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Dave is mine Posted: 10/27/2008 7:54:41 PM
Yeah, she wrote her name under his shoe.

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Miracles do happen Posted: 3/25/2008 9:57:01 PM
I was a member here for several months, dated like crazy and met my man on Classmates.com. He was my high school sweetheart and we just got married YESTERDAY! It was funny but yesterday I was sitting waiting for my friend to come and help me into my dress 1 hour before the ceremony and I logged on to check my emails and saw that I had an email from POF. So I started to log on and stopped! One hour before getting married and POF was going to be on my cookies history! Yikes! lol... I don't even come here for the guys anymore, just the forums, but that would have looked really bad! My new husband knows that I am addicted to the forums and funny quips from some of you out there. I can't wait to see what the sarcastic, bitter, mean girls have to say when they read this! lol... Julianna Redhawk

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giving up...line keeps snagging on trash Posted: 12/8/2007 9:22:31 AM
A male nurse that I was emailing with sent me the most hateful email that he wasn't interested in dating me and I was just company for him on the web...Before he would IM me during the night and his coversation was more than interested... So I sent him an email answer that I wished him well and he was in our prayers as I had just met a man from my past (high school) and was very happy. He sent such uglyness that I was relieved that I never hooked up with him. He is a somewhat short guy and a "Pirate" that I met here on POF warned me not to date him that he would be a mean angry person. He was so right! (The Pirate and I are best buddies) All I can think right now is that the nurse is suffering from Napoleon complex. Not all guys short of stature suffer from this but this guy is a classic example. I should have been warned when he was posting pictures of himself shirtless with a rose in his teeth and kissing his bicepts! I am really happy and I have gotten some great emails from guys that I dated in the past and wishing me happiness, but when you get an email like I got last night, it just reminds us of how many frogs we really did have to kiss to find that prince. Julianna Red Hawk

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giving up...line keeps snagging on trash Posted: 12/3/2007 12:06:50 AM
One thing I must add... I have met some amazing people here. I have some really good friends that I met here and I am keeping my friendships with them. After all, you don't just drop your friends when you are seeing someone. Your friends enrich your life and you enrich theirs. blessings, Julianna Red Hawk

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giving up...line keeps snagging on trash Posted: 12/3/2007 12:04:50 AM
I only chose this thread because of the last guy that I met on POF was absolute trash. I just blocked him. When they post "I don't play games that was high school stuff" and that is actually part of his game! OMG! lol.... So anyways, he asked me to be his exclusive girlfriend on Thursday. I didn't hear from him on Fri and I met up with a friend from highschool that I was in love with 25 years ago. We had the most amazing time, met at a book store, closed it, went to a bar, closed it and went for a walk and I got home about 2:30 am! We agreed to meet the next day and since I hadn't heard from my date the night before I thought it wouldn't hurt since we are just really old friends. When I got home I found that this guy had deleted me from favorites, removed himself from my favorites and deleted all my emails. I am sure that I should have felt bad about that, but all I could think about was Alex. (my high school crush) After church on Sat morning we spent the rest of the weekend together. I am on cloud nine and have changed my profile to "not single not looking" just looking for friends and to play on the forums. Addicting little buggers! So thursday night guy, if you are reading this, please don't hurt any of the ladies on this site. You didn't hurt me, but the next girl may not be so lucky. Those of you that are dying to ream me for going out with my friend from high school after a guy asked me to be exclusive, don't. Friday night was innocent and when I got home and found that creepy guy had played me, I called Alex and told him "we are on!" So relax and find your perfect fish, even if he isn't from here! Julianna Red Hawk

