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SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Happy Hour at Barnaby's in West Chester March 12th Posted: 3/11/2009 3:58:25 PM
Hey guys.........I have to work Thur night.....sorry I am going to miss it. Seems like there are a lot of nice people going to be there. Have a great time, maybe nextv time.

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Happy Hour at Barnaby's in West Chester March 12th Posted: 2/20/2009 10:58:38 AM
I will be there, provided I do not have to work. Although I may not do my John Travolta, impersonation, this time. Hope to see ya there.

sunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Happy Hour at Barnaby's in West Chester - October 9, 2008 Posted: 9/23/2008 4:11:11 PM
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy......... If my schedule holds out, should make this one. Hope to see you all there......

sunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Common Courtesy Posted: 6/30/2008 3:36:10 PM
Exotic........ This has been a thorn in my side for a long time now. People have lost all sense of reason, common sense, and courtesy. I personally would rather get a nasty reply as the old, "READ DELETED". What happened to the old way of someone saying, sorry not interested, thank you? Then people wonder why others are turned of by these insolent people on these sites. It is a shame that the few have to ruin it for the others.

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Is There Life Out There? Posted: 2/11/2008 9:06:11 AM
Remember the famous words uttered by the infamous Capt. Kirk: "Beam me Scotty, there is no intelligent life on this planet". There has to be intelligent life here somewhere, all we have to do is find it.

sunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Happy Hour at Barnaby's in West Chester- February 14th, 2008 Posted: 2/4/2008 9:26:26 AM
OK..........OK..........I will be there........Looking forward to it............

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Tiger attack victim was drinking, admitted taunting Posted: 2/2/2008 2:49:54 PM
Lost..........your name says it all. You are entirely lost. Cougar attacks were done to people because THEY were invading their territory. Again justification. I worked in the jungles of Africa, I was not there on a holiday or a photo safari. The main reason animals today feel threatened and hungry is that their natural habitats have been taken away from them. A human when threatened will fight back also.

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Celebrate Singletons Day!!! (instead of Valentine's Day) Posted: 2/1/2008 5:07:43 PM
1. Don't have to shave if I don't want to 2. Can watch what I want on TV 3. Can wear my fav sweatshirt and pants 4. Let the cats be on the bed 5. Don't have to ask, "Are you satisfied?" lol Happy singletons day to all us singles.........

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Soldiers Coming Home Posted: 2/1/2008 6:31:46 AM
OP...........A damn site better than when they came home from Nam. When the soldiers came home from Nam they were spited, spit on, and condemned for what they were told and had to do. I respect and admire the one s coming home from Iraq, but they are treated as heroes whereas those coming home from Nam were treated like criminals. just be there to support him, understand him, and try and not be judgmental. The scars of war never heal, but you can make them a little more fainter. Most coming back from Nam, the scars were deepened. The best to you. ~~SUN~~

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!! Posted: 1/31/2008 1:37:01 PM
OP...........as a renowned philosopher once said....."Life sucks then you die". Or in the words of Alfred E. Neumam.........."What me Worry?" Just trying to make lite of a serious subject. There is no advice.......you have to follow what you want.

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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I'LL TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN ??? Posted: 1/28/2008 8:29:33 AM
Time4.........To be treated like a queen has nothing to do with royality, or the treatment the queen is given. It means with respect, caring, and understanding that goes along with you being a woman and him being a man. It means opening a door, helping you on with your coat, listening to you when you talk, talking to you when you need to listen. All in all it means to treat you like a lady. ~~SUN~~

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Is this rude behavior? Posted: 1/27/2008 10:47:33 AM
Secret...............Could not have said it better.......Rudness and a lack of common sense is way to common today......... ~~SUN~~

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Tiger attack victim was drinking, admitted taunting Posted: 1/26/2008 5:14:10 PM
Arieann..... I am appalled at what you did. The mutilation of any living thing should be condemned. To bad someone did not pull your legs off, of continue to tip you over. I feel sympathy for the tiger. The tiger did only what it's instinct told it to do. Did you know that every serial killer, and mass murderer, started out just that way? Mutilating insects and torturing animals.

