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Joined: 4/18/2005

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Do you ever think of long lost loves? Posted: 9/18/2005 3:37:05 PM
I often wondered this same topic. I think of my past loves many times. I still think of my first girlfriend from 7th grade and wonder why she broke my heart. I still think of my 2nd girlfriend from the 10th grade who stated "Better keep in touch after graduation" but yet wouldn't give me the time of day when I met her in a bar one night. I even still think of my childhood girlfriend from when I was 5 years old (she was 4) Wondering how she is doing and if we'll ever see each other again.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Ever feel like your going to be alone forever? Posted: 9/17/2005 9:56:22 PM
I've thought about this very topic many times. Here it is, Saturday night, close to midnight. Sitting on the couch listening to Slaughter "Stick It To Ya" cd. I thought of going out alone tonight but really despise doing that unless there's a good concert in town. Just doesn't seem like there are THAT many single people out there when I go out. They all seem to be coupled up already. Sometimes I feel worse going out than I would if I had just stayed home.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Finding friends on POF Posted: 9/17/2005 5:02:44 PM
I have this same issue. In the past I have talked to a girl on more than one occasion. I invited her over, she showed up and basically told me I was not her type. I've never seen her again. Another time I spoke with a girl through email on more than one occasion. Met her for lunch and haven't heard from her since. One girl I spent the whole day with her too and still haven't heard from her since. I try to move on but it's not always easy. I think people are too restrictive on what they are looking for.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Hot in here !!!!! Posted: 9/17/2005 4:46:48 PM
I feel much the same way as DaKing feels. Everyone in here seems so gorgeous-both in pictures and in their responses. I'll just have to keep baiting my hook and wait for a bite.

Joined: 4/18/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

Why is it still such a problem for people to see two girls together? Posted: 9/17/2005 4:35:30 PM
I am against the whole same sex relationship. If it's suppose to be ok to date or marry the same sex, then why is it not ok for a brother and a sister to hook up with each other? They need love too don't they? It's morally wrong for a brother and sister to hook up as well as it should be for same sex relationships. During childhood we are taught what is good and right. If Adam and Steve get caught messing around with each other they are then told that it's improper behavior. I feel some people choose to go with their same sex just to be different. Well if everyone decided to do this the end off any human offspring wouldn't be too far away.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Anyone Tried the RUSSIAN thing? Posted: 5/25/2005 8:56:24 PM
Regarding the whole Russian topic....The other day I got another email from one of the Russian ladies. It was exactly the same as the one she sent before. Word for word and had the same picture enclosed. I felt I should respond so I found my email I had sent her previously and resent it. I may not hear from her again.

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Anyone Tried the RUSSIAN thing? Posted: 5/23/2005 2:30:14 PM
@jheldatksuedu: I'm still waiting for my "need money for visa" email from the couple russian women who are "in love" with me. There's is no way I'll even send them a dime. I'm just curious as to how many emails I get before they ask the question. Yes, it's tuff out there. I have profiles on many sites. Some of which I probably don't even remember. I've done the "winking" thing and haven't gotten too far with that. I've even paid for a couple months with a couple sites. By the time I seem "safe" enuff for a girl to meet me she ends up moving away from my area. Ha, I just can't win. My profile isn't anything long or drawn t. Just some simple words about myself. Apparently women don't like all that I have listen in my profiel. I hope oneday I'll find someone. I believe there is someone out there for everyone. My someone is just in some other state.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Anyone Tried the RUSSIAN thing? Posted: 5/23/2005 8:48:26 AM
I try initiating contact but it seems that I'm not who the girls are looking for. I'm either not the big "teddy bear" type guy or seem too "goody-goody". I once made the mistake of telling a girl I look like Shaggy. She immediately told me she doesn't go for those kind of guys. I was talking about looking like Shaggy from Scooby Doo. I think she may have been thinking of Shaggy the singer.

Joined: 4/18/2005

Msg: 45 (view)

Feels like I'm never gonna mnet you.. Posted: 5/23/2005 8:21:57 AM
It's nice to be open and honest but it is a turnoff being so open and honest too soon. I've chatted with a girl a couple times who has told me 3 times already (without my asking) that her ex bf has tried to kill her and beat her. She also has no money, no friends and "really likes talking to me" (gee I wonder why). I tried to give her another shot but she keeps telling me of her pity. I finally blocked her messages. Another girl told me right away that she is disabled and doesnt drive. I may have given her more of a chance had she waited longer than the 2nd time we chatted to tell me this. Honesty is good but too much too soon is bad.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Read and not reply? Do you do this? Has someone done this to you? Posted: 5/23/2005 7:21:03 AM
I try to respond to all messages I recieve simply for the fact that they took the time to respond to me. Not only that but also something may develop later down the road that I won't know unless I respond. I may miss out on my soul mate if I don't respond to someones message. If they sound like a basket case those then I don't respond as much. Maybe I'll just respond with a one liner to see if they respond back.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/22/2005 10:58:10 PM
I apologize for the double (double) posting. I finally wrote out a long response and then it didn't look like it was posting so I tried it again....and again......and again. Well, I guess it did post after all. Everytime in fact. Now don't I feel like an idiot? (the answer is yes).