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fake pics on profile Posted: 11/25/2007 2:26:21 PM
I don't know much about the rating game, nor do I really care. But for someone to present themselves as one person and to show up as someone else is really frightening. I recently had been IMing with someone that I met here and he emailed me a picture of himself. The picture was of an Italian guy (looking a lot like Geraldo Rivera) so I say ok, lets chat for a while. We chatted for about a month.. he kept wanting to meet for coffee late at night. One night I persuaded him to call me and he had a HEAVY Japanese accent. He said that his Father was Italian and mother was Japanese and he was raised in Japan. Ok. Fine. Still open to the idea because I speak a little Japanese and I find Asian guys attractive. So the next time he IM's me I agree to meet even if it is late... There is a Starbucks around the corner... I went early and sat in my car in the parking lot for 1/2 hour. People were coming out because they were closing. Finally a guy walks out looking EXTREMELY Japanese. Nothing like the picture. He IM's me when he got home and said I stood him up. I told him no, he stood me up. Nobody came out of Starbucks but a older Asian man. He said that was me! He looked nothing like the picture he sent me. Now here is my question, why did he email that picture of an unknown Italian guy that was very obviously not him? Did he have a problem attracting women being that he was Japanese? I didn't think so, so now I wonder if he had an alternative idea than dating or worse... Maybe I am making a mountain out of a molehill, but it really frightened me. The picture was very obviously not him.

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If something will turn you off the most on a first date what would it be? Posted: 11/20/2007 8:46:06 PM
I recently had such a bad experience that I have changed all my personal rules about dating... I was on a date with a fellow that was so opinionated about EVERYTHING. The rule about not talking politics on a first date went out the window, but he crossed the line by starting in on Native Americans and the casino's and Reservations. I am Navajo and he went on to say that the white man stopped too soon and that there were still some of us running around. He even used the term "Prairie N-word". (You know what I mean by the N-word) I was so furious,(sitting there covered in silver and turquoise, kinda obvious and he knew my ethnicity) I told him to turn the car around immediately. Gentlemen, seriously! I know that he was one in a million, but geez! What an idiot! Topics discussed should be light and intelligent. Oh, and please brush your teeth! lol..

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What side dishes do you serve at Thanksgiving Dinner that have become a family tradition Posted: 11/13/2007 7:03:57 PM
My family is 1/2 caucasian and 1/2 Navajo. Thanksgiving isn't a day for celebrating for us completely... so we serve "Waishishu food" (traditional thanksgiving) and Navajo food. I am in charge of the Buffalo stew and steaks and Three Sisters casserole (Squash, corn and Beans) and Pumpkin Frybread. We go around the table and give thanks for our blessings, and we pray for those who are stuck on the Rez and those who are unjustly imprisoned... (Lenard Peltier) and others. Also all the "Long walkers and trail of tears victims". It is bittersweet but we remember to both celebrate and to remember who we are and where we come from. Both the White and the Native sides. Blessings, Ha'ish Pa nana, (May all be beautiful in your world) Stimpygurl

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Female Porn Addicts Posted: 11/3/2007 9:11:01 AM
Shoot! Now this is going to show up on my profile! lol... Good sex is like wholesome, nutritious food. Porn is like junk food: all fake and processed and packaged and manufactured...."I'm loving it", It's like McDonald's, man.... Would you like that "Supersized" ma'am?

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Cold hearted women Posted: 11/3/2007 9:03:09 AM
tjlazah, Your profile looks so much more positive! I am really glad you took my advice and just give it a couple of weeks and see if the fish bite! Remember you have to use the best bait possible and the bait is YOU! Good luck my friend, and let me know how it goes! Your pal, Stimpygurl

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Cold hearted women Posted: 10/31/2007 3:23:01 PM
Tjlazah, I just sent you an email. With all the cruelty being shown on here, I am sending a suggestion instead of being plain ol mean. Hope it helps! Blessings! Stimpygurl

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Whats the Best Accent you've hear that you love... and why Posted: 10/30/2007 9:52:03 AM
Accents do nothing for me... call me shallow, but give me a good personality over a cute accent anyday. I have to agree Mr Dynomite, but I recently befriended a wonderful man with a very heavy Italian accent and not only is he a wonderful friend and confidante, he just sounds so darn Sexy! He is my "Caro mio". When he calls me "Bellisima" my knees shake!

