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Thread: What the color of your eyes say about you!
greeneyedgirl-is-back
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What the color of your eyes say about you!
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9/13/2008 8:51:00 PM
Hmmmm....everyone GUESS what color my eyes are? lol
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~The Outside Corner - Hilliard ~ SUNDAY Oct. 5th ~ Pool & Karaoke~!!
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9/13/2008 8:49:41 PM
Hi Cat!!!! Boy I have not seen you guys in forever!! Debi...yeah! what happened to the slumber party?
CANT WAIT!!!
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~The Outside Corner - Hilliard ~ SUNDAY Oct. 5th ~ Pool & Karaoke~!!
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9/12/2008 7:25:30 AM
Nikki is going to be there too?? Double YAY!! Ok where is the Lone Stranger?
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~The Outside Corner - Hilliard ~ SUNDAY Oct. 5th ~ Pool & Karaoke~!!
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9/12/2008 7:24:29 AM
I AM SOOOO THERE!!! Its GREAT the Sunday night thing is once again happening!!
YAY!!! and all the Debs are gonna be there too!! WOO HOO and my Kristie!!
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Second Annual Family Labor Day Picnic at Homestead Park
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7/23/2008 10:40:43 AM
I will be there! Possibly with my son! YAY!!!
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COME ONE COME ALL TO THE 3RD ANNUAL BONFIRE IN THE COUNTRY
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7/23/2008 10:34:16 AM
Hi Frank!!
Since I am officially "back-on-the-market" and able to once again advertise....
I think this may be one I am interested in attending if I can hitch a ride with someone...
~Anna
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~LUCKYS POOL & KARAOKE 4:30PM TIL YOU'RE DONE~
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4/13/2008 3:47:18 PM
Hey Debbie~
Were you able to find someone with Karaoke Equipment?
Just curious. As soon as school is out (Early June) I will definitely be attending
Miss Y'all!!!
Anna
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~LUCKYS POOL & KARAOKE 4:30PM TIL YOU'RE DONE~
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****UPDATE ON KRISTIE****
I spoke with Bruce a few hours ago, and it seems Kristie's surgery went OK. If everything continues to go well, she may get to go home tomorrow.
Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers, y'all!
Anna
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Do you have a poem to share with the rest of us? Post it here
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3/25/2008 4:48:06 PM
I wrote this one a long time ago, but it seems to still be true!!!
I Could….
I could tell you a story but you don’t care to hear,
I could cry on your shoulder, but you wont let me near
I could tell you about triumph, but you just turn away,
I could show you the night, but you only see the day,
I could convince you of heaven, but you would rather live in hell
I could show you friendship, but you don’t know me that well
I could show you the sun, but you prefer the rain,
I could tell you youre crazy, while you argue that youre sane
I could sing you a song, but you are deaf to my melody
I could show you my eyes, but you are too blind to see me
I could show you the flowers, but you’d rather roll in the weeds,
I could write you another letter, that you wont bother to read
I could show you my loyalty, but you’d accuse me of treason,
I could run far away, but I am devoid of all reason,
I could tell you to stand straight, but you lie in a curl
I could tell you to live, but you are dead in my world…
greeneyedgirl-is-back
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What not to say?
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3/4/2008 3:46:00 PM
Don't tell her she has a good sided nose...
Even if she does!
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So why do you think your still single?
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2/15/2008 4:22:06 PM
Well I think its not only finding the right one...but once you DO finally think you have found the right one...does he want you too?
GOOD LORD..its all so complicated and the older I get..the worse it gets!! I know what I need to do within myself...I need to let my guard down.
However, every SINGLE time I let my guard down for someone, they give me a million reasons to never let it down again!
Sometimes I think I am seriously healthier and better off on my own! Sorry to be a downer...its the Valentine's thing, and the weather.. But thanks for listenin' fishies!!
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So why do you think your still single?
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2/15/2008 11:49:33 AM
I am single, because I am a bit guarded about letting down the trust barrier....
and I choose to isolate myself a lot of times for a few different reasons. These are not good things, and I am really attempting to change my behavior. Old habits are extremely hard to break. It is a constant challenge, and I often end up on the losing end, but I know in my heart that I will some day be able to walk away from my fears for a new experience.
I strongly agree with what Jackie says. I think it is really really hard to find what you are looking for., and then when you do finally find it, there is the issue of that person wanting you as well...
My best outlook is to believe in myself, and know that if I meant to be with someone, I will be. Worse case scenario? I end up alone....but you know what? That is OK with me too. Am I able to compromise? Yes. I will do almost anything for someone I really really love to make them happy. Finding a person I am willing to do that for is the problem.
