 6/12/2008 10:59:00 PM
Pink Floyd: Dark Side of the Moon.
Phil Collins: I can't Dance
Queen: Best Of
Pink Floyd: The Wall

I need to get a CD carasol installed.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!???
Posted: 6/12/2008 10:48:59 PM
OK there have been a few really wild sex times that we ended up with CSI sheets that I went and got a warm wet cloth and a towel to clean up and make sure that she was comfortable.

Part of the pleasure I have in pampering my woman is she doesn't demand it of me. She offers all she has and I want to offer all I am.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 208 (view)
 
Do men still look for old fashioned girls?
Posted: 6/12/2008 10:42:45 PM

I was just wondering if men still want an oldfashioned girl and do you feel they still exist,

Well almost any sexual activity has been well known and documented for centuries so if you mean old fashion by meaning a woman believes they should try to please and keep their man happy mentaly, emotionaly and sexualy then yes I still want an oldfashioned girl.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!???
Posted: 6/12/2008 10:12:51 PM
"barf" "puke" "gag" UHHHH wouldn't it be alot simpler with a bar of soap preferably Dial or Ivory an a WASH CLOTH to work just as well..

Just as well for what?

Getting clean? Sure, but I can get just as clean and stay cleaner if I am not in a sexual relationship.

Now if you are talking a bond that goes beyond words or even ability to describe it to others than where do you draw the lines? I would pretty much do anything I could for my lover and part of the reason is because she will and does everything she can to please me.

not to mention there would be no worries of bad after taste an sore throats...an PLUS that's sooooo unsanitary

I don't worry about bad tastes, I think all of her tastes pretty damned good.

Sore throats? Unsanitary? I think some basics should be considered but I am not going to dictate my sex life on some OCD basis. Riding a car on the freeway is more dangerous than almost any sexual activity yet most people do it all the time. If I was that worried about death or injury I would never get near a car.

As to fecal matter the government has standards of how much you can have in your food. They don't say you can't have any, they just set a limit on how much is acceptable. So you eat sh!t all the time in government approved amounts.
well in any day an age there are always things called "Blackmail" an "Manipulation" an isntead of having to worry about that.. how bout JUST DON"T DO IT!

What is it exactly they are going to balckmail you for?

The only time a person can be blackmailed is if they feel that they did something wrong.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 157 (view)
 
Gaming Girls... yea or nay?
Posted: 6/12/2008 9:48:57 PM
I like Gamer girls. OK there are those that game more for the RP than the game and while I enjoy some of them I much prefer the gal that is there to have an adventure in game rather than an RP scenario or cyborz.

I don't think a lot of people have a clue at just how elaborate and the depth that online gaming has achieved. In the more advanced games you can almost create another life.

Kazot was the name of my EQ Raid Wizard. He has had reincarnations as several caster class avatars.

My first character in EQ met a newbie halfling druid named Quea. We spent a couple of years banging around together in game having a grand time just going out and having adventures. We formed a group of crazy adventurers named the Death Nights. Nothing sexual or romatic about me and her but she was a hell of an online friend and a lot of fun.

Since then it has been guys or manginas but we enjoy playing whether they were male or female. We have had the Death Nights, The Adventure Club and the Horse Men which traveled from one game to another and some of them still play.

My love is not a gamer, I can live with that. Her daughter is more of a MPFPS type, I can play but I don't think it has enough depth. Would I like it if my babe was a gamer, you betchya, I would love to share some adventures and quests with the woman I share the story of my life with.

Some guys go out and play a round of golf, hunt deer, fish, cut the lawn or go shoot pool at the bar. I like to get together with a freind or up to seventy other people and go kill a dragon, do a dungeon crawl beneath a haunted castle.

It is hard to expain unless you have been there, but I have been in battles where the only thing I could see was the heel of the foot and the bottom of its belly the monster was so large, or seen hords of undead swarming into the room as people ran, screaming and dying, and then in every game there is always zones that have rats that that would eat Godzilla for a snack.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/12/2008 9:11:01 PM
RUN!

Run fast!

Run far!

Don't look back!

Try to run faster.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 87 (view)
 
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 6/12/2008 9:07:27 PM
My babe says she doesn't care either way.

Personnaly I feel if she is willing to stay smooth and clean then the least I can do is weed whack the hedges.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!???
Posted: 6/12/2008 9:04:14 PM
My babe always uses her tongue and mouth to clean me up afterwards.

