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nice nurse 1961

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Mr. Right Posted: 3/9/2009 12:30:39 PM
There are some very nice people on POF but I actually met my "Mr. Right" on another site on Feb. 17th , but thanks,POF. You have allowed me to meet some very good friends. I appreciate what you are doing for people. I hope that you keep doing this. Everyone deserves to feel this way!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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How Do Men Learn Your Language Posted: 6/3/2008 11:38:12 AM
Hi, 4eva....I am right here! I don't know what to tell you. I have always spoken my mind and I am honest to a fault. I do not know the "women's language" because I believe in letting a man know what is wrong and discussing it until it is all better. I am sorry I could not be of help to you. I believe in communication. So, as you can see, you really cannot put all women into the same category. I would want to help my man know what is wrong and we could fix it together. (And still I can't find a good date )! LOL!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Metro Sexual Guys Posted: 5/27/2008 7:54:03 PM
I have to agree with Kyn. I do love a man who can cook....but the fake nails thing....that's just a little too much for me. I also love a man with a bit of hard skin on his hands. Not really interested in the kind that get facials and manicures or pedicures. I have nothing against these guys, I just would not be interested in that kind of guy. I like a more manly man. No offense intended.

nice nurse 1961

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better to love and lost, than to never have loved at all... how can i trust myself to love again? Posted: 4/14/2008 8:47:07 PM
Hi, cutenurse. We have all been hurt. Please don't live in the past. The past is gone, all we have is the present. Ever wonder why they call it the present? It is a gift. As a Nurse I am sure you have seen a lot . I get humbled every day. It puts everything into perspective. Have you read the book "A New Earth?" You should. It is great. It is all about living in the moment...the present. It is very hard to do...I am a "what iff -er " from way back. It is a very good book. As a woman who has been in love before and is not in a relationship now, I know that it is hard. You would love to find the one to share your love with. We all want that. That's why we are here, right? Good luck. Please don't make a new guy pay for your old guy's mistakes,ok? Good luck. You will find him.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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How long can ya go? Posted: 3/28/2008 1:09:41 PM
Hi, C Deacon.....I meant that I do not want to have meaningless sex WITH a partner, just for the sake of "doing it" . I guess sex with myself can be more meaningful....you have opened my eyes. Perhaps I'll be coy with myself? Send myself flowers first? Take myself out to dinner? MMM....thanks so much for your insight. I now have total clarity...lol!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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How long can ya go? Posted: 3/27/2008 10:20:51 AM
Apparently I can go at least 1 yr, 7 months, 15 days, 12 hrs and 16 minutes without it.......and counting. I have not met a man that I wanted to share that with. I would rather wait and have it actually MEAN something. I am a big believer in porn! Not to the extreme....just as a fix while I am waiting. It has saved me!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Did I blow this one ladies? Or ... Posted: 1/1/2008 8:45:34 PM
Wow! I can't BELIEVE you said that to her!!! Do you even KNOW what that means in "girl-language?" OMG!!!! Sorry, I was just messing with you. I guess I do not understand your dilemma here since what you have stated seems perfectly fine. You got me on this one! What happened after you typed this to her? Maybe I.M. was messing up....which does happen.

Nice Nurse 1961

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What am I missing? Posted: 12/26/2007 9:48:08 PM
You are not missing ANYTHING! It is so refreshing to see a really nice guy here. Please don't change. You should probably be thankful that nothing more came of that. Be careful. If you are at a woman's house on the first date and she gets wasted immediately,she could say that something happened and then you'd have a whole new set of problems and not just a question for the forum, u know? Please do not be so trusting. People can be nice but when you do not know them, do not go to their home and get wasted. It will be "He said, She said" My brother is a Detective and he investigates "fake date rape" cases every day. Just be careful. You are very sweet. Makes me wish I was in my 20's again!

Nice nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women still single? Posted: 12/10/2007 8:51:18 PM
Still single.......by choice! I am no longer settling. I am much happier being single than I was when I was married. It is sad to be in a relationship and still be lonely. I love to meet ppl, although it takes a lot to get me "out there" but it has to really feel right or there is just no second date. I know that I am not everyone's cup of tea...and they are not mine. I would rather be alone than wish I was. So, I don't mind the wait. And, no, he does not have to be perfect...I'm not. He just has to be perfect for ME.