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/22/2005 10:50:27 PM
I try to get to know a girl before seeing a picture of her. Sometimes pictures don't do justice. I'd love to be able to post pictures of myself to my profile but being I only have webtv I'm not able to. I have a picture of myself that my sister had sent to me once but that's a few years old now. I still believe I look pretty much the same. I'll always email my pic to girls who ask for it. It's just better if they email me their pic first. I've met a few girls without pics and it didn't turn out too well. One had no teeth, and the others who were "a few extra pounds" were completely fat. I had a few girls even lie to me about their real names and ages. I don't see whats wrong with just being truthful to everyone. I've even met some girls with pics but those didn't amount to anything either.

Joined: 4/18/2005

Msg: 142 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/22/2005 10:48:31 PM
I try to get to know a girl before seeing a picture of her. Sometimes pictures don't do justice. I'd love to be able to post pictures of myself to my profile but being I only have webtv I'm not able to. I have a picture of myself that my sister had sent to me once but that's a few years old now. I still believe I look pretty much the same. I'll always email my pic to girls who ask for it. It's just better if they email me their pic first. I've met a few girls without pics and it didn't turn out too well. One had no teeth, and the others who were "a few extra pounds" were completely fat. I had a few girls even lie to me about their real names and ages. I don't see whats wrong with just being truthful to everyone. I've even met some girls with pics but those didn't amount to anything either.

Joined: 4/18/2005

Msg: 141 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/22/2005 10:48:12 PM
I try to get to know a girl before seeing a picture of her. Sometimes pictures don't do justice. I'd love to be able to post pictures of myself to my profile but being I only have webtv I'm not able to. I have a picture of myself that my sister had sent to me once but that's a few years old now. I still believe I look pretty much the same. I'll always email my pic to girls who ask for it. It's just better if they email me their pic first. I've met a few girls without pics and it didn't turn out too well. One had no teeth, and the others who were "a few extra pounds" were completely fat. I had a few girls even lie to me about their real names and ages. I don't see whats wrong with just being truthful to everyone. I've even met some girls with pics but those didn't amount to anything either.

Joined: 4/18/2005

Msg: 140 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/22/2005 10:47:11 PM
I try to get to know a girl before seeing a picture of her. Sometimes pictures don't do justice. I'd love to be able to post pictures of myself to my profile but being I only have webtv I'm not able to. I have a picture of myself that my sister had sent to me once but that's a few years old now. I still believe I look pretty much the same. I'll always email my pic to girls who ask for it. It's just better if they email me their pic first. I've met a few girls without pics and it didn't turn out too well. One had no teeth, and the others who were "a few extra pounds" were completely fat. I had a few girls even lie to me about their real names and ages. I don't see whats wrong with just being truthful to everyone. I've even met some girls with pics but those didn't amount to anything either.

Joined: 4/18/2005

Msg: 45 (view)

Best way to ask a guy for his number Posted: 5/22/2005 10:06:16 PM
Being a guy I much rather have a girl ask me for my number. That way I can tell that she is really interested in me. I've gotten some numbers before but then the next day I would wonder, "was that girl really interested in me" or "should I call her back".

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Pet Peeve! Posted: 5/22/2005 9:52:49 PM
I have a few peeves on here. One of them is that when I take the time to write to a girl and she emails me back with a oneliner saying "Do you have a pic"? That's really rude. My biggest peeve is when I email a girl and she emails me back saying "you're not my type" yet she has no idea what "type" I even am. Most of the time I feel that if the women just give me a chance they will like me.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Is There Guys Out There For Nerdy, Librarian Type Girls? Posted: 5/22/2005 9:39:50 PM
In all honesty I really like girls with glasses. To me they look so much cuter. There are somedays that the girls at work will show up and they look so cute. I can't tell what is so different with them until I realize "Oh yeah, She's wearing glasses". I like the nerdy girls, some goth girls, plain janes, and some cuties. I'm not really into the "drop dead gorgeous" type. They seem fake to me. I like the real girls.

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Anyone Tried the RUSSIAN thing? Posted: 5/22/2005 9:13:45 PM
For some strange reason these are about the only kind of responses I get. On the dating sites they even say they're from California, or some other place in the USA. I've been talking to 3 ladies now who "love me". I'll talk to them up until they ask me for money. After that they won't hear from me again. I had one woman from Maylasia (or someplace) talk to me for awhile. After about her 3rd letter she was already asking for money to "come see me". One woman even asked me for my address to send me some "real mail".

Joined: 4/18/2005

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Why do women give you their number? Posted: 5/7/2005 10:45:46 PM
I have a question regarding this same thread. Why would a girl give a guy her number if she wasn't interested? This happened to me once. I was at a bar and asked a girl to dance. We danced a couple songs, I was just enjoying her company. After the last dance of the night she gave me her number without me even asked for it. I called her the next day (now realize I shouldn't have) and found the number was a bogus number. Why did she bother offering me a fake number?

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