Whew that was deep! I need a drink!! LOL
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150 Million dollars?
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2/15/2008 11:39:56 AM
See...this is why I really would never want to marry again.
If I am truly in love with someone, I would live with them for a LONG time before even considering marriage.
I guess its because I have worked really hard since my divorce for my stuff, and I do not want anyone to be able to take it away from me....is that a bad attitude?
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/15/2008 10:06:14 AM
That is what I am talkin about Amy! You Rock! I am glad you have someone to share that with!
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/14/2008 9:42:26 AM
GREAT COMMENTS Everyone!!
I agree with ALL of them...
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/12/2008 9:30:51 PM
Single Male..
What a GREAT post! I agree with the entire thing 110%!!! ESPECIALLY THIS PART:
"If you are in love then there are no standards..no expectations...only the desire to please another"... I think that sums it up right there... If you strip away all of the other CRAP that gives you doubt....and really examine your feelings...that says it ALL!
Once again..great! Now you guys are catching on and I love it!
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/12/2008 4:21:27 PM
OK...good. I feel better now! I just felt bad that I was making people feel bad!
I am glad some found it to be positive!
Instead of dreading Valentine's Day this year, like I usually do, I just wanted to try and have some optimism and think about how rare it is to experience love, and how I feel when I love some one.
Thanks, everyone! At Sherry's request, I will leave the post open
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/12/2008 1:14:27 PM
Thanks, sugar!
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/12/2008 12:59:03 PM
Alrighty!
I am thinking I am going to delete this one...it has obviously stirred up some negative issues with people. I certainly did not mean to cause anyone distress or dredge up any bitter feelings....I just was looking for some input... sorry, everyone! I did not mean to tick everyone off!
Thank you, HarleyGirl, Nikki, Mud Flap, and the others who offered positive insight.
Happy Valentines Day to all!
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Country Western Music and Dancing
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2/12/2008 10:22:38 AM
Thanks, darlin! That is RIGHT up my alley!!!
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Country Western Music and Dancing
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2/12/2008 9:54:56 AM
Well heck yeah!! I am definitely IN!!!
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Country Western Music and Dancing
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2/12/2008 8:21:52 AM
I am in on this as well. The twangier the better as far as I am concerned!!
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/12/2008 8:18:59 AM
OK OK... What I meant by starting this thread was to state how it FEELS when you are truly in love with someone.
These are not expectations, or qualities I am seeking.
This is how I feel when I love someone.
My objective was to see if anyone else has felt this way now or in the past and if it is what real true love is all about.....everyone is different, and I am just trying to get a concensus of how YOU feel when you really love someone. What are the emotions that you feel when you are truly in love?? Whether it be now, in the past, or what you hope to feel in the future for someone special....
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Should you give them the boot?
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2/11/2008 2:13:08 PM
Oh yes....I forgot about the evidence thing. Absolutely.
The drinking thing? Not necessarily for me, because I get all sentimental and goofy when I drink...so I try really hard to refrain when I am healing.. but each person is different!
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Should you give them the boot?
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2/11/2008 12:38:34 PM
Deb,
Most women in their mid to late thirties have a war story about being in an abusive relationship...whether it be mental, physical, or both. I am no exception...
however, I am choosing not to go there. It does not put the focus on the task at hand, which is offering you my advice on how to get over someone you love.
So...Here is my advice:
Upon realizing this person is not for you and there is no chance of reconciliation (Which is YOUR decision to make...not any one else's):
Buy a journal. Sometimes it helps to get the feelings out and on paper, rather than giving the person that hurt you the priveledge of knowing how you feel. I am a very expressive person. It is very hard for me to hide how I really feel. This helps as an outlet for that. Instead of drunk dialing, or calling him upset, try this. It really does make a HUGE difference, or at least for me...
Do something for you. Plan a trip to Cali to see your friends. Go to the outlet mall with your girlfriends, what ever you need to do to have something to look forward to, to help get your mind off of your pain. Find some new activites that you really like and re-invent history! This way you will have something new to think about. I mean it. Go to Bingo, go to the flea market, buy a new book, rent a funny movie (stay away from Romantic Comedies)....
Create a play list with some really rocking, uplifting stuff on it. NO LOVE SONGS., and listen to it when you find yourself thinking about calling, writing, seeing this person.
Some of my personal favorites that are not twangy are:
Mary Chapin Carpenter: Almost Home
Nora Roberts: The long day is over
If you like twangy:
Rhonda Vincent: I'm Movin On
Martina McBride: Wrong Again
In fact, I would be MORE than happy to make you a CD. Just say the word, my girl!
