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nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

Msg: 34 (view)

I feel like I violated my sweetie pie.... Posted: 2/4/2009 5:41:28 PM
she liked it she had the big O she said you could do it again IN the middle of a long winter some people get a little bit down and almost anything gives them a guilt trip or some sort of negativity that's mostly in our head, don't dwell on it. I say this: grab a beer, pat yerself on the back, tell her to get her ass over here and give it to her again!!

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Pregnant girl threatening Posted: 1/29/2009 4:45:18 PM
He is at his wits end because he is barely scraping by on the money he has and feeling suicidal. What does he do? Seek help ASAP before he commits suicide.Getting screwed will eventually go away in 21 years, death is permanent Seek a lawyer to get advice on paternity and possible support options. Thank the Lord he had this experience so he can learn from this and stay away from little slutties.....before he gets multiple offspring like this..... why would a 20 YO have anything to do with a 38 YO unless she's looking to get on welfare...

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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After how many dates should one bring up the topic of anal sex? Posted: 1/8/2009 3:32:49 PM
ok, I'll waste my time here... assuming this OP needs a learnin' the time to bring up any sort of fetish is after you've determined if you like the chick first and if she likes you. suffice it to say that if ALL you want is buttsecks you'll have to hire a hooker. BUTT, if you're looking for both a compatible relationship WITH a chick that will participate then you gotta put the effort into building the relationship first. in my experience a chick will do many many things if she's truly into you.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Are we paying for sex ? Posted: 12/20/2008 11:40:23 AM
we pay for sex one way or the other. the difference between paying a hooker and paying to wine n dine a chick is the chick might become more than a piece of ass. She could be all the things a friend/companion/etc

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Is this dating site to find love or sex????????? Posted: 12/14/2008 10:53:13 AM
Ok, I know I have not been here for long but MY GOODNESS I have had a pretty ggood response to my profile, more messages than I honestly thought I would get. How ever......... with the exception of only two gentleman every other one has been obly about sex! I have tried "fixing" my profile but nothing has changed! What does a girl hafta' do to just talk to someone? I hate feeling like a 900 number! Any ideas on what to do? just realize thatguys are more hormone driven that women, and on internet dating sites it's really easy for guys to hit on anybody,, what's the worst that could happen? they could get rejected? HA!!! small price to pay if they get lucky once in a million

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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peppermint altoids Posted: 10/30/2008 3:30:26 PM
Anybody ever use peppermint altoids mints when giving their lover oral? I put a few of them in my mouth, chewed them up and went down on her. my ladyfriend loved the cool tingle but the next day she complained about some tenderness. any ideas? peppermint not safe to use? tks, N

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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What gets YOU going? Posted: 10/20/2008 4:35:20 PM
This is question is for the guys, I know its different for everyone, thats why im not asking 'what technique works.' Guys, I want to know when receiving oral what really drives you crazy..what special somthing that a girl does really makes your toes curl (haha) Im sure all us girls would love to know so we can try a little somthing different with the guy were with to spice it up a little ;) pleaseeee share. some guys like their prostate massaged internally while getting oral, not gonna get graphic here but if your guy likes it you'll have him hooked forever. google it...

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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If I deny his fantasy will he fulfill it elsewhere? Posted: 10/13/2008 9:23:49 AM
he will fulfill it elsewhere. He likes it, wants it, and you don't. Whether it's,right or wrong is not for you to say.... for sure you two are incompatible.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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What makes men so mean and bitter after break up? Posted: 8/18/2008 2:47:34 PM
it ain't just men that are bitter, I just broke up with a girlfriend a few days ago, and at first she was hurt and apologized for the problems. but the today she came back at me with both barrels blazing!! called me many names and it felt like she was just trying to lash out at me. I have a feeling I ain't heard the last of her yet@@!

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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is there a time limit for getting over a man? Posted: 8/17/2008 9:00:23 AM
1.) you will have memories for a long time, that's what makes you human instead of animal. but grieving should be reasonably gone within a few weeks. 2.) close the chapter, don't wait for him to wise up and come around. Move on and find someone.. even a temporary BF will help you get some perspective 3.)get busy somehow, do volunteer time or help friends but don't sit around with your mind spinning about him 4.)post messages on a forum and reach out to others for support and advice ( like this one!!)

