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leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Were women better off 50 years ago? Posted: 9/26/2008 12:44:23 PM
Women are better off today, but there is still much room for improvement due to inertia in social institutions and old boys club attitudes. However, women do enjoy more opportunities in careers, in dating, etc. The sooner we get to fully egalitarianism, the better. The more women advance into positions of real power and influence, the less likely political, military and environmental decisions with be influence by testosterone driven male ego and pride.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Would you open you marriage to save it? Posted: 9/26/2008 12:20:40 PM
Don't think opening a marriage will save it. It is only a stop-gap measure and only signals you both are passengers on a sinking ship. There must be obvious problems that need addressing and adding other sex partners is not going to make the task any easier. Most likely it will probably only complicate things even further. Better to attempt to communicate what is not fulfilling and gratify in the relationship and rarely is it solely the sex.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Too fast or not? Real love or not? Posted: 9/26/2008 12:14:59 PM
You seems to be taking this very personal. The are many and varied reasons why relationships ends. There is no need to beat yourself up for any perceived deficiency on your part. Also, you have past the recommend 6 months hiatus since it ended (6 months for every 5 years in many relationship counseling circles). It may now be the time to leave any thoughts of a reunion behind you. It is better to move on with your life.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Those relationship testimonials on our profiles Posted: 9/26/2008 12:05:49 PM
I think it gives an understanding of how the person wants to be perceived as the testimonials would be clearly screened or at least reviewed before/soon after they are posted. Unless the person is conniving, it should hopefully provide more insights in their character. A cautious element of trust until proven wrong is my normal modus operandus.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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How long do men feel the need to pursue? Posted: 9/26/2008 11:57:08 AM
Men should feel no compulsion to pursue any woman on this site, certainly not at the beginning. There is so much unknowns as one is forced to travel in largely unchartered waters. Instead, it should be conceived as an egalitarian exercise where each partner should be free to initiate email contact and to assess each other as a potential compatible candidate and if it is worth considering future contact.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Were women better off 50 years ago? Posted: 9/26/2008 11:46:21 AM
Don't think. There are much more options for woman today in all areas, professional careers, dating, etc.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Find many man do not how to kiss. Do we need a kissing school? Posted: 9/26/2008 10:35:12 AM
Sorry, but my anatomy speller checker failed me when it most counted. I must now pay penitence by sticking my thumb up my nostril and rotating.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Find many man do not how to kiss. Do we need a kissing school? Posted: 9/24/2008 10:48:30 PM
Here is an advanced lesson for the proposed kissing school. Please note the description below does not apply to the very first kiss. Now the key to a good kiss is in developing an element of suspense and anticipation in a slow, steady build up to the ultimate meeting of lips and to execute it with a controlled passion. First you gaze into her eyes. Gently brush your cheek against her. Slowly move your chin and occasionally your lips up and down and across her face ever so lightly. Gently stroke your hand on her cheek, across her chin and with 2 fingers across her upper lip and then across her lips. Then with one hands stroking her cheek, brush your lips across her's with no pause or lingering . Now, pause and again gaze into her eyes with an expression of anticipation and slowly, deliberately move each so closely and pause again and breath onto her lips just millimeters away from yours. With mouth just slightly open meet her lips with a gentle, delicate touch and then move your head slowly from side to side pivoting on her lips. Withdraw and place your cheek against her's and place your lips on her ear and breath, then slowly caress her ear lobe with your lips and take a light nibble gently with your teeth. Now, return to her lips, this time with mouth more open and exhale gently. Press your lips firmly against her's and hold your tongue back waiting for her response when you delicately touch the tip of your tongue to hers and immediately withdraw. Repeat 2 or 3 times, each time lingering a bit longer. Then, hold her head firmly in your two hands and pull back 3 or 4 inches and gaze once more in her eyes with a taunt expression on your face boldly proclaiming that this is the moment. Now in a controlled, deliberate way press your lips and tongue against her without overpowering penetration. After a minute or so, withdraw your tongue and lightly lick the outside of her lips and then her chin and across her checks and down to her ear lobe and lick and gently nibble it once more. Now, move back to her lips and kiss her again with passion. Press your tongue across the top of her palate and along her teeth and gums. Now, with lips slightly open to amplify the sound, suck all the fluids from her mouth . Take her hand and lick and nibble each finger tip. Bring her hand up and kiss her lips as you push her index finger into her mouth and your simultaneously nibble on her finger and stroke her tongue with yours. Now that is a kiss that will not disappoint.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

Msg: 110 (view)

