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Thread: Honesty
N8_DAWG
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Honesty
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5/10/2009 12:12:56 PM
So what, you want a woman to tell you the same thing as Andy?
Just wait a bit I'm sure one will be along to oblige....
N8_DAWG
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Spinning my wheels...
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5/10/2009 11:58:33 AM
It's already been mentioned in a few posts so pay attention to this:
Find some ground of common interest and try to connect from there. In the art of conversation it's called creating rapport.
(I have no concept of the messages you've sent so this is purely for example, but rapport is more than just naming a common denominator between you)
Don't just jump in and say "Hey, I see from your profile that you're into Coldplay. That's cool, so am I. Want to date?"
Use it to start a conversation. "I see that you're into Coldplay. Did you make it to the show last week? I wasn't able to make it, but I saw them last year at SuchandSuch venue. I love going to shows there. Have you ever been? So if you like Coldplay have you ever heard of...."
Okay, just an example, but you should get the idea.
What it comes down to is that with the first contact all you're trying to do is start a conversation. The fastest way to start a conversation is by asking a question. If your question relates to her she might answer. If your question relates to something in her profile, thereby showing her that you've actually read it, and you pose it in a way that shows genuine interest, you will see your responses increase 100 fold.
Obviously from your profile you have some sort of sense of humor. Humor is always a great way to break the ice, just remember that there is no infliction, body language, or tone in written text and sarcasm can sometimes be hard to discern, so using humor before someone has an idea of your personality can sometimes be tricky. (just stick with the easy to recognize type jokes until the conversation is well underway and you shouldn't have to worry)
Most of all though, is to keep in mind that all you're doing is conversing. Don't ever ask a woman out in your initial email or even hint at it. Keep it purely conversational so she doesn't have to feel apprehensive about responding to you. There are many women on here that have disclaimers in their profiles. There are reasons for this (the other men they've met on here). Many of these women are very selective when it comes to which emails they respond to. The more comfortable you can make her in your opening statements the more likely she will respond.
Relax, be yourself, lose all of your expectations, ask questions, don't stress on the lack of responses, and just enjoy fishing!
N8_DAWG
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How do you define confidence?
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5/10/2009 10:55:46 AM
msg 14: confidence is no self-doubt whatsoever= never questioning yourself.
No, this is not confidence. This, IS arrogance. If you never question yourself, then you never think you're wrong. Thinking you're never wrong is arrogant.
A confident man will question himself, but shows no fear in accepting the answers he finds
To be confident means that you're not afraid to be you. That when everyone's attention is on you, you continue to act the same as you do when only your closest friends are paying attention.
That you joke with people not to put them down or be rude, but because you have no fear that they will take it as anything more than a joke.
That you will speak your mind without fear of what others will think about you. (a little extra clarification: this doesn't mean you say things just to hear yourself talk or without thinking about what it is you're saying or to be rude or inconsiderate. It's that you are willing to say things that define who you are as a person without worrying if others will be accepting of you.
Showing self confidence to a woman means showing her that you are strong in your beliefs, you're willing to stand up and defend your positions (physically, mentally, emotionally), that you can handle any type of situation, and that you understand that you control your own decisions in life.
As for the OP. Even though they might be jerks or asses, many of the men you talk of are still confident. The more confident you are the more you put your confidences out there to be questioned by others. The more you put confidences out there the more attention you draw to yourself. If you are drawing attention to yourself and defending your confidences then you're showing alpha traits. The more alpha traits you show the more women are attracted on instinctual levels.
N8_DAWG
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Has atheism become trendy?
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7/24/2007 3:37:31 PM
Many of us got fed up with pretending to have respect for religion , and listening to their garbage with a respectful indifference
Nice to know that you're tolerant and accepting of others beliefs.
The newest load of crap the church is shoveling out: "Without God, there are no good morals."
Really? How you figure? You mean - every unsaved person thinks murder and theft is morally acceptable? What a bunch of hoey.
Not that I think all non-believers are without morals or that all Believers live up to God's code of conduct, but I do think that more non-believers tend to have relative morals rather than definitive ones, so yes there are persons who based on the situation will justify theft and murder.
Now to get back OT:
There are plenty of famous atheists, two that come to mind are George Soros, and Ted Turner, and yes I do think it's becoming trendy.
I think it's a trend that will continue to grow. I would even go so far as to say there is a multitude of phrophecy that has already declared the emergence and growth of the atheist/agnostic view into mainstream society, but I'll leave that for another thread.
N8_DAWG
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Christian Evangelicals: Left Behind Series and Israel
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7/14/2007 4:28:07 PM
I saw the movie when i was young and impressionable... I was horrified and tormented for a long time after. Thankfully i developed a logical side or i would of committed suicide I'm sure.
I think sensationalizing such things like that are insidious and prey apon people who are impressionable. I was scared to death that i was going to be left behind and would have to have my head cut off to go to heaven. What kind of lesson is that???
shocking really
Once again, it's just a work of fiction. I guess you also questioned every stomach ache after watching "Alien" or tremble every time you see a meteor after watching "Armagedon". If it really troubled you so much maybe there is purpose in that and you need to explore the inexscapable fatality of your existence here.
N8_DAWG
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Christian Evangelicals: Left Behind Series and Israel
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7/14/2007 3:08:08 PM
The books are entertaining, though IMO they weren't all that well written. I've never heard of anyone claiming that they are supposed to be taken literal, or any other such "conspiercy theory".
As far as Isreal, I see actions currently happening in neighboring areas as having more impact then the eventual death of Ariel Sharon. On that note...
its hard to believe that armeggedon will start in Jerusalem , however, the new hotspot for world conflict is now in that part of the world
Considering we have entered a time where we have another person in our midst who feels it's his personal duty to elimanate the Jewish people and is actively seeking nuclear capabilities, I don't see it starting any other place. Unless of course you count New York as being the true ground zero of things yet to come.
N8_DAWG
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shouldnt the bible evolve to encompass what we know now?... and not what we knew then?
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7/9/2007 4:43:31 PM
Man, this place is full of hate for Christians.
I love that people want proof and then exclude evidence.
I don't know a single Christian who would wish that anybody burn in hell.
N8_DAWG
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shouldnt the bible evolve to encompass what we know now?... and not what we knew then?
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7/9/2007 2:20:34 PM
You have to do better then a biased source with an agenda to discredit Christianity.
