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tipsybarchick

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1 year...Does it get easier? Posted: 1/1/2006 5:43:12 PM
I just wanted to thank u all for ur advice.....im goin to start the new year off right.....im know i wil be happy again weather it is just me and my kids or...if there is another man in my life!. Thank u'll

tipsybarchick

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1 year...Does it get easier? Posted: 12/31/2005 1:08:28 PM
SAM....how long will this take...i cant handle much more...lol

tipsybarchick

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1 year...Does it get easier? Posted: 12/31/2005 5:31:23 AM
Well..it will be 1 years for my husband and i bein apart..my feelins r still the same for him..i still lov him ..But i know that it will never be the same..we can't even look at each other ..But i want someone to tell me Y is he so happy..Y is this so easy for him and here i sit tryin to find myslef..and move on..im havin problems with all of this ...how can he move on iwth a girl and BANG she now is havin his baby....Plz if anyone can help me ...tell me that someone else is in the same spot i am ....tell me what im doin wrong...tell me what to do to move on... Lost

tipsybarchick

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WTF Posted: 12/5/2005 5:17:55 PM
WEll Danny,...all i have to say is u have to be happy in what u do in ur life ..and if she's not it then u need to find someone that understands what u lik...and what ur interets r...keep tryin..keep lookin...keep lovin!!... Tipsybarchick...

tipsybarchick

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Bring in another man into my kids lives...Help! Posted: 11/21/2005 8:45:20 AM
Well i have told my kids that he he just a friend ..But my oldest keeps callin him MY BOYFRIEND....and she thoinks it a joke...but she lovs him alot....and my boys really dont care just that im happy!....so for now its goin good...But i have just found out that my X...HATES the guy that im with...so i might have a problem with that but as long as i'm happy who cares what i think...i cant stand his new gf but i keep my mouth shut... Thanks for all the advise ..i'll keep u all informed~

tipsybarchick

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is this bein a Whore? Posted: 11/16/2005 12:07:55 PM
When i lift the home i took the kids with me...i'd never leave them with him because he was never there for them in the last 10 years...y would i have left the with him now....it all work down to who had teh money...him mommy and daddy paid for a top $ lawyer...and becasue i dont nor my family dont have alot of money ...i got teh shot end of the stick....and as for me leavein the home with my kids he didnt want them to begin with...he wanted to be FREE to com and go as he pleased...wihth the NEW gf...

tipsybarchick

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is this bein a Whore? [CLOSED For Moderator Review] Posted: 11/15/2005 3:53:46 PM
ok...herees one for ya...the X and i split up about 11 months ago!...i lost the kids in court...because he had a job..and lived in the family home...now im workin ,he's not...he still has the kids ..livin in MY home with the new Girlfriend..who is havin his Twins...and im the one who they call a whore...!...i have met someone and himand i just friend right now..will anything else happen between u , i'm not sure yet!...but because i go out to the bar with him twice in the last 3 monthsim the whore..and a bad mother,...i see my kids every day im not workin..and ever second weekend...now does that make me a whore!....??? im lost in the madnes of a small town that lik to talk !

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/15/2005 7:11:50 AM
it just might be too late for him and i....i can't wait for ever!

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/14/2005 4:13:06 PM
well we were up to the bar thursday night and him and i were dancin...well need less to say i was asked to either calm down or leave...the bouncer had to pull me off of her...she called me a WHORE...not a good thing to do!

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/14/2005 3:54:20 PM
lol...well i told him ...But we have decide to just see where everthing goes...we r still friends and if he'd reather be friends then well ......

tipsybarchick

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Bring in another man into my kids lives...Help! Posted: 11/14/2005 12:50:34 PM
sorry...a GIRL

tipsybarchick

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Bring in another man into my kids lives...Help! Posted: 11/14/2005 12:50:14 PM
oh there father and i have NO feelin for each other...he now has a gilr carryin his twins o thats not an issue!