Find many man do not how to kiss. Do we need a kissing school? Posted: 9/24/2008 10:39:07 PM
Please note the description below does not apply to the very first kiss. Now the key to a good kiss is in developing an element of suspense and anticipation in a slow, steady build up to the ultimate meeting of lips and to execute it with a controlled passion. First you gaze into her eyes. Gently brush your cheek against her. Slowly move your chin and occasionally your lips up and down and across her face ever so lightly. Gently stroke your hand on her cheek, across her chin and with 2 fingers across her upper lip and then across her lips. Then with one hands stroking her cheek, brush your lips across her's with no pause or lingering . Now, pause and again gaze into her eyes with an expression of anticipation and slowly, deliberately move each so closely and pause again and breath onto her lips just millimeters away from yours. With mouth just slightly open meet her lips with a gentle, delicate touch and then move your head slowly from side to side pivoting on her lips. Withdraw and place your cheek against her's and place your lips on her ear and breath, then slowly caress her ear lobe with your lips and take a light nibble gently with your teeth. Now, return to her lips, this time with mouth more open and exhale gently. Press your lips firmly against her's and hold your tongue back waiting for her response when you delicately touch the tip of your tongue to hers and immediately withdraw. Repeat 2 or 3 times, each time lingering a bit longer. Then, hold her head firmly in your two hands and pull back 3 or 4 inches and gaze once more in her eyes with a taunt expression on your face boldly proclaiming that this is the moment. Now in a controlled, deliberate way press your lips and tongue against her without overpowering penetration. After a minute or so, withdraw your tongue and lightly lick the outside of her lips and then her chin and across her checks and down to her eye lobe and lick and gently nibble it once more. Now, move back to her lips and kiss her again with passion. Press your tongue across the top of her palate and along her teeth and gums. Now, with lips slightly open, suck all the fluids from her mouth. Take her hand and lick and nibble each finger tip. Bring her hand up and kiss her lips as you push her index finger into her mouth and your simultaneously nibble on her finger and stroke her tongue with yours. Now that is a kiss that will not disappoint. ''

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Would u or have u ever slept....with someone on your first date Posted: 6/19/2008 7:33:01 PM
I have and it wasn't one of the greatest experiences in my life. It lacked connection and intimacy with the other person. In fact, once the hormones subsided and the lust pacified, it had little lasting satisfaction. On the other hand, to make love for the first time with someone you care about, with whom you have already develop some common rapport and comfort can be an exciting, invigorating experience. In my humble opinion, it should signal the cementing of an existing bond, the deeping of an existing connection and respect for the other person. It should set off a joyful beat in your heart and a playful spring in your step and an anticipation of many more wonderful shared experiences to come, sexual or otherwise. There is no magic formula or schedule to gauge when that appropriate moment has arrived. If both are comfortable with the decision to expand their enjoyment and engagement of each other on the physical level, then it should be able to happen very naturally and with no second guessing or doubts and hopefully make the experience even more sensuous and mind blowing fanastic. If you call me a hopeless romantic, then I stand defiantly as accused.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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SUMMER FEVER MEET-n-GREET & DANCE NIGHT in OTTAWA/GATINEAU ~ SATURDAY, JUNE 21st Posted: 6/12/2008 5:56:46 AM
Wottacatch Your post was absolutely hilarious. It was so close to the mark that I do not know if I should cry or laughter. I remember once asking some lady for a date and my legs were trembling so much that my pant legs were visibly shaking. In the end it ended well, I got the date and had just enough self-control to not urinate on the office carpet in the process. You can add another burden placed on the shoulders on males. They are the ones who have to write the appealing, wit and clever emails on the site to attract the attention of a female. Meanwhile, the women usually reply with some half-baked, two liners, even if they like what they read, or a curt "already met someone on POF" and categorically refuse to submit to a lie-detector test. Again, you have a gift for comedy. I would expect one day to find you on the stage at Yuk-Yuks.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Trudeau's Miracle Diet Posted: 10/12/2007 10:26:31 PM
Sorry, but eating a good breakfast is highly endorsed by many exercise, fitness and health experts. Also, recent research is clearly shown the weight-controlling benefits of coconut oil. Pure and simple, it boosts your metabolism and cause more calorie to be burned than it contains. Of course, exercise and a good muscle-fat ratio is important. Fads and pills don't help, but sound lifestyle choices certainly do. Eating a hardy breakfast and replacing garbage, trans-fat, free-radical oils with pure burning coconut oil are both very sound, lifestyle choices. Good health and a fit body is best achieved by a holistic approach and not just by weight-training alone.

leanyettender

Joined: 8/20/2007

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Trudeau's Miracle Diet Posted: 10/12/2007 10:14:30 PM
Hello There Many leading "experts" in the alternative, healthy life-style form of medical practice are now whole-heartedly embracing the advantages of coconut oil. (see www.mercola.com and www.ultrametabolism.com). Even though coconut oil is saturated, it is a digested and processed by your body in a manner far different than animal fat. It is the only saturated oil than goes through your blood stream directly to your liver where it is converted in high-octane fuel that very quickly boost your metabolism and cause you to burn off more calories than it contains. Mercola and others suggests it can increase calorie loss by as many as 75 calories a day. It also has many other healthy benefits, it does wonders for your cardio and immune systems. It is also the best oil on the planet for cooking as it is the most stable oil during high temperatures, even better than lard. Thus, it does not oxidize and produces very few of those nasty, free radicals. Personally, I very much enjoy it's greasy texture and taste. I love it on bread. Think of it as the high performance oil your body engine needs and savor its goodness. Regards Richard

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