I always feel clean, comfortable and more than a little emotionaly erect after sex...
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 466 (view)
 
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/8/2008 8:12:52 PM

As to the poster who asked: Ummm Maybe you just never caught them??????
I have to respond in the negative.
Again, no woman has ever cheated on me.
No woman has ever NEEDED to cheat on me.
If you do what it takes to satisfy the woman then you do not have to worry!

ROFL Now thats funny.

Hyperbolic hubris and/or arrogance is more often than not hilarious.

Cheating often isn't about the person getting cheated on it is the person doing the cheating. Hate to put it to you bub but you could be as great or even greater than you imagine your self to be and there would be some women who would cheat on you. goes the other way too.

Just because you don't know it happened or even because your ego tells you it didn't happen doesn't mean squat.

Anyhow, women cheat and men cheat. Some because they can't get what they need others because they want something they can't get. No sense in having a tizzy over it.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 274 (view)
 
Weight and Sex
Posted: 6/8/2008 8:01:12 PM
Lingerie isn't about hiding it is about accenting.

Back in history a man wore a cod piece not to hide his genitalia but to accent it.

Erotic night ware is that way for women. It is like pretty plumage or those apes with the really swollen red tw@ts.
 kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Which is the hottest zodiac sign in bed?
Posted: 6/6/2008 2:51:04 PM

From my experience, anyone who does not have a sense of humor usually is not good in bed, WHATEVER sign they might be.

DING! DING! DING!

Give the little lady a cigar!
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 537 (view)
 
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:22:43 PM
Every body loves BOOBS!

Even gay guys love boobs.

Quit your bi@tchin if a lot of guys had boobs of their own they would never leave the house.

Hell not only will I stare I may even complement you.
"Nice rack ya got there."
"May I say, you have some mighty fine tits."
"Holy mother of gawd, those are nice!" (OK that one is rather rare.)
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 240 (view)
 
I found some disturbing pictures on my boyfriend's computer!!!
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:19:24 PM
FFS, it is just Porn!

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5430343841227974645&pl=true
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 143 (view)
 
If you are a middle aged man .
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:16:45 PM
Chris I am trying to figure out why you are bi@tching and whining?

I didn't read the whole thread so it probably has already been addressed.

From your picures you have kept in great shape.

Unless you have the personality of a goldfish or you are as sexualy interesting as said goldfish you should have a plethera of men desiring to date you.

I have my filters and have always had my filters wide open because I am a forum troll and enjoy talking to all kinds of people.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
what is it they want
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:08:27 PM

He only wanted sex, what else do men want?

And if you were good he would want more.

If you were incredably good and an interesting person he would also like sex and a relationship. But then both together, that is a stretch.

I am such a lucky son of a bi@tch.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
So sick of hearing this
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:38:25 PM

I suspect either these guys are lying, or their women faked it like there was no tomorrow.

LOL If they have to tell you about it then they are lying or their women faked it.

Next time some guy starts feeding you that line ask him to describe what he did in detail. You will get a wet crotch either way, from passion or laughter.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 122 (view)
 
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:34:25 PM

f@cking is primal animal lust.

The only time I allow the primal animal beast out of his cage is with my love.

She trusts me and I love her so much I can let him romp and still keep a hold of the reigns so he wont hurt her....much.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 175 (view)
 
I'm ba ... ack!!
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:30:17 PM
My babe just wants me for sex.

The only way I can get out of spanking her then fvcking her in the a$$, cvnt and mouth is by catching her by surprise with an intriging thought, an interesting debate or a well prepared meal. She is such a push over for those.

It's a burden but I will struggle on.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Which is the hottest zodiac sign in bed?
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:16:28 PM
I am Taurus in the Zodiac
A Bull in the Chinese calender.
And a natural Dom.

There was just no way I was going to escape my nature.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 102 (view)
 
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/5/2008 4:41:06 PM
Didn't read the whole thread.

I like to think of my self a flexual. I like women, a lot. I like women a lot more than I like men. In the right situation I got no problems with a guy involved and even intimate. It just isn't my preference.

Of course there are a few fantasies that I want to have some day that require gals and guys.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 151 (view)
 
What makes a woman good in bed?
Posted: 6/5/2008 4:32:40 PM
Hehehehehe I really do need a gloat smiley.

