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niceguymaybe2000

Joined: 8/15/2007

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At what age do we lower our standards on dating? Posted: 2/11/2008 6:00:28 PM
Never. I'm 45 and am picky now. Sex just for sex doesnt hold much appeal. Its funny but when I was married, there were a lot of women who would make me think... boy would she make a good wife. Now that I'm separated they don't hold much appeal. I've been getting lots of interest in the real world but I'm reluctant to bother because I see traits that I dont like.

niceguymaybe2000

Joined: 8/15/2007

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MFM threesomes and sharing your wife? Posted: 1/3/2008 12:14:03 PM
I read through your post and think you may have been looking to post on Penthouse forums. Perhaps your practicing your creative writing skills, but I'm calling shenanigans. Your post was'nt just looking for advice but rather a desription sex scene and it seems you have some other agenda for posting it. Sorry if I'm wrong but thats my take.

niceguymaybe2000

Joined: 8/15/2007

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why do men that get it two to three times a day still cheat? Posted: 9/30/2007 8:46:59 AM
Any guy who is getting all he needs at home and still goes out and cheats is just a dog. Guys who are cut off or rarely get sex from their mate still shouldnt cheat but should end the relationship and move on. If I found someone who never or hardly ever said no to me I would be loyal and would try to make her life happy and devote myself to her. I just got out of a marriage where the sex was rare but I stayed loyal. Many times I would get angry and feel that I should or I had the right to cheat, however I didnt and I feel better that I didnt

niceguymaybe2000

Joined: 8/15/2007

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Hand Jobs Posted: 9/29/2007 3:09:21 PM
I'm not too keen on hand jobs. What if they get one with the same hours as yours and then you cant do your job because your hands are at work. Sooner or later you'll get fired. I dont let mine work and take them to work with me

niceguymaybe2000

Joined: 8/15/2007

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men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 3:03:07 PM
Most men like getting oral sex and if your not into it you should let him know early so he can decide whether to stay or move on. I find it funny that some women will do it while they are dating but after thay get married she stops....she is only fooling herself if she thinks he wont get it elsewhere

niceguymaybe2000

Joined: 8/15/2007

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Anal..Percieved as...??? Posted: 9/29/2007 2:56:16 PM
I knew a woman who preferred anal and she said that was the only way she orgasmed. I never got with her so wouldnt know for sure but what ever floats your boat

niceguymaybe2000

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Is this torture to a guy? Posted: 9/29/2007 2:49:46 PM
I've been there and it is torture. Woman tend to give mixed signals and saying lets sleep in the same bed but not have sex confuses the heck outta me. I end up with little or no sleep and think in the future I'll just stay on the couch

niceguymaybe2000

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Used condoms in the trash - believe she's not cheating? Posted: 9/29/2007 2:46:08 PM
I would have a hard time believing her

niceguymaybe2000

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Oral Sex Advice Posted: 9/29/2007 2:41:47 PM
Whats oral sex?

niceguymaybe2000

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What is the Biggest Turn-Off For Women... Posted: 9/29/2007 2:36:23 PM
Good thread, some pretty interesting answers

niceguymaybe2000

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womens labia (vagina lips) Posted: 9/29/2007 2:24:23 PM
Actually I am a fan of the corned beef sandwich look....I like large lips because it looks like adults sex organ. The ones that are basically just a slit with no lips remind me of a childs and is a turn off to me.

niceguymaybe2000

Joined: 8/15/2007

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Are you really ready to date? Posted: 9/17/2007 6:54:45 PM
This is something that I fight with. I find the whole concept that one is or isnt ready for a relationship only something they can answer. I see in many profiles that one must be ready for a relationship and when they ask how long I have been separated, I get told I hav'nt been separated long enough. To all those, sorry but you missed out. I am 45 (tomorrow!!!) and I think I've been around long enough to know my feelings. I wasnt ready 2 years ago when she left and I begged her to come back. She came back but with a whole bunch of conditions, in return she too made promises. I lived up to every word I said and she kept none. Everytime she came home drunk and started verbally abusing me and our son, every payday when she went out for 8 hours and spent $400 on VLTs on both Friday and Saturday and would promise to never do it again. My respect, trust and love started to evaporate every time it happened. I thought of the friends I told that I could'nt remain friends with in order to save my marriage and the volunteer position that I had to give up which afforded me free hotel, perdiem travel and my wages and also provided me with training that allows me to advance in my profession. Guess what, six months ago I had had enough. We planned our separation, My home is much happier, healthy and loving. I have started going out sociallizing and on Friday at a party I made a date on Wed (just friends) Thurs (potential and interested but she may be too high maintenance), then we went to our local watering hole and I ran into a girl from work and we danced, she gave me her cell number and we are going on a boat cruise on Sunday (as friends with potential). Then I saw this most sexy pretty asian girl and I asked her to dance, later she told me to come back next Friday and she took my number. My point is that when my feelings changed they made me examine my relationship. I held on too long because we had kids and I loved her. We had been together 18 years and the two more were a drop in the bucket but they were very educational to me. I know I can love and know that I want to be loved and am looking to have that. My marriage is over and done with and not something that I ever want to get involved with again. I wish her good luck and hopes she finds what I am looking for. It has helped me see what was important and what I seek in a relationship.

niceguymaybe2000

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Please rate my profile Posted: 8/23/2007 8:31:06 PM
Thanks for the hints, some very good suggestions.

niceguymaybe2000

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Please rate my profile Posted: 8/23/2007 8:00:11 PM
Why kidnap my thread. If you want your profile rated you should start a new thread

niceguymaybe2000

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Please rate my profile Posted: 8/23/2007 7:35:06 PM
I've been on a week now, made several amendments to my profile and would like an honest opinion. Please be straightforward and try not to flame but offer suggestions, Thank you for your time and good fishing

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