Nice nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Did I offend her, or is was she being offensive? Posted: 11/27/2007 11:56:03 AM
Maybe her meds had not "kicked in' yet. Don't try to figure her out. It is what it is. You are lucky to have gotten away from her. You really don't need a person who is already displaying weird behaviors when she is supposedly on her "best behavior". You are very smart to get away.

Nice nurse 1961

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whats the best thing a guy has ever done for you Posted: 11/27/2007 11:49:21 AM
Hi, sacs....sadly, I am still waiting. I'll get back to you when it happens,ok?

Nice Nurse 1961

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What is she up to? Posted: 11/8/2007 9:18:25 PM
Good for you, J Goose. The next thing is....stick to your guns. Don't fall back into her little web of deceit again. Just remember, if she is cheating on these "new" guys, she'll cheat on you. No morals. Let her remain in that curb,ok ? You have made us all proud!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

girlfriend broke up with me because Posted: 11/5/2007 7:56:33 PM
We only commented because you actually do look like a "guy" who would like George Michael. We took you seriously...that should suck for you. You were just trying to mess with ppl's heads and instead were taken seriously...mmmm....been to any good mensrooms lately? You eyebrows are beautifully groomed....do you pluck them yourself? I heard George Michael does his OWN eyebrows. Don't be embarrassed by the fact that you probably really do listen to Wham.....you guys make the BEST friends....lol!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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the messages being read??? Posted: 10/31/2007 10:42:40 PM
Hi, wyche85, I just wanted to reply to your post because I actually do reply to every message I receive. I don't see any reason why the girls you have messaged do not reply,even if it was to say"Thanks anyhow..." I am sorry that you seem upset,but you will eventually message someone your age who will have things in common with you. It takes a LONG time to really connect...I am still waiting. Just be patient. If they do not reply,you probably don't have anything in common with them anyway. Some of the women here may not check messages EVERY day. You said you sent out over 100 messages TODAY,right? Give them some time. I don't always reply immediately, but I do respond when I can,in a timely manner. You are young, cute, and your essay is fine, so just wait for that nice person who will have lots in common with you. Sometimes it takes more than a day. Good luck. :o )

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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What's the best way to approach a woman? Posted: 10/31/2007 10:18:14 PM
Hi, Svantrep. The best thing you can do is BE YOURSELF. Most women do not like "lines" . If you were to approach me , I would rather hear you say"Hi, I am Savan, and I think you are very pretty. I'd love the chance to talk with you if you would not mind. You look like a girl I would like to know." If she is into you...you'll know right away. If she is not into you...you will know right away. I hope that this will help you. Lines just don't work. Be you and see how that works. Good luck to you.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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At what age do females loss there sex drive??????? Posted: 10/31/2007 10:07:00 PM
Wirleygirl....... You GO GIRL! That's what I'm screaming. Good luck. You KNOW you will beat this! Outlook and attitude are most of the battle. I know you will be fine! Take care of yourself and keep that positive attitude! You are inspiring!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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At what age do females loss there sex drive??????? Posted: 10/31/2007 10:03:12 PM
Hi, 1 Welder...Bummer.......I will be 46 in November...oh,well. I don't think he would be able to keep up with me....lol

Nice Nurse 1961

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At what age do females loss there sex drive??????? Posted: 10/30/2007 9:00:21 PM
Hi, 1Welder.... Please let the young man at work know that there is no age that we lose our sex drive. I have been in a relationship or 2 where I lost it for that person because they were not attentive or loving but as far as age....my 46th is coming up and I don't see my sex drive going away....EVER!!! I just need the right guy to share it with.....how old did you say this guy was? LOL!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Do you think men should have a say when it comes to fatherhood? Posted: 10/30/2007 8:54:49 PM
I'm sorry, beerbag,I thought this was about you. My bad. Maybe this advice will help someone else,though.