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Baking with artificial sweetener Posted: 10/28/2007 1:44:37 PM
I rarely post in the recipe forum but this really caught my eye. Do not bake with Equal. At a certain temperature it converts to formaldehyde. They can't even get the laboratory rats to eat that stuff. Also, my Late Mother in law used sweet and low and equal for years and she died of cancer, EVERYWHERE. It was all over her body and I have reason to believe that the artificial sweeteners had something to do with it. She used it a lot. (ok at this point somebody is just dying to ream me for posting the above mentioned because they don't have all the facts.) I have found that Splenda is the very best for cooking and baking. It is Sucralose which is a derivative of real sugar, it just doensn't metabolize like sugar and so it is better for you than chemicals. Happy baking and be safe with your sweeteners! Remember : Yellow is a friendly fellow, Pink and blue is bad for you! yellow= Splenda Pink= sweet and low Blue=Equal

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Lakota Fry Bread Posted: 10/21/2007 9:13:10 AM
I have to find my recipe for the same but I add Pumpkin to it. Pumpkin frybread with Mesquite honey from my peoples recipie in Chinle, AZ. Navajo Rez, Clan of "The Tangle People". I think the Lacota and the Navajo breads are very similar. The Ogalala Sioux guy I have been dating would argue this, but you don't see him putting the plate of frybread down! lol... Thank you for your recipe! Ha'ish Panana! (May all be beautiful in your world) Stimpygurl

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Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 10/21/2007 12:39:42 AM
Someone please tell me what Birkenstoks and Liederhosen are. Birkenstoks are ugly sandals that are usually but not always natural leather or suede colors. They are refferred to here in California as "Jesus Surfin Sandals", (ok, he didn't surf but they look like he would have worn them!) Liederhosen are those funky shorts that guys in the alps wear. They are like shorts with suspenders with fancy stiching on them. They are highly dorky looking! Stimpygurl

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Who has influenced you most in life? Posted: 10/18/2007 11:55:20 PM
Ren Hoek and Stimpson J. Cat. I'm just sayin'.......... So that is why we are buddies! Stimpygurl

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Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you? Posted: 10/18/2007 11:43:12 PM
Surprise kisses are the only way to go....... Specially from grandma with that dark red lip stick on.... With or without tongue? I grossed myself out! blah

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Am I crossing the line doing background checks on a suspicious date? Posted: 10/18/2007 10:59:27 PM
I learned my lesson and alway do a google search on guys. There is a guy on POF who is married. A few of us have tried to get him booted off but he keeps changing his screen name. He comes across as a sweet, caring guy. But if you google him you will see alot of complaints against him. He has 5 Domestic Violence cases against him in the last 3 years. So my advise to you is google anyone if you can. Also check dontdatehimgirl. Check ripoffreport.com. Check your local court system. Alot of states you can type in a persons name and it will show you what kind of cases someone has against them. I am in Washington and if you go to the Washington Court site and type in this particular guy's name you will see 20 cases against him since 2001 (when he legally changed his name). In this day in age you can't be too careful. I have a question, I had a really bad experience with a date lately and I want to warn the women in our area about him. We had no drinks or anything just went to the beach and sat on the sand and watched the sun go down. I had on a long sleeve, high necked shirt and jeans. Nothing sexy going on there and he just kept trying to pounce on me. I told him that it was unwelcome and even to the point of crying when he kept trying to kiss me and I kept turning my head and he had me pinned. A couple of times I managed to fend him off due to his bad back and my aikido. (Thank you Yamazaki Sensei!) Before we even got to the beach and just on the freeway, he was going off, insulting my Tribal afiliation and saying that the "Indians" (Native Americans you moron) didn't deserve the casinos or the crappy land given to us.... yadda, yadda, yadda... He was a jerk in every sense of the word... I was blown away by how stupid this man was. Is there something we can do to keep this guy from hurting or darn near assaulting other women. He was amazed that I didn't fall at his feet. He was telling me how hot he is and how big his "junk" is and how he almost won a hot buns contest in the 80's.... I was a lady and didn't laugh in his face, but I really wanted to! I have been sexually assaulted twice in the past and told him so and he still kept trying to jump on me. It was horrible. I got away from him and left skid marks on the street going home! Run ladies run! Stimpyanna