I don't mean to offend, but I find it hillarious, that you so easily refute the billions of people who have spoken of Christ, for thousands of years, yet listen intently to a handful about 9/11 conspeiracy theory. Let me guess, George Bush is not human, but some sort of reptilelion, and the world is run by a select group of Jews.
I'm sorry, I'm just tired of this pointless debate.
I'm tired of this weak arguement that, because some, who have claimed Christianity, were/are corupt, that it somehow discredits Christianity altogether. Every religion, organization, government, culture, society, etc., has been corupted, perverted, and abused, at some point in time, by some of its members. This shows that it is not the systems that are corupt, but that man is corupt.
There is much evidence that points to the existence of Christ and none to the contrary.
N8_DAWG
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shouldnt the bible evolve to encompass what we know now?... and not what we knew then?
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7/9/2007 1:52:28 PM
But since understanding came so long a time after difference, wouldn't it make more sense to think we are here just to be different?
Not, if the purpose is to understand that we really aren't all that different.
Why does there have to be some weirdo motives behind our existence?
What's weirdo about understanding who we are?
If your god knows all outcomes how could this be a challenge? You really make no sense to me...
Ummm, because WE don't know the outcome.
I would say, you don't make sense to me either, but I've walked both paths, and while I chose a different path than you, I do understand where you're coming from.
So do countless other faiths and ways... Maybe you should broaden your Horus Sons
The more time I spend, searching for God, outside of Christ, the more I realize, Christ is where He's at.
That's right... You can learn from them or call them dangerous...
One is an uplifting experience and one causes even further separation.
I consider,separation from that, which is dangerous ,to be, an uplifting experience.
N8_DAWG
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7/8/2007 4:37:36 PM
Perfect! So in order for no one to go to Hell, your god can celebrate difference instead of condemning it, right? Since it's more powerful than we are, and it made us in the first place, shouldn't this god just accept difference? No Hell... Problem solved.
Not, if the whole point of us being here, is to understand, that we aren't as different, as some, would have us think.
You think we should fear the natural world or respect it? Fear and respect are NOT the same thing.
You don't look at things objectively when you look at them through fear... Fear is subjective! Plus is used as a weapon... How do you bring a message of peace through means of a weapon?
Without fear, one can ever respect nature, more then, they respect their own intentions.
What message of peace? During His ministry, Christ spoke more of hell then He did of heaven.
First, how exactly can someone force God to do anything?
By placing their self above Him.
And are YOU not choosing christianity over the other belief systems available in the world?? Aren't we all essentailly picking and choosing that which works for ourselves in this regard??
As previously stated, I don't chose Christianity, because it "works" for me. I chose Christianity, because it has higher standards then what I would place on myself, and I see truth in that.
How then can you say that others are making a poor choice if it works for them? How does another's choice of belief even affect you??
Other's beliefs effect you all the time.
N8_DAWG
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shouldnt the bible evolve to encompass what we know now?... and not what we knew then?
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7/8/2007 3:42:05 PM
The Bible evolves with each individuals personal interpretation. And for those who would follow, there is a severe lack of will to know for themselves what they might believe.
So read it, interpret it and live the parts that you deem worthy of a good person. In this way, it becomes personal, and evolves to your needs, not to the needs of the masses
I wholeheartedly disagree with this view. I'm sorry, but a pick and chose mentallity is an idolotrous one. You are forcing God to conform to you.
Of course we are... That's why I laugh at the disease of fear you would spread like marmalade on toast! You talk of sending us to Hell, not I!
Actually, I speak of saving ourselves from hell, not sending us to it.
If some sort of mutual understanding is ever accomplished then to reach it, one must conform to it.
This is backwards thinking... mutual understanding is learning from differences and accepting those differences...
Which is still an act of conforming
Not pretending they don't exist so peoples last thoughts are "What if I'm wrong?" That is not cool... Last thoughts should be filled with wonder, not fear... All of life for that matter.
We've already come to the mutual understanding that actions have consequence; therefore, we must have fear, so we can objectively view our actions.
N8_DAWG
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7/8/2007 3:29:53 PM
Which side did you say you were on again?
Aren't we really all on the same side?
Mutual understanding is what I'm talking about... You are talking about conformity
If some sort of mutual understanding is ever accomplished then to reach it, one must conform to it.
I must say, I disagree that creation is not possible without chaos. IMO. Creation, whether intentional or accidental seems to always have a definite pattern to it.
N8_DAWG
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7/8/2007 3:06:11 PM
I would agree... I don't think morality existed until we decided to have morals(When we saw and understood the first pain)... On your overall statement that we are born bad and going to Hell if we don't see the same as others, I think you're off the mark...
Actually, I still disagree. I think we knew what we were getting ourselves into. My point is, though, that it doesn't matter if we knew before or not. Part of our evolution is in understanding that there ARE consequences.
If we have all inflicted said pain, then we have fallen short of the mark. We do have sin. Even though I knew not before, I now, understand the impact of my actions. If I repent of those actions and live free from my past mistakes, I can (and I feel should) be granted forgivenes, but I must accept that, when I come to this understanding and continue those same actions I deserve to be punished.
Without mutual understanding there is anarchy and chaos.
N8420
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7/8/2007 7:26:26 AM
Statueman,
I understand the feelings one goes through when a strong Christian is called away from them.
Rejocie though. If he is as strong a Christian as you describe and has been in a position to help so many, imagine what God has planned for him, if he is being called to other avenues.
Stone,
What is your view on my overall statement, that it doesn't matter if we knew of consequences beforehand or not? That our evolution lies in coming to the realazation and acceptance that there are consequences.
N8420
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7/7/2007 5:16:19 PM
I think we put ourselves here out of boredom... Without knowing about consequences...I think that's why absolutely everything is different than everything else... And why things evolve.
I guess we are at opposite ends. I believe it was not boredom, but a challange. Did we know the consequences of our actions before hand? If so, then those who fail the challenge, do so willingly, with knowledge of the outcome, and therefore should face the consequences. If not, then of course, it would be a cruel and merceless god, who would punish us.
So now, the question is, do we have instinctive and intuitive ideas ,about moral conduct, or is it merely created, through social engineering?
My belief is that it is instinctive and intuitive, and from God. So, if I as a human, naturally evolve from an innocent child, into an adult who understands right and wrong, it doesnt matter what I knew before, I have evolved and now, know. Through my own experiences, I understand that actions have consequences. I can see that, by observing daily life, around me. I believe that the challenge is, to not, only reckognize this, in this realm, by evolving from innocence, into knowledge of guilt, but we have to see it, in the eternal realm, also.
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True Altruism?
