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hattrick4522

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Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men? Posted: 1/4/2009 10:01:14 PM
I honestly think that if a woman has a connection 2 a man, then they will build on that. A man is sexual, and a woman passionate. A woman is connected thru their partner and a man thru thermones, thus there is something missing. If a man can figure this out and find a common balance, then by giving her pleasure first, will give every man an edge thru satisfying her first, and make her happy will put ur self in the hall of fame.....

hattrick4522

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interested.... Posted: 3/8/2008 7:06:53 PM
interested in meeting new friends. I have fun and can be spontanious. drinks everyone? mike

hattrick4522

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How do you tell you're parter they er .. Not so good in bed!? Posted: 3/1/2008 7:24:05 AM
oh yeah and if its a woman then you marry her for she has a troubled past. kidding...

hattrick4522

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what is the most unusual thing you did with your partner 'after sex'?? Posted: 3/1/2008 7:10:52 AM
My girl at the time had her father die and after we..d I took her fathers car down too trade it while she slept.

hattrick4522

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How do you tell you're parter they er .. Not so good in bed!? Posted: 3/1/2008 7:01:13 AM
That would likely make him jump off a dry bridge or hang himself if he was dialed in and was failing you. Tell him before his manhood and his mental state are both trashed. No but I had a buddy who was far great looking than I but had nothing down. So he could never get past that emotionally, and I won out.

hattrick4522

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has anyone on here ever encountered a 'sex-a-holic'??? Posted: 3/1/2008 6:52:08 AM
Yep its called validation. and any narsacist(spelling?) usually is one. of course to be politically correct I am just joking for everyione is striving to better themselves.

hattrick4522

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Wanting 'The perfect lover' Posted: 3/1/2008 6:33:54 AM
In saying you want the perfect lover , are you saying just for the sexual part? If so it is so easy. If your partner would just slow down and LISTEN AND FEEL your bodies response, then he WILL KNOW HOW. Just tell him to start off soft and slow and not treat it like a 4 course meal. Why is it when a child is not shown something they are taught yet a man tries and fails and we say selfish...food for thought... obviously more but you know......Make sure you don't set yourself up for failure and give it a little learning curve. If their interested they will absorbe....

hattrick4522

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 3/1/2008 5:24:57 AM
not fishy but natural smell.

hattrick4522

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threesome etiquette Posted: 3/1/2008 5:18:15 AM
sounds like certian values are lowered and you lower your standards to fit in or please your mate? Is that what your saying?

hattrick4522

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Dead F*ck? Excuse my french. Posted: 3/1/2008 1:51:00 AM
anyone could if they saw you for you. good luck!

hattrick4522

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threesome etiquette Posted: 3/1/2008 1:00:37 AM
This I think is not so selfish but merely understood as taboo among guys.

hattrick4522

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Wanting 'The perfect lover' Posted: 2/29/2008 11:23:26 PM
I learned that secret along time ago and it has been trouble since.

hattrick4522

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For the ladies! Posted: 2/28/2008 10:04:13 PM
Listening to a goup of ladies a while back, they all agreed on one thing, that they could not be hurt emotionally by a woman, but always by a man. This peaked my curiosity.

hattrick4522

Joined: 8/25/2007

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drawn to you and the print left Posted: 2/28/2008 9:59:27 PM
thats funny but true. Why I have the question in the first place.

hattrick4522

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For the ladies! Posted: 2/28/2008 9:57:01 PM
I didn't mean I only wanted a females point of view guys. what do you think?

hattrick4522

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drawn to you and the print left Posted: 2/28/2008 9:47:38 PM
Nic e point, But I di dnot say these are my beliefs, just a statement told to me which raised the question.

hattrick4522

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For the ladies! Posted: 2/28/2008 9:42:54 PM
I guess I did not ask the question right. Do not get mewrong and has always been mine but if it happens can it damage your relationship with your partner? Truely no angle here ladies just pure insight and since I know the percentage of women who do fantisize why not let your gaurd down and reply?

hattrick4522

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For the ladies! Posted: 2/28/2008 9:20:05 PM
For the ladies! Why is it that a woman who will fantisize about another woman (Or be with), will not feel guarded by her and will only feel guarded by a man? A learned response, genes, or what? If the fantasy comes true, can the outcome be good or bad and why? oh yeah, and should a guy get involved or stay out?

hattrick4522

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drawn to you and the print left Posted: 2/28/2008 8:55:43 PM
Mine is a two part question: Do you believe that what you put out unto this world will atract the same energy(like people). Example: If you are angry and want to strike out will the same energy in an abusive mate be drawn to you? What do you think about a choice made with no thought or reguard, and do you think it will ccome back to you and why?

hattrick4522

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30% of women have sex on first dates? Posted: 2/28/2008 8:26:51 PM
I like your points but hard for u to reach unless u do not put yourself above or judge. Everyone has choices and the path that follows.

