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Thread: my 3 year old wont sleep in his bed HELP!!!!!
littledoesfawn
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my 3 year old wont sleep in his bed HELP!!!!!
Posted:
10/13/2008 9:45:23 AM
simple..schedule an appt with a child psychologist for advice on this matter
That's what I did and the response is that if you lay with them until they go to sleep your reassuring them that there is something to be scared of and they will most likely always want someone there.....
There is nothing wrong with the way different parents raise thier children they are all about the same though...
Your son will scream and cry and hollar, but just reassure them that everything is ok and it's time to be a big boy. Mine worked well if they get up in the middle of the night just put them back in their bed and tell them that it's bed time. No biggie. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!
littledoesfawn
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my 3 year old wont sleep in his bed HELP!!!!!
Posted:
10/12/2008 3:27:56 PM
Hi Naughty,
I realize it's been forever since you wrote this, but I actually just seen it. I went through that with me 4 year old son, he was going to a Behavior specialist and one thing he told me to do is when ever he gets up just put him back in his bed and tell him that it's time to be a big boy/girl. He told me that it would play heck on my nights, but in the long run it would be worth it that getting some structure would help with most situations. He'll also feel accomplished when he conquers it. Now been 4 months later I thank the doctor. My son used to sneak into my room and fall asleep on the floor. Now he stays in his own bed all night. The only time he usually gets up is if he has to go to the bathroom or if he had a bad dream I remind him that a dream is not real and its time to go back to bed. It's working wonders. Hope it helps you!
littledoesfawn
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Found the one!
Posted:
10/4/2008 6:31:44 AM
I wish everyone on here the best of luck including u starblaze...
I too have found mine.
I hope everyone all the happiness.
littledoesfawn
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I have a friend who says people on dating sites have something to hide...
Posted:
10/1/2008 8:08:38 AM
she figures that people who can't ask out someone in real life, in person.. and on a website, have something to hide!
I'm having a hard time believing that..
what do you think?
I've always said that it is a way for people to get to know someone who perhaps have a harder time gaining the courage to do it in person!
do you at all agree with her or is there something more to it than just that?
No I disagree with that completely. Online dating is more than just that....it's a chance to meet or talk to people whom you would not really know. Such as me and my s/o for instants. He lives in Lafayette which I hardly went there....Now that we actually met and are together we tend to go there together, but the point of this is if you live in one town you don't really think about who could be single in another one. I lay everything out. You would know quiet a bit from me if we talked....nothing to hide just because if we do decide to give it a shot then you'll eventually find out things anyway if that makes sense. Anyway I think your friend is wrong!!!!!
littledoesfawn
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i found my husband
Posted:
9/17/2008 9:46:39 AM
Geez remind me never to share good news around here.
[qutote] LOL I'm not a killjoy and I am not silly enough to have a bad experience like that. I only posted my post after she deleted her profile so I wouldn't hurt her feelings. I just can't believe everyone else is so naive. I know I'm not alone, there are plenty of forums where people state how they believe you can't fall in love in just a few weeks/couple of months. No wonder the divorce rate is so high.
You may not have wanted to hurt her feelings, but maybe you have others. I am only saying that you are judging people on how they feel. Or who they are actually. Woman tend to fall in love faster than men. Reguardless of how long you should just say congrats and be done with it. Keep your harsh comments to yourself. I realize this may sound rude and for that I do apologize. However some people want to be happy and not bitty for the rest of thier lives. Which includes in giving people the CHANCE. I'm sorry if things hasn't exactly worked out for you to not believe in happiness in a short amount of time, but it does exist to some people. BTW The divorce rate isn't so high just because of people marrying one another in a short amount of time. If that is your personal opinion then that's fine, say that's my opinion. My opinion however is that divorce is just to easy. If two people agree all they say is I want a divorce in front of a lawyer and $750 later it's done. If two people truely love each other and actually try in a marriage it may actually work.
OP....AND THE OTHER ONE....congrats and I hope you all the happiness.
littledoesfawn
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Would you open you marriage to save it?
Posted:
8/25/2008 5:37:42 PM
I'm sorry, but my answer is no. I love my s/o and I don't see how sharing him with someone will help the relationship. If there's problems work on them if there is no chance of it helping (with the work) then it's time to call it the end!
littledoesfawn
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Never would have thought!
Posted:
8/25/2008 5:35:24 PM
Congrats hope all works out for you two!
littledoesfawn
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Do those on POF know what they want?
