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I'm confused about death and new relelationships Posted: 10/27/2008 12:24:16 AM
I totally agree with Malley, I don't believe she did it out of compassion, I think she wanted to be THE FIRST to give you the bad news, totally ignoring patient confidentiality. And as for being one of the toughest things she has done, she's a secretary for pity's sake, its not her responsibility to inform family members of a loved one's death!

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 4/13/2008 8:43:42 PM
Oh, puleeeeze! Ain't happenin' guy!

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 4/11/2008 11:51:17 PM
I have to say I came in late on this topic....there are an awful lot of unhappy people out there. With two bad marriages behind me, I can truly say there is nothing worse than a miserable marriage. However, everyone deserves to be miserable at least once in life! I'm glad to see there are some out there that are happy with their lives, for their friends and families and so on. Right now, almost all my friends are single, so there is always someone to go to dinner or a movie with, so truthfully, I'm not lonely. (I also have my son and four or five of his friends hanging out in my garage every night) So, no I'm never alone! Sure, it would be nice to find my "soulmate" but in reality, I just don't think thats going to happen. I'll just take life as it comes, enjoy my nights and days out , and if it hapens, it happens.

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Patti Novak on Oprah reveals why you're still single Posted: 2/14/2008 12:11:20 AM
I don't know, sometimes my best friend is a real pain in the a**. I digress. I have to say, I have been remodeling my home, and 9 times out of 10 I'm asked "will your husband be there?" When I tell them "no, just me- it s my house" they apologize, as if I as a woman, cannot make a decision on my own. For myself, I need to prove to myself I can make it on my own, that I am not driven to have a man for financial security or ?. My house is almost done, and I have made mistakes...but I am proud of what I have done on my own. Oh yes, I have been married twice, so I know whereof I speak......Sometimes we as women just have to prove to ourselves we can make it on our own and be happy with our own accomplishments. We are better and more confident women for it, and not wanting to meet a man just for what he can do for us. In conclusion, that's why I'm single.

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Msg: 187 (view)

What do you consider a no no on the first date? Posted: 2/11/2008 12:55:25 AM
Uh, does discussing your preference for the "swinging lifestyle" with all the gory details ("hell, no I never used a condom!") qualify as a first date no no? Yeah, thought so.

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WHY DID HE STOP CALLING? Posted: 1/23/2008 6:48:53 PM
At the risk of sounding old-fashioned, you say you had been intimate with him "several times" in the one month you dated him? Maybe that was the problem. I would consider it a lesson learned and take the next relationship more slowly. Again, just my 2 cents worth.

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Should I tell his wife? Posted: 1/4/2008 10:27:07 AM
Absolutely tell his wife!! I have been there and done that too...It really sucks when everyone but you knows your husband is cheating! The wife of my husbands best friend told me, and she knew it was the right thing to do, since her first husband cheated on her and she was never told about it, she had to find out on her own. His cheating also ended my husbands relationship with his best friend! (added bonus!)

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I don't do separated... Posted: 11/15/2007 2:33:05 PM
Thank you, Red N Blue, excellent point. There are lots of men out there trying to take advantage of a woman that is financially secure, i.e. my ex-husband!

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I don't do separated... Posted: 11/15/2007 2:27:59 PM
Ohmigosh! Funny this post jumped out at me today! I met with a gentleman I met on this site just a few days ago, had advertised himself as single, and turns out has been "separated" for four years! Whats that about? All I can say is been there, done that. Never again, too much drama when wifey is involved.

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