sunshinenpa

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Tiger attack victim was drinking, admitted taunting Posted: 1/26/2008 5:09:45 PM
GoodDay.... Thank you for the enlightening thread. We here on the East coast do not get the full report. I knew that there was much more to the report than we were seeing. There has never been, in recorded history of any animal attacking a human for no reason. The tiger did only what it was supposed to do. A human or any animal will react to what those kids put itn through. Besides the police would have nothing to brag about if they merely tranquillized the animal. After all that gave then bragging rights. I spent a year in Africa, amid all kinds of animals, never once did I have a problem. I consider that one of my greatest adventures, being able to interact with them. Againm thank you for bringing that to light........ If I am not to forward......... ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

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What am I doing wrong Posted: 1/24/2008 1:59:51 PM
Carolann.......what you say is good advice. But it seems like it doesn't do any good. My profile is as expanded as it is going to get. Even sending nice emails, doesn't work, when you see. "read deleted", or you get no response at all. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

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What am I doing wrong Posted: 1/24/2008 1:57:08 PM
Delila50.......I and it seems like a lot of others have the same problem. Male and female alike. Maybe we should all get together and see what is wrong. BTW Delila.....how about having coffee with me? I am closer and older. HMMMMMMMMMMM ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

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Relationships and Affairs Posted: 1/22/2008 5:35:10 AM
OP....what a freaking idiot. Where have you been for the last 2o years. In a cave on Mars? Somewhere in the desert? Wake up, and smell the coffee. When you make the ultimate commitment to someone, marry that person, you give them everything you have to offer. When that trust and faith is shattered, what is left? You sound like a real hypocrite. You want the security of marriage, and the ability to live as a single person.. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Too Accomplished Posted: 1/21/2008 4:43:14 PM
OP........have you ever considered the fact that it may be real and all they are trying to do is convey who and what they are? Mine is long, nut it is me, the who and what I am.

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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thoughts 4 a heavy heart Posted: 1/18/2008 8:33:55 AM
OP.........my goodness, what a ruffffff life you have led, at 18 years of age. Tsk Tsk....Wait till you have grown and been married for 17 years and then your spouse runs off with another. At 18, you have not experienced the real pain of a relationship gone bad. You have a long time to get over whatever happens in your young life. I say grow up a little before you get all bent. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Looking for Ladies' responses on this one... Posted: 1/16/2008 3:42:14 PM
Here we go again...........This thread has been gone over and over and over and over. Isn't it about time we let it die the death it deserves? People who do not respond to an email are both inconsiderate, and lame. Now let's drop it.

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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The Grown Up thing to Do. BUT... Posted: 1/16/2008 9:46:22 AM
OP..............I believe in honesty from moment one. There is an old adage that goes, I would rather be hurt with the truth, then kept with a lie." I have had women tell me from the start there is nothing there, and I have done the same. Likewise4 I have had women tell me. "Yes I want to see you again," only to vanish and to be never heard from again. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