I would guess several things make a woman good in bed. For me I have found a woman who will go almost anywhere. Her willingness drives me to be the best I can with her. There has never been a "no", the closest We have come was a "Let me get used to the idea in my head" and that is rare.

Not only is she willing, she is smarter than hell, incredably capable of taking care of her self or what ever needs to be done and she doesn't feel the need to question us, she is just in it 100%.

With a rare treasure like that most other women don't measure up.
 kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:46:04 AM
A BJ is sex and just like any other form of sex there are those that are good at it and those who aren't.

And just like any kind of sex there are guys who think it is great they are getting sex so it must be good.

Most woman think they are good or great at sex because that is all they have ever heard from guys. Just from the number of inhibited posters on PoF it is easy to see that many of them are not that good.

I have been with enough woman to have found there is a great variance between their sexual capabilities yet every one of them thought they were a great lover.

Ladies, just because a guy doesn't complain or even if he says you were great take it with a grain of salt.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 204 (view)
 
For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/5/2008 4:57:05 AM

That's sex? Creepy

It's very primal.

There is soft sex, love making, romantic intercourse, after glow. Romanticaly fufilling.

Then there is sex, feels good, gives release, fun and happy. Physicaly filling.

And rough sex, primal, uninhibited, boundries are pushed mental and physical when you are done you are sweaty, dirty, smelly, exhausted and increadably sated. You feel like you have been well and truely fvcked right down to your ancient ancestors clubbing each other and dragging you off to a cave to mate.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 250 (view)
 
Swinging i don't get it!
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:49:54 PM

No, your comment doesn't make sense - my family knows I have sex. Telling them details isn't the same as telling them I'm having sex with men other than my husband

So you are telling them you are letting him shoot his jism down your throat? Taking it up the a$$ and then licking him clean? Tossing his salad till he blows his load into your open mouth?

These are all details, just as swinging is a detail. So tell us how your family takes to you sharing thses graphic details about your sex life with them while you would never tell them that you are a swinger?

It doesn't matter what swingers call it - adultery is still adultery

For you it is adultry. For them it is a healthy relationship. When you have a realtionship with that spicial person do you try to conform to every one else or do you share it and meld it with them?

I didn't say anything about sharing your private sexual life with family - I said would you want them to know.

Would you want them to know you are letting him shoot his jism down your throat? Taking it up the a$$ and then licking him clean? Tossing his salad till he blows his load into your open mouth?

Same difference you are just quibbling about semantics (There is a pun in there I am sure.).

I don't ride motorcycles any more either. When I see people my age cruising, I always wonder how often they have eaten pavement, if ever.

Do you also wonder how often they get laid and how good their sex life is?

When I stop doing things I enjoy doing because I think I am to old and not because I just can't do them anymore I hope I have the will power to end my life rather than just exist.

Yes, Kthyg - if you're not married then swing away!

WOOT! So as long as I never make a formal agreement that I want to be her friend, companion, lover and husband for the rest of my life it is OK to swing. But if I do want to make that commitment then we can no longer do what we enjoy together anymore.

Oh That sounds like a great way to encourage marriage!

NOTE: I'm not meaning to pick on you in particual Fleur_de_Lis. You seem like a really nice woman. It is just that yours and some of the others inhibition on this site seem to be so counter to a healthy relstionship that I am drawn to point it out.

I am in a what I consider a very VERY committed relationship. We discuss swinging just as we discuss all aspects of our life together. Both of us a secure enough in who we are and how we feel about each other that if we want to swing it will be a joint activity we will enjoy just as all the other things we do are things we enjoy together.

You will enjoy what you enjoy with your SO. Just keep your mind and heart open that there is a lot more to life then maybe you had ever considered.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:21:52 PM

A little bit of gagging can be really erotic..... the feeling of your throat closing around the head of his c*ck is apparently a pretty amazing feeling from what I've been told. Not all women can "embrace the gag" as another forum poster said in a different thread awhile back....

I love to lay my partners fingers on each side of my throat so he can feel himself inside and how it makes me gag a bit once in awhile. The men I have been with find this very hot.

I would dare to say that here is a woman who has made mens eyes roll back in their head and caused them to loose the ability of coherent speach.

Yes some times gagging can be incredably erotic. The ego stroke that you are big/long enough to gag her and then double ego stroke that she is willing to gag on your c0ck to please you.