Posted:
8/2/2008 5:53:27 AM
The only thing that I have noticed in the past is that people base everything on looks alone. Both parties too. If you are only looking for a great looking man you won't be happy because your thinking about other qualities you are wanting from someone else.
littledoesfawn
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Married for 2 Years and she wants 1 Year away to be free and Independant
Posted:
8/1/2008 8:30:42 AM
Repeat after me..."it's over...it's over...it's over..it's over." This is why folks should not marry before the ages of 27-30.
Divorce her and good luck.
I disagree with this 100% my mom was 16 when she was married to my dad and yes there were bad times, but they were married for 24 1/2 years before he died of a massive heartattack unexpectadly. So this is wrong, there are people who can it just takes work on both parties.
littledoesfawn
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Could you marry for security?
Posted:
8/1/2008 7:24:51 AM
There is nothing wrong with desiring security but to use someone in order to get it? No way. Material possessions are nice but life without true love is pointless.
I agree with you carolann0308
Without love you have nothing. I wouldn't marry anyone unless I felt love with them. It's a waste of time and energy for that matter! Why put in energy and time if you know it is something you didn't want. Material items are nice, but not a need of survival.
littledoesfawn
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Wally-Mart SUX
Posted:
7/31/2008 4:12:37 PM
Why should you have to keep changing jobs just to find one that you can get a decent wage. The problem is companies like Wall Mart care more about making money then there employees. Why can Wall Mart not pay a decent wage. Sure you can find a different but that does not mean you can find one that pays more.
I'm not saying you have to by any means. ALL I AM SAYING IS...you are complaining and the easiest thing you have to do is find a job that you might actually like and consider that you may even make more there is nothing wrong with that. Besides that why jump all over peoples butts in here when your the one complaining. All we are saying is there are other oppertunities out there. Seek them.
littledoesfawn
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And Farewell, Plenty of Fish
Posted:
7/31/2008 4:54:24 AM
Congrats, I hope the very best for you two.
littledoesfawn
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Dating 3 girls....yikes
Posted:
7/30/2008 10:03:49 AM
YES your wrong. If you think your ex is the "one" then try and work things out and drop the other two if you think there is no hope for the two of you to work thing out then end it. Point blank dating more than one is stupid in my book. You sound like you need to be single figure out what you want and then go from there. Take time and think about it not just all of a sudden and say " ok I'm ready to be with someone. " My opinion you should feel sleezy no matter how honest you are to all three of the ladies.
littledoesfawn
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Goodbye POF
Posted:
7/29/2008 3:48:45 PM
WOW, aren't you just an a$$. First of all I am a single mom and I could get someone out in the real life as you call it, but there is more to that than this site. There are a lot of reason people get on this site, the forums for starters, friends, and some are here for dating. I have never really had any trouble finding someone " in the real life" even being a single mom. So for you to say If they're a single mom or seriously flawed in some other way I could understand. No you don't there is more to it than you think. Second of all aren't you just as sad as some of the people whom you're putting down for being on here after all didn't you just admittingly say that you have a total of two profiles on here? If you don't have any problems then why even worry about an experiment? Are you lonely and need to pass some time? Ugh it's guys like you that makes woman hate some of the men out there.
littledoesfawn
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Ghosts - how did the term come to be?
Posted:
7/29/2008 8:28:19 AM
No dead person has ever harmed me. It's the living ones that scare the crap out of me.
LMAO. This is so true.
littledoesfawn
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Wally-Mart SUX
Posted:
7/29/2008 8:23:17 AM
You obviously have not worked for walmart or known someone who has
Actually I do LMAO. He chooses not to do better. For whatever reason that maybe. You can always find a different job. Not saying that a lot of them are hiring, but there are more oppertunities, you just have to be willing to look for it and go for it for that matter!
littledoesfawn
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The freak for me
Posted:
7/29/2008 8:04:32 AM
Congradulations. I hope the very best for you two.
littledoesfawn
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Why do I feel so offended?
Posted:
7/29/2008 5:45:55 AM
If your seeing someone you are not on POF - simple
Actually I'm dating someone and I'm still on here, because we still IM on here and talk when he is home, when he is gone he can check these messages a lot easier than others.
If yours eeing someone IM's are turned off if you cannot resist keeping your profile to keep looking around or look for validation by receiving messages ....but again why are you here ?
Some people are still on here just for forums too, and some people still use this site for friends as well and if you want to talk to them on IM you can't delete your profile.
I know there are a lot of people who want the ones who are married or the ones who have already found someone to delete their profiles, but sorry life is soon realized you don't get everything you want in life.
OP---I wouldn't worry to much if I were you, he's just unhappy with the thought of not finding anyone yet. Just forget about it and good luck with your relationship too.
littledoesfawn
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Why do I feel so offended?