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Drama queen: definition Posted: 7/30/2008 6:28:20 AM
ok, so drama queens exist in many forms! question now is how do we deal with a drama queen? is there any hope of having a relationship or perhaps "curing" that trait? Jekyl and Hyde would be a good description

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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friend on my case about money Posted: 7/26/2008 6:48:41 PM
What kind of car??? sorry gotta know 66 Impala Super Sport, with the original 427 and Muncie 4 speed, it needs interior and paint.. the body, frame, floor, etc are 99% rust free. I figure I'll have to put another 5k into it and if Ebay is accurate it will be worth 25K or so

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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friend on my case about money Posted: 7/26/2008 6:40:26 PM
That is what's wrong with you guys in general yall spend $10,000 on a car and get mad if we spend $300 on a pair of shoes.. My ex was that way.. he'd go and spend $1500 on some toy but would get mad if I spent $100 on a new dress.. Ya'lls toys are tooo expenseive.. no comparison, if you shop wisely when buying a classic car you'll likely be able to sell it for more than you paid, or at least come close. $300 ( or more) for shoes is just paying for attitude and not tangible value. try surfing ebay for those shoes (or expensive purses?) and you'll be able to find them all day long for 10% on the dollar and they were prolly worn only a few times. Most folks won't even take a second look at your shoes in a crowded room with partial lighting so why piss away a crazy sum of money? It's a placebo effect, it makes you "feel" good but doesn't really give you your money's worth.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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friend on my case about money Posted: 7/26/2008 8:28:24 AM
I don't know. I have questions: What does this friend do for a living? Is she an accountant? A bankruptcy lawyer? A financial advisor? Your landlord? Someone who just lost a bundle in the stock market? An economic analyst? A homeless woman? A classis car expert? Do you owe her money? I don't owe her money, not was she involved in paying. I don't she was involved in any sort of financial loss now or prior. she is a computer techie and prolly pretty good at managing her money. OK so lets assume for a minute that the decision to buy was dumb by anybody's opinion, still I ask why she feels she can blast me for it? I'll eventually recover from the expense and no harm done other than pissed away some of my own money...

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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friend on my case about money Posted: 7/26/2008 7:57:28 AM
Hey! Not sure if this is the right forum but thought I'd give it a shot. I have a friend ( female) who has been great until I just bought a classic car.The car is in fair condition and the price was fair, probably not a perfect deal but I bought it anyway. I took a cash advance from a credit card to pay most of the cost ( which may be dumb as the interest rate is crazy) Problem is now she is on my case stating that I didn't need to borrow money and blow 7000 dollars on another car when I've got 4 other classics that all need work. Technically she might be correct, the purchase may have been a mistake, but my question is this: why does she think she can be on my case about something that doesn't involve her?

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Housewife or Hooker Posted: 7/20/2008 4:34:15 PM
There is a middle ground, the last dozen married women who I dated could keep house pretty well....

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Drama queen: definition Posted: 7/20/2008 4:29:33 PM
an observance: drama queens are sometimes the youngest child in a family, when young would resort to getting attention by any means possible. and once grown up still have many of the same habits.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Men cheat for sex or intimacy? Posted: 7/20/2008 7:53:46 AM
sex mostly friendship sometimes Relationships will have problems due to many issues, money, jobs, babies, etc and even the best couples will go thru a phase where they are nasty to each other. When primary relationships have problems women will chat with their friends and commiserate, men will find a piece of ass and someone who cares for them, and establish a "backup" relationship.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Is it reasonable to expect that a man and woman in a relationship ought to have the same sex drive? Posted: 7/20/2008 7:46:16 AM
you are a free person. you get to pick your criteria. There's no reason why you shouldn't strive for reasonable compatibility on any subject you chose. personally I say sex drive needs to be compatible.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Is it Confidence, or just plain Conceit? Posted: 6/29/2008 2:45:04 PM
conceited, arrogant, egotistical, = dysfunctional

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Age of consent laws:Outdated? Posted: 6/9/2008 2:54:39 PM
he was wrong but the judge will not likely throw the book at him as hard. if the girl was younger he would get 25 years, in his case he deserves 5-10 also.... I work in a school and we are strictly forbidden to DATE a student no matter what her age. If she's over 18 we would not face jail time but would lose our job.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Can men have full body orgasms? Posted: 6/4/2008 5:54:13 PM
Libra hit the nail on the head. google "prostate massage" and you'll find all sorts of suggestions... don't be afraid of this "pressure " you talk about, people were built to procreate and if you are a normally healthy person the pressure is a nonissue

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Why never married @ 56 yrs of age? Posted: 6/1/2008 8:22:13 AM
He may be an independent thinker, one who thinks for himself rather than let society dictate the definition of normal. He may be happy as-is, and why risk ruining that? He may have seen others that were married and then less-than happy. what's the problem?? he's a free person and doing nothing wrong, you can make a choice to move on...