WOO HOO!!!
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 199 (view)
 
For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:17:21 PM
OMFG!!!!

Holly_Golightly6 has my vote for best fvcking post ever so far.

As a newly awakened dom not only did I enjoy her post a found it spiritualy uplifting.

YOU GO GIRL!
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 239 (view)
 
Swinging i don't get it!
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:32:07 AM

I don't see what difference that makes. I wouldn't want my family to know I was having sex outside of marriage

Some of us think adultery is wrong

Do you want your family to know you engage in oral? Or maybe anal? Would you let them know at the first opportunity that you enjoy a bit of bondage with you lover?

Some people think all those are wrong too.

Your comment doesn't make sense, I don't tell my family all about my private sex life. I don't consider that appropriate.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
fondness
Posted: 6/3/2008 4:08:47 PM
Looks like she is running the same thing in two threads.

confused,, how do i get my man back?
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10092806.aspx
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 227 (view)
 
Swinging i don't get it!
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:27:40 PM

A question for all the posters...if you met someone and are head over heels in love with them and then find out in the manner I did about this previous lifestyle....how would you feel and react?. Think about it before you respond if you do respond. It is not as easy as you think accepting someone's past such as this. We all have pasts but sheez....

Honestly, it wouldn't bother me if she had a colorful past. I know I do and I wouldn't trade it for the world.

On the other hand I wouldn't be in yours and some others here position because I wouldn't date or have a relationship with a broken person.

If they suffer depression, addiction, emotional issues or if their past makes them ashamed or gives them low self esteem I don't want it in my life. I don't consider them bad or less of a person I just don't consider them right for me.

By the same token I don't give a lot of credence to peoples opinions who have any of the issues that I just noted.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Having sex too early...
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:45:07 AM

A male friend who I trust always says when you are starting out, getting to know someone - Don't Give Up The Prize !!

Unfortunately a lot of woman don't realize it was only "The Prize" when they were adolescents.

Every woman has one, it is no longer new and unused and there are a lot of single women out there.

Once we hit middle age it is as common as dirt so holding out doesn't count for much when it is easy to get it else where.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 356 (view)
 
How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 6/1/2008 5:50:58 PM
It maqy not be gender specific.

Maybe some people just don't carry the baggage of failure any longer than they need to.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
how to tell if its just for sex?
Posted: 6/1/2008 3:33:59 PM
There isn't and you wont.

A real player works numbers so he can out wait you because he is also getting it else were.

Some times you will hold off with the sex and then when you have it he decides it wasn't what he wanted and out the door he goes. This doesn't mean all he wanted was sex it means he wanted more or better or different than you are offering.

If you hold off and he can tell you are holding off to test him he will see it as manipulation and walk. Many guys do not want to have an LTR with a woman who is willing to use sex as a reward or a test or to manipulate him.

If you are very sexual and he is very sexual and you hold off he may decide you just don't like sex that much and walk.

So you might be damned if you do but you are definately going to be damned if you don't.

Go figure.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Finding out if a woman likes sex
Posted: 6/1/2008 3:26:45 PM
YEESH!!!

We have these wonderful communications avenues, The telephone, email, IM chat, and even talking directly to the person.

I am one of those who advocate having sex early in the relationship because it is an important aspect to me in a romantic relationship. Buuuuut I also knew a lot about a womans sexuality from talking to her about it before I would even consider dating her.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
What blows a guys mind?
Posted: 6/1/2008 3:20:01 PM
Hehehehe this sounds funny but foreplay.

Not the obvious kind where you are already about to have sex but the all day passion just below the surface to keep the pot simmering just under a boil.

Second would be find his favorite things and work with them often and last but not least be creative, try to think of things he would like. (This one is real tough because most people assume another person will like what they like because they like it so much it must be good.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/1/2008 3:10:59 PM

#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.

I don't agree with the porn star part. Porn head is about looks and I have found some women try to emulate porn thinking it makes it godd and it isn't all that great.

I will agree many women do not know how to give good head.

Hehehehe I am sure most women will say most men don't know how to give oral also.

#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.

As I can only go from my own experiences but from the ratio of women who say that all the men they have been with said they gave great head and they weren't that good at it I would tend to agree.

Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.

Sounds reasonable.

