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ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

Sex and religion. Posted: 9/14/2007 8:57:42 PM
In India sex IS a religion. The temples there have very graphic sexual paintings, and carvings, all over the inside, and outside. The last time I went to an allegedly Christian church-The Peoples' Church-I went home with a woman I'd met, and we screwed our brains out. People are individuals, and most churches in the USA are really just social clubs.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

is it necesarily wrong to read kama sutras and sex guides Posted: 9/14/2007 8:52:28 PM
I began reading The Kama Sutra Of Vatsyayana at the age of 7. By 9 I had the best bits memorized. I have never failed to please a woman. I now have no need of reading such things. Study up, memorize, and then dispose of the books. That way everyone is happy. What you feel is right, or wrong, does not matter...unless you only want to make love to yourself. If you want to make love to women, you have to avoid upsetting them. If sex manuals in your home upsets them, throw the sex manuals out...after you have learned all they contain.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 211 (view)

Sex with minors Posted: 9/14/2007 8:47:19 PM
If you are so sexually incompetent that you can't satisfy an experienced woman, and so feel the need to do children, move to Japan. 12 year olds are legal there. I learned this while stationed there, and treating local grade schoolers for VD after some Marines infected them. The jarheads were afraid they would be charged with statutory rape, but couldn't be. The 12, and 13, year old girls consented, and were legally able to do so. 12 is the age of consent in Japan.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 210 (view)

Sex with minors Posted: 9/14/2007 8:43:10 PM
No lay is worth going to prison for. Do you really have to learn that the hard way?

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 170 (view)

Do women really get wet panties without getting physical? Posted: 9/14/2007 8:41:15 PM
Girls get wet and hard.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 169 (view)

Do women really get wet panties without getting physical? Posted: 9/14/2007 8:40:04 PM
How old are you? While visiting my girlfriend I noticed her sister looking at me, and then turning away when I looked towards her. This went on for about 20 minutes. When the sister got up, to leave the room, the crotch of her slacks was soaked. She wanted me. This sort of thing is normal. Such natural lube makes intercourse easier and more fun. Read a sex manual, or two. You might also notice a womans' nipples getting hard, the pupil of her eyes growing wider, and her leaning in your direction.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

Are nymphomaniacs interested in having sex with almost any man? Posted: 9/14/2007 8:33:26 PM
True nymphos don't usually cum, and so search for the man who can make them orgasm. Men being what they are most fail to please, so the nympho goes looking elsewhere. Looks, smell, income, etc, are unimportant to the nympho in search of orgasm.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Crazy Chinese laws Posted: 9/14/2007 8:28:44 PM
Tattoos are illegal. They figure only gangsters have them so you can be jailed-without trial-for displaying one. They don't like gossips/false accusers. If you accuse someone of something-fraud, rape, bribery, or whatever-and then don't prove your charges in court, you can be imprisoned...recieving the penalty the person you accused would have gotten if he had been found guilty.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Possible Relocation to Foreign Shores Posted: 9/14/2007 8:22:38 PM
Australia. A good economy, 87% of people are middle class, English the local language, currency denominated in Dollars, American Dollars get you more Australian Dollars in exchange, sports are everywhere, great theaters/concerts/etc, an educated populace, they actually LIKE AMERICANS, and they have universal health care. Also close to Fiji, and other interesting places.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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How are yout ethics when it comes to this? Posted: 9/14/2007 8:16:49 PM
I guess the world needs whimps, too. I don't take such remedies. 99 times out 100 I don't need them, as I watch what I eat and drink well. I also cook food thoroughly before eating. I drink either bottled beverages-from water to pop to booze-or I use chlorine tablets/boiling to make what I drink potable. Since I would have no remedies I would have nothing to give anyone. Those who won't take care of themselves can learn the hard way. Vomiting, etc, is natures' way of getting the bad stuff out of your system. Suffering such is the quickest way to heal there is. Grow up, face facts,and live life...or die.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Do you look for eyes? Posted: 9/14/2007 3:11:23 PM
Eyes are very important, and reveal much about character. I look at eyes, and lips, before breasts/legs.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Falling asleep during a BJ Posted: 9/14/2007 3:08:34 PM
If he can fall asleep during a BJ, he has had too many drug/booze hits and isn't worth blowing...unless he is narcoleptic, and afraid to say so.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 118 (view)

would you date someone who is not capable of intercourse? Posted: 9/14/2007 3:05:44 PM
If she gave great hand/head jobs, sure.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 137 (view)