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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No sex outside marriage? what would you think? Posted: 6/1/2008 7:06:56 AM
I say you have a right to make your own choices and if anybody else doesn't like it then they can leave you alone. I personally would not date a woman with that kind of decision, not because of the lack of sex, but I would assume you had some issues and may likely be somewhat dysfunctional.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Your SO works or stays at home. Do you care? Posted: 5/28/2008 5:34:10 PM
she must work and earn plenty. eventually she will want to keep up with the Jones's new SUV and remodeling, etc. and must be in a position to stay ahead financially

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Does True Love Ultimately Require Marriage? Posted: 5/28/2008 4:38:53 PM
I think if it is "true" love, then it doesn't make sense to not get married. I mean, unless you just like throwing the word "true love" around like Pez. If it's "true" love, that means all other loves are inferior to this love you have with this person. If you don't want to get married, it means you want to hold out for better. you assume this, as if people have to get married eventually once they've found the better/best one, suppose you've found your true love and you both agree that you don't need to prove anything to society...

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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CAN MARRIAGE CHANGE A MAN FOR THE BETTER? Posted: 5/18/2008 3:09:10 PM
Yes, it can change him, opens his eyes to the reality that 50% of the time marriage is only a benefit to the woman and the guy gets screwed. Marriage teaches a guy to not do it a second time.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Is there such a thing as a confirmed bachelor??? Posted: 5/11/2008 6:44:24 AM
absolutely!!!

nitrochevy

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Does True Love Ultimately Require Marriage? Posted: 5/10/2008 8:18:09 AM
not. we have been conditioned/indoctrinated along with most of the world. think for yourself and do what you feel comfortable with, you don't need to prove anything to anybody except the two people in the relationship.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Big problem; she finds my personal journal Posted: 5/5/2008 9:12:27 AM
quit using the diary, sooner or later it will get found by somebody

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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is it rape if... Posted: 5/5/2008 9:07:12 AM
consult a legal source for proper answers, all you'll get here are comments from all types of people. IMHO if you are around a guy who is obviously interested in having sex, and you are not, then you should not drink and allow things to progress to the point where your judgement is impaired. The laws are funny and may blame him for taking advantage of you. but I say this: it's no different than if you get busted for drunk driving... whose fault is it.... yours for drinking or the bars fault for selling the drinks to you? take ownership of your actions,learn from your experience, you ain't the first nor the last to regret things done whilst under the influence!!

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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is there really someone for everyone? Posted: 4/28/2008 5:30:51 PM
no there is not, but you can improve your chances by doing the right things! a few examples of things do to IMHO, be attractive smile get out of the house and socialize as much as possible, make that a priority, not baby shoers and tupperware parties, I'm talking social events where eligible males go, even if it's a bar, drink soft drinks and avoid the boozers and meet someone who can have a drink and keep his face on. change jobs to meet more men move to a bigger city where the demographics and better take charge of your wants, realize that relationships are not an entitlement and you have to go out and reel in your own fish. ask other chicks for advice stay away from religion, fairy tales, and marijuana.. they'll make you feel fine but not really accomplish anything

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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what does it mean baggage after breakup? Posted: 4/20/2008 2:26:23 PM
you will always feel the loss of someone close, over time the feeling fades gradually. I'd say if you are still feeling a LOT of l0ss after 5 months you may have some depression or other issues. Talk to a counselor who specializes in relationships and you'll make more progress. On the other hand if you only feel a little loss, that's normal! move on and try not to mention the past in future relationshiups, focus on the future and get occupied with a new mate and you'll forget the loss.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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This is weird, but anyone here into ENEMAS? Posted: 4/14/2008 9:44:15 AM
This puts a lot of heat and pressure directly on the prostate and causes an intense orgasm. I swear I'll marry the girl that can play nurse for me.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Why is marriage so seemingly Righteous? Posted: 4/7/2008 3:23:45 PM
Marriage itself is not righteous, it's the people who think they are better than others. This happens whether the uppity folks are married, buying a better car, or anything. SOME people will use anything to elevate themselves and it's likely they are folks who have to use material things to boost their self esteem. be yourself, do what it right for you, and piss on the pseudosnobs.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Does the Marriage Strike worry you? Posted: 4/3/2008 1:53:23 PM
There ain't really a strike, just more second-timers in the demographics who learned their lesson the firs time.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!? Posted: 4/3/2008 1:48:51 PM
never beg or you'll be doing it the rest of your life... you don't see the flowers chase the bees do ya?? let the chicks come to you and if certain ones don't, siss on them.

nitrochevy

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What does my children come first mean to you? Posted: 3/30/2008 10:16:37 AM
I think any reasonable man would expect his date to put her kids first, that goes without saying for any parent... BUT if she puts it in the headlines that's your first hint that her kids will be first, second, third etc and any guy that comes into the picture will have to wait in line forever.

nitrochevy

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Keeping your name after marriage Posted: 3/30/2008 10:09:07 AM
I on the other hand am a little "old fashioned" I guess... I could think of no better way to honor the man I marry by taking his last name. That's just me I guess. it's funny how all the posts say they woud keep their own name until a guy says " no engagement ring" and the NEXT post says " Id' change my name cuz I'm old fashioned" coincidence??