Nice Nurse 1961

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Do you think men should have a say when it comes to fatherhood? Posted: 10/30/2007 12:08:18 PM
Hi, beerbag.... Good question. I have always been a 'Male Advocate" mailnly because I have seen what some of you have gone through...but if you just "believe" the woman who says she is on the pill, that's on you......shouldn't you be using safe sex anyhow? How about advocating the condom? It is better than nothing and maybe it would help in other ways. Legally, it does not matter if she "lied" about her oral contraceptive use. A court of law does not care. It is your responsibilty if you do not want kids with that person,to take extra precautions...this way,in a few months you won't have to come here to post threads asking for advice on HIV and AIDS....see what I mean? . Please....protect yourself both ways,ok? I hope this helps you. Don't take the woman's word for it....she may want a sperm donor...which is not right, so, wrap up that sausage......be careful.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Now that we are over 45 let's look back... Posted: 10/29/2007 12:06:12 PM
Wow....Five yrs ago I was married to a verbally and sometimes physically abusive man...who did not "act out" until I married him. I was working double shifts and he was spending the money. I remember 5 yrs ago scrounging for loose change to buy milk for a cup of tea....now I am debt-free, happy, dating here very lightly, and feel like a weight has been lifted from my chest. I have learned to smell shit coming a MILE away and I stay far away from any sort of drama. I left him four yrs ago and my life started to improve the next day! I have become very selective and don't mind not having a steady boyfriend.....at least for now.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

80's Hot or not Posted: 10/29/2007 11:52:00 AM
The 80's for me were VERY HOT! I miss them. I loved the group "Poison" but some of the guys I met back then looked prettier than me in make up......The music was great. You could dance to the same song (re-mixed) for an hour....you just had to make sure you were dancing with a guy you REALLY liked. I miss dancing........

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women so hung up on a mans height? Posted: 10/25/2007 10:32:40 PM
RE: MSG # 283 That's what I'm screaming, Arugula. When ppl ask for an opinion and we give it, we are attacked by the men who apparently feel insecure with their height.....or maybe some OTHER things...LOL. They turn it into a personal affront to them. That was never my intention. I do prefer the taller men but tonight I was out on a date with a man who was 5'7" and very handsome and sexy. I did not know that the guys here (not ALL of you guys) could be so mean. Oh, well.....I just wanted to thank you, Arugula, for your viewpoint. I totally agree with you. Thank you!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women so hung up on a mans height? Posted: 10/24/2007 10:47:32 PM
Zain, LOL! Too funny! I am glad you can change a lot of things about yourself....that is a relief! By the way, I did not attack Silent Man,he attacked me. I am happy you are through with me. I need some intelligent conversation. I guess spell check does not work here,huh, Zain?

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women so hung up on a mans height? Posted: 10/24/2007 10:39:26 PM
Silent Man, You pretend....I mean PROFESS to be so intelligent, but if you re-read my original comment I did not say that I do not consider any man who did not meet some arbitrary height requirement. Apparently, you are so full of yourself and your dime-store psychology that you simply ignore the facts. I said I PREFER to date taller men, not that I have some "height requirement" I find you so idiotic. Your attempts at trying to sound intelligent have left me bored to TEARS! I cannot help your interpretation of what I have said....why don't you pay attention? Read....oh, and maybe you should tell your friend who is Ghost-Writing for you that he should re-read what I said too. Since you are going there, my interpretation of your comments are as follows...a woman like me would not give you the time of day except in this forum...so,you make abrasive comments to get me to respond. Well,you did, but that was it. You are not worth the time it takes to keep responding to your idiocy. Have a great day. Respond away...I'm out!

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

Msg: 35 (view)

About Male strippers... Posted: 10/24/2007 12:20:54 PM
I like male strippers who eat spinach........

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women so hung up on a mans height? Posted: 10/24/2007 12:07:45 PM
Wow, Zain, This is obviously a very sore subject for you.....sorry. So, you really think that age is a disadvantage? Sad to be you. You'll see as your mind develops as you get a bit older that you really should not feel sorry for me. I thought this was a nice place until I encountered the forums....some ppl are very nice, but I don't know why you have to insult me. It doesn't bother me, I just wonder what sadness you must have in your heart to lash out at a total stranger. Should'nt you be trying to make friends? Anyhow, you have all the time in the world, Zain,you are right. You will probably need every second of that time. Good luck to you. (Honey)

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Some Men & The Instant Messenger on Here Posted: 10/23/2007 9:41:57 PM
To answer your question, Xeno ,"Can men make the rules for a change?" The answer is NO! LOL.....who said that about "every guy"? Some young men know how to speak to a woman...I was not referring to you. No offense,ok?

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women so hung up on a mans height? Posted: 10/23/2007 9:15:55 PM
Hey, Zain. This is a really nice place to be at any age. I am having fun. I am usually very nice but for some reason was confronted by Silent Man and I felt the need to reply. I have nothing against shorter men...I have dated many. It's just not my preference. Good things come in small packages from what I have heard. I just prefer to date taller men. You are very young right now but believe me, you will blink your eyes and be 45 and probably still here. So, don't be hating,ok?