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7/7/2007 1:56:55 PM
You're missing the point... One never knows the outcome of an altruistic act... Saving a drowning victim is an altruistic act because we all know some of us panic and can take us down with them... An altruistic person would take that risk... If they die during the act, they take your whole argument with them...
That's good stuff. +1
N8420
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7/7/2007 1:52:00 PM
Yet, because of her faith in Him, Jesus still heals her daughter.
If we're born short of the bullseye, wouldn't that be the sin of whoever/whatever created us? Does the arrow take the blame for the archer? Only if the arrow shot itself, I think...
I see that as the trials and tribulations of man. I also think we do "shoot ourselves". I think we asked God to put us into human form, knowing that we would fall into sin, as a challenge to see if we would rise above, or remain lost in sin.
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7/7/2007 11:46:59 AM
God, your a happy soul aren't ya? You should try and get out more numbers... do you know what living is? I don't think you'll find many nuns on plentyoffish… or should that be plenty offish?
I love life!!! I get out as often as I can. I'm always knowing, what living is.
Are you saying that you haven't sinned, or that there is no such thing as sin?
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7/7/2007 8:52:17 AM
The Word I speak of is God's Word, the Bible.
Regardless of the number of versions of the Bible the message stays the same. We have sinned, fall short of the glory of God, and for this deserve death. Because of God's grace though, we are given the chance to receive not death, but life through Jesus Christ. Time, revisions, translations, it doesn't matter, the message remains.
N8420
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7/6/2007 1:11:27 PM
You must understand that the message brought by true believers is not one of listen to ME, but listen to the TRUTH.
Believers are not trying to convince you of something just to hold it over your head and use it against you. The ultimate goal is not to say, hah, told you so. I attempt to point you to the Word in order that you may see the truth.
I'm not asking you to listen to ME. I don't say believe ME. I say listen to the Word. Believe in the Word. NOT MY words, but theWord of God.
As I've already stated, if I went the way of my selfish desires, I would be my own god. I would accomplish whatever I desired, for to accept myself as god, there would nothing that could get in my way. I am human, I understand the desire to make that commitment, but because the truth has been revealed to me through the Word, I understand the outcome.
I know that if you listen to the self, the voice you hear is not God's. I know this for I've heard God's voice, through the Word, and the voice coming from the self sounds nothing like God's. To top it off the voice of God heard, through the Word, has already told me all about the voice of the self. What it sounds like, and what it will say, so that I may recognize it when I hear it.
I hear it very loudly. It says to turn from God, ignore the Word, indulge the self long enough that you forget God, then it offers to give you whatever your heart desires, as long as you commit to it, and since it's a commitment to the self, it's not that difficult. Once again, the Word has already declared this and revealed it, so I know what it is.
This is not my opinion, but what God has shown me through the Word. He has also shown me that while I have the knowledge of the truth, and can recognize that which is not God, others increasingly fall to the temptation of the self, and only because they haven't received the truth. Cool thing is, no matter how deep we've fallen into our own temptations we still can accept the truth and live in the freedom it brings. Yeah, that parts revealed in the Word also.
All it boils down to, is that God loves us all and wants us to be, with Him. If we accept the self and not God, then we are not with Him. If we aren't with Him and we die, then we are alone. Alone with our own god, the self.
Once again these are not my own opinions, but what has been revealed by the Word.
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7/5/2007 7:17:11 AM
And yet YOU are on here saying that your perception is the only one and if people do not believe as YOU do, well then.. fire and brimstone? Wow... all I was trying to convey is that others can believe (or not believe) as they see fit, regardless of whether that meets with your approval
This is not my perception. It is acceptence of truth. As I already stated, if I had my way, my god would be much like Neal Donald Walsh's. A god that I don't have to answer to, but I see the falicy in such a god: therefore I seek a higher understanding then what the self can offer. I went outside the self and sought Him where He told me I could find Him, and guess what? That's exactly where He is. Some say they want God to reveal Himself, I say, God has already declared that He can be found in the Word and that He will reveal Himself through the word.
The word? How exactly do you know that the bible is even the word of God? Did you write it??
I've already answered that question on this thread
What about Neal Donald Walsh then, are those the words of God in his books "Conversations with God"?? simply because he says so??
I've already answered how you know whether someone is truly inspired by God also, but since you bring it up...
No they are not the words of God. I know this because they do not fit with the Word, and actually go directly against it. One of the first claims offered is that Satan doesn't exist and that you should dishonor your father and mother. I don't care if you're a believer or not, anyone who knows anything about the Bible, knows that it warns against people making such claims.
Yes you can chose whatever path you want. My purpose is not to pass judgement, it is to say, I care about all mankind, and while not from me there will be a time of judgement, and the basis for said judgement has been declared
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7/4/2007 3:59:32 PM
I believe that we are all one.. and that each of us is a part of God.. how we choose to conceptualize God (or not) is entirely up to the individual... whether that is the same as another's perspective is of little consequence.
I say, that which has been revealed through the Word declares that those who claim there is no true definition of God, that He has no real name, that it's just up to the conceptualization of the individual, has not reached these conclusions by way of God. God loves us all and would never try to convince us that any aspect of life is of little consequence, whether it be a perception or an action.
God has already declared all. God has already declared that there will be judgement and condemnation. It is not God who trys to convince us that there is no judgement. It is not God who says we will never be condemned. I know this for it has been revealed by the Word. It has been stated that judgement commith and as it nears there shall be a shallow voice that wills to convince us otherwise. To cause us to ignore the Word. It would have us indulge in anything so long as it isn't the Word.
To those with a "universal" god, search your inner voice. Ask it if you should turn to the Bible? If it says no, then ponder why, and take my warning with whatever weight you will.
For the Lost. If you are truly seeking to know God, know that he reveals himself through the Word and that those who have Christ in their heart will always point you toward the Word.
For the Believer. Know that the voice has been revealed to you. The message of the Anti-Christ is already among us. Keep to the Word and help spread the message of Christ.
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7/4/2007 9:36:26 AM
The more I see what non believers post and observe the views of many on here, the more I realize that the reason I'm drawn to this forum is not to debate the issues or hope to enlighten/ be enlightened, but to proclaim a warning.
I have noticed that many people want to create their own idea of God. They speak of communing with him and feeling no sence of judgement from him. Some people call him "pure love", or "unconditional love", others call him "light" or "self" or don't give him a name at all. I am here to tell you that what you find comfort in, is not God at all.