Stay away from situations/places that remind you of this person. This is hard, I know, but it helps to get some distance from the whole situation and helps you to clear your mind and remember that things were not so bad before this person came along.
I am not a religious person, but pick up a Bible. I am serious. It really helps get you through the bad things life has to offer.
I hope this helps.....Love ya!
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Valentine's Day Thoughts/Survey
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2/11/2008 12:25:40 PM
With Valentine's Day coming up...I have been thinking about what it means to really LOVE someone...and here is what I came up with..
1. After spending several days with them, you miss them the second they walk out the door.
2. You feel sad if you do not talk to them every day.
3. When they are hurting, you hurt just as much.
4. You know all of the gross stuff about them, but you still love them
5. You can't imagine your life without this person.
6. You get very sad when they are mad at you.
7. You can not stay mad at them.
8. If they need something, you try to get it for them
9. You do stuff you normally hate (chores) to help them
10. You trust them with your life
11. You can see yourself growing old with them
Any Additions??
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What do you need to do differently to obtain a mate?
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1/24/2008 6:16:38 PM
I have this to say...
I am happy with myself. No, I am not perfect, but I feel I am a decent person, a great friend, a superb mother, and much more. I have to be true to myself and what I believe, and if that scares someone away, then he was not worth having to begin with. I will never again alter myself in order to please someone else. I did that for the 7 horrible years that was my marriage. ... I know it sounds bitter, but it took me a LONG time to realize that I can not spend the rest of my life trying to please everyone else. I finally love myself. If someone comes along that appreciates me for me, I will be absolutely thrilled. If that person does not come along, I am more than happy to be alone. I would not settle for anything less....
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How young is too young???
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1/24/2008 6:11:13 PM
I think women's reasons for dating younger men are EONS different than men's reasons for dating younger women...and as Forest Gump once said, That is all I have to say about that...
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What are you afraid of????
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1/24/2008 6:08:25 PM
My number one fear is:
WASTING MY TIME and ENERGY
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Do you date or hibernate? Forage or fret?
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1/24/2008 6:06:42 PM
I am definitely NOT a winter person. I get very depressed...I get very aggravated with everyone and everything.. Some day, when I retire, I am going somewhere where is stays relatively warm & sunny all year round! I also find I am twice as lethargic during the winter months. I just want to stay warm, under my covers and hibernate!!
I am a generally happy, optimistic person, so I KNOW this has to do with the seasons. Even when things do not go my way in the summer, I still bounce right back. Everything just seems to linger in the winter...the cold, the darkness, it generally sucks all around in my opinion!!!
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Pictures for the January 5th party at the Red Rock
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1/11/2008 2:49:52 PM
Kristie,...are y'all going to be at Luckys that Sunday??? I want to hang out!!!
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COLUMBUS...LUCKY'S DARTS ANYONE TUESDAY NIGHTS AT 6:30PM
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1/11/2008 2:36:13 PM
I agree with Chappy. Maybe the owners are not even aware of what is going on...
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COLUMBUS...LUCKY'S DARTS ANYONE TUESDAY NIGHTS AT 6:30PM
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1/10/2008 1:51:14 PM
I do not have a pool table...or Karaoke...lol
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Please give me your take on this.. Am I wrong for ending it?
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1/10/2008 12:24:29 PM
Here is my take on it...I hope it is helpful...
My personal experience has been that some men have a hard time with confrontation. It could be that he just "was not that into you" anymore, and instead of stepping up to the plate and telling you that, he took the weasel way out. This is common...unfortunately... He did not want to deal with the fact that he was hurting you face to face, so he slimed his way out of it...instead of making it uncomfortable for himself and facing up.
It sounds to me like the reason he updated his profile and was trolling for women is because he was insecure, and wanted to find someone else before he let you go...or stopped calling...
Either way, you are better off. Consider it a learning experience.. and yes...I also believe in Karma. It will bite him one of these days.
I wish you well, darlin!
Anna
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COLUMBUS...LUCKY'S DARTS ANYONE TUESDAY NIGHTS AT 6:30PM
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1/10/2008 12:11:15 PM
I agree..but what about pool? The Jade only has one table....
I am sure there is something in the area that has a similiar set up to Lucky's..and that has Karaoke on Sun nights..
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COLUMBUS...LUCKY'S DARTS ANYONE TUESDAY NIGHTS AT 6:30PM
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1/10/2008 10:10:27 AM
OK... I will make one quick comment about Lucky's. The bartenders are LESS than responsive most of the time...they act like they are doing you a f a v o r by getting you a drink....