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/14/2005 12:47:38 PM
Well it's been a few days since i was last on...him and i talked...well we r just goin to see what happens...But i did tell him how i feel and i dont think i sacred him becaue he call everyday..and we r still good friends...But he did call me the other day and he had gone out with the boys and ended up call the X...and ya she turned him down but ...well i.m lost

tipsybarchick

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Bring in another man into my kids lives...Help! Posted: 11/14/2005 12:39:03 PM
OK...my X and i split up about a year ago..i have just found a man who knows everything that is goin on in my life(an old friend)..But how do i bring him around my kids...doi just tell them that we r friends..he loves kids and lov my kids...But do i tell them "Hey this is mommy's boyfriend"...my kids r 10,7 and 5...i know that he slov me and the kids...what if once they find out that he will be with me all the time and and they start hattin him for it...i have feelins for this guy but i lov my kids more...HELP... Lost in the conifusion of lov!!

tipsybarchick

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Single mum Posted: 11/12/2005 3:45:25 PM
well, i found that if ur not lookin he will com into ur life...keep ur faith he will come!

tipsybarchick

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How Do You Respond to Come-Ons Like These? Posted: 11/8/2005 4:11:53 PM
Him: Hows ur head? Her: good, why? Him: I'll be the judge of that!

tipsybarchick

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AGE!!! Posted: 11/8/2005 12:04:04 AM
AGE is only a number....its how u feel about a person....if u connect got for it....

tipsybarchick

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How Do You Respond to Come-Ons Like These? Posted: 11/7/2005 5:43:34 AM
him: I lost my phone number can i have yours? her: well you know your name look it up in the phone book!

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/6/2005 11:08:10 PM
well him and i want for coffee tonight...and i chickened out...lol...while we were sittin there..his X showed up..well she was pissed that i was with him..he told her that we r friends and well she fliped out on me...i told her that she either needs to be with him or suck it up and let him move on...well he just looked at me...he said hes never seen me that mad... On a good note we r goin for coffee tuesday night after he gets off of work!...he asked me ....

tipsybarchick

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Men dating single mothers Posted: 11/6/2005 11:02:07 PM
FREELIGHT.....we may have to start one on our own....lol

tipsybarchick

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Favorite Quotes Posted: 11/6/2005 10:59:24 PM
a guy once said...."i lost my phone number..can i have urs"...i almost fell to the floor

tipsybarchick

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how to act when i see her again......help! Posted: 11/6/2005 10:57:43 PM
i know what ur goin through....i have been split up from my husband for 11 months now and everytime i see him i my feelins all come rushin back...but i'll tell u what my sister told me.."when u see them let them think u r happy,don't let them see ur pain"....it kinda works...i'm startin to feel a little better...

tipsybarchick

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IS THIS CHEATING ???? Posted: 11/6/2005 10:52:09 PM
To me...yes it is cheatin..well ok if both partys a good with it than ok...as long as ther eboth understand what goin on..

tipsybarchick

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ever called a sex partner the wrong name Posted: 11/6/2005 10:49:01 PM
I have NEVER call the man in my bed by the wrong name...but he has called me a bi**h and i smacked him for it....

tipsybarchick

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Bob's Posted: 11/6/2005 4:57:15 AM
u all r to funny!

tipsybarchick

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I never heard this before and i thought it was the funniest thing ever !!!! Posted: 11/6/2005 4:54:09 AM
lol...all friend told me somethin today...its not how big ...it's all in how he "handles" it!

tipsybarchick

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How do I make him fall in love with me? Posted: 11/6/2005 4:49:40 AM
when anyone really knows the answer to this question...plz let me know...i have't been able to find the answer yet...lol

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/6/2005 4:47:35 AM
PUMPKIN...(grplaman..u put a little smile on my face)..i haven't been called that in a LONG time...well i know that communication is very important and i can talk anyones ear off...lol.....

tipsybarchick

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Men dating single mothers Posted: 11/6/2005 4:12:03 AM
If it would be easier for all us single mom's to find a dating site that's dedicated to men wanting to date single mom's it would be so much easier for us single moms......... if that datin site is out there somewhere plz send me that link....lol...