I know many will attack me for saying this and claim that they have just as much right to their opinion as do I, but I'm willing to make such statements, because I know that what I say, is NOT "MY" opinion. If I were to go solely based off of MY opinion, I would have a view of God very similar to those I see here. Fortunately, I see the falacy in having a god created of the self instead of outside the self. A god of the self, is only accountable to the self and has no greater standards then what the self declares. The one true God holds all acountable and the standards are universal.
People say that being honest to the self is the way to god. Well even if someone has been searching the self their entire life, at most they've only had 80 -100 years to "find" god. I say to you God has declared Himself forever and has offered Himself to us ever since humanity learned to write. I say to you God has been declaring Himself for thousands of years . He defined His name and who He was ,is , and will be.
Before you could rationalize and delcare your self, God had spoken. Before you could come to any realizations, God had spoken. If your rationals and realizations differ from what God has spoken, then you must come to the understanding that the inner voice you hear is not that of God. When God speaks, He will always direct you to His Word, the Bible.
God's use of the written word is so profound that He even includes this last fact in His Words. He states that those who seek Him outside of the Word will find something, but it won't be Him. He is so glorious He also states that once you have found that which is not Him, you will be moved more and more to draw away from His Word and refuse it as Holy.
I say to you, you have been warned. This idea of "god is self" is growing and will continue to grow, just as previously declared by the Bible. Those who embrace this idea will for the time being, stay calm as they watch the grassroots movement take hold. Soon this will change. These are not my views or opinions, but observations of modern society which correlates with prophecy from a book that's been around longer than any of us.
Soon we will enter a time of the Christ haters. Those who will lead us into such a time are the ones who now claim Christ as a brother, but not as the true Son of God. These are very dangerous people.
Once again, I am only posting as a means to deliver a warning. God has defined Himself and has defined those who only rely on the self. Those who truly know God, will always point others towards His Word. Those who don't know God will always point others away from the Word. Not only is this obvious when observing the world, but was stated thousands of years ago, in God's Word. God truly is amazing!
For those who say they don't believe in evil... once again turn to the Word. God has already proclaimed that the great deceiver will first try to convince us that he does not exist. Then he will try to convince us, that he himself is God. Know that you have been warned.
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shouldnt the bible evolve to encompass what we know now?... and not what we knew then?
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6/30/2007 8:05:06 AM
We may have more knowledge, but the actuall capacity for intelligence has not changed much.
Perhaps not, but those who are intelligent and brave enough to think outside the box are no longer executed for heresy or burned at a stake ;)
This is a very western view of the world. There are still many places where speaking out at all, is still grounds for execution, and if nothing else sevre persecution. It was those people who had an understanding of God and believed in His existance that built the foundation for a system of government which would allow the abolishment of such persecution. Another reason why we should trust in God.
possibly... but these men and women are now able, without fear of reprisal, to share their thoughts and to make contributions to the paradigms affecting us all.. and I for one am glad!!!
Once again, this belief that people can be free to share their thoughts without reprisal, is based in western ideals, which have a foundation in the belief of God.
We are no greater thinkers, philosophers, or problem solvers now, then we were 100's, 1000's, even 10's of thousands, of years ago.
Speak for yourself... there have been many great philosophers in the last couple of hundred years... none better than Mark Twain IMO, who could outshine most of the ancients
I do agree with your statement about Twain, but I am not speaking for myself in reference to the point I was making. Scientists have shown that the capacity for human intellect has not changed much over the years. That in the big picture the capacity for intellegence is the same as it ever was. There is no new enlightenment to God, and the Bible teaches to be weary of those who make such claims, because the truth is the truth and will always be the truth.
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shouldnt the bible evolve to encompass what we know now?... and not what we knew then?
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6/29/2007 3:31:17 PM
Now unless the 'original' manuscript fell from 'heaven' which was written in gods own hand then how can people follow and accept something that was written by man (men). The power of that pen has influenced millions of people for hundreds of years. Why put your trust in people that have been dead for 2000 years living in a COMPLETELY different time
The power of the Word is that it transcends the falacies of men. Even though it may have changed hands many times and has been rewritten ,the message remains the same. The Truth can still be found within it. Whenever archeologists discover older versions they still find that they still say the same thing. The message hasn't changed. Because of this, we can have faith that those who had a part in its writting truly were inspired by God.
and and perhaps used the bible for influential purposes?
Of course there have been many who used the Bible for influential purpose. In my life I've seen many more, use every other ideal, vision, culture, religion, government, organization, social construct, etc, etc, etc... for influential purposes. Is that a good thing? No. Does it mean you just abandon it? No.
If the Bible said hell was a lake of marshmellows people would believe it just because it was in the Bible. That is the feeling im getting.
That is a very narrowminded and insulting view of believers.
Now if the Pope one day came and said GOD spoke to me, if god spoke to anyone i would think the 'holiest' person would qualify, and he officially made changes to the Bible..would you accept these changes?
Back to my first statement. If he was actually inspired by God, then anything he attemted to change, would still in no way, alter the true message. If his changes in anyway try to alter the message then it would be obvious to believers that he was not inspired by God.
Funny thing is, there's a little story near the back of the Bible that states that this exact scenerio will come to pass, and that it won't be the inspiration of God. So those two truths combined, I would say be very weary of any Pope who wants to change the bible.
I am not saying the Bible isn't useful. When interpreted properly and used it has great value (family values, morals, compassion, forgiveness) ;although used for nonsense and negativity such as implying homosexuality is a sin (doesn't god have limitless love for everyone? how can there be any exceptions then).. is a huge downside along with the countless wars and deaths that have occurred of people trying to instill Christianity in other cultures.. (like any other religion..) ok im rambling...
Yeah, you have at least 3 separate and entire threads here.
Are you going to make the argument that God spoke these words to the apostles, prophets and others?
Yes.
How come God hasnt spoken to anyone lately. (Oh thats right.. he speaks to your prez) .. kidding aside. Now im sure a bunch of you are gonna jump at me and say God speaks to me when i listen and when i prayer and such and such.. how do you differ from God and your conscience.. mind.. spirit?
God will always tell you to look to His Word. The conscience will always tell you that there's nothing in the Word and that you don't need to look there for answers.
you would think after a couple of thousand years, people moving forward in science, politics, lifestyle change, philosiphies.. you would think the Bible would go through changes along with man. Rather than sticking to ancient text that was written in a different age.
The truth never changes.
Shouldn't the bible evolve as well to encompass all what we know now, rather than what was known then?
