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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: so, why are you still single?  javaman-1 Joined: 4/15/2005 Msg: 1643 (view)   so, why are you still single? Posted: 4/28/2009 2:53:26 PM As I sit here alone in my house, I've been wondering about this question. I'm probably too nice of a guy, I'm probably too forgiving. I've considered becoming a real jerk, woman seem to chase the bad boys, but I want someone to accept me for who I am. I work hard, own my own home and 2 cars, I don't live in a ghetto, I have have fun when I can. I'm open minded and love women, Asian, White or Black, it doesn't matter to me. But I'm faithful, and like to date, sometimes after a couple of dinners a woman may start calling me her boyfriend, that may push me away. I enjoy the dating and courting process. I'm not in a huge hurry to jump in bed with someone. Am I wrong? What should I be doing differently?  javaman-1 Joined: 4/15/2005 Msg: 10 (view)   Can you help me? Posted: 2/23/2007 2:42:23 AM On the bottom of your profile it states the following: Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex. Must not be looking for Hang Out Must not be looking for Short-Term Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail Must not be looking for Photo Exchange Must not be looking for Other Relationship Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter Must not be looking for Activity Partner Must not do drugs Must not be married Must not smoke So basically, no one can send you a message. When they try the fish says that sorry, you don't meet the criteria. Change you're settings, remove all the filters and you'll see all the guys trying to write to you. Taking some new pictures may help too, without the kids, in the daylight.  javaman-1 Joined: 4/15/2005 Msg: 26 (view)   WHY DON'T WOMEN RESPOND!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 9/6/2005 8:04:33 PM I was thinking the same thing, and I even had my own theories such as, maybe the girls on this web site are just cheap, and don't care because no money is coming out of their pockets. Then I thought women on this site were either married or in relationships already and the profiles displayed here were just old. Then I thought maybe the profiles are fake (I have a friend who does that), or the girls here are all looking for a rich guy. Then I remembered, damn..... I'm black too!! G   Show ALL Forums