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outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

Msg: 15 (view)

signs a girl is into you Posted: 3/29/2009 9:41:06 PM
Ok Fair enough I read your rant. But do you really think that if a person acts nice at work they are a decent human being? Id say for the majority of people yes. But an exception is sociopaths on the outside appear very nice and charming (so Ive read)(and Ted Bundy was a perfect example) he was nice and charming with the ladies but mudred them as well. So you can never tell people can be very two-faced (and especially at work) If a woman did not like me at work I would rather her treat my unkindly so I could steer clear of her at work than rather her being two faced about it. At least its honest

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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signs a girl is into you Posted: 3/29/2009 8:56:05 PM
I had the same situation/dilema as you at my work. This girl was nice to me at work and I talked to her at the lunch table just to get more info. Eventually I found out she was married. So she was just being nice. People at work are different than when they are at home. They act nice and phoney somtimes just to create a good work enviroment. I would proceed with caution if you are interested in this woman

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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first date- he farts in the restaurant!! Posted: 1/6/2009 12:15:01 AM
This is ****in comedy. Its ok for a man to fart but he should be courteous and do it outside or in the washroom or in front of the campfire with his buddies, on a hunting trip, where he can do male bonding and his buddies can admire his farts and savour the aroma. There is a time and place for everything.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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You're too posh for me!!! Posted: 1/5/2009 11:50:41 PM
I would not be offended by that. Im sure he thought you were attractive. People ushaully marry and go out within their same sociall class. Example: Would a posh upperclass lady like to go out with a man who lives in a trailerpark sits around campfire and burps and farts? and makes minimum wage? Lower social class people also feel uncomfortable in posh settings like fancy resturants with waiters hovering around like segals at the dump the feal it is just not real and artificiall. Im just giving examples im not saying you exactly do that

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Shy, Need Help in how to approach women but afraid of rejection Posted: 12/2/2006 2:34:27 AM
The best way to go about aproaching women is to go with the attitude " its their loss if they reject you" Move on to other ladies who are willing to give you a chance. Mabey if your lucky the woman who originally rejected you may realize she missed out on a great catch if she sees you being succesfull with other women, and then you can reject her and give her a taste of her own medicine.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

Msg: 329 (view)

A hidden truth.. Depression... Posted: 11/19/2006 10:59:57 PM
Depresion is as comman as the comman cold. Making fun of someone, or not accepting someone with mental illness is just as bad as making fun of someone with cancer. Often depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain and the person needs meds to fix the problem; they cannot just "snap out of it" like some people tell them too. It is not the persons fault. By not accepting people with mental illness and/or making fun of them only adds to the stigma of the mentally ill being dangerous. The truth is violent crime among the mentally ill is no greater than violent crime in the general population When there is a stigma attached to the mentally ill, many people who need help, will refuse to take meds or see a psychiatrist because they do not want to be labeled as "crazy" so you see it only adds to the problem. Society today is becoming more tolerant of many things, but mental illness is one of the last barriers of stigma which needs to be broken

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Men's fashion magazines. Posted: 9/21/2006 10:45:12 PM
Guys who read fashion magazines are fruits and fairys. Read somthing manly for christs sake like off road magazine or a hunting or outdoors magazine. Im not saying a man should be unconcerned about what he wears but a fashion mag? Sounds a little too fruity

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Women Writing to Men First? Posted: 9/21/2006 10:28:02 PM
I personally like it when a women writes me first. I get about 3 replies to my profile a month with women writing me first. (I wish I would get more) I almost always write back unless they are totally unsuitable for me. I used to write women first but I dont anymore because the majority of them would not write me back, mabey because I am not that great at introductions. In todays society women are always complaining how they want to be seen as equal to men they should start acting like it and write to men they are interested in. Instead of acting like little girls waiting for their prince charming

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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How Do I Tell Him? Posted: 9/21/2006 10:18:22 PM
If I was that guy I would want to here the honest truth so I could move on to the next female and not waste my time in someone who is not interested in me. There are plentyoffish in the sea and most men are man enough to take any form of rejection a female throws at them

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Tom Boy's, a Plus or a Minus in Men's Books? Posted: 5/9/2006 9:58:13 PM
I happen to like tom boys because they will have the same intrests as me and we can strike up a conversation I still like a women to look somewhat femanine No she-male bodybuilders for example