Involuntary innocent infatuation: has this happened to you? Posted: 1/16/2008 9:43:09 AM
OP........there is a saying in Australia......"A dingo never doo doo's where he sleeps". So take it for what it is worth. Apparently you don't feel for this person like you say you do. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Turning up tunes in the car Posted: 1/16/2008 9:40:44 AM
Herding Cats...Personally I always the lady what she likes to hear. I can listen to any type pf music, except for rap and some country. Isn't this a time when we are trying to please each other? Courtesy and common sense should apply. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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what do men prefer? Posted: 1/15/2008 11:58:12 AM
OP...personally I prefer a woman who is intelligent, self assured, confident in who and what she is. Honest, forthright, up front, knowledgeable about the world around us, likes animals, is a protector of the environment, and who can associate with and accept me for who and what I am. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Dating websites Posted: 1/15/2008 5:28:01 AM
Think........ First off you can't be 56. You look much younger. Now on to the topic. I know you are right that POF and all dating sites are raking in the money, due to advertising. I do not bend to the advertising ploy. Nor do I respond to them. What is there to think about? What bugs me is that everytime you sign on, you get these pop up ads, they are annoying. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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WHY??...ILL ALWAYS WONDER Posted: 1/14/2008 5:24:53 AM
OP....not a female, but like you I can understand where you are coming from. Without running the risk of repeating myself over and over, have said it many times, being nice is not what the women want anymore. I see it here, and everywhere I go. Women like the bad boys, the ones that treat them like crap. I imagine there are nice women out there that like nice guys, but where they are, only the Gods know. Pookieiggy.....Although he is chosing the women, initially they are also chosing to be with him. So it is a mutual understanding. Divineadvisor........It may not be totally him being a nice guy, I think it is a big part of it. Refer to my comment above. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Money or Relationship? Posted: 1/13/2008 1:39:32 PM
Danhill...........although financial responsibility, and indebtedness is a prime factor to deal with, the most important thing in any relationship is compatibility. Honesty, trust, respect are things that make a relationship. The finances will take care of themselves. Good luck ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Advice Needed (Break-up Lines?) Posted: 1/13/2008 1:33:56 PM
Ren.........why all the suppose, and psychic configuration? Meet him and see what happens. Was your first meeting in a coffee house? If so maybe that is where he wants to propose. If it is to break up, then so be it. But at least go and give him a chance to state his cause. The best to you. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Bad Attitudes and Sexual Frustration?. Posted: 1/12/2008 6:18:20 AM
OP.......from reading your profile, and this niot meant to be anything more than a compliment, but you are a very desirable woman. But that does not constitute the fact that all he wanted was to get you in bed. My question is, How many other women did he do the same thing to? After the "SEX", did he just simply ignore them. Although I don't totally agree with your method of posting on his profile, you did what you thought was right at the time. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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To Have Eyes Open Or Shut When Kissing - That Is The Question Posted: 1/11/2008 6:02:49 AM
To close or not to close.........that is the question. Is it nobler in the mind to close and not see what your partner's reaction is, or to open and see their reaction. Neither a closer or opener be, try both, like others said, depends on the kisser and the kissee. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Is it really suppose to happen? When? Posted: 1/11/2008 5:59:21 AM
OP.........HMMMMMMMM....Let's see. I do agree with what you said about nice guys finishing last. But I see no problem. The answer is simple. This is the way it is today. You date, have feelings, maybe even intimacy, then the aliens take over. There is an alien space ship, stationed 726 nautical miles from earth. They have this invisible beam, that when they see a relationship becoming to involved........ ZAP!!!.....Poof it is all over. They figure if they can stop re population of the planet, they can take over more easily. So the best to you........and remember..........THEY ARE OUT THERE!!!! ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Doomed to fail??? Posted: 1/10/2008 10:57:37 AM
OP.........as a "GUY"....I myself and this is just MO, I enjoy and find it to be a big morale and ego booster, to be pursued. Millions of years ago, Pro mag non man, used to pursue and ultimately caught, and BOPPED her on the head and instant romance. But today in the modernistic world, it is not uncommon for the female to pursue the male. And yes it is very flattering. Women listen up, if there is a guy out there you would like to meet, and possibly have a relationship with, by all means GO FOR IT!!!! ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Laughing together Posted: 1/9/2008 6:22:57 AM
OP...........Laughter is more important in a relationship, or any other part of life, than most people think. Man is the only animal that, as he grows older forgets how to play, and have fun. The saying, "Laughter is the best medicine", is not just a saying. It promotes health and well being. When you are laughing, you can not say anything abusive. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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so she says.... Posted: 1/9/2008 6:11:59 AM
OP.........Who cares what she makes, where she lives, what she lives in,? Accept her what she is. If you two are hitting it off, go for it. To many people want Mr. America, or the Playboy girl of the month. Why not get to know her, and see what happens. A lot of people would love to be in your shoes. The best to you. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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talk the talk, then walk the walk Posted: 1/7/2008 5:03:15 PM
TW....read some other threads..about the men that say the women did the same thing.

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Truth in Advertising Posted: 1/7/2008 3:44:12 PM
OP.it is the age old thing. This has been going on since man first had the idea of communication. It is the same as the reason why a person gets an email and when you check you see. "Read and deleted", when their profile says..."I answer all emails." Just as it is easier to believe a lie than the truth, it is easier to fudge on honesty. I and a lot of people are honest to a fault. But that is our problem. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

Sex, sex, sex...that's all you talk about. Posted: 1/7/2008 6:06:08 AM
OP...........BULL S***.....first you are generalizing. You are saying all men are out for one thing. This is a bunch of hog wash. I have stated this before, that it is people like you that ruin and keep us guys that believe in the old way of doing things from finding a truly loving and enduring relationship. There are still those of us that believe in the progression. First you correspond, you meet, if there is anything there you date, and if it progresses to a state of loving each other, and intimacy results, then you make love to each other. Sex can be found on almost any street corner in any small town or city. Yes there are SOME males and females alike, that is all they are seeking, but do not put all males into one category. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Kill a home invader... murder or self defense? Posted: 1/6/2008 3:03:27 PM
Mizbex.......I salute you. I have no children, but do have animals. And like the old saying goes...."They better give their soul to God, because their ass is mine." But your trying to disable them, may not be the best thing. There was a case in PA not to long ago, where someone broke into a home. The home owner shot him and wounded him. He sued the home owner, and actually collected. So as much I do not advocate violence, that may not be the best answer. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked.... Posted: 1/6/2008 2:55:37 PM
OP.........for the same reasons that men that are not Mr America's or ready for Playgirl magazine are overlooked.