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/5/2005 5:44:21 PM
yes i'd rather be the girl he's with that makes him HAPPY...and if... we get together...i'll fight for him for if need be! thx....

tipsybarchick

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Men dating single mothers Posted: 11/5/2005 4:20:04 PM
u tell them superspecial....im a single moomy and the way i look at the topic...i tell everyone form the beginin....im a mommy and im glad to be a mommy...im a package deal...!

tipsybarchick

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Shaved or not Posted: 11/5/2005 4:15:41 PM
Well...i guess im the girl that leaves it up to the man...BUT,i do lik the bald heads..(on the sholders) and the goat-t but ...its really up to him...hey its his body..!

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/5/2005 4:10:43 PM
thx...but how do i choose where to go....him and i have been friends for about 7 years....and her and i have know each other for about 10 years....we went to school together....but i know what hes lookin for ....and i KNOW i can make him happy...but on the other hand what if something starts between us and then she wants him back...and i know that he'll take her back in a min....holy shit...how do i get my feelins out and not get hurt??

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/4/2005 12:39:20 PM
thx all....i still have no clue....

tipsybarchick

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Favorite Quotes Posted: 11/4/2005 12:25:08 PM
"suck it up sweet pea"...there is someone else in this world that is worse off than U!!!

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/4/2005 12:08:51 PM
thxs suger ....but what about her?...if i do tell him how i feel is that goin against the FRIEND rule....u can't be with ur friends X?

tipsybarchick

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I never heard this before and i thought it was the funniest thing ever !!!! Posted: 11/4/2005 12:01:06 PM
well....now i've heard it all...lol...But i now know that i'll NEVER marry again ...the sausage wasn't that good anyway...lol

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/4/2005 10:25:28 AM
thx guys...but as for him bein still in lov with his X...they haven't been TOGETHER for about 1 year...and im also frineds with her...if i move in on him is that wrong?...i mean is it against the RULES?...u can date a freinds X?.....

tipsybarchick

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poem about those special days Posted: 11/4/2005 4:34:51 AM
Take my breath I try to sleep as I lay in bed But thoughts of pain pound my head I smell the air as i walk outside I feel myself want to hide I look in the mirrior and see my face I turn my head from the burning place Cutting, Pills, the pain i feel Do you see my heart is real? I push the thoughts of death aside But still think, what would happen if i died? Some might cry, some would care What about the ones who think it fair? Jump off the bridge, drown in the rain That will help take away the pain Step off the chair, drink the last drink Death isnt so scarry, i think I feel the blood run down my cheek The water in my eyes starts to leak I know the pain will end soon I will not see the next full moon Sharpen the blade, tighten the rope Because i have no more hope Pull the chair from my feet Feel the final heart beat Hold your hand upon my lips Force me to take the last sips Kill me now end it all! Make this my last phone call Hear my plea, help me out Understand the words i shout If you love me, end my heart Help the world, do your part If your love is true to me You will fulfil my crying plea I love you so, you know i do My love for you is completely true So if you can, please take my breath Be the cause of my death

tipsybarchick

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How Do U Tell A Friend How U Feel? Posted: 11/4/2005 3:22:12 AM
ok...i have a problem...im fallin for a friend...and he is in madly in love with his X gf..she doesn't want anything to do with him anymore...but when he needs to talk he comes to me...i know exactly how he feels about her..him and i have been friends for years..he was there for me when i needed him to be...he has been there for me and my kids...my kids love him and they mean the world to him...however i have not yet told him how i feel...and im scared to tell him because if i tell him will our friendship be over?..can we start something?...if u can help me in any way...plz...i can use any advice...thx...

tipsybarchick

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How do I make him fall in love with me? Posted: 11/3/2005 2:13:48 PM
Hey i just thought i'd tell u all about something...maybe u can help me....i was married to a guy for 4 years.......together for 10....we have 3 kids..and he means the world to me...until...i found out he was sleepin with a friend of mine!..yes a freind...now him and i have been split up for 10 months...and the other woman is havein his tiwns...yes twins...what am i goin to do?...do i try and forget him...or what?...lost in the madness

tipsybarchick

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Being Important in Someone's Life Posted: 11/2/2005 1:43:50 PM
Well lov i know where ur at...my husband left...but when he left i found out he had been with one of my friends and now they have been livin together for tha last 10 months...she havin his twins...so if anyone knows what i can do ...plz explain......thxs all!!

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