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Why do I look good in mirror but not pictures? Posted: 5/9/2006 9:52:40 PM
Spent It all has to do with the lighting and angle. I have had some horrible pics of myself and some good ones so you are not alone. Alot of photos you see of people ie models are profesionally done with lighting and makeup and all that bull sh#T They dont look as good in real life

outdoorguy28

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Supreme Court overturns ban on Sikh dagger. Religion, rights or safety? Posted: 3/15/2006 11:22:20 PM
I am very against Sihks wearing cerimonial dagers in our country and especially in our schools. They imigrate to our country and we welcome them with open arms. They should at least abide by our own laws and customs. Let them wear their daggers in there own country. If they are allowed to wear daggers in our schools I am going to form my own damm religion and say that I "need to carry a gun for religious purposes" That way I can defend myself from all those crazy Sihks with daggers

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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I think I may be Shy and Afraid of Rejection. What can I do about this? Posted: 3/15/2006 11:00:21 PM
luckyirishboy I used to have the same problem but now I am over it. The best thing to do is to get some self esteme and go with the attitude "its a womens loss" if she does not whant to go out with you and move on to the next one. Even the super stud muffins get shot down

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Breaking out of being a wuss and winning her back: HOW?! Posted: 3/15/2006 10:53:52 PM
Jarbarian The best thing to do is to forget about her and start dating other women and start acting confident. When she sees that you are dating other women she might just get jealous and realize what a great guy she had, and lost.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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I really don't understand women (Warning.... rant to follow) Posted: 1/13/2006 11:50:04 PM
Lonewolf 3 emails in a month from females is pretty darn good I would not be complaining about it. I only get one or two a month. Look at the favorites lists it is rare for guys to get 20 plus on their favorites list (even the good looking ones) The simple answer is that most women are afraid to email men first and expect men to do all the work

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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advice for men who mass email every women on pof in their area Posted: 1/13/2006 11:44:00 PM
Personally I dont think its a big deal. Some men are just not good at introductions (including me) Deep down they are probably decent guys and if females emailed them back they would find this out. A man should mention a few things what interested him about a womens profile (this way she would know that it is not a generic email sent to hundreds of others) but I have come across many profiles of beautiful women who just put their photo up with a one liner how the f#ck is a guy supposed to come up with a conversation with somthing like that? It shows they are rellying more on their beauty more than their brains and its sad that they appear on 100 plus favorite lists of guys that are trying to get in her pants. I steer away from those bimbo profiles.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Was thinking of getting a tattoo on my face. Posted: 12/12/2005 10:00:24 PM
I can see geting a tattoo on a hidden location like your back or shoulder. But I dont really think its a good idea to get one on a location like your face where everybody sees it. Think about your future. A lot of employers will not hire you if you have a visiable tattoo. I guess it really depends who you work for

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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what is the most kick a$$ pair of shoes a guy can have Posted: 12/12/2005 9:45:47 PM
I like a work shoe with a good steel toe it hurts more when you kick someone in the nuts. Might be usefull if someone trys to mug or attack you when you are out for a nite on the town

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Choice - a person who smokes 2 pks of cigarettes/day or a non smoker who smokes 1 joint a week Posted: 12/12/2005 9:31:25 PM
1 joint has 10 times the amount of tar than a cigarette I smoked them when I was at partys and coughed liked crazy weeks after now I dont even touch the stuff

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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I know i am one - but women so annoy me! Posted: 12/12/2005 9:18:19 PM
I agree with the original post on this thread. Women who put up sugestive pictures of themselves without writing much in their profile are begging to be used. I stear clear of those types of profiles it shows that she is relying more on her t#ts and a#S more than her brains.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

Msg: 35 (view)

whats the best way in a mans head to show a women he is interested??? Posted: 12/2/2005 6:28:58 PM
one of the best ways to romance a woman and show your interested is to take her to an all you can eat chinese food smorgasborg

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Self-destructing... Posted: 12/2/2005 6:14:12 PM
I cut myself a couple of times when I was a teenager but myself and others dont consider me crazy. Contrary to belief i did not do it "to get attention" rather it was a number of issues mostly anger and depession from the physicall abuse i endured. I think getting on medication is the best thing for this type of problem and people should not be ashamed to do this or go see a psyciatrist. Mental illness is as comman as the comman cold and it is the people who make fun of people with mental problems and label them "crazy" who are the ones who should be ashamed of themselves as they add a stigma to the mentaly ill wich cannot be broken, and when there is this stigma people will refuse to get help because they are afraid of what others will think of them.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Is it possible that girls are intimidated by me? Posted: 12/2/2005 5:39:52 PM
Furthermore Just because a guy looks like a calvin klein underwear model does not mean he is "perfect" what about the qualities on the inside? To much emphasis in todays society is placed on how we look. Instead it should be on how we act and how we treat others. Examples of this are courage, kindness, honesty and especially not boasting. Let other people tell you your qualities yes but do not emphasize these qualites yourself