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Would you date a NASCAR fan? Posted: 1/5/2008 5:24:58 PM
Bullie.........marry me...... .....am a Matt Kenseth..... fan myself... .....but you can have the boogity boogity...... ........Going through NASCAR withdrawl...can't wait till 02.17.08..... ~~SUN~~

sunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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How do I ask to meet someone on here? Posted: 1/5/2008 2:30:26 PM
TheBeautifulDreamer...........your name and profile says it all. You are only 22. You have yet to learn common sense, and the ability to be thoughtful. I am sorry you have experienced the nasty replies, but you women do it too. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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How do I ask to meet someone on here? Posted: 1/4/2008 9:46:17 PM
Naeco.......You missed the point I was making by a very wide margin. The point was......most do not have the courtesy or common sense to reply. To reply is only showing intelligence and that yjeu were worthy of an email in the first place. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Interpretation please. Posted: 1/4/2008 7:17:24 PM
Basheva.......GOOD MORNING........waking up to reality is a painful thing, isn't it? This is the norm rather than the exception. As to why people do this, I can not say. It is relevant to both sexes. I like you would rather have them tell me, not interested, than string you along. Sounds to me like he is covering his tracks. Knows you are interested, and is holding you in reserve. Always nice to have a spare in case things don't work out. You haven't asked for my advice, but here it is anyway. DROP HIM......Don't be the woman in waiting, it will get you nowhere. You are a very pretty woman, and no need to waste yourself on the likes of him. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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How do I ask to meet someone on here? Posted: 1/3/2008 5:18:47 PM
Gwen.......your advice is good albeit based on the fact that she is going to reply. So many do not even to say no thanks, and don't even acknowledge the fact that you are alive and interested. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

Msg: 152 (view)

Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone? Posted: 1/2/2008 3:02:00 PM
Montana.....The true and honest guys are still here. They have become dormant due to the untrue and not so honest women.In order for a person to find another person of the true and honest venue, one has to be that way themselves. It is a shame that people of that nature have been put on the back burner, due to what others are. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Once you have her phone number after new years eve Posted: 1/2/2008 11:05:43 AM
OP...........First things first. Call her and see if she answers. The4n see if there is an interest. Sometimes parties breed something that does not exist on the next day. So many women say one thing and turn around and do another. The best to you...... ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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why do married men hit on me? Posted: 1/2/2008 8:00:16 AM
OP....since I can not access your profile, only the pic you have on your post, I will ASSUME, that you have other pics. And from what i see in that pic, there may be a little enticement on your part. Married, single, male or female, people are like cats and dogs, and children, they will get away with whatever they are allowed to. If you are not a part of the solution, you are part of the problem. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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mother in laws coments just before break up Posted: 1/2/2008 7:55:12 AM
OP......If I were to go into detail in this forum, as to what my ex MIL, said about me, and what she did to break up our 17 year marriage, my fingers would be so sore from writing. I was there through all the crisis, that the family went through, offered what I could to help in every way, stood by her when no one else would, etc, etc. So I sympathize with you, and wish you the best. ~~SUN~~

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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Why do guys put DIVORCED when they SEPARATED... Posted: 12/29/2007 5:18:28 PM
For the same reasons that the women do............

SunshinenPA

Joined: 8/13/2007

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so disgusted Posted: 12/29/2007 5:15:40 PM
Edi......... "i find out thru a series of phonecalls from men i've met from this site that i'm not worth more than a roll in the hayloft. each one just pounds the crap out of my self esteem and drives home the idea that i'm not worth more than being some man's sperm dumpster. " My first question, is.......WHY? Why are you allowing yourself to be used? As long as you are allowing those that are users to use you in that manner, your self esteem will suffer. You women and yes some men, keep doing this yo yourself, is beyond me. Then it ruins it for the guys and gals that want a serious relationship, and deem an intimate relationship. Intimacy is something that is supposed to groe out of a relationship, or so I thought it was supposed to. The best to you.

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