There is evolution in the Story, that is the Bible. The evolution of what has, is, and will come to pass.
What is it that we know now that we didn't now then, and I'm not refering to advances in medicine, science, and technology?
We may have more knowledge, but the actuall capacity for intelligence has not changed much. We are no greater thinkers, philosophers, or problem solvers now, then we were 100's, 1000's, even 10's of thousands, of years ago.
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How well do you think you know God?
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6/25/2007 7:37:49 PM
Sky, I love you, bro.
I don't state my words in order to try and belittle you. My final statement in my last post was sincere and posted with sincere intention.
I won't try to argue you any further. You win. I would rather concide defiet and let us both fall into oblivion, then try to force anything that I "may know" upon you. Even if it is only I who fall, I still, as much as it may pain me, will gladly do so.
As stated before, take anything I say, with whatever weight you will.
Peace to all the Patawan,
Nathan
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How well do you think you know God?
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6/25/2007 4:19:59 PM
Do you think that a God of pure Love would use violence to define Itself? Or does this sound like a contradiction? If it is, why is it?
Your reply:
“Life IS violent. You have bought into the lie if you believe that violence is only created by man.”
Your "Life IS violent" was not an answer - it was a remark.
Do you consider God to be pure LOVE? ----- Yes or no?
Then you outright said (without answering if this is a contradiction) that I have "bought into a lie". Before you can establish a lie, you have to produce evidence. I’d hate to be in your dock!
Through my remark "life IS violent", I was stating that yes I do believe that God, may at times, use violence to define Himself. Do I see this as a contridiction, no. All aspects of life, including love, at times are violent. And yes, I say these things, and still see God as being a God of love.
I in no way said that you "HAVE" bought into a lie. I said that "IF" you believe that violence only exists through mankind "THEN" you have bought into the lie. If you see that violence exists regardless of man, then by my statement you haven't bought into the lie.
It is good to be asking questions, but if we never stop talking, how can we hear the answer?
I added the part about freewill as a pun. Never the less, I still say to you that the evidence is there.
I did read it again, and you did state that you wanted input without scripture "but, oh don't just use Biblical quotations" are these not your words?
As for the rest. I have conversed with you, Sky, enough to know that you do try to be aware, so just take it with what weight you see fit. My words may be directed at you, but the message may be for another. The Lord works in mysterious ways.
May this day receive you with a multitude of blessings,
N8
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Let the critics unite
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6/25/2007 2:53:21 PM
Tahnks for the ipnut. I nveer was much of a seplelr. I geuss taht's smeohtnig I need to wrok on.
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6/25/2007 2:30:15 PM
If you are so resolute in your opinions/conclusions then why do you ask questions of others?
You want evidence, well I tell you there is evidence all around you. By use of free will you can accept it as evidence or deny it.
<div class="quote">Nature, weather and all natural elements in the universe are violent, however we are taught to be benevolent from Christ, to “love thy neighbour”… know your Bible numbers!
did you not specifically ask that scripture be left out of this conversation?
Which questions did I leave unanswered?
It really doesn't matter. This is a lose/lose situation for me. Regardless of the evidence, you will always find an excuse not to listen.
Heed my words or not, but I know the path to both God and Satan. The belief that the self is God, or that everything is everthing, or that unconditional love has no stipulations, is not the path to God.
The beauty of a perfect lie, is that on the surface it seems to make more sense and is more easily accepted than the truth.
Satan will show unconditional love to those who follow him, but only until such time that the truth is revealed. He will convince his followers that nothing that they do is wrong. He will admit the existence of Christ, but will show Him to be of no greater divinity then any other human. He will show himself to us and will try with such might, to show himself as God, that only those who already know him for what he is, will be able to deny him as anything other than God. He will truly attempt to be a perfect reflection of God. This is not done though in order to show love to those who refuse God (which he will try to convince you it is) No he will do this in order to lie to you. In order to deceive you into following him.
Scoff at my words if you will. Laugh at them if you so chose, but know that there is no NEW light that will be shown. There is only the truth and the lie, and the truth has already been defined. Anything claiming to be the truth yet portraying a new definition is merely the lie.
I'm glad that CWG has been brought up. Be very weary of these writings. The being that is speaking is NOT God.
If you allow yourself to follow the dialouge of the books, it is not God who you will meet.
As someone seeking truth and purpose I tell you that the correct title should be Conversations With Satan.
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Let the critics unite
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6/25/2007 10:42:08 AM
I have changed my profile a few times since I first started fishing and feel that it has reached a pretty solid identity of who I am. I know that some might find some of my statements to definitive, but they are posed that way on purpose. I would like to hear what others have to say, so I'm ready for the critique.
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Ladies, please review
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6/25/2007 8:54:12 AM
Without even reading your profile I have a bit of advice.
Fix the smile issue.
Even if you have to practice your smile in the mirror, work on it. Unless you look like you've been chewing on bricks, don't be afraid to show your teeth when you smile. If you do look like you've been chewing on bricks, do what it takes to fix your teeth, so that you can show them when you smile.
A smile is fundementally, and instinctively important. Without going into all the psychology about it, your smile is one of the most important aspects of appearence.
A smile works on a subconscious level and is extremely impactful.
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Please be honest
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6/25/2007 8:46:06 AM
Overall I think it's pretty good.
If I were to make any changes, I'd get rid of the "naked dip in the sea" (save that bit of information for when you've already met someone) and say what it is about you that allows people to feel at ease and enjoy your company.
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Review please
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6/25/2007 8:40:19 AM
I agree, alot of the first paragraph is too over the top. Most of the people here are looking to love and be loved, there's no need to emphasize that fact as much as you have.
You start off strong near the begining of the second paragraph where you open up a bit about your views then lose any ground you might have gained by stating your insecurities and lack of confidence.
Concentrate on the qualities you posses that attract others to you.
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Review my profile
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6/25/2007 8:25:17 AM
I am no expert on profiles by any means, but here's my 2 cents.
Get rid of the suplurflous b.s.
I don't know any person alive who doesn't like to either go out to eat or cook at home. Most people I know like to travel. Everyone has the potential to be spontaneous, but will carefully weigh certain deciscions. Your statement of these facts says nothing of who you are.
If you have traveled a lot and worked in many different places, then state what type of impact those experiences have had on you and your views of the world. What drives you to live each day? What is it that you want from life? What qualities do you posess that others can find comfort and support in?
Of course you don't want to give away everything and you don't want to sound concieded or overt, but say something about who you are on the inside. Show that you are capable of opening up and exposing part of your being without fear of what others might think.