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Is it possible that girls are intimidated by me? Posted: 12/2/2005 5:11:06 PM
Your problem is your proud peacock attitude. Tone it down a bit and women will be more attracted to you you dont have to say you are "perfect" or are "good looking" just go about your business and let your photo and abilities speak for themselves

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Guys, what gives? Posted: 11/1/2005 6:59:29 PM
Ive written long thoughtfull interesting messeges to females and still get ignored. Alot of times a beautiful womens profile just has her picture up and one sentence. How the F#ck is a guy supposed to write an interesting messege when there is not much to comment in a womens profile? Personally I dont write to those profiles with little info about a women she is relying more on her beauty than her brains. Your dammed if you do write a long well thought out messege and damned if you dont. Its no wonder men write simple generic messeges if one women ignores them, to hell with her and move on to the next one. The more lines you throw out the more fish you are going to catch. If women were not so stupid and responded to simple messeges they would eventually find interesting and funny guys who wrote them (who just couldnot find the write things to say when introducing themselves)

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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When looking for someone, is height important to you? Posted: 10/24/2005 10:05:08 PM
I would like a woman to be shorter than me. I dont think women who are taller than me would go out with me as well. I am 6 foot

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

Msg: 57 (view)

Who is the greatest soldier of all time? Posted: 10/14/2005 10:13:27 PM
yes I think they did OTB

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Who is the greatest soldier of all time? Posted: 10/14/2005 8:40:10 PM
You forgot Hanible of Carthage He led is troops over the alps, to attack the Romans and won the battle of Canae (wich is was the biggest milatary massacre in history) I dont know the exact number but I think it was 60 000 Romans dead, and the Carthaginians had a much smaller force

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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to Tan or not to Tan Posted: 10/14/2005 8:09:34 PM
You will regret it later in life and get skin cancer if you tan. A big white hairy ass may be unpleasent to look at but I will take that over skin cancer any day

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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should i join canadian military Posted: 10/14/2005 8:03:25 PM
Well my brother is in the reserves and he said the basic training is the hardest thing he is ever done in his life, so good luck Rambo

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

Alien abduction Posted: 10/14/2005 7:57:05 PM
I hope I am never abducted dont whant to be anal probed by ET with the extratesticle

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Cutting Posted: 10/14/2005 7:50:41 PM
I was depressed as a teenanger and cut myself a few times then I stoped because I got more self esteem Basicly it was a combination of factors built up anger, low self esteem. Once you start doing it it is hard to stop, it is an adreneline rush like getting a tatoo. It may solve your problems temporarily but not in the long run. Getting on medication helps big time. Although I and others have done this type of thing I dont consider them crazy, they are just going through a period of stress

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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hateful emails Posted: 10/14/2005 7:39:15 PM
bambi 75 Ushually if someone goes out of their way to insult you by email they are jealous or they see somthing they dont like in themselves, Psycologists call it projection. If you realy were an ugly crackhead would they really spend the time to write you a hatefull email?

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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The Worst Job you ever had? Posted: 10/14/2005 7:34:29 PM
One of the worst jobs I had was cleaning SH#ters, Sh#T and Piss all over the place dirty tampons all for 8$ an hour and no raise for 4 years. Thank goodness I dont do that anymore

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

Msg: 33 (view)

Public humiliation at work. Should it be allowed? Posted: 10/14/2005 4:25:30 PM
I have been humiliated at work and it sould not be allowed. Private conversations and how to fix the problem are the way to go. A job is a service you provide the employer and get paid, they dont own you or can treat you like a slave and swear and demean you. If I guy walks into a resturant for a meal (technically speaking he is their employer because he is paying for a service, the meal) if he starts swearing, acts inappropriately or is not dressed suitably, the resturant can refuse him service, it should be the same on regular jobs. If an employer does not act profesional with me or humilates me in any way I am out of there imediately and I dont even give my weeks notice.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Should emails be really that long? Posted: 10/14/2005 12:31:08 PM
Yes emails should breif (the first ones you send) but unfortunately most women cant accept that. They should say they liked her profile, mention somthing they like about their profile (to show that they read it) and then they should chat and the woman can look over a mans profile for a better description. I got tired of writing long well thought out emails with photos to woman and still getting ignored. You are dammed if you do write a long message and dammed if you dont.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