nitrochevy

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Does True Love Ultimately Require Marriage? Posted: 2/23/2008 11:40:31 AM
Marriage confers no substantive rights on the man, only obligations. What obligation does marriage confer on the man that is not also confered on the woman? The majority of the time the man gets the financial obligations, especially if children come along. There are very little benefits for a man, no longer is he entitled to a "traditional " wife... no rights to sex, nor cooking, cleaning, housekeeping, etc. Thusly a marriage is much more benefit to a woman than it is to a man.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Does True Love Ultimately Require Marriage? Posted: 2/23/2008 9:47:58 AM
yes people can love each other and not marry. So many folks have been indoctrinated with the idea that without being married you ain't totally committed and that's BS. Some people FEEL more secure if they're married but it's just a placebo. Look how easy it is to split up married or not. For the divorce rate to decline means that marriage must be for real and not to show off your dedication nor keep up with the jone's. People should only marry if they want to and not becasue society or opinions dictate the necessity. This would minimize the "cinderella syndrome" and thus bring about a more realistic expectation of marriage. If you love each other and trust each other's word to remain faithful, that's all it takes.... the piece of paper is only a phony status symbol.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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What Does it Mean if a guy texts you I LUV U? Posted: 2/17/2008 7:40:51 AM
I luv u...by text msg means he's probably 14 and female. rl mn dont snd abrviatd txt msgs

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Is concealing or exposing the body more provocative? Posted: 2/14/2008 4:41:58 PM
depends on the body. IMHO most of the body is attractive naked, but some seriuously private parts are better covered with something frilly.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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How Do I Turn Him On? Posted: 2/8/2008 5:26:39 PM
Bring Beer Show up nekkid. yup!!

nitrochevy

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How Do I Turn Him On? Posted: 2/8/2008 10:09:51 AM
back off and let him try to get you started, maybe he's gotten used to being spoiled? never mention the fact that's he's not interested or he'll feel the need to pay attention on purpose rather than letting it happen naturally. others will have sugestions. hang in there!

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Should there be laws against women who initiate premeditated divorce? Posted: 2/8/2008 7:19:08 AM
Women began the marriage strike a long time ago (early 60's), because they are tired of working for free and their husbands taking all the credit for it. yeah right... maybe the second time around... but the majority of YOUNG women are still looking to get married. Take a look around at all the valentine sales and promotions, bridal show at the mall etc. These youngsters are indoctrinated from birth " grow up and get married" and all in the same sentence like that's an automatic part of growth. I would guess the top 10% of women know marriage is an option, the others are driven like it's some sort of requirement..... strike..??? it ain't apparent.

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Should there be laws against women who initiate premeditated divorce? Posted: 1/27/2008 8:57:35 AM
There should be laws against marriage, or at least guys should smarten up... either be ready for the possibility of getting shafted or stay single. AND if you get shafted pass the word to all your buddies to smarten them up, so many guys are driven by their hormones and are naive. We are going thru a phase where men are gonna get beat up in family court and divorce court, better we should stay single until the courts reailze they are doing more harm than good. ( and yep there' prolly gonna be a bunch of chicks whining that men need to get beat up because of all the deadbeat dads, but also realize there are many good men that are getting treated like they are automatically guilty of becoming assho;les in the future)

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Ask before Kink? Posted: 1/27/2008 8:48:22 AM
the guy should say this as early as possible while things are heating up." I'm gonna experiment a little and learn about you, if I do something you like or not just let me know. " and then proceed without further discussions

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Car help??? Posted: 1/25/2008 8:22:36 PM
Well,since it is too damn cold to work on it,I went ahead & had it towed to a garage($75.) to be put on diagostics(SP?) machine($33.50).Now they said it WAS the fuel pump(why has it started at all?) & it was gonna cost me $750. to replace.I suggested that I get the pump($200.-$300.) and was told no...they wouldn't put it on... That's about average for having a fuel pump replaced, the pump alone is a few hundred bucks and average labor rates are 60 dollars an hour and it ain't easy dropping the tank. Assuming this is the first major repair bill... I'd say pay the bill, and seriously think about getting a new truck. With 130k on this one it's gonna start having problems within the near future

nitrochevy

Joined: 8/12/2007

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Car help??? Posted: 1/23/2008 6:06:26 PM
130,000 that could mean many possibilities. I'm guessing if it ran fine, then got real cold and won't start,,,, likely water in the fuel lines. If you can let it set a few days we're supposed to see upper 30's and maybe 40 here in western NY, I'm guessing your area will be warmer IF it's froze up and nothing else, it will start Sunday or Monday

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