Good fellatio is like good cunnilingus. It takes knowledge, practice, empathy and it is very important to really really like doing it.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
He seems to have a problem with my male house-mate...
Posted: 6/1/2008 11:40:51 AM
I'm not sure I would be comfortable with it either.

Possibly a male territorial thing. I am not jealous or insecure so it must just be a domain thing. This is my domanin and I am comfortable welcoming other males into it but I would feel very edgy entering another males area to court a woman living there.

Nope, not comfortable at all.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
losin my best friend to his new girlfriend
Posted: 6/1/2008 11:29:13 AM
Just a passing thought.

We consider those who are in a romantic relationship as the SO (Significant Other).

The key word here is "Significant". If my SO decided others are a higher priority I would be looking for another SO.

Never make someone a priority who considers you an option.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Blowjob....what should they call it?
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:52:38 AM
Call it an OL

Oral love!

Or A2M, oh wait that is something else....
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:49:59 AM

Or do you actually have partners that you HAVE fantasized about even AFTER you finally had sex with them?

The better she was the more I fantasize.

My GF is in my mind so much I have to make a mental effort to stop day dreaming about her and get things done
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Are all men afraid of women that are different?
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:33:08 AM

Are all men afraid of different?

Nope, many find different facinating.

Am I just looking at the wrong guys?

Yep, it sounds like it.

Am I doomed to be alone and forever to be put in the different catagory ?

Only if you are lucky and work very hard at it.

Maybe you are looking at guys that are to normal for you. Look outside the box, explore and most of all enjoy your self. A happy you is always more attactive than an unhappy you.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Hey guys...what is going wrong here?
Posted: 5/31/2008 7:24:48 AM
Just a wild swing in the dark because I got nothin.

Pehaps you are keeping your self from connecting by your mind set (What ever it might be at this time). If you are looking for a connection it is much easier to find than if you are closed off till a connection can over whelm your barriors.

Like I said, I got nothing.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Laughing & Giggling during Sex
Posted: 5/30/2008 11:40:51 PM

Real men don't giggle.

Or eat quiche.

Real men can do both in a manly way.

After really good sex I giggle, I laugh, I snort and sometimes even howl!

After really good sex my blood stream is so flooded with endorphins I can't help but feel a bit giddy.

I have done some really good drugs in my day but I have to admit the feeling I have after mind blowing sex beats them all.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 208 (view)
 
Swinging i don't get it!
Posted: 5/29/2008 4:29:13 PM

Kazot maybe you should go back and read Msg: 146. (my earlier, rebuttal to Msg. #144

Church deciding that something is wrong because you don't agree with it and using supposition on possible ways it could be wrong is not a rebuttal.

In Msg:208 you went on about possibilities of error but again you did not note any actual errors.

Yet you seem to be willing to consider one persons or even a few peoples opinion that happen to coincide with yours as validation. To put it lightly your reasoning is a bit light on reason.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 203 (view)
 
Swinging i don't get it!
Posted: 5/29/2008 4:41:43 AM
Church maybe you should go back and read Msg: 144.

If you were discussing some other subject with some one and they tried telling you that a national survey was incorrect based on the opinion of one person or even a few people they knew you would think they were an idiot. This fits into that catagory.

You may not be into it personaly but statisticaly your basis and conclusions are wrong.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 196 (view)
 
Swinging i don't get it!
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:44:20 PM

My reasons for disliking this sort of thing is that it tends to leave a lot of 'fallout' that the people involved either don't see, or don't care about...

What fallout?

Others have brought up studies that show there is in fact less "Fall out".
So what are you basing your statements on?
Anactdotal?
Personal?
Or studies that followed established protocals?

Why don't we legalise Heroin then?

Why is it when people don't have any real justification for their stance they have to bring in something totaly unrelated.

If you can't support your claims with in the subject matter then it proably is because it is unsuportable.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Ladies, how do you cope?
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:09:10 PM
Maybe not pleasing your self will cause you to be more serious about looking for a partner. sexual depervation can be a great motivator.

Fore guys resisting the urge to spank the monkey a bit before they go out can give them a lot more edge in their hunt.
 Kazot
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Would you shave your partner's privates??
Posted: 5/28/2008 10:05:48 PM
Shave and be shaved.

I love it. I like a clean smooth playing field and would like to offer it to me SO.

On the other hand some women like to have some hair on their guy, they enjoy it more.

I have to admit it is kind of cute when she is all the way down the shaft and her nose is in the fur.
 
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