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omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Ladies - do you see men as people? Posted: 10/9/2007 11:48:24 PM
There are some good women out there....your just surrended by asswholes thats all. Those kind of women are not getting any lovin at home so they want a guy to beat on. What you should do...Is play into the sterotype and piss them all off. You should tell them that you got a phone call today and the kitchen wants its main cook back. OR better yet, tell them that they got lucky and missed there chance to be barefoot and pregnant. LOL. Okay that sounds really sexist. LOL. But hey we all bash each other genderly and I know some of you even bash racially to behind close doors so don't even hide it. We are human and we let the past affect our present. Females hate males, males get pissed at stupid feminist, whites crack jokes about every race there is, and so do the other races crack jokes about white people. Do not sweat it man. Just know this....at the end of the day....You still get better privilages because your a male and society takes your seriously. LOL. Oh man I am going to be getting hate mail tonight. But its okay. Keep your head up man, and know that only girls hate you. There are real women out there that have some respect for the opposite sex and do see you as equal.

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

dating a female cop? Posted: 9/2/2007 2:42:01 PM
Female cops are awesome! A lady in uniform...to me...is hot! Keep the gun...just don't bring it to the bedroom. You can bring the handcuffs thats it. LOL. But seriously, guys are usually turned of if a female has power. Its due to conditioning and gender role's that are normally set. But do not worry though, there are guys that do not mind if a female can hold her own weight. I guess the main thing is that if you can still keep your lady attributes but do a man's job then there is no need to worry. Most females with power seem to try to dominant men so men stay clear of females in any high sort of power. Understand this is not all men, nor the guys that post here. But on a good ratio 1 out 4 guys would be okay with a woman that has power.

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Why are men afraid to IM or respond Posted: 9/2/2007 2:51:42 AM
then answer this for me, why do females not answer there IM or respond to a guys message. LOL. You got it bad just as anyone else. Either A.) YOu are attractive so guys think that you will not give them the time of day, or B.) They are just scared. Honestly, don't lose sleep over it. I get it too. I try to Im some girls and even email them...and nothing. Just a shot down. Whats even worst is when you start chatting then it says the user choose not to talk to you! Burn!!! I am not mad but thats what happens. I know I am not Denzel but dang I am not that ugly sheesh! But hey, if you shoot me an email I will respond. Anyways good luck and stay strong. Later!

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 208 (view)

Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/31/2007 8:54:04 PM
Why...Cause you do not cover them up!!! If they are covered up we don't notice but if you show cleveage then accept it. You want to show them off then guys will see them. Males are visual females are emotional. Thats just the way it is. Is it right, no but hey your chest is 3D ours is 2D unless you have man boobs. But its not polite for guys to stare though i would agree. Instead of getting upset just cover up or accept that it happens and move on. Thats life and its not fair!

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

what would u do?????? Posted: 8/31/2007 8:50:57 PM
if there is still heat in the moment, keep it movin. as long as she does not have an arm growing out of her chest then hey all is fair. That sounds shallow but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. either way you answer this, for guys we are shallow either way. what a horrible question to ask a guy!!

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

How to tell a guy you aren't interested...?!? Posted: 8/31/2007 8:46:05 PM
Just say this...."John...I do not like you! Your a cool person but not what I am looking for." Avoid we can just be friends. That will drive him over the edge. And then leave it at that. Don't say anything.

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Always attracting the wrong types Posted: 8/30/2007 8:35:11 AM
Okay lets stop right there! That is the problem...do you even know the guy? Have you picked his brain or did you even care to find out? Do you ask him about his past? What are his hobbies? Did he even ask how you are doing? My guess is that you are falling for these guys based upon looks not personality. A wolf can dance in sheep clothing. YOur not noticing the wolves and when you do you think they will change instead of cutting them off. Wow...ladies! Good guys are out there but here is the thing. You really do not want them. Why? they are not your "type"! If he is not a jerk then he is not attractive. If he does not have money...oh lord forbid. If he lives at home with his mom(which I do not) you call him a immature. But yet you like the old men that you know are pervs but yet you think they are more mature. LOL. I sit and laugh. If you want a good guy then dig for him. If one approaches stop the stupid games. Let a guy actually get to know you...slowly. Take it slow and not personal. If he stops calling you...so what. Keep it moving. Know how much your love is worth. If you are built then praise God. some girls would love to have what you have. now you have to know how to properly use it. Beauty is a double edge sword. Those that master it are either seen as awesome people or shady filters with no hearts! This goes for guys and girls. It sucks that you have meet those guys but start asking deeper questions and take it slow. See if the guy enjoys you for you before you let him go anywhere with you. And the same goes for guy's. Also, what you think of yourself....it must not be working if you keep attracting the wrong ones. LOL. I had the same problem too, with girls. THen I realized that it was me and now alot has changed. I can tell the fake ones from the real ones. And I do not put up with any BS. The moment she tries to lay into me...good bye. Life is beautiful without you! I was doing great before I meet you! LOL. Your going to be alright. Keep your head up and good luck. later.