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Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 10/18/2007 10:29:09 PM
Princelyfrog, have you even read my profile? I have bigger problems than men in toesocks! lol... Stimpygurl

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he could have been a serial killer............. Posted: 10/18/2007 12:49:42 PM
Kaylee there are three rules you have to remember: Chocolate is a bandaide Shoes don't stretch Men don't change My Dynomite did sum it up nicely though, if he shows up at your date with a chair, ropes and a Zippo lighter, maybe things will turn out a little different than normal... StimpyGurl

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Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 10/18/2007 12:46:28 PM
^^^ What if they are wearing Toesocks with flipflops?^^^

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Apparently those Nigerian scammers are using Yahoo messenger now... Posted: 10/18/2007 12:35:29 PM
I had one guy named "Herrison Ford" (lol) with a model pic and he IM'd me on Yahoo. I knew right away what it was and just played along. For a few weeks he would pop up on my IM and if I wasn't doing anything I would Im back. After a while he told me that his daughter was really sick and he couldn't afford the medicine for her and it was life threatening.... blah, blah, blah... I told him I was going through a divorce and told him about the damage my daughter did to my face and the surgery costs (true story) and that I had no money. He begged me to send him $200. to pay for the meds. After begging for about 1/2 hour he called me a "C word" and asked again. I told this pathetic scammer "I have some bad news, I just wiped out YOUR bank acct..." lol.. then I blocked him from IMing me again.... You know what SCAM means don't you? S tealing C ash from A merican M orons... Stimpyanna

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STRANGE FIRST DATE REQUESTS Posted: 10/18/2007 10:37:30 AM
since I lived closer than he did, were we going back to my house so I could give him his blow job....WTF???? You should have given him a penguin... Take him into the alley, drop his drawers, his package will be out, make like you are going to do it and then just walk away. He will follow you with his pants around his ankles, waddling like a, you guessed it! PENGUIN!!!! I haven't had to resort to this yet, it is simply waiting in my bag of tricks! So far the only thing I have had to use is Aikido on dates! Amazing how a nerve lock will dampen a gents unwanted amourous attentions! Stimpygurl

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Worst clothes to wear on a first date... Posted: 10/18/2007 10:25:30 AM
My lunch date showed up yesterday in sweats and we went to McDonalds. Most women would cringe, but this guy is really nice and we had a great time. It isn't what you do or what you wear, but who you are with. And this was a FIRST MEETING... My Monday date took me somewhere nice and dressed very nice and got drunk and turned into an Octopus, so you can see that it is the PERSON not the clothes that make the man. I just had to throw a wrench in this thread. Although I know there are some clothes that you should never wear on a date! Slippers dirty clothes of any kind Gauchos (lol) Birkenstoks Liederhosen...? Help me out here! Stimpygurl

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What do you consider a no no on the first date? Posted: 10/18/2007 9:17:49 AM
My Monday evening date was a HUGE no no.... He was amazing! Tall, blonde, handsome, great smile... and waiting for me at the door of the restraunt. We sat down and he ordered us a couple beers. Mine lasted 2 hours (I didn't want to get drunk and ruin this wonderful date) He had 5 beers to my one. When I finished I ordered Diet coke. He kept on ordering beers... Needless to say, he was sloshed when it was time to go and he seemed to grow 4 more hands and was all over me. Ugh! I asked if he was going to be ok (too much of a lady to just walk out on him) and he asked me for a ride home. He just lived up the street and had walked there. Now my question is, "Did he walk cause it was so close or did he plan on me taking him home to get me in bed?" He kept asking sexual questions which I refused to answer. I also noticed that as he drank more he got a lot less attractive... looking more like Jan Michael Vincent! UGHHH!!!!! I also think that little bit of drool was a deal breaker! Stimpygurl

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What do you consider a no no on the first date? Posted: 10/16/2007 1:51:05 PM
My best friend is here with me and she gave a great dealbreaker... "He" and she were walking on the beach hand in hand. The sun was setting, they were having a soul talk (wow) and it was beautiful. Very romantic. He took his hand out of hers and blew a snot-rocket into the sand and then took her hand again! At least he didn't spell her name in snot! Wow, and I thought my drunk date last night was bad! I'll count my blessings from now on! Yikes! Lil miss Stimpygurl!