He doesnt want oral from me.. Posted: 9/14/2007 3:04:03 PM
Who cares? Since he doesn't want it, bring it here. I'll return the favor.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Question posed to me today...your thoughts please Posted: 9/14/2007 3:01:18 PM
I can, but why bother trying? I once knew a girl who was so paranoid about disease that she wanted to avoid contact...but still have some sort of sex. We got naked, sat on opposite sides of the room-one on a sofa, the other in an easy chair-masturbated ourselves, and watched each other as we did it. It was better than nothing, but nowhere near what it could have been if she hadn't been so paranoid. Oh well... anything to please the ladies.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Do you believe in Astrology? Posted: 9/14/2007 2:53:55 PM
The new astrology still uses old-outdated-star charts. Todays virgos are really leos, due to the precession of the equinoxes, yet astrology does not take this into account. Also, there are more than the 7 planets astrology recognizes. Believing in astrology is like believing in the tooth fairy, easter Bunny, etc.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Would like a Christian point of view on the following Posted: 9/14/2007 2:43:58 PM
Homosexuality is condemned as sin in The Bible...like it, or not, that is how it is. I know homosexuality is a choice, because I know 3 homosexuals who chose to stop being homosexual. If it were not a choice-if it were programmed by genes, etc-you could not change it. The "it's not a choice" line is a defense mechanism homos use to try to avoid blame, and guilt....just as alcoholics say the same thing. Their dad was a drunk, so they are, it's not their fault. get a concordance and read the story of Sodom. It was destroyed for the sin of homosexuality...men wanting to 'know' other men in the sexual manner...have 'carnal knowledge of' other men...enough to commit rape. Leviticus 20:13 - "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them." The verse has not been mis-interpreted. Hebrew experts-which you are not-say so, and they would know better than you and the authors you quote. Not only is homosexuality a sin, it carries a death penalty. There are other verses in The Bible which condemn homosexuality, but this one should be enough. If you believe The Bible you believe homosexuality is a sin. If you don't believe The Bible why worry about what it does or doesn't say? let's see you uphold your claim that homosexuality is not a choice. Which gene-on which chromosome-is responsible for homosexuality? That old line about the extra Y chromosome is bull, because many extra Y types exist who are not homosexuals. I don't care what is, or isn't, sin if I'm not engaging in it. Since I am not homosexual, I do not need to worry about whether homosexuality is sin, or not. I do not need to discredit anyone. You asked a qustion, and I answered it. If you choose to be homosexual, go ahead. If God exists, and views homos as sinners, you will have to answer to Him...not me.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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ashtar command Posted: 9/14/2007 2:16:34 PM
Actually, the Guards don't care what we do here, or how far we go in wrecking the place. Their job is to keep us from ruining the rest of the galaxy/universe.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Christianity and equality Posted: 9/14/2007 2:10:55 PM
There is no equality in the world. Is your sister equal to Wilt The Stilt at basketball playing? Are you equal to David Copperfield in magic skills? The point of Christianity is that it is right, and all other faiths are wrong, and thus not equal to Christianity. People who do not believe that are not Christian. If you choose to not be Christian, and want to be Wiccan, or whatever, why does it matter whether other people accept you/your faith as equals? Either you are right, or you are wrong, in what you believe and what others think about it doesn't change whether you are right or not. Only emotional cripples need peer/other acceptance to the degree that you seem to. Grow up.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Jesus As A Man Of Colour Posted: 9/14/2007 2:05:16 PM
Jesus was a Hebrew...NOT a man of color. He was of the tribe of David...NOT the tribe of Juan, or the tribe of Jamal. Jesus was also God, which is why any Christian has trouble with worshipping any mere man let alone a man of color. You flunked History, and Geography, as well as Bible Studies. So why do racist idiots such as yourself want the world to worship them?