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

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How long before you move on? Posted: 8/30/2007 8:13:29 AM
Look bro...people are dime a doezen. So she left you....move on. It hurts I know but crying about it is not going to bring her back. Instead ask yourself where you stand emotionally and what do you think you might have done? If you did nothing wrong then she left because she choose to. So let her go and move on. Someone else will apperciate you. Until, enjoy being single and take the time to love you for you. KNow what makes you happy and really look at what you want in a relationship. Keep your head up man. Life will get better.

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

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Ladies Please Help? Posted: 8/30/2007 8:09:45 AM
here are my questions: 1.)Why do girls say they are going antiguy when they choose the jerks vs the good guys? 2.) Why do girls choose the jerks vs the good guy 3.) Why do girls cry out for guys to treat them with respect, when they are not willing to show it back? 4.)Why are girls (OC especially) more shallow then guys? As in, he has to be mr.perfect or you will make him perfect. 5.) How many of you really know what Love means? and last 6.) Why do good guys always become targets for your release of pain because you slept with a jerk? Do you not think they have feelings too? Just curious questions. I have noticed a pattern with you ladies, so ladies feel me in. This Thread Closed - ULTRA Redundant/Done To Death To demonstrate how the Thread Search works and how many threads have actually been written on any particular subject, simply follow the directions. 1) Click where it asks you to "Enter A Partial Thread Subject", 2) Select one of the already entered for you, key words that a thread subject line may contain. 3) Thread Title for this example is the only available option - The real search has specific forums you can select to narrow your search. 4) Click on search. 5) You will then be presented with a page of threads, simply select the one that you think best fits your subject and add your comments to it. Click here -->Forum Posting Guidelines Read this BEFORE posting This Thread Closed - Redundant Moderator

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

What Drives You Away From A Woman? Posted: 8/30/2007 8:02:20 AM
NO we are not negative we are just stating that fact. I think Alot of guys on here are good guys that post and we are tired of being caught with the jerks the ladies wish to choose. THen they run to us with a pitch fork in their hand and expect us to have our arms open when we are running away for dear life. No guy wants to be a girls whipping boy just for her mere pleasure because of past hurt. The same windblows on us all. Girls just think that its a tornado. Stupidity knows no bounds!!

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 35 (view)

What Drives You Away From A Woman? Posted: 8/30/2007 8:01:20 AM
NO we are not negative we are just stating that fact. I think Alot of guys on here are good guys that post and we are tired of being caught with the jerks the ladies wish to choose. THen they run to us with a pitch fork in their hand and expect us to have our arms open when we are running away for dear life. No go wants to be a girls whipping boy just for her mere pleasure or past hurt. The same windblows on us all. Girls just think that its a tornado. Stupidity knows no bounds!!

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Getting Inside A Guy's Head Posted: 8/30/2007 1:46:25 AM
stay out of his head. Head games are suicidal and can blow up in your face. Instead, get his heart. Guys know when people are trying to mess with there heads and they hate it. Instead if you genuinely like the guy, develop love. If he loves you then there is nothing else that you need to do. He will call you, he will want to be around you...because he Loves you. But if you mess with his head and he realizes what is going on...then good luck. Besides, do you want someone messing with your head and emotions. This is the BS I am talking about. This is why people stay single and blame the other sex. Accept him for him and if you want to see him tell him that you like to see him more often. Communicate do not manipulate. Manipulation is nothing nobody likes but yet we do it to those that we love. Sick people we are. So yeah, go for the heart not the head. Once you have his heart, you will be alot more happier then mental control. The love he will show you is based upon free will instead of manipulated.

omegapoetik

Joined: 8/25/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

What Drives You Away From A Woman? Posted: 8/30/2007 1:36:37 AM
Girls that lack the understanding that guys have feelings too ironically. Underneath it all, guys want to be able to know that they can trust the one that they are with and let there true feelings show. It sucks that females expect guys to be everything that they dream of but when it is asked of them they feel that they are being oppresed. Honestly, do not ask for what you are not willing to give. Do not request for more if you are not willing to give more. And Understand that you attract what you are! That is why females always find the jerk guys because they are jerks themselves. THere standards are the same as the guys and for guys vice-a-versa. We have no respect for the opposite sex nor do we care to show any. Instead girls want guys to pay for everything and expect a guy to do it, and guys want to show off there toys so they can get the pretty girls. That then leaves those that are good people high and dry because we base character off of looks. This is not denying sex appeal because you have to be attracted to that person. However, beauty is only temporary, so it helps to be willing to get to know the person. The most attractive people can be demons that get a thrill out of breaking the hearts of good people. I am wondering when they day will come when guys and girls can grow up and be real with each other and quit the BS and finally say "I like you for you and I do not want to change YOU!". When that day comes I will be happy. I think we all will be happy. But until then, we keep trying to change each other and more guys are pissed off because females love to change men into their hollywood dream boat instead of accepting a guy for who he is. SO Ladies, if you are finding jerks...thats because you are a jerk. And guys if you are finding cheats and gold diggers...thats because you are one too. Raise your standards and know how much your love is worth. Never settle for less but do not base everything off of looks. Get to know the person, and ladies try listening to guys. We are simple and if you just shut your traps and hear us, you will be surprise that we do have a soft side. We just do not express it the same way you do. Thats my spill. Stupid people suck! Everyone lets just be blunt about our feelings and deal with it. If you read this and know that there is someone you like. Just tell them already. The worst they can do is say NO! After that move on. Later!

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