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this kind of profile is allowed!??? Posted: 10/31/2005 3:23:40 AM
lol apparently not yet:P dont ask me to count cause i couldnt tell you...i log in bout 2-3 times a week depends on how i am feeling

Joined: 4/16/2005

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this kind of profile is allowed!??? Posted: 10/28/2005 12:33:26 PM
nope clicked contact user and no such thing oh well...before i deleted and remade a profile i know there used to be a place in here where i could put bad profiles etc...shrugs age must be getting to me:P

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this kind of profile is allowed!??? Posted: 10/28/2005 12:30:51 PM
heh ya i logged into my mail and then went to thier profile...i have been with this site for over a year, used to be under a different name, but thanks to umm trouble with someone i met on here who (long story nvm lol) i made a new one...guess i could try contact user button then see what shows up?

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this kind of profile is allowed!??? Posted: 10/27/2005 8:03:08 PM
i logged in to my mail then went to profile and there is no report user feature....

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this kind of profile is allowed!??? Posted: 10/27/2005 2:19:44 PM
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member181386.htm its really quite unsettling...and prolly (i hope) just to scare people

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waco and surrending areas Posted: 6/27/2005 1:54:03 PM
ya i ask the same question...course the first one i met from waco well the story is in dating experiences under define games, makes one kinda skittish bout others...

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Fun One Liners Posted: 6/27/2005 12:28:58 PM
Its not premartial sex if you have no intention of getting married-Author Unknown

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What do you attract? Posted: 6/27/2005 12:26:07 PM
worthless, abusive, immature, possessive, drunken, lazy no good usually....either all or one of the former

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new name, old member, not much to say Posted: 6/27/2005 12:24:29 PM
New profile, not much in it, not even a pic no more, would love to talk again to those i used to speak to here, but sadly i dated someone from here, and now they tend to make fake profiles trying to find me, even though they are with someone else he still doesnt like me being on here as "i might date someone else" as if, heh no thanks he done got me so skittish im half afraid to reply to anyone for fear he did another fake profile, but i would like to say i am back, and hello to silken, indeepshitnow, excalibur and a few others:) everyone will know me again when i feel like jerk is finally ready to leave me alone on here

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Guys do you think Marriage is worth it? Posted: 6/27/2005 11:56:28 AM
Meh, been there done the marriage thing, imho as it stands right now, its just a piece of paper to give someone the legal right to your last name(as a guy) and half of everything you own, etc etc, the relationship can be just as good without that little piece of paper, sometime in the future i might change my mind, but right now no, what do i need that piece of paper for? and yes i am female

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Age and Reactions to Relationships Posted: 6/27/2005 11:53:18 AM
It has been my experience that age doesnt mean maturity, I dated a 30 yr old who was meh half and half, and then i dated a 29 yr old who was very immature and very very childish including throwing temper tantrums, and then ive hung with a few 19-22 yr olds as friends who act way more mature then someone my own age or older

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Rules for women Posted: 6/27/2005 11:11:53 AM
Interesting, if i ever get with someone again ill remember that

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Wanting to go out but nobody to go out with... is this you? Posted: 6/27/2005 11:03:14 AM
hmm sounds like me, always in a tiny town and everyone else who wants to go out lives like 200+ miles away....fun fun WEE!