I don't mean to dog your profile, I just think that there is nothing much there other than obvious. I hope this helps.
P.S. keep the pics (it shows your adventerous side) and lose some of the refrences to alcohol. Even if you drink a good bit you don't want to sound like an alcoholic.
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How well do you think you know God?
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6/25/2007 8:01:47 AM
Considered opinions do not equal truth. (I say this not to belittle your post)
Why do you ask questions you already know the answer to?
The bible says God is omniscient, omnipotent, and omnipresent. If there is nothing impossible, why has it chosen to remain invisible?
God is not invisible, but we will never see Him if we refuse to open our eyes.
Do you think that a God of pure Love would use violence to define Itself? Or does this sound like a contradiction? If it is, why is it?
Life IS violent. You have bought into the lie if you believe that violence is only created by man.
When God cast Satan out of heaven along with his motley crew, did God see what was to be? Or did It conveniently choose to forget?
God knows all that has, is, and will happen. We are the ones who forget.
Where is the sense in having 'free will' if you are then instructed what to choose?
Instruction in choice does not mean that the right choice is made. Free will is the ability to heed or deny said instruction.
Why is God ready to kill for not believing in Its Almightiness?
For the same reason He will bless belief in His Almightiness
Why is acknowledgement of God so important to God?
For to acknowledge one's self yet deny God is to say that the self is greater than God. This type of sheer arrogance is the epitamy of offensivness.
I know many will refute my simplistic answers, but things really are that simple.
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The Reality of Choice
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5/24/2007 4:26:14 PM
Fine. Let's pretend that was the case, and tomorrow, you get hit by a bus. Did you choose to get hit by a bus? Now, don't go throwing standard xian evasion in there... you wake up, get out of bed, and a bus comes flying through your wall and hits you. How, pray tell, is that a choice, on your part, to get hit by a bus?
The only way you find falacy is when you take the analogy out of context. Once again, the analogy I use is that, if one has done evil, is currently doing evil, then the logical outcome is that they will continue to do evil. Even though a bus crashing through a wall has nothing to do with the good/evil nature of ones heart, I'll still address it.
Did I chose to get hit by the bus, of course not.
Do I chose how I react, yes.
Does the accident cause me to realize how prescious life is and how little time we have here and that I need to be seeking my higher purpose? Only if I CHOSE to let it. I can say "wow, what a wake up call." and examine my life, see my mistakes, and strive for change within myself, or I can ignore it, become angry at my situation, blame God for such a freak accident, and continue the path I was on.
Sorry, n8, but that's simply not how the world works. Shit happens, to everybody, and most of it isn't shit people choose for themselves. What aout the child who gets molested? Did they choose to be? No... it is not only foolish to think that everything that happens to a person is their own choice, it is dangerous. The rape victim chose to be raped, the child chose to be molested, the murder victim chose to be grotesquely murdered. What does that do, then? It eliminates responsibility on the part of the perpetrators. But then, I would expect nothing less... after all, God holds everyone accountable but Himself
Actually, that IS how it works. Life is only 10% what happens, and 90% how you react. I never stated that "everything that happens to a person is their own choice." What I have continuously said throught this entire thread, is that you CHOSE how you react. The child choses to be devastated by the molestation, creating in-numerable issues, or the child choses to percivere, and to overcome any hinderences or stigmas asscociated with the autrocity that fell upon him/her. We are not defined by our situation unless we allow ourselves to be.
No, the parents don't have to explain, but they should at leasttry anyway. Most people, if they really loved their kids, would at least try to convey that they are not doing it to cause the child pain, if nothing else. And Yes, the children will be resentful.
This is exactly what God does, and no, many of the children aren't respectful.
However, to make it an accurate analogy, the Parents would have to destroy the park while the kids, or some of their little friends, are still in the park. then tell their kids that their friends were bad people and deserved to die, and that if they don't behave, they'll die, too. But if they behave, the Parents will build them an even bigger, nicer park!
And why did the Parents destroy their own park? While kids were inside? Because they wanted to. They didn't have to, as they owned it and nobody could take it... they could have just fixed it up, but no. They wanted it gone, and they wanted to kill lots of little kids in the process.
Your trying to offer alternatives without knowing any of the facts.
Everyone in the park has been told to leave numerous times. Over and over, people are screaming "GET OUT". All the kids have been told that they need to leave and all have been told what happens if they don't. There is not enough time to explain all the why's, because like little children, regardless of the answer, we will still ask why? If all we are doing is asking why, then we are never leaving. Being loving and concerned parents they want us to trust them, but they will not force us.
Again, likening yourself to a petulant, spoiled, argumentative toddler having himself a tantrum. Everything makes much more sense now. And you still have to go to bed. ;-)
No, I am likening all of humanity to a petulant, spoiled, argumentative toddler having himself a tantrum. When we grow up a little we stop pitting ourselves, stop fussing over, "Why did God do this? Why did God do that? Boo hoo, pity me" and we realize "Ahh, maybe there was a reason God does the things he does." "Maybe, now that I'm quiet, and have stopped blaming Him for what's wrong in my life, I might actually hear what He's saying to me."
I don't know of any decent parent that would threaten their child with endless suffering to coerce them to behave, promise them endless fun if they do, then turn around and tell them they are going to get the endless beating anyway unless the Parent changes their inscrutable and impossible-to-understand mind.
Fortunately, the parent you describe is nothing like God.
Any parent who puts a child, who doesn't fully grasp the concept of time yet, in time out, has certainly threatend endless suffering. When a child can't tell time, it doesn't matter if you say 10 min or 100 min they mean the same thing.
Except that He doesn't. You slip up once, and God sends you to your room and you never get to leave. God doesn't open hisarms for you to come running back, he leaves you in the cold and in the dark.
There is no teaching that I know of that says if you sin just once you're damned forever. True Christian teaching says that everyone sins, but that if you truly seek repentence you will be forgiven, because the punishment for your sins has already been paid.
Sorry, but the "God as Daddy" analogy simply doesn't work. No parent would willingly let something terrible happen to their child while they stood by and watched: fully able to intervene, but choosing not to. That sounds like a sadistic prat more than a loving Daddy. I hope you don't raise your own kids by that model
A parent can warn a child that the stove is hot over and over. They can take all the care in the world to make sure the child doesn't touch the stove. At the end of the day the parent knows that regardless of the actions they take, one day the child will touch the stove. If at some point the parent sees the child reaching for the stove and knows for a fact that the stove at that moment won't cause a real burn, are they sadistic to let the child learn their leason?