hattrick4522

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30% of women have sex on first dates? Posted: 2/28/2008 8:21:19 PM
If u stop the women on the street that fit the criteria, then u can get what ever percentage u want. I think ur rught though. I learned form my ex partner that if u do not give it up u get way more in return. That is how I got her for I did not give her a thing of value. I gave her priceless knowledge. (then I got it!!!))) To this day my friends still talk about the one they did not get and not the ones they did.. food for thought. This was very hard for me to explain to my 16 year old daughter 4 years ago, that every guy including the one who wants u as a friend is focused on one thing. (hard for me because I thought she would see a bad side of me, and then ask how I knew so much). As dinner was over and we left my daughter turned and said to me, "Dad, you could have waisted this talk for I talked to your wife earlier......) So ladies if u want then wait. (Imust be stupid for posting this....penance?) mike lol

hattrick4522

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How important is sex to you? Posted: 2/28/2008 7:38:02 PM
Ok seriously, I found a secret along time ago that if men used it then they could 1)have a woman totally trust u, and 2) will never forget u and may end still being your close friend in years to come. Well here it goes: I am going to talk about the 90 percent and not the 10 percent being a corp. trainer and knowing not everyone feels the same. (90/10 rule). My thoughts are based on listening to ladies and holding their opinion in high regaurd. A woman wants to feel that in the beginning of a relationship u(a man) need to give with no thought. We do this to dinner, and opening the door, and helping them into the car,etc..... but the one place we men have missed it is in the bedroom. If you please a woman in a certain way and know her body like u should, trust will be given with no effort. figure it out..... I will give u one clue: I have always been a lesbian!(love of women) this is how I learned to validate myself thru sex. I learned this knowing my ex-wife and her shattered childhood would change me for the good.

hattrick4522

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How important is sex to you? Posted: 2/28/2008 7:05:36 PM
I feel that most people put to much validation on sex. I did until I realized and and ETCHEW!!....ahhh not again...have to go back to the premature room. a MATURE love is greater and will withstand anything. NOT to say that sex is not AWSOME BABY!!!... mike oh yeah, freaky.... I Never kiss and tell..then there is no guessing!!

hattrick4522

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What type of friendship is appropriate for a married person to have with the opposite sex? Posted: 2/26/2008 6:08:06 PM
As soon as you put it on paper you crossed the line for you should have no doubts. Your computer is not your consious . Don't have the wife who was cheated on come to this page. ( there will be no solice for her here). If you have to ask then your heart already knows. choices...karma... lol mike

hattrick4522

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How should a single mom, with no help, date? Posted: 2/26/2008 5:30:54 PM
Carefully, kids first. good luck. mike

hattrick4522

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Sex without being married and religious belief Posted: 2/26/2008 5:22:37 PM
I am very much a christian, and I know its a sin. I am not their judge when gone. BUT I think their is a cutoff of 5 live ins,,,,,,,,,,,,,lol.........then you are truely missing the mark. mike

hattrick4522

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What DON'T you miss? Posted: 2/26/2008 5:00:14 PM
that is probably the easiest question to answer. In life their are choice and if your choicee is to be in a relationship, their should be nothing, for you take them at face value. Unconditional love. Let me say when I talk to people and they say I can't give 100 percent without a judgement, regret orresentment. That is not what I am saying, You know when you sacrificed and do something while not thinking about it our as your partner thanks you.............unconditional love.......So, to answer your question, nothing. When you are done, delete it. If you are truely in love or had been in love, it is your choice and focus on what u got out of the relationship, not what you lost.

hattrick4522

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what if you knew a man who was using a woman to profit himself Posted: 2/26/2008 4:38:20 PM
well since I have the utmost respect for women, (even though it is a choice at times or a choice that led to that) I would have to say that he should be shot.... mike

hattrick4522

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Can you be to wet? Posted: 2/26/2008 4:34:35 PM
obviously he was short in stature, length, iq, hair...etc..............he is just projecting his abnormal growth and ignorance. have a great day! mike

hattrick4522

Joined: 8/25/2007

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What is your favorite part of Sex Posted: 2/26/2008 3:31:03 PM
Would definitely have to say oral sex, for if you can please her.......done!

hattrick4522

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Reasons guys seem to lose interest in you... Posted: 2/26/2008 3:23:39 PM
That is the reason why people fall in and out of love. (what they think is love) At the beginning their is always passion. It is what drives it along. When it settles, to many people mistake it for lfalling out of like/love and they go their separate ways. Next relationship if this one does not work. Take it slow.. mike

hattrick4522

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Chemistry between a man and a woman...What is it? Posted: 2/26/2008 10:42:22 AM
a certain smell.

hattrick4522

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When Do You Send a Rose..... Posted: 2/26/2008 10:40:15 AM
When someone is sincere.

hattrick4522

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q for the guys--Tattoos on women--yes or no? Posted: 2/22/2008 8:36:22 PM
I think tats are totally hot on women, especially on the back of the neck that can only be seen with her hair up. Base of the spine. mike

hattrick4522

Joined: 8/25/2007

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Where to meet single people??? Posted: 2/22/2008 6:11:22 PM
oh yeah, try spending the whole day doing for anyone around with no thought of yourself. It WILL come back to u.

hattrick4522

Joined: 8/25/2007

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Where to meet single people??? Posted: 2/22/2008 6:09:12 PM
I have found that the harder you try, you will always miss it. Try setting up your week with a totally different route to work, places you eat, where u shop....etc. Remember, the sign of insanity is to repeat over and over the same actions and expect diff results. lol! good luck mike

hattrick4522

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Magic 8 ball returns Posted: 2/22/2008 2:55:01 PM
Will I get a new camera so I can download a half descent picture of myself in the near future?

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