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Define Games Posted: 6/27/2005 10:22:20 AM
Games hmm, i think i will add something here instead of starting a new post. Twice i have dated someone from this site, and twice i have been what i feel as messed over or whatever you want to call it. First Guy- He is actually a nice guy but no wheres near ready for a relationship or anything close to that. We went out together a lot, always had a good time. We became involved in a way, then one day a ex of his contacts him, a girl who had cheated on him and that he had deep feelings for once. I tried to help him as a friend when he told me he was thinking of trying it with her again. Warned him she done it once she would do it again, he didn't need to deal with it again. Well she just split up with a guy she had been with, and was supposed to come get the guy i was seeing, but then she got supposedly "cold feet" and then turns around a cpl days later and decides she is going to do it. He agrees to go back to the state she is from with her, possibly try being living with her. Him and I did have a agreement between us, and I figured he just needed closure with her. We wasn't totally commited but in a way we was (sorry its kinda hard to explain). On the day they are leaving, he stops by my house with HER has her park in front of the neighbors house so her and i could not see each other, and speaks to me to tell me goodbye etc, then he hugs and kisses me before he leaves...Needless to say i had fallen for this guy pretty bad, i was very hurt, but knew it was not the time to tell him i wanted him to get closure before i tried opening myself to him, he goes with her. Few days later he calls and he is coming back home, very hurt and very disappointed, i asked him a question cause i needed to know and he told me the answer was yes, which hurt me even more cause of the agreement we had. He didn't make it clear it was over between him and i so i wasn't expecting him to do what he did. But anyways he came back and we kept in contact, and then i had to move to another state i was left no choice, so a cpl days before i leave we see each other and i try to explain how i feel. I cried on the two hour drive home cause i would have still been with him if he had asked me to stay. i would have found a way to stay. It isnt till after i move and a cpl months later he tells me he believe he loves me too. Well wow ok, but he wouldnt come here to me, and i had no way to afford to go back to him. So i tell him whats going on with me and stuff and eventually we arent even speaking to each other it just kinda drifted away. Second Guy- After the first one i changed my profile on here, i was hurt and didnt feel i needed to look for a relationship being on the rebound. Stated i was looking for casual dating, no relationship/commitment, no love, just friendship. Well i am contacted by someone and we have a lot of laughs and i tell him bout myself. He states "You are so made for me" and i kinda laughed and said shame cause i aint looking for a relationship. He said he could handle friends and casual dating. So we agree to meet. Well first night he is here, he brings over the stars dvd set, but wants to cuddle while watching it..(on first meeting?)...My mom and all the rest settle down to watch it, He is rubbing my back constantly, wanting to hold my hand and caress my hand, wanting to pull me constantly into his side. My mom is kinda looking like "Little overly friendly isnt he on a first date?" (Mind you i am 33 and yes live with my mom as neither of us can afford to live on our own) Well the evening ends we say goodbye and he wants a kiss(???again first time seeing each other) and i dont mean just a casual peck. After seeing me a few times within the first two weeks he writes me a note and words it so the first letter of each paragraph spells out "I love you"..OK its only been two weeks and he claims to feel that way. I was very upfront with him from the beginning, telling i didnt want more then friends and casual dating, to not ask for love or anything. he says thats ok he doesnt expect me to tell him i love him back etc etc. Well everytime he came over, he wanted to constantly pull me away from my son and everyone else, (neither of us could afford to go out all the time so he came to my house a lot) but he always wanted to be outside and got upset if my son came outside too or someone else wanted to be outside. He wanted to be totally alone with me, and then he wanted to constantly kiss me, my mouth would get so sore from him constantly wanting to, he always wanted to pull me right up next to him. If i got up and stood away from him he would grab and pull me back. If we was inside, He would follow me to the kitchen, to my moms room, etc im surprised now he didnt follow me to the bathroom. I never said anything for wanting to be nice and not hurt anyone. At first it didnt bother me too much i just kinda tried to ignore it. I liked him ok, he was nice enough, there was times i might need to run to town while he was herre, and he wanted to take me, course he didnt like it all if i wanted to take my son and get him out of my moms hair being as she watched him all the time when im at work and stuff. He would say he wanted to be alone with me, and he couldnt do that if my son was around. Well eventually i decide i need a room mate, i am struggling to pay my car and make rent and everything. Well he says he can do that and i wouldnt have to give my room up for a room mate that he would take the living room. Thats all it was supposed to be is room mates and i made that very clear and he said that was fine. I had got me another bed cause the one i had was falling apart. Well he decides since i have a full size bed(ya i had made the mistake of sleeping with him a cpl times) that he can sleep with me all the time and share my room....And said he loves me and couldnt handle sleeping apart from me etc. To keep the peace in the household i let it go, not happy with whats going on, but once again sealing my mouth to try and not hurt. I worked very hard in my nursing home job, would be up all day and didnt get off work till 11pm and still had things to do around the house during the day or after i got home. He wanted to get me a promise ring (why? he said it didnt mean commitment just he wanted to promise hisself to me????) so he went and got it, with regret i wore it just to keep him happy (there is way more then i want to write here that goes alot deeper) Well sometimes i was just dog gone tired when i got home, by the time i would take my shower after work and get relaxed and do what i had to do, i just wanted to sleep. He would have a fit literally (crying, stomping around etc) if i didnt want to have sex...I didnt want him waking my family up by doing all the temper tantrum stuff. So i would say fine lets get it over with. He told me he couldnt go to sleep at night if he didnt get off, and if i didnt want sex could i at least talk dirty to him so he could masturebate and could he fondle me while he