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 Author Thread: Is this guy a slow mover or just not interested?
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Is this guy a slow mover or just not interested?
Posted: 10/7/2007 6:56:09 AM
I dated someone similar to him last year, always kept telling me he was busy... so i dropped him, when i found out he was lining women up like bowling pins.

Why do men do that?
maybe its me?
i only date one person at a time.
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 158 (view)
 
Bald v shaven heads - and is bald beautiful?
Posted: 10/7/2007 6:27:47 AM
I dont mind bald men as long as i dont have to date one lol

sorry guys but i find it a definate turn off, i like a guy with hair.

if i dated a bald guy and brought him home, they would ask me what prison he broke out of!
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Coping with christmas alone
Posted: 10/7/2007 6:18:59 AM
guess your chritmas present is a puncture repair kit then lol
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
NEED ADVICE :women...dating..f*ck friends
Posted: 10/7/2007 4:09:19 AM
hmmm was she actually your girl or just a friend?

Women have changed over the years, they are more free to do what they want, when they want, with whom they want.

Technically if shes just someone you are getting to know, then she can do what she wants? But i would have said ive gone to visit a friend not gone into details.

If its more, then sorry mate, she's clearly anybodies.
I would cut ties and get a nice girl.
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Making life complicated
Posted: 10/7/2007 4:01:02 AM
I think she might have thought he is overbearing, a lot of guys out there still think their cavemen, and women have to be controlled.

after a while you can feel like your suffocating.
thats what communication is for guys, so before you push her to the brink of ditching you try talking to her.
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Oh well I tried POF. Time to go
Posted: 10/6/2007 2:18:19 AM
sorry money man

there are many serious women on here, its men like you that let us down.

why not start looking for a friend first, then you might realise what a serious woman is.


and they wonder why there are so many single women out there!!!
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
am I ever going to be able to trust agian, after him?
Posted: 10/6/2007 2:13:56 AM
I am sorry to hear about your experience but i think most of the women on the net have gone through it, including me.

You do get over it in time, and you learn to spot the creeps, and you always leave a part of you that doesnt get involved. I can know tell when a blokes just after sex and messing with my head.

believe in yourself and trust your instincts, alarm bells dont ring in your head for nothing.

regards
xiod
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
The difference on how you meet people.
Posted: 10/6/2007 2:07:07 AM
i have dated both, there really is not much difference.

Although my late partner (god bless him) i met via the internet.

All men bulls**t and lie, whether they on the net or real life!
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 160 (view)
 
would you date a nice guy if hes had very little money
Posted: 10/5/2007 11:44:33 AM
i would rather date a guy who was normal down to earth, no assetts etc
than someone who was loaded and would keep reminding me about the fact everyday.

if a guy picks the right women, dates dont have to cost and arm and a leg.

Just my opionion but i think compatibility is more an issue than the size of his wallet.
Although most of us would like a bit more money to live on, my dad taught me one thing " money does not bring you happiness".
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 182 (view)
 
Marriage vs. Living Together - your views and why?
Posted: 10/4/2007 6:34:39 AM
I have been married, and lived with someone.

i am in favour of living together, people tend to change once they get married, and once in that contract its hard and costly to get out of.

I think there are still a lot of guys out there, that are scared stiff of marriage, i would still get a pre-nup whether i was getting married (which i will never do again lol) or living with someone.

But depends on the couple, in Uk if one partner is paying maintenance to an ex wife for his kids, if he remarries that becomes the responsibility of the new wife as well, my view is I dont have any kids so why should i have to pay for someone elses.
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 946 (view)
 
What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 10/2/2007 7:09:49 AM
You sure hes not an online dating scammer, ive had a few of them, but saw through them before any harm was done.

I dated someone last year, who was a b*****d just going with me till something better came along, well it backfired, as soon as i found out what his game was i did a disappearing act, god help any women whos with him know.

Some men of a certain age get a kick out of having a string of women following them. Do they think it makes them more desireable?
you have to remember guys if you want to do that, you have to be a good liar to get away with it.

P.S I dont have an empty mail box because im married, probably because i speak my mind, and as they say truth hurts lol
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
had an interesting conversation about dating those with and without children
Posted: 10/1/2007 11:50:50 AM
Well i have dated guys with kids, and guys without.

I personally prefer guys without kids, then you know hes interested in you and not looking for a mother for his kids.

And also you dont constantly get your plans ruined ( having to arrange days off etc) only to be told its cancelled cause he has to see the kids etc.
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 367 (view)
 
Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted: 10/1/2007 4:20:57 AM
Men dont look at age restrictions in profiles, i have one in mine but i still get mail from men 57 plus!
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
insults and control and projection
Posted: 10/1/2007 4:17:09 AM
Hi there,

I suppose i fit two of the categories im no spring chicken anymore, and im hardly a stick of asparagus, I got a lot of abuse off this site, so i left and i have come back so far touch wood no insults but its early days lol

I did what most people do get upset, feel disgusted with myself etc, but know i stand up to them and give as good as i get, which they don't expect, everyone has a right to live on this planet, no matter what shape they are, i am 6"3 so i am hardly a space hopper on legs, and i don't consider myself to be old and past it just yet.

My motto is " take me as i am, or not at all".
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 250 (view)
 
Used for sex?
Posted: 10/1/2007 4:07:35 AM
hiya,

sure were in an age when two adults can decide if they do and do not want to have sex.
I like to get to know someone first, that way i can tell what hes after, and i would rather not be a notch on his bedpost.

We got the vote so we could make our own judgements, and NO man on this earth will make me do something i don't want to, and if he don't like it he knows where the door is.
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 639 (view)
 
Why men don't date strong women...
Posted: 9/30/2007 4:03:26 AM
I am sorry but i have just read your post and i am not having this lol

I am an intelligent, strong willed woman, im also passionate and romantic.

Truth of the matter is men are scared of intelligent woman because they think we will make them look a t**ts, and they are scared stiff of strong women because they feel intimidated.

If there were more guys out there who were not s.o.d.s (serial online dating scammers) then us women would not have to be so strong, and we would not have to build defences against us getting hurt.

So come on guys its a two way street, some of us women are fiery passionate and sexy as well as strong, and that should be a turn on for you guys, not a turn-off.

So come on guys put your money where your mouth is prove your not scared of me!
No messages from mommies please lol
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Why do women want men their own age?
Posted: 9/19/2007 7:43:16 AM
well i would go the other way i prefer guys that are younger than myself, we tend to have more in common that way.
 xiod
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Going back to school in your 30's....
Posted: 8/24/2007 1:15:55 PM
is anyone finding like i am, that men do no like brainy women!

and i have just gone back to college and im in my 40's.

 
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