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What do you consider a no no on the first date? Posted: 10/13/2007 10:50:25 AM
Mr Dynomite, I knew you wouldn't let me down! But on our date you have permission to bring those! I don't want to sound like a prude, but "Rope, Chair, Gasoline & a Zippo lighter" is off limits on the first date. Stimpygurl

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Truthful Profiles Posted: 10/13/2007 10:47:01 AM
I agree Natural... I had a long boring profile telling the truth and hardly any responses, then I worked with a friend on a new one and it is absolutely psychotic and I have never had such a great response! When I send an email I always warn the recipient that my profile is mish mosh and I send a condensed version of my real one. I also get emails from guys that would normally never give me a second look but the funny profile seems to get their attention that I may have more than to molecules to rub together up there! Even Match.com can't compare with POF... I am looking forward to the time that I find the guy that I can be exclusive with and only come here for the forums! Stimpygurl

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What do you consider a no no on the first date? Posted: 10/12/2007 11:49:17 AM
One very positive thing that this thread does is keep us mindful of what NOT to do on a date. I have one tonight that I hope goes well (POF guy and very bright and funny on the phone). Here are some of my deal breakers: One guy bragged that he was on the Megans law website for oral copulation of a Minor. (this is supposed to turn me on? AGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I threw him out of my car) Birkenstocks on the first date. ~ Now I am sure you are comfy, but not all guys (or girls) have beautiful feet. (or non stinky) Keep socks and shoes on unless it is a beach date. Let us really fall for you before you unveil those hooves! Then we can't be too turned off now can we? If you are a heavy set person and that is not a dealbreaker for me, but at dinner you clean out the butter and bread basket and ask for another, that is a warning sign that you just don't care. (how can I fall in love/lust with someone that is going to heart attack country in a bullet train?) & yes, I did suggest being workout buds.... turned down. Guys who mumble... Be articulate. Or would you rather be somewhere else? Good Hygiene~ Bad Breath is a downer if you are trying to kiss me and you had liver and onions for lunch, I'm gonna push the Tic Tac's at you or at least an Altoid! Blah! BO.~ Stimpy Gurl suddenly bolts from the table... Trash Talking their Ex. ~ I know it is hard, but I am divorced and I always avoid talking badly about my ex. It doens't make me look any better and there are always two sides to a story... I don't want to hear what a witch your ex is. I am sure she was once a lovely person or you wouldn't have fallen for her in the first place. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Those are my deal breakers, but I am waiting for Mr Dinomite to put in an appearance and give us his wisdom... He is so funny! StimpyGurl

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Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder) Posted: 10/11/2007 10:16:15 PM
It's called PMS baby! PMS= Potential Murder Suspect Actually on the subject, yes I did. For a whole week he was wonderful and all was rosy... Then i asked him a question when he was tired and he started screaming and cussing at me and he slapped me. (Martial Arts training kicked in at that point and we are not dating anymore) I spoke to his ex wife and 17 year old son and they thought that he was so happy with me that they thought he changed. He goes through periods of being really happy and the first thing that ticks him off and he just blows up and is that way for weeks at a time. Till he finds a new girl. Then the cycle starts all over again. He needs professional help and I feel sorry for his son. Living under those conditions can't be pleasant. I suspect he is Bi Polar. Stimpygurl

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The thought of her sleeping with this new man is horrible!!! Posted: 10/11/2007 10:05:49 AM
I just took a look at your profile and I have one thing to say... Move on! She isn't worth the time you are wasting on pining over her. You are so young and have so much to experience. Don't waste time trying to pursue someone who doesn't appreciate you. Think of all the lovely women who are passing by as you pursue the unobtainable. Now what you posted about calling her and having to be blocked sounds stalkerish, but when your heart is hurting, it is hard not to call all the time. Put on your bigboy pants and get out there and find a girl who appreciates you and what you do. There is someone out there for you and in 6 months, you are going to say "I wonder what happened to that bird I was dating last year...?" Good luck buddy, you are going to be ok. Stimpygurl