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The Reality of Choice
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5/24/2007 10:02:33 AM
Poeple are obviously not reading entire posts.
I never said that people can't change. I said that they won't change unless they chose to do so, regardless of the necessaty for said change.
By definition a pattern is a repetition of the same thing. If a pattern is formed, it's pretty easy to determine what comes next.
Regardless of the forces acting upon someone (outside/inside/it doesn't matter) they WILL NOT change unless they CHOSE to do so.
I am greatful to everybody who continously helps to prove my point. No matter how simple you make it, people will refuse the message.
Corten1295 - Are you sure, that it's not as cut and dry as I proposed?
Flyguy - Whose choice is it, to come to that determination of the situation?
I disagree. I am quite well aware that, in all cases, we have a choice. Just as I choose to point out that the analogies presented do not satisfy the point that is apparently being made. Given the choices in the analogies, there are a multitude of actions people could opt to take. That's choice.
What do you see as the multitude of options?
If it's an either/or you're looking for, then for the sake of "moving the 'debate' forward", I'll concede that, if there's evidence of an imminent disaster and a credible person (or alien) arrives to direct one toward safety, one will out of self-preservation, opt for safety
No, many people will not opt for safety.
I've already covered this one. If the guy was responsible, his credibility as regards safety is suspect. If, on the urging of one's instinct for self-preservation, they still follow him, this doesn't exonerate him of the responsibility, for which he should be held to account.
What if the situation is greater than what the human mind can comprehend?
Say a parent owns an amusement park. Their children play there all day everyday. After time the parents decide that they are going to sell the park and build a new one. Do you really believe that they need to sit down with their small children and try to rationalize all the reasons for selling and rebuilding, when the children wouldn't even understand? Are the children justified in resenting their parents for closing the park when they can't even understand all the reasons?
Have you ever tried to rationalize with a three year old?
If you have small children do you ask their input on everything or do you at times make adult decisions even when you know the child won't like it?
If a child argues about going to bed, throws a temper tantrum, cries and screams, does it ever change the fact that they have to go to bed?
I know that as adults it's hard for us to see ourselves as children, but it really is that simple. We are God's children. There are things we don't understand. We can either accept this and follow His plan or we can sit here and argue with Him.
No matter how strong an arguement we pose it never changes the fact that, if we die away from God, we will spend eternity away from God. He doesn't leave us. We leave Him. Just like a good parent though, He stays there with open arms, even when we run out of the room like little children, yelling that we hate Him, waiting and wanting for our return.
Is it arrogance to want to honestly know the intentions of someone who says they want to help you? Particularly someone who conveniently appears out of nowhere at precisely the time that you're in peril (*cough* deus ex machina *cough*)?
If the offer is sincere, then yes it is arrogance.
The analogies given simply aren't satisfactory to make whatever point you're trying to make. However if, as you seem to so adamantly insist is important to the discussion, it's necessary to concede that, in a position of peril, one will accept assistance to safety, I'll grudgingly do so. If only to keep from being labelled "arrogant" or "stubborn"
On the contrary. They do make my point, and it's the opposite of what you state. My point is that even when there are only two options and a position of peril, there are those who will still refuse the assistance to safety, because they want to place the blame elsewhere, instead of accepting the fact that it's their choice to either stay or go.
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5/23/2007 11:30:22 AM
You're still not facing the fact that it's your choice.
If you can agree with that, then the debate can move forward.
So what, if the man caused the earthquakes? Who cares if the aliens can destroy the meteor or not? If you CHOSE not to listen to what they're saying and to stay where you are, you get left behind. They've promised you safety if you CHOSE to go with them. Are you going to be so stuborn and arrogant that you just sit there trying to argue the who's, whats, whens, and wheres of the situation instead of heeding the warning and following the necassary steps to safety?
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5/22/2007 2:57:29 PM
Ok well. I'm curious how a nonbeliever, whom your original post seems to be addressing, could choose damnation over salvaltion. I don't believe in god, therefore I have no fear of damnnation. I don't choose to not believe in god, likes it's a conscious effort I'm making to deny his existence. I simply don't.
So yes were given knowledge of our situation. I chose to believe other knowledge(science), by doing so their is no downfall I need to be wise for, and no horrific situations to be worried over.
So I guess I back away from the analogy man slowly, make sure my wallets still there, and suggest he move along as I don't apparently believe in earthquakes.
Well to be honest, our current situation doesn't look so good from a scientific point either, and yes there are some horrific situations to be worried over. That's really besides the point though. Regardless of how it comes to an end, within your lifetime you will die. Your world will come to an end. If you don't believe in God, I assume you don't believe in heaven/hell, do you believe in any sort of afterlife?
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The Reality of Choice
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5/22/2007 2:46:37 PM
My analogy makes perfect sense, but I understand why some would argue it, because to accept it, one would have to question ones place. They would have to accept that who they are is not determined by future events, but by a culmunation of what they have done and what they are currently doing.
"On a long enough timeline, everyones life expectancy is zero" (10 points for anyone who can name that movie)
The only guarantee that the future holds is death.
God is constintly acting upon our lives in order that we might change. Unfortunately, being that we have free will, we have the ability to CHOSE to refuse His prescence in our lives. The reality of choice.
There is no way of knowing what outside forces will act upon someone, but if you look at their history and see that all previous acts of outside force have had no effect in changing the persons heart and that current outside forces are causing no change, then regardless of what the outside forces are, there will be no change. Otherwise, why haven't they changed already?
If someone walks through a doorway, and gets hit on the head with a hammer, how many times will they walk through the doorway until they learn to duck?
The only answer is, however many times it takes until they duck.
They will continue to get hit until they make a change. If you watch them walk through the door 10 times, 100 times, or 1,000 times, and every time, they do it the same way, and every time they get hit, and if you're watching them walk through one more time, and they are doing everything the same way as they have every other time, and there is no sign of change, then you KNOW that they are going to get hit.
It is only when we CHOSE to change, that we can say, who we will be in the future is different than who we have been in the past. The evidence to prove this, is the fact that who we currently are shows a difference.
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5/20/2007 11:24:54 AM
I find it interesting, that I stated at the begining of this thread, that I was providing the two analogies as a way describe how it is, that I understand Christ and God.
