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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: How do I learn to enjoy being alone?  kylel72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 147 (view)   How do I learn to enjoy being alone? Posted: 1/4/2009 12:35:51 PM I'm with this guy, I'm learning to do it myself just now.. Took me a year and a half, a ton of dateing, a lot of bars and a heartbreak or two. Getting into reationships usually was never the problem for me, but I was never really OK with just being alone since the day of my seperation, so I would sabatage(SP, i know) every one and go right into another. Its funny because I would give this advice to friends but would never do it myself. Learn to be OK with yourself and learn what YOU enjoy, then you will be ready when the right one comes along.  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 36 (view)   from email to phone or meet? Posted: 11/24/2007 9:02:51 AM Life is too short, meet ASAP.....This internet stuff is just like a friend setting you up, they can be wrong! But hell, what is the worst that can happen, you have a few drinks and go home?  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 12 (view)   Make a date and then cancel it? Posted: 11/11/2007 6:54:03 AM If he didn't try to reschedual he is either a. brand new to this and chickened out or b.involved with womeone else Either way your better off that he cancelled.  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 16 (view)   other dating sites Posted: 11/8/2007 7:56:18 AM While POF is pretty good I have found my mebership on MATCH to be where most of my dates come from. Searchability there and sheer number of women that aren't afraid to contact first as well. Singlesnet is horrible as is americansingles.  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 30 (view)   Internet Dating, u lost the game Posted: 11/8/2007 7:25:50 AM Nope, lots of people don't want to hang out in bars every night. Besides there is such a vast diversity on the net, your limiting yourself if your not on the net! As for work, more and more people work from home now, or are in small work enviorments, gone are the days of every workplace being a sprawling singles bar.  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 121 (view)   Do men look at ring fingers? Posted: 11/8/2007 7:22:03 AM Not the first thing, but before even speaking. But I have also recently found that many single women were a ring there as well, they say it dosen't mean anything if its not a wedding ring, my question is how do you know whats a wedding ring and whats not?  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 86 (view)   dating site addiction? Posted: 11/8/2007 7:17:25 AM It's called dateing people!every women I have met and gone on other dates with know and agrees with it, there dateing others too. When we have had enough dates perhaps we will have a conversation about it becomming exclusive. Untill that conversation is had and agreed upon your not being realistic. Take it this way, what if someone is going on dates with others, say had 2 or 3 with a few, then had a first with someone new, would you expect them to kick the others to the curb that they have been building relationships with because you hit it off?. Hitting it off just means theres something there for you to build on, not "woah, thats it, I found the one I have been looking for my entire life". Now if you were engaged as you said, then I certainly hope you had more than one date and would have talked about it.  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 3 (view)   Catching Fish but want to make it better Posted: 10/7/2007 9:11:20 AM Thanks for the feedback, anyone else?  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 1 (view)   Catching Fish but want to make it better Posted: 10/6/2007 2:42:31 PM I am doing pretty good since i posted new pictures, but I think it could always be a better profile. Are there photos I should take down, or redo? I also have one in my towel that I want to put up but unsure of how it is taken, I may throw it up for you to tell me. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks in advance, Kyle  KyleL72 Joined: 8/12/2007 Msg: 112 (view)   Fitness and attraction Posted: 9/6/2007 12:07:54 PM IF he actually said it that way then yes he's an A**, but since this is now 3rd hand, is it possible it is just the way your friend took it? Being on the other side of it, I know that plenty of you women will respond to a slim good looking photo than a "No Photo" every time! So is it really shallow? Physical attraction goes a long way in a relationship, it's deffinitly not everything, but it sure does open the doors to someone you might not meet otherwise. Oh, and getting fit is not suppose to be "torture", if it is you will not succeed. Find something you enjoy and do it till it hurts :).....Remember one of the best exercises is SEX. :)   Show ALL Forums