did....from the beginning he also threw fits if i would sit next to my son instead of him. The arguments started growin cause of me not always wanting him on top of me or want to constantly cuddle etc. I started going to my moms room and shutting the door telling her how i felt and i didnt know how much longer i could try and deal with it without hurting him..Cause the last thing i wanted to do was hurt someone i had been there done that, so i tried to not hurt someone like i had been hurt by someone loving me and not returning the feeling (like what happened to me). After i would get done talking to my mom, he wanted to know what we talked about and i told him it was a private conversation that he had no right to know. He then asked if we discussed him and i was honest and said some of the convo was about you. He then would say i HAD to tell him cause otherwise i was talking behind his back and that wasnt right. Still refused to tell him. Then the temper tantrum over not telling him would start. It got to where my family was being driven crazy. My mom and i would need to go grocery shopping, or pay bills, well he just thought it was wrong if he couldnt go! Start throwing a fit cause he wanted to get out of the house (mind you he got out of the house often and my mom rarely left the house). HE would throw fits if i wanted to take my son. He was jealous over a cat i had who like a puppy would sleep with me or follow me into the other room. Throw fits over me not sitting with him constantly. If i was on the computer he wanted to read over my shoulder, he just didnt think he should go do his own thing while i did mine. My family was growing tired of the arguments. He never did pay his half of the bills while he was here. When i would wake up he would do his best to keep me in the bedroom with him with the door locked for a hour or two before going out of the room. Im sure you can guess for what. Then he was still wanting to constantly pull me off somewheres to be alone, and would keep me awake till 3-4 in the morning. yet all the that time he didnt consider it 'alone time" he said it didnt count. He would call my cell all the time when i wasnt with him wanting to know when i was going to be home. Then he started in sometime during all this mess how he wanted a baby and wanted me to get pregnant. I told him i didnt want another child and wasnt financially settled enough to have a child. He said well a baby might bring us closer and deepen a bond between us. I said no, i dont want another , the one i had is enough. He starts fussing saying how it might be his last chance to have one(he is only 29, last chance? wtf!) and that since he doesnt have his first daughter(he he gave to his aunt cause supposedly he couldnt raise her by hisself) he wants to try for another child. well thats ok but not with me. I also have a condition that makes me getting pregnant a blue moon event. Well i started having some serious cramping in febuary, and spotting which was worse after sex etc, and he kept saying your pregnant, and i said ya how do you know and he claims he dreamed it...ya ok whatever...well the pregnancy part came true and he is thrilled. Course my family is ticked off. Well my mom gets very sick and ends up in the hospital. I plan to go see her one day and he keeps me up almost all night over bs. partly cause there couldnt be no sex cause i was at risk for miscarriage. Doctors orders. So he tells me to go see my mom while he is at work so i can be home when he gets off and i told him i couldnt make that hour drive there and spend most of the day with her and then drive back without sleep. So he is kinda ticked im not going to be there when he gets home. I leave shortly before he comes home, and i get to the hospital and my mom is feeling lonely and a little stressed. So i call my brother and tell him that im going to stay the night with mom to pass the message on. he calls when he got home and says "you wasnt going to tell me yourself you planned to stay there?" like uh my brother told you, do i need to call and tell you AGAIN....well its a good thing being as gas is expensive that i stayed there cause they released her the next day. When we get home he pulls me to side and said since he feels unwanted he is moving out blah blah. OK well i spoke to my brother privcate and found out he had thrown a fit cause i wanted to stay with my mom. He was moving out that day without paying his half of the bills again cause he was angry i stayed with my mom instead of being by his side where he thought i should be. So now we arent together and within two months he has a new gf..I kinda laughed cause i knew that he didnt truly love me, not if he found someone that quick..told me this person had been in his life for the last year and a half as a friend(he is 29 and she is 18? and she is in his life?????) so ok good im glad he is out of my hair for sure. But he wants custody when i have the baby, cause he says he has no one and i have my son. BS he has his daughter who he never acts like a father too, he has paperwork declaring he can see his daughter any time he wants he just doesnt unless it benefits him. I think part of it is also he doesnt want to pay child support or whatever else Texas does i hear they charge the medicaid bills also to the absent parent. AND he wants it to be a boy and has been nagging me to name it after him cause its a 'tradition' . Uh Uh made that mistake of naming my son after his father wont do it again. Honestly i think thats what he has wanted all along, to get someone pregnant cause he wants a boy to prove he is a man. So now im pregnant and he doesnt do anything at all to help me with anything, im on medical leave cause i was still having problems with threathened miscarriage and my landlord wants to kick us out cause there is no way to pay rent ( my mom cant work, she has surgeries and is trying to get ssi and keeps staying sick) and the only thing the man offers me is to take me to a doctors appt if i need to go... I know some of you will come back with negative feedback on my part and some wont, but thats ok:) Oh ya another thing, after he moved out he somehow got into my email and started watchng to see if i was getting emails from guys and did i haev a profile on here etc. I did have one but he put in a fake profile as a female looking for friends etc. Funny that profile isnt here...Cause i checked and tis gone after he admitted he had been in my email. So now i dont even post who i truly am and put in a fake location etc...cause he tracks me on here if i put who i truly am, and it makes me very skittish to even respond to anyone for fear he has wrote me with a fake profile...There are several on here who would remember me if i told my original profile name, but i wont. As he cant be trusted. Luckily he dont read the forums. But it is a shame he basically stalks me on here and i cant even hardly look for friends without him reply with a fake profile, when he doesnt have any right to me anymore.

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