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women so hung up on a mans height? Posted: 10/23/2007 1:10:16 PM
Silent Man, We are here to offer OUR opinion, so, yes, it IS about how I feel. Just because that happened to me it does not mean that ALL men are that way. I was merely trying to explain WHY it happened at all that I prefer tall men. You really should remain Silent,Silent Man.....so, you must be short, huh? And by the way, the woman who offered to sleep with you on the first date? Yea, that was a dream.......

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Some Men & The Instant Messenger on Here Posted: 10/22/2007 11:14:42 PM
Hey, Ubkobalt..... Wow! That was a total diss to all women! I read the end and felt kind of bad for you. To answer your question...."Creepy,huh?" no, I did not think that your Crying Game fake chick E mail was creepy at all. It looked like you were an air head. I don't know many guys who would respond to that,but you are still a youngster and you will learn how to really talk to a woman in time. The problem is you are so busy insulting them that it will be difficult for you to get a girl to notice you in a positive way. Maybe when you become a man you will understand and women won't treat you like a "ghost" as you said. You are only 27 so I am giving you the benefit of the doubt. Listen to the women here and learn.......good luck to you. You seem to like the idea of impersonating a woman and then you insult them in this forum...mmmm......I am thinking of Freud........never mind, you would not understand. Good luck, you will need it.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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how do you feel about getting old? Posted: 10/22/2007 10:55:25 PM
Well, consider the alternative for a moment. I feel great about getting OLDER,not OLD. I don't think I'd be too happy to NOT get older. This is a great time...remember, 60 is the new 40, 50 is the new 30,and 40 is the new 20....that makes me almost 26...lol. As a Nurse, I see people leave this world every day who would have LOVED the chance to grow old with their loved ones. I guess it's all a matter of perspective. Enjoy your time on Earth....it can be taken from you at any time.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Why are women so hung up on a mans height? Posted: 10/22/2007 10:47:28 PM
I don't like to sound shallow, Gatorjeff,but everyone has a personal preference. I happen to "prefer" tall men but I have dated men from 5'3-6'6". I would never not date a man because of his height but I love to feel tiny and tall men make me feel safer. I have had to be the protector in a confrontation once with a stranger when I was dating a short man. It was only once but since then I have not felt safe.(He had no balls.) I want to be the woman in the relationship,not the defender. I do know that many short guys know Martial arts and that would not be a factor then. I am from Boston originally and it is so important to feel safe with your date. That's been my experience. I am sorry to generalize....it's just a preference. No offense.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Pick up line? Posted: 10/22/2007 10:34:16 PM
Speaking from my own experience...pick up lines do not work. Not with me at least. Once when I was in a club in my 20's I was bouncing to the music on my bar stool. A guy approached me who appeared to be very phony and when he opened his mouth, I wish he didn't. His line was "I wish I was your stool." I then replied, without hesitation,"You LOOK like my stool!" It took him a minute to actually GET IT but then I saw his dim lightbulb come on as he realized he was completely dissed! I am not usually a mean girl but he was so fake! I still feel that he deserved it. Just be yourself. Tell the woman, "I find you attractive and would like to talk with you. Is that alright?" She will either deep six you or you will get to talk to her. You'll know right away if she is into you or not. It works for me. I want guys to be themselves...none of this "Hey, babe, what's your sign?" It is "GO AWAY!" lol...I hope this helps you. Good luck.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Its been four weeks now and no photo Posted: 10/2/2007 10:04:53 PM
The "descriptions" you are attracted to may not be truthful. I know from experience that the few men that I have met who did not have a pic did this for a VERY good reason. They were Frank N. Stein and Quas E. Moto...lol...sorry. It sounds like she is hiding something. She may want you to get to know her inside first so that the outside won't be so much of a shocker. Or maybe she is drop-dead GORGEOUS and wants you to fall for her for "her".....but I doubt it. BEWARE and good luck.

Nice Nurse 1961

Joined: 8/21/2007

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Long hair on older women Posted: 10/2/2007 9:56:06 PM
I keep my hair long because "I" like it that way. If a man likes it too, great. To me there is no precise age to give up the long locks. I think it is all about how you feel. Maybe if you feel young inside, it will project to the outside. (At least I hope so.) I have seen some older women....even older than me, that keep their hair long but styled nicely. When I FEEL my age maybe I will change it, but I don't see that happening any time soon. I know that it takes longer to dry and style longer hair,but who are you doing it for, yourself or a man?

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