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I am totally in to this guy, but.... Posted: 10/9/2007 7:32:39 PM
Holly, I hate to bring this up, but maybe he has a problem with E.D.???? I recently was dating a guy who wanted to go exclusive right away. Talking relationship and yadda, yadda, yadda.. wanting me to move in right away... But we never had sex. I am very direct about my sexuality. The last 4 years of my marriage I had NONE! So now I believe that the squeeky wheel gets the goods! I mentioned this to my "Cowboy" (I never use names) and he started screaming and ended up slapping me. (this was after dating for a couple of weeks with NO intimacy.) I found out later that he has a problem with E.D. and hasn't dealt with it honestly. His ex wife and I are friends and she told me about the problem after we broke up. As for the slap, he met my roundhouse kick and now the rumor is I hear he has pain when he sneezes and coughs... Never hit a woman in martial arts. Or... Never hit a woman. Stimpygurl

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 9/30/2007 8:49:45 PM
You lovely man! What a compliment! On the prefer not to say, I have lost a bunch of weight but am trying to firm it up, so I'm not sure what to put. I am still shrinking and they don't really have the verbage for it. I will concede to put "a few extra pounds" I guess for now. I really had a blast writing that profile. Amazing what comes out of your keyboard when you are pouring cosmos and have your girlfriends around you! Oh, and your profile is really great. I did the math and Thousand Oaks is kinda far or I would start emailing you! You are a good looking guy and your interests are going to get you snatched up soon yourself! You rule! Hugs! Stimpygurl

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 9/30/2007 8:47:53 PM
You lovely man! What a compliment! On the prefer not to say, I have lost a bunch of weight but am trying to firm it up, so I'm not sure what to put. I am still shrinking and they don't really have the verbage for it. I will concede to put "a few extra pounds" I guess for now. I really had a blast writing that profile. Amazing what comes out of your keyboard when you are pouring cosmos and have your girlfriends around you! You rule! Hugs! Stimpygurl

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 9/26/2007 11:16:14 PM
stoupendousman, you sound like a superhero! Just make sure you use your powers for good and not evil! Big hugs! Stimpygurl

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How many dates are people actually going on from this site? Posted: 9/26/2007 9:02:52 PM
I went through a horrible time right after my separation from my ex hubby. Our adopted daughter kicked me in the mouth and broke my leg and I had to have emergency oral surgery and walked with a limp for a long time. As I healed I joined POF and started dating. My self confidence was horrible but I posted some cool pics and had an extreme makeover in the dental department. I started getting all kinds of dates! With POF I have had over 37 dates in two months. There were some days that I was double booked. I met some great guys and some really awful ones and I now have a great guy that is creative and kind and just amazing. I am not a serial dater anymore and I actually needed that kind of attention for the two months to get the self assurance that I was desirable and beautiful. Now I am loving myself and happy again. I needed POF to get my feet back in the dating pool and it did it's job. I made some great friends and I am really happy!

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 9/23/2007 2:06:38 PM
~Rain~ Tammie, you are so dang cute! I'm definately into guys or I would try to date you myself! I love your profile and can't see anything wrong with it. Mine was so boring and scarey (I sword fight, martial Arts and am a professional Pyrotech) and very few guys were responding to it so I gave it a psychotic kick and now I have a great boyfriend. Psycho works! Tear it apart folks, but my bud Bijan let me borrow some lines from his profile and I am now using my superpowers for good and not evil! I never thought I would be able to change my profile from "Long Term" to "email and chat". Yippee for POF! Lady Stimpianna the Pyro Gurl

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 9/3/2007 8:20:05 PM
Aclvr1, you are just darling! I love your pictures, but I think the one of you in the striped shirt should be your main picture. You have the most beautiful eyes! Maybe I should take notes and fix my profile before I get torn up by the person who posts after me! Yikes! Don't change your wording at all! StimpyGurl