Posted:
7/29/2008 5:33:18 AM
Just so you know you might want to change your single to not single/not looking. Even though I have changed mine, have a testomonial, people still want to try and talk to me wanting more. Some does only read the status though and if you keep it single then some may just read that and go from there hoping that they will get more than you intend. Just my opinion.
littledoesfawn
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Wally-Mart SUX
Posted:
7/28/2008 11:59:22 AM
Although I am not a big fan of Wal-Mart. Every store has it's issues.
littledoesfawn
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what a catch!!!!!!xxxx
Posted:
7/26/2008 8:21:56 AM
Oh, I don't know... My parents met at New Year's and were married by June. They had 18 very happy years together before my father unexpectedly died. My mother never remarried, being content with the memories for 40+ years.
Oh my that is sad, yet so sweet at the same time... some people just know and as for all the ones who read "ALL" the forums. You also may have noticed a lot of them do say that they should have followed their instincs, or gut, or intuition. Either way they already had the "signs" as a few of them say they just didn't want to see it. Not everyone just settles and not everyone is as negative and saying oh this won't work out, and by the way if you think that it won't. If you honestly give it your all and the same with the s/o then you might actually find happiness. Everyone should be happy with what they have, even if it was only for a few weeks/ few months or even years at least you had something happy for that little while. After all it/was something YOU were looking for.
littledoesfawn
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what a catch!!!!!!xxxx
Posted:
7/26/2008 8:14:31 AM
hahaha...if I had a nickel for everytime I read about someone having "found someone" on a dating site. It's easy to "find" someone but as time passes, do they remain the person they portrayed themself to be? does the relationship last longer than 2 weeks?
Actually there are ones who does last longer than 2 weeks and be the persont hey portayed to be, you just have to find them...I know I have!
And to the OP congrats hope the best for you two.
littledoesfawn
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Good Bye POF
Posted:
7/25/2008 7:37:55 PM
You can't say good bye to life just because of that. I'm sorry, but that is every where not just here on POF. Some people are just to picky and want something that doesn't exist.
littledoesfawn
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If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond?
Posted:
7/25/2008 7:34:37 PM
In my opinion it's just to picky and there are people out there who are just bad at spelling. Then there are others who type really fast and don't pay attention to typo's. I wouldn't judge to quickly you might be passing up something amazing.
littledoesfawn
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Does a ring make a difference?
Posted:
7/24/2008 4:05:27 PM
Ok I've read all of the first page and the biggest part coming from all the woman says it does mater. I personally don't think it does if you two loved each other than a ring wouldn't make any difference. NOTICE I said both. I think she was just wanting to get married and that's it.
littledoesfawn
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Cheating in the past? A deal breaker?
Posted:
7/24/2008 3:49:25 PM
From personal experience I've been cheated on and I doubt they can change. I am happy I didn't believe it and stay with them, I found someone so special and I am truely happy for once. I wouldn't try it again, but that is my opinion.
littledoesfawn
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Thank you POF!
Posted:
7/24/2008 7:44:40 AM
Congrats! I hope everything works out for the best for you! I'm glad you found what your looking for.
littledoesfawn
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games games games
Posted:
7/23/2008 9:25:56 AM
Every choice and decision in life is a 50/50 chance.
could not agree with you more.
And why is it that men think all woman are out for thier money, there are men just like that granted there may be more gold diggers, but there are a lot of men as well and everyone says it's woman. UGH this statement just so annoying!!!!!
littledoesfawn
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Gift Etiquette
Posted:
7/23/2008 7:12:33 AM
It all depends on the girl and the gift for that matter! If the guy didn't want you to have it then he wouldn't offer it to you right? There is always something behind them maybe something little, maybe more. You'll never really know.
littledoesfawn
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Why would anyone want to date you?
Posted:
7/23/2008 7:10:40 AM
I'm not a cheater.
I was told I have good looks.
I have a great sense of humor.
I have good communications skills (sometimes)
I am a great listener ( I may not understand everything or the situation, but I'm there if someone needs a friend.)
There's a lot of qualities. I think there more to this than just the question though? I could be wrong.
littledoesfawn
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Not Single Anymore
Posted:
7/22/2008 12:25:22 PM
Congrats! Hope the very best for you!!!!
littledoesfawn
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How long does it take to fall in love?
Posted:
7/21/2008 8:25:47 AM
I just think that if you found someone you love you can't let them get away. There is no "time-line" for being in love it's more the question of do you feel like your in love? If you honestly can't see your life without them then it's more likely it is. If you seem to think and they are always there then trust your gut and go for it.