Msg: 55 (view)

Web Cams Posted: 10/12/2005 10:07:11 PM
I personally like web cams because if someone says somthing I dont like I can moon them with my big hairy ass

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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have a piece o #$it car,big deal? Posted: 10/12/2005 9:08:50 PM
Women should not make a fuss over a man driving a piece of shit car at least they can have fun when he decides to get rid of it by rolling it of a cliff on their first date, thats what I would do, and bye the way has anybody heard "the piece of shit car by adam sandler" its hilarious, reminds me of my old car

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Shy guys? Posted: 10/12/2005 9:01:16 PM
Crazy Artist and dalmu chica Well said I am shy and I know shy people and they are very interesting. They should be given a chance

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Having No FEAR,,is it a bad thing or a good thing?? Posted: 10/12/2005 5:46:21 PM
Kuddlebum having a degree of fear is psychologically healthy. Having no fear at all is not.. In my younger years I was near fearless and it led me into trouble. Psycologists say that if you face your fears over and over again you become more confident and less afraid. Thats why its important for us to face fears. As for Men there is no super fearles superstud of the world. Men and women are afraid of different things I myself dont like snakes yet I saw a little girl pick one up the other day, spiders, heights and the dark I am not afraid of, but to other people these might be terrifying

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Are people not concerned about how they come across to others? Posted: 10/12/2005 5:36:06 PM
Callendargirl I would not worry about it to much, I cant spell worth sh#t, yet I have finished university and have got two degrees, and I know people in the same boat as me. There are many forms of intelligence and just because someone cant spell does not make them an idiot. On IQ tests some people do better on the math, some on the visual spatial, and some on the spelling, we are all different

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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why do us men have to approach you women Posted: 10/12/2005 5:28:36 PM
I never aproach women and I dont write them first on the net anymore (I just got plain tired of writing those long well thought out, nice emails, with photos) If a women aproaches me I will talk to her anyday and I am usually flatered. Women always complain in todays society they what to be seen as equals with men, well start acting like it and aproach guys you are interested in. Im like the inuit hunter who waits hours by a hole in the ice for his seal to come up. Im used to it by now and I will wait my whole life for the right one to come along

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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Men posing with cars Posted: 10/12/2005 4:58:59 PM
yes its sad that some men do that, and think it will make them a better person. I myself dont do that and I dont give a SH#t what kind of vehicles people drive, as long as they run. If a women whanted me for the nice car I drive I would have nothing to do with her

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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SPORTS THAT WERE NOT MEANT TO BE PLAYED BY WOMEN. Posted: 10/12/2005 1:45:00 PM
Well racechick The last time I broke my colar bone I did not notice it untill after the game. And I think it would take a Sumo women to break my colarbone and then she would have to be fast enough to catch me. I dont see to many of those women around.

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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SPORTS THAT WERE NOT MEANT TO BE PLAYED BY WOMEN. Posted: 10/12/2005 2:27:25 AM
amust2c Fine, women can play any sports they want. But next time I am playing rugby and there is a women on the feild I will tackle her as hard as I can and break her colar bone (just as I would do to anybody else), and she better not B#tch and complain about it

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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scents Posted: 10/11/2005 12:10:43 AM
Guys who wear calogne are fruits and fairys, they should be given a bra and a pink pair of panties to wear as well. Plain deoderant and a shower is all that is needed, there is no need to wear "whore lure" Personally I dont like a women to wear perfume either, sometimes I can hardly breath when a women drenches herself in it

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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what is with guys that sit around at the gym and socialize? Posted: 10/10/2005 11:50:12 PM
yes and they will socialize even more if there is a good looking woman around and not workout. These types of men should be given a bra and a pair of pink panties to wear. When I go to the gym its all business no chit chat. leave the gym for the true warriors who whant to train hard

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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SPORTS THAT WERE NOT MEANT TO BE PLAYED BY WOMEN. Posted: 10/10/2005 11:45:47 PM
the only sports women should do are figure skating and syncronized swimming and gymnastics leave all the ruff stuff to the men

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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girls bragging about having sex in different places. Posted: 10/10/2005 11:29:41 PM
I didnt say having sex in different places is wrong I said talking about having sex in different places is wrong. Peoples sex lives should be kept private

outdoorguy28

Joined: 4/16/2005

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girls bragging about having sex in different places. Posted: 10/10/2005 8:52:42 PM
the only girls that talk about having sex in different places are whores

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