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Is there sex after hysterectomy ? [subject edited] Posted: 9/14/2007 12:37:29 PM
Sex drive is part mental, and no physical thing can alter your mental sex drive...unless you let it. Think sexy thoughts often, when doing non-sexual things. Fantasize while masturbating. Get into the habit of thinking sex is possible for you, and it will be. Find a guy who enjoys forplay, and loves to go down on you.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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I need to ask a question. Posted: 9/14/2007 12:33:40 PM
And if Sean Connery, Sean Penn, or whomever your fave celeb is ,approached you while wearing sweats, and asked you to go to bed with him you would say:" no way, slob!" Yeah. I believe that. Can you spell 'shallow gold-digging hypocrite'?

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Does your town or area offer any groups for older singles? Posted: 9/14/2007 12:24:28 PM
Starting an over 45 club will violate federal laws, and get you in trouble. 55 is the age you can start to do a bit of discriminating at. Old ways are going the way of old people...to the bone yard. The internet is it if you don't want the senior centers... unless you want to try other social groups...camera clubs, travel clubs, etc. When you meet people with similar interest you will be able to date a few.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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heart attacks and dating Posted: 9/14/2007 12:18:21 PM
I've dated, and had sex, with women who have had multiple heart attacks. They may as well enjoy their last days. Having been a para-medic came in handy. I was at a senior center when one of the female members had a heart attack. I gave her CPR, got some aspirin into her, and drove her to the ER. She lived...and thanked me in bed later. The regular sex we began having made her heart stronger. She finally died in a car wreck, from a broken neck.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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I bought my first video game........................... Posted: 9/14/2007 12:13:44 PM
I've played for years. It is a good pressure relief. If I get angry at work, etc, I can come home, and kill a few Space Invaders, or whatever, on screen rather than kill my boss, a noisy neighbor, or such in reality.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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What about women my age with a child? Posted: 9/14/2007 12:11:21 PM
I'm sorry, but I am through helping to raise someone elses' kids. I'm also through being denied sex, dinner, nights out, etc, because the kids need mommy to hover smotheringly close 24/7. I'm through being unable to even make a slightly suggestive remark because mommy is afraid the kid might hear. You can have a fun single life, or you can be a mommy, and get what fun you can from that. You can't do both. I won't even try to help you do both. Make a decision and stick to it.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Her opening was way, way too small... Posted: 9/14/2007 12:06:48 PM
The size changes even during sex. If not used much it will shrink. Regular use will bring it back to size somewhat. Use a lot of foreplay. That will shrink it up until after she cums. After her orgasm it will remain small for a bit, and then relax and enlargen somewhat. I had one woman who hadn't done it for 25 years, and she was tight enough that a finger was uncomfortable. Lots of foreplay, and lube, and just a little finger, worked for her then. After several such visits over a couple of weeks, she loosened up more and could take several fingers. A couple of weeks later, she could take a small dildo, and later a large penis. Some things have to be taken slowly. It is muscle, and organ, not bone which is the problem. If you spent years never walking further than your fridge, and toilet, could you suddenly start running marathons?

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Female masterbation Posted: 9/14/2007 11:58:42 AM
If you like it, do it...often. Experiment with toys/techniques until you find what works best for you. What else is there to say about it?

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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I need some help here....and please be serious.... Posted: 9/14/2007 11:56:21 AM
You can't change another person. She will change-or not-when she is ready. A true friend would not even try to rush her.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Birth Control Posted: 9/14/2007 11:53:57 AM
If you are not into abstainance, and can't get pills, and don't trust condoms, go abroad. Canada, Mexico, etc, have different laws about medications. Get all the BC pills you want overseas, and bring then back home as prescribed medicine. If that fails, try yoga. If you really don't want to get PG, you won't. Mind over matter. There are tribes of indians in South America-Brazil, etc-who believe that pregnancies result from a spirit-which normally rests on tree branches-entering a womans' womb after she is married. The spirits never enter single women. This belief keeps unmarried women from getting PG...no matter how much sex they have. The mind is a powerful thing...if not dulled by too much soap opera watching, and tabloid reading.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 325 (view)

Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido????? Posted: 9/14/2007 11:45:33 AM
It's an individual thing. Some older guys want sex as much as they did when younger, but are less selfish, and urgent, than they were earlier in life. They have learned they get more, and better, sex from a woman if they have pleased her first.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Experiences in Downsizing Lifestyles Posted: 9/14/2007 11:43:21 AM
Most people live beyond their means, and so have to downsize everytime there is a seasonal layoff, a factory closing, or such. Live within your means, and have a safety net, and you will need to do less downsizing. Life is about more than possessions, and consumerism, and conspicuous consumption. Learn this now, or later, as you choose. Attitude is what counts. Living in a cave is better than not living at all. Living in a one bedroom apartment is better than living in a cave. Living in a two bedroom house is better than living in a one bedroom apartment. Adjust your attitudes, and your happiness will follow.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Does their sun sign affect your interest level? Posted: 9/14/2007 11:32:47 AM
If you know anything about astoNOMY, you know that astroLOGY is BS. There are more than the 7 planets which astrology is based upon. Then, too, the astrology charts are out of date. Modern Virgos are really Leos...due to the Precession Of The Equinoxes. Base your life on fairy tales-such as astrology, and beauty and the beast ("my love will change him")-if you wish, but don't complain to me when it all goes wrong.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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What would our kids think Posted: 9/14/2007 11:28:48 AM
Who cares? Living your life by what other people may say is the surest way to have no life.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 160 (view)

Mature Woman Posted: 9/14/2007 11:27:31 AM
You love sex with your partner? So what are you doing on a singles site looking for more/new partners?

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Ladies...is rejection harder at our age? Posted: 9/14/2007 11:25:23 AM
You feel you are rejected because of your age, or looks. More than likely you are rejected because of what you seek. If you want a serious long term thing guys who want a casual thing will reject you. If you want "a stable man" (code for 'financially stable; ie 'rich') not so rich guys will reject you rather than have you reject them. If you want a life in the country, city guys will reject you. The more flexible your wants are, the less you will be rejected.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 314 (view)

Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older? Posted: 9/14/2007 11:20:25 AM
Kissing always has been, and always will be, a required part of the game for me. I love to kiss, and be kissed, and have broken up with women who were otherwise great in bed because they did not like kissing. As foreplay, and after play, and even during intercourse, kissing is the icing on the sex cake.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Vasectomy - Did you feel a declining sex drive ? Posted: 9/14/2007 11:06:26 AM
Most of that decline is mental. Palace harem guards in Islamic/Hindu countries actually had more than just vasectomies. They had total castrations...of the gonads. Even so, these guards managed to get it up, and have sex with the harem girls...whom they could not impregnate. Part of the sex drive/urgency is physical bio chemical, and part is mental. Losing your nads in castration effects the physical bio chemical drive...but need not effect the mental drive. A mere vasectomy effects the physical drive very little, but some guys have a mental drive shut down after a vasectomy. It is just you. Relize that you can still have sex if you want to, and then begin looking for what excites you. Perhaps you are tired of living up to other guys' expectations and seeking cheer leader babes. Maybe some part of your sub-conscious really wants some granny love, or another guy, or whatever. Try women who are: older, fatter, browner, asian, etc, and see if anything sparks a new mental drive. Maybe a new kink-bondage, garter belts, etc-would work.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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I lost my Mojo! Posted: 9/14/2007 10:55:50 AM
Forget trying to meet your soul mate/get married. Just date, and enjoy the moments, and the soul mate will eventually arrive when you least expect him.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Sexually Active Seniors Posted: 9/14/2007 10:54:06 AM
I know of one woman who had never had an orgasm except those she gave herself via masturbation. She had been a virgin until she married, and her husband was a wham-bam type who went to sleep 15 seconds after getting his own thrills. This woman never cheated, and finally became a widow. Then, she met a new guy who went down on her for the first such experience of her life...at age 68. That flipped the switch, and she even had orgasms during intercourse after that. She is hornier now-in her 70s-than she ever was as a teen, and she gets more sex now than she did at any point during her marriage. Her younger lover can hardly keep up with her demands. He is a good friend of mine, and tells me all. He is exhausted, but happy.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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how do you feel about getting old? Posted: 9/14/2007 10:43:24 AM
Aside from a few physical things-lowered hormone levels, etc-age is pretty much an attitude. In some ways I have been 40 since I was 4, and in other ways I will be 18 until I die...even if I live to 200. If your sex drive is entirely hormone driven, age will effect you more. If your sex drive is also mental, age will effect you less. Lifestyle plays a part. The more harmful things you do-smoking, drinking, drugs, coffee, cholesterol, etc-the more you will feel the effects of age. The less you do of harmful things, the less age will effect you.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 85 (view)