Maybe we should do a thing like the Stolys/S&S Friday thing? Go to Luckys for pool and then move it to the Jade for Karaoke..since we all end up there anyway..lol Just my 2 cents...take it for what it worth...
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Here I go again...have fun!...Your birth number.
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1/8/2008 8:45:34 AM
LS..I am on nothing my darlin! I am just attempting humor and of course, I am high on life
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Please d....
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1/8/2008 8:10:38 AM
No... it does not matter to me, personally.
As long as he is employed, just like I am employed, and goes to work every day, I do not care what he makes.
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Here I go again...have fun!...Your birth number.
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1/8/2008 7:53:25 AM
Honey, just ask around...I am an excellent choice for back-up !!
I do a great job filling in until your dream girl comes along.... lol....
References available upon request!!
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Here I go again...have fun!...Your birth number.
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1/8/2008 7:43:56 AM
Very well could be...LS! lol
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Here I go again...have fun!...Your birth number.
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1/8/2008 7:34:37 AM
well,, I did calculate correctly, however, I agree that i am not a 2. If i had to pick which most closely resembles myself, it would be...
# 4 - THE CONSERVATIVE
4's are sensible and traditional. They like order and routine. They only act when they fully understand what they are expected to do. They like getting their hands dirty and working hard. They are attracted to the outdoors and feel an affinity with nature. They are prepared to wait and can be stubborn and persistent. They should learn to be more flexible and to be nice to themselves.
Famous 4's: Neil Diamond, Margaret Thatcher, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tina Turner, Paul Hogan, Oprah Winfrey.
Of course, this is nothing new to me. My birth sign is Leo but I was flat out told by a psychic person once that I am a Cancer and not a Leo....leave it to me!!! always amiss! LOL
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Here I go again...have fun!...Your birth number.
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1/8/2008 6:46:58 AM
#2 - THE PEACEMAKER
2's are the born diplomats. They are aware of others' needs and moods and often think of others before themselves. Naturally analytical and very intuitive they don't like to be alone. Friendship and
companionship is very important and can lead them to be successful in life, but on the other hand they'd rather be alone than in an uncomfortable relationship. Being naturally shy they should learn to boost their self-esteem and express themselves freely and seize the moment and not put things off.
Famous 2's: President Bill Clinton, Madonna, Whoopee Goldberg, Thomas Edison, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart.
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DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT?
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12/27/2007 2:00:01 PM
[/quote Nobody is saying you don't have the right to personal preferences because of course you do. I think what is being said here is that there are some truly wonderful people that may not fit into your mold or what you consider "the perfect match" that may very well be exactly what we were looking for and never knew it.]
OK, i can not figure out the quote thing, but DebiSHB said the above....
I agree wholeheartedly, Deb! Good Point! Sometimes we get so set in our ways we forget to "think outside the box"...
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Pictures from Lucky's 12-23-07
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12/24/2007 7:00:59 PM
Lonnie,
My head is up, my shoulders are back...lol
Had a blast with y'all!
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Pictures from Lucky's 12-23-07
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12/24/2007 10:23:12 AM
What a great time! It was great to see and entertain everyone !! lol... Deb, Kat, and their men...we kept y'all laughing all night God love you Frank for puttin up with us!
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~New Years Eve Party at Luckys Dec. 31st 7pm to Close~
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12/24/2007 10:17:16 AM
I'm in on the hotel. No way I am driving or taking a cab all the way to London.
Let me know if you need help arranging that..my girl Kristie!!!
AND NO...i wont SMOKE in the ROOM
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~New Years Eve Party at Luckys Dec. 31st 7pm to Close~
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12/21/2007 11:10:18 AM
C'mon Kristie!! Come to Lucky's... PPPLLLEEEAAASSSEEE????
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MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
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12/21/2007 10:38:00 AM
Thanks, Nikki! Hope to see you soon!
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~New Years Eve Party at Luckys Dec. 31st 7pm to Close~
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12/21/2007 6:07:19 AM
Yay! I just found out last night that my X in laws are going to keep my son on New Year's Eve! WOO HOO I am in, Debi! Tell me what you need me to do and I am happy to help. I do have to work that day, during the day, but the rumor is we will get to leave early. So let me know!
Also, did I read that we are supposed to get dressed up? YAY! New dress! New SHOES!!!
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Why do we find the bad boys irresistable??
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12/19/2007 10:04:27 AM
See that is what I am talking about!! A guy that is really sweet and caring but has a tough exterior. Tat nailed it with that statement!
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