"Based off of what I know about Christ and God, I pose a different way of looking at it. It is not God who damns us, but we who damn ourselves. That ultimately, it all comes down to our own choice. I give two analogies to explain my view"
It was that simple. I just wanted people to either agree that, yeah, they made since that it comes down to choice, or no and explain why. Some people said," yeah, I see some truth in that" and others said no, but instead of trying to debate the analogies for what they were, the only way people could try to negate them, was by trying to add other stuff in, or take parts out of context, or even go completely off track. There were even times when people tried to put words in my mouth.
I tried to make my analogies as simple as possible for a reason. Even when it's presented in a way that is stupid simple, where the obvious choice is overtly obvious, people will still refuse to accept it.
People want to debate an entire book and you can't even come to terms with two simple paragraphs. If you don't agree with the logic of my analogies give me just one argument, just one, that takes on my analogies for what they are. Don't try to add anything, just tell me that they don't make sense and why? What is so hard to accept?
All I'm asking, is can you see the possibility of heaven/hell the way I presented it, and that the way you CHOSE to react effects the outcome. If we can all come to some sort of understanding, then maybe, we can move forward and take the debate to another level instead of engaging in cyclicle arguments that go nowhere for another 5 pages and dissolve into petty insults being flung around, but only if we can take the first step.
As far as my analogy of insanity that keeps being attacked. I was using it in the context of doing evil. One has done evil, is doing evil, then logic states that they will do evil in the future. It's the princple of inertia. An object moving in a straight line will continue to move in a straight line unless acted upon by an outside force.
Because I was using the analogy in the context of evil, all presented arguments from this and any other thread, are thrown out the window. That is unless you see a baby who craps itself as EVIL, or if you negate the CHANGE that was enacted when the child was potty trained.
Finally, for anyone who cares, the reason I've been away from the forum, is that I noticed that some people seemed to be spending their time inbetween posts, just thinking about what they would say next, instead of really letting what others said sink in.
Peace to all the Patawan
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Wouldn't god judge people on how you treat others?
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5/12/2007 3:13:45 PM
Romans
12All who sin apart from the law will also perish apart from the law, and all who sin under the law will be judged by the law. 13For it is not those who hear the law who are righteous in God's sight, but it is those who obey the law who will be declared righteous. 14,
(Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law, 15since they show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts now accusing, now even defending them.)
16This will take place on the day when God will judge men's secrets through Jesus Christ, as my gospel declares.
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The most interesting question of all
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5/12/2007 3:07:49 PM
Well if there is intelligent life out there, they may not have our duality perceptual problem. They may not be seperated from the divine consciuosness. So would not worship God, they would know god directly. We left the proverbial garden of eden. They may not have. Could be why they keep a distance. We're spiritually retarded as a species
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The Reality of Choice
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5/12/2007 1:45:30 PM
Real simple
If you have done wrong in the past, and currently do wrong, the evidence points to you doing wrong in the future.
If you have done wrong in the past, but change and you currently do good, then it is yet to be determined what you might do in the future.
No contradictions.
This is not a hard concept to grasp.
Yes it is black and white. The only reason people try to see grey is out of fear.
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In god we lust
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5/12/2007 1:36:24 PM
Urban X -
Obviously, you know me so well.
What can I say? (actually there's a lot, but I won't)
Just keep the insults coming. It shows how much love you have for those who see things differently than you.
For everyone else -
I answered a thread. People didn't like my answers and attacked me for it. That's cool. I expect it. For reasons I've already stated, I do think that along with many other aspects of modern sexuality, there is a sinful nature to homosexuality.
I do not see myself as any better than a gay person or better than anyone else, becuase I know the things I've done. I am not judging anyone, and if so, I tell you this, I am only judging myself. I KNOW the things I've done wrong. I KNOW that those things were wrong. If I point to Christ and to the Bible, it's not that I sit above you pointing out your bad compared to my good, no, I sit below you pointing out that if your doing some of the things I've done, you're right here next to me.
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The Reality of Choice
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5/12/2007 12:56:07 PM
it was poor use of sarcasm to try and make a point, but once again I applaud your condescending attitude.
This from someone who has his own definition of insanity.
You don't like sarcasm but you don't mind being condescended to ... hum!
I was speaking of MY poor use of sarcasm.
I know people on here have heard that analogy of insanity before, and I know you know it makes sense, cause it does.
If someone desires to change then why don't they? If they look at the things they've done and the things they're doing and they don't like what they see and desire change, but don't, it's because of fear. They fear that the analogy holds true. If they have been guilty of wrong doing in the past, and are guilty of current wrong doings, then they fear that even though they long for change, that they will continue their wrong doing, because that's who they are. So even if they make feeble attempts at change the fear they have will always keep them locked in the cycle.
The only way to break the cycle is to CHOSE to change.
The Reality of Choice!!!
Of course, to make that choice you have to remove the fear, and it's so strong and so engrained in the soul, that we can't remove it on our own, but that's a whole other thread...
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The Reality of Choice
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5/12/2007 10:17:11 AM
Trippy Hare - you still don't understand insanity do you?
I'll explain again.
insanity = repeating the same action and expecting a different outcome
If one's past shows them to be evil, and their current actions are evil, it is pure insanity to think that in the future they won't be evil.
Whether you're given 10 min., 10 years, or 10 millenium, what you have done in the past combined with what you are doing now, determines what you are and what you will be.
If you have not repented and changed your ways, then your transgressions of the past will be your transgressions of the future.
If you haven't changed up to this point, show no sign of changing now, then there is no evidence that you will change in the future.
If you're never going to change, why shouldn't the damnation be eternal?
I don't understand why this concept would be so hard to understand when there is so much logic to it?
Oh, and as far as "other threads" you obviously didn't read the whole thing. I've already pointed out that it was poor use of sarcasm to try and make a point, but once again I applaud your condescending attitude.
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The Bible: Some Thoughts
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5/11/2007 3:10:22 PM
to purge the evil from the good
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A place to debate God, the meaning of life + the nature of reality
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5/11/2007 3:03:46 PM
Touche, although I thought I noticed in hint of sarcasm, with the question of "which door?"
No, to be a martyr, I would have to killed by those who persecute me, and unless some of y'all are planning something I don't know about....
Sky, I don't know what question I missed.
Yes, I do read the Bible.
The knowledge that just as Christ taught through the use of parabels, the Bible is a parabel of what Christ taught. You know, don't miss the forest, because you're so focuosed on one particular tree. Examine the Bible as a whole.
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In god we lust
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5/11/2007 2:44:47 PM
Funny, the site you reference is an Islamic propaganda site.
Man, to think some of you would say it's Christians who read what they want into the scriptures.
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