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Am I crossing the line doing background checks on a suspicious date? Posted: 9/3/2007 2:24:27 PM
My newest question has had to be "Will I find you on the Megan's Law website?" I went on a date with a guy from another site and during the first date he let it slip that he had served some time and had a dishonerable discharge from the Army. I didn't want to judge and didn't ask or probe. Later, I started to really click with him and had to ask, "I am starting to really like you but I gotta ask, what did you do?" His reply completely threw me... "Oral Copulation with a Minor". In my head I was thinking well, 17 year olds really do look a lot older these days and they will lie to get what they want. So I nonchalantly asked "So how old was she?" He gave me the answer that I will never forget "she was 11". I couldn't get him out of my car fast enough! OMG! That was so wrong... My three basic questions are: 1. will I find you on that site? 2. Domestic Violence in the past? 3. I am a Christian, is this a problem? (you wouldn't believe the answers I have gotten!) Stimpygurl

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Would you kiss someone in a wheelchair Posted: 9/3/2007 2:14:51 PM
I have kissed someone in a wheelchair and more. The best guy I have met through POF and he is an incredible and considerate lover. Too many people here have made replies that made me cringe and I have decided to ignore that and just answer your question and give a little advice. Get out there and live your life. He lives his life in a chair but it isn't his life. There is so much more to him and he is witty, charming and can be a jerk just like the rest of us. Don't let the chair define you. You define you! Now get out there and start kissing some ladies! Blessings! StimpyGurl

Joined: 8/14/2007

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Positive Thoughts About Your Last Relationship Posted: 8/23/2007 10:32:31 PM
What a great topic Sterling Heart! I remember never fighting with my ex. We never argued or yelled at eachother and are now friends after our divorce is finalized. (yesterday it was final!) We celebrated getting on with our lives and it was nice, not mean or nasty as some splits are. The reasons for the divorce were tragic, but it was a great marriage for 8 of the 11 years. He taught me how to do things that I never thought I would ever do. He was the one that encouraged me to go for my pyrotechnics licence and supported me though my Martial arts classes. I was able to help him through Underwater welding school and now that we have separate lives, I am learning not to limit myself. I truly wish him well and he wishes me well. I think that is a clean break in a divorce. When you don't hate eachother. blessings, Julianna

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Is my profile scarey? Posted: 8/22/2007 5:24:00 PM
Excellent points! Thank you! I am a work in progress and so is my profile! lol.. My divorce is final this week. I filed in November of 2006 and he finally signed! (you are right, kind of double standards, but in a few days it should be ok.)

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Is my profile scarey? Posted: 8/19/2007 7:09:31 PM
Thank you for the offer of wacking a guy on the head for me... I know of a "Pirate" you can wack, but that is a whole nother Oprah! Your comments are very much appreciated! Stimpygurl

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Is my profile scarey? Posted: 8/19/2007 7:07:26 PM
Thank you hot snowman... I am going to change the pic tonight and my divorce is final in 4 days or so... Papers are signed and atty is putting them on fasttrack. We both just want out. I am going to revamp the profile and see if that helps... Thank you for that input. It does make sense... Stimpygurl

Joined: 8/14/2007

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Is my profile scarey? Posted: 8/19/2007 12:08:53 PM
I have been here a week and for every 10 emails I send, I get one back. I am wondering if my profile is offputting or scarey. I have hobbies that I enjoy but I think are freaking guys out, and I am starting to rethink this whole thing... If this thread doesn't get deleted, please give me an honest review or critique. I'll try not to cry... Stimpygurl

Joined: 8/14/2007

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Would you be intimidated by me? Posted: 8/19/2007 10:16:45 AM
See and I thought I was the only scarey girl out there! I think I may need to revamp my profile. I have been in martial arts for 13 years and I am really proud of my accomplishments. I do hand to hand combat and I am a sword fighter. As a hobby I am also a Pyrotech (you know the big fireworks shoots?) So guys think I am a crazy girl. I just was married to a crazy guy and got some crazy hobbies.... lol... So I guess the question is do we change our habits and profiles to look better and then slowly get wierd on them? lol... (kinda like the crack dealer, first hits free, but once you are hooked.....) Stimpygurl

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