Best of luck and congrats BTW!
littledoesfawn
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Is it possible to be in relationship with under my circumstances? hmmmm... i wonder so help me out
Posted:
7/21/2008 8:20:35 AM
It is possible to date again, just don't give up on your time or anything that you really want. I found someone who can understand and respect the fact that I have two kids and one goes with his father every other weekend. We have great times together we both don't want to be up someone's butt 24/7 I think it gets old too I know where your coming from. I my life with my special man. Just look out for those who do abuse. I know how you feel honestly I was actually ready to give up and wait, but I am so glad I didn't. Take your time and look for what you what is actually all you can do, but it is possible.
Best of luck with what ever choice you make and all the happiness in your life.
littledoesfawn
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i dont get it
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7/17/2008 6:58:38 PM
Sorry but to me sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Or that she is trying out other people in between split ups. I would drop her and forget about her there are others and since it's been off and on it's not really going to work out since she's the one who ends it and not says why.
littledoesfawn
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Would You Be Mad
Posted:
7/17/2008 6:53:15 PM
<---- Hi, here I am, one of "those" people. Met my sweetie here - WoW - PoF actually works!
I post in the forums, he lurks my posts and occasionally makes one of his own. My profile is not hidden because that would disable the IM feature... and he and I quite often chat a bit on IM when he has some precious minutes of down time at work. I don't accept IM's from anyone else.... probably annoy people who don't read my profile before sending an IM. Sheesh, if you read my profile you'd know I am happily in a relationship.
I have friends here, both male and female, who I have come to know through the forums. Some of them have become very special to me, and I will (hopefully) maintain a friendship with them when I leave the site.
As far as continuing on here while in a relationship... my priority is my sweetie; if he ever had a problem with my still being on here, PoF would get immediately and unceremoniously dropped from my life. Posting on PoF is not a "right" I claim, it is a trust he extends.
This simply isn't an issue between us... as he has said, the day he is concerned about PoF is the day he also has to be concerned about who I speak with at work, or on my way to the corner store... where does trust begin and end?
This works for us, I don't expect it would work for everyone... but I'm in a relationship with one very special fellow, and that is the beginning and the end of my concern about the matter.
Thank you I'm am the same type of person, both me and my s/o is still on here and we both have that we are not single and not looking however people still do not look at profiles all the way obviously because people still message us. Any way I don't want my IM to be disabled is why my profile is not hidden. He isn't always at home and he can check this site a lot easier from his cell. Anyway point of the story if it works for the couples who are together then what is the problem find someone else and forget about the other ones.
littledoesfawn
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We need to talk
Posted:
7/17/2008 1:46:12 PM
not always, it could be something different. Just wait and be patient with whatever reply it will be. It could be just be kind to him, but it doesn't always been.
littledoesfawn
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FOUND DREAM WOMAN
Posted:
7/17/2008 11:30:19 AM
I understand everyone wants something to believe in, just don't let it cloud your judgement. 11 days isn't a life time gauranteed. BUT hey good luck and congrats!
littledoesfawn
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I need help here!
Posted:
7/17/2008 11:28:31 AM
I'm sorry, but I have actually seen a relationship like this and the two are married now. Someone can make a different impression and the guy can see who or what type of person another woman is compared to last relationships, just go along with it. Since it has only been a month maybe later on down the road, he will see that you are different and may want to take that chance with you. I wouldn't rush or push him on anything though keep enjoying the time with him and see where it goes.
littledoesfawn
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My son is on drugs.......
Posted:
7/17/2008 11:23:17 AM
"I have thought of that...... I don't want to be that hysterical parent, dont want to be a hypocrite because I tried it at his age too, I grew up and stopped doing it and I want to believe that he is just experimenting like I did as a kid."
I'm sorry, but to me this doesn't sound to worried. It sounds like you already have your mind made up that he's only experimenting and it is no big deal. I would say other wise, but it is your kid and you need to tell him what is going to happen if he continues and stick with it.
littledoesfawn
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this site works
Posted:
7/17/2008 8:17:49 AM
I would only hide it especially since you haven't really been here all that long, I mean I hope you all the best and that you two work out well. Congrats!?!?!?!?
littledoesfawn
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Double Date Where the Other Man Beat Up His GF
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7/17/2008 8:15:51 AM
"Its now a day later and she's not sure if she wants to press charges"
No I cannot but for her to not be sure. I'm sorry, but if someone did that to me I would be pressing the charges as soon as possible. I wouldn't want it to happen to someone else or me again.
"I spent the last two hours of the date at the hospital filling out forms and police reports"
Other than all that drama I hope you to try again maybe without company would be better for the second time around! Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
littledoesfawn
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Gun Enthusiast - Should I worry?