I am Bored...Are You? Posted: 9/14/2007 10:24:57 AM
You can't be bored unless you are boring. Dogs entertain themselves by chasing their tails. You do have more brains than a dog...don't you? Fleas entertain themselves by jumping 1500 times their own length, and landing in strange new places with every leap. You do have more brains than a flea...don't you? Your trouble is that you are so used to: dates, Tv, movies, radio, etc, entertaining you that you have forgotten how to entertain yourself. Try imagining. Then read more. Then try writing The Great American Novel. Just mindlessly filling your hours with distractions-volunteer work, etc-won't entertain you and so won't keep you from feeling bored. Re-learn the art of entertaining yourself. I haven't been bored since I was a child, because I began entertaining myself.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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Calling all 40-60Something Males? Posted: 9/14/2007 10:16:42 AM
Shallow guys will see your age first and foremost. Non shallow guys will see your personality, loveability, and such first. Where women goof is in seeking a long term thing first. Some guys never want long term, and even the guys who do want long term feel they need to grow into it...by starting as friends/lovers and becoming more over time...starting as a couple who slowly grow into one being. Once you and he are one-mentally, spiritually, etc-that is the best long term relationship there is...but it takes time, and begins with becoming one physically, and then socially, and then fianancially. True love grows, and almost never just happens at first sight.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 267 (view)

would you share your toothbrush?? Posted: 9/14/2007 3:20:51 AM
Do you kiss? French kiss? Perform oral sex? What could be on a toothbrush that wouldn't be on: teeth, tongue, or genitals?

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

is this bein a Whore? Posted: 9/14/2007 3:17:24 AM
Being a whore is sleeping around with lots of guys, and taking money for sex. Being a slut is doing the same thing for free...no money. If you are sleeping with one guy, and not taking money for it, or seeing one guy and not sleeping with him, you are neither a whore, or a slut. What difference does it make? Why do you care if an ex badmouths you? It sounds as if you want the ex back, and are upset he won't take you back. Let the town talk, and ignore it. If you can't ignore the talk, move to a new town.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

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WWYD...if your ex said the reason you broke up was untrue? Posted: 9/14/2007 3:12:42 AM
When I break up it all goes...even the mutual friends. Since I don't hear what is being said, I don't care what it is. I don't care what people think, because they will think what they want regardless of whether I like it or not. I have more important things to do in life than worry about what others are thinking, or saying. If you don't, it is no wonder your relationship ended. You are not adult enough-mentally-to be in one.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 450 (view)

Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 9/14/2007 3:08:16 AM
It is ok for anyone to hit anyone...in situations which call for self defense. It is never ok for anyone to hit anyone out of anger, or desire to control, or such. PMS is no more a defense in court than is drunkeness. When I am being unreasonably attacked without cause I will hit, stab, or shoot, my attacker regardless of gender. The law says I can. I reserve violence for such self defense occasions.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 89 (view)

Promise Rings Posted: 9/14/2007 3:02:45 AM
Promise rings are for 10 year olds, and have no significance in the adult world. For grown ups there are engagement rings, and wedding rings, and rings of no significance.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 54 (view)

is there room for both mommie and me in his life ? Posted: 9/14/2007 3:00:55 AM
There is room for both you and mommy...but one of you has to take the back seat to the other. It sounds like mommy is in the front seat...and always will be. Tolerate it, or don't.

ozziefan

Joined: 8/26/2007

Msg: 170 (view)

Is there an assumed commitment between 2 people dating, once they've had sex? Posted: 9/14/2007 2:58:21 AM
The word assume makes an ass of u and me. Assume nothing.

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