Posted:
7/17/2008 7:32:38 AM
I'd say the guy is a little gun happy, HELLO!
I don't believe this at all. My aunt and her new husband has different kind of guns, and knifes for that matter. They just like collecting them, there is nothing wrong with it as long as you honestly believe that he is a rational person with a weapon. I don't know why people do it, but that is just like people always have knives hanging on their pockets, they do it because they are wanting to feel important for whatever reason it maybe. If he seems fine with you I wouldn't worry to much about it.
littledoesfawn
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Trina....I want my ass smacked
Posted:
7/17/2008 6:32:41 AM
"THE GREAT DIVIDE"
She was reading a book she'd already read
Just to pass the time
He just sat there and starred at the TV set
Like he was barely alive
And when the local news was over
They would climb the stairs
And crawl in bed underneath the covers
Like niether one was there
CHORUS:
It's a long, long way
Across the great divide
The songs that they once sang
Now echo far and wide
They could still get back
All the love that they have lost
(But) only if they both will reach across
('Cause) it's a long, long way to the other side
Of the great divide
He was up in the attic on the fourth of July
Cuz they flew a flag in the yard
When he found some old roses she had long ago dried
Before they drifted apart
And how the years had slipped right by them
He didn't understand
He carried a petal into the kitchen
And he placed it in her hand
(Repeat chorus)
By: Tim Mcgraw
We are so young, our lives have just begun
but already, we are considering
to escape from this world
and we've waited for so long
for this moment to come
it was so anxious to be together
together in death
won't you die tonight for love
(baby, JOIN ME IN DEATH)
this world is a cruel place, and we're only to lose
before live tears us apart, let death bless me with you
...this live ain't worth living
By: Him
littledoesfawn
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engaged so soon?
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7/17/2008 5:08:01 AM
all were gloating how great everything was 2 -3 years down the road
I truely believe it's going to last as long as you try, if you feel to comfortable to quick and don't care about things it won't last. If it stays the same 5 years down the road like it was when you were first together and you both still try then I wouldn't worry to much.
Is this typical?
It all depends on how you feel for one another. If you both know it will be ok then go for it. If your not sure that you want to stay with someone then don't.
littledoesfawn
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Keeping Gifts
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7/16/2008 2:14:15 PM
I had an ex of mine keep pictures, gifts, and cards from a girl who left him 3 years ago. I had a MASSIVE problem with this, and he thought I was being totally irrational. I admit, I do keep a few pictures of 2 ex's on a memory card for my phone... I do not ever have this card in use though, I just like knowing they are there. I just believe that, out of respect, all gifts/cards/pictures should not be seen by the new g/f or b/f.
I actually had this happen to me, I love bears. One of my ex's bought two of them for me and they were on my dresser never thinking anything about it my boyfriend said it made him feel weird seeing gifts from someone else on my dresser. I said ok I won't throw them away, but I will put them up ( the ex would be my daughters sperm donor). I am keeping them for her when she gets older.
Anyway point of it all, if it bothers them/you just put them away, but if they do it intentionally then they do not care about your feelings. Although I do have a question for you, if you just like knowing that your ex's numbers are on your phone then why would you have a problem with him doing almost the same?
littledoesfawn
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i found her.
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7/16/2008 12:13:54 PM
Well you two haven't been together all that long, but the best of luck for you two!
littledoesfawn
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The sweetest guy ever!
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7/16/2008 10:59:56 AM
We need to keep our minds open to see the red flags and not let our emotions blind us as we go along on the joirney to find our special one.
I agree, but I'll be honest with you so many people try to find some red flags are not even there think it is to good to be true too. I do agree with you though to many people look back and see the flags, but did before or didn't want to.
Hope all the best to you OP. Take it slow and I'm sure things will be ok. Congrats again!
littledoesfawn
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Lets hope this one works out...
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7/16/2008 10:17:56 AM
"I mean does ANYONE truely thinkt hat they have found the love of their life in 2 days?
Not really, they just want something to believe in and there is nothing wrong with it, until they come back complaining and whinning because it didn't work out!
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Dating and Drugs
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7/16/2008 7:40:24 AM
I look at it like this if it's not his it is no big deal to flush it right? Then you don't have to deal with it being around when your child is!
littledoesfawn
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Does plenytoffish work?
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7/15/2008 11:58:34 AM
I think it works for those who want it to work. If that makes sense, if you do your profile good and your honest and actually put effort into it then yes it does. I found the man I have been looking for all along. He is the greatest guy I have been with. Those who don't put much into thier profile and don't really even want to put any effort into it then it won't work.
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