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roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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How do you deal with a loud talker???? Posted: 1/14/2009 5:15:25 PM
get her a hearing aid. She had a disability. Her hearing is impaired.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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High maintenance definitions Posted: 1/12/2009 6:36:37 PM
Only makes reservations for dinner, but expects the man to pay

roving_adventurer

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Sex with Tall women Posted: 1/12/2009 6:30:01 PM
lying in bed with a girl, I never notice her stature.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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One night stand...any chance he'll call? Posted: 1/12/2009 6:27:38 PM
depends on the guy and the evening and the sex, and if he has a girlfriend, and if he doesn't lose your number, and, , , . You get the idea. Put yourself out of your misery, call him. It will either click or you'll want to hide under your desk for an hour after the call. Either way you'll resolve it.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Why Do Guys Try To Pick Up Their Servers??? Posted: 1/7/2009 8:50:04 PM
simple. You are the one bringing the beer. After a few that influences the man's mind, but not enough to forget who's bringing the beer, and the woman who brings the beer is the most beautiful woman in the place. I once watched a guy getting ready to sail to the bahamas. His wife, who was not going with him helped him load beer in the boat. Now that was a keeper.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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This ruined my day,,,,,,, Posted: 1/7/2009 8:44:37 PM
I don't think you're huge. I'd say that given you are 5'3" you probably weigh about 170 pounds from the picture. Of course that could be the results of distortion in the picture. Sometimes if you crop the picture wrong, POF changes the way you look. Since I don't understand women's sizes, I wish the profiles included weight. Perhaps if you included your weight in your profile. (I think I do.)

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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First meeting someone from Online Posted: 1/7/2009 8:24:29 AM
Maybe on line dating isn't for you. Perhaps you need to meet people through some other approach. As for the guy. Have a girlfriend meet him and then introduce you to him.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex????? Posted: 1/4/2009 4:42:18 PM
try taking this line out: What do I look for in a man? Must have a sense of humor, open mind and ultimately, the same level of passion as me!

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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30 day Abstinence Posted: 1/2/2009 7:14:15 AM
Your body will continue to create little soldiers, even if you don't fire them. If your body decides that you need sex, you'll have what are called 'nighly emissions'. Remember them? Just think of all the hot water you'll save Good luck

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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When you are dating someone but they tell you they see you as just a friend. Posted: 1/1/2009 2:17:25 AM
I have women friends that I enjoy spending time with, without having sex. That's being friends and we hang out. As for why women want FWB. I imagine it's the same reason that a guy does.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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she is honey girl or money girl? Posted: 1/1/2009 2:14:00 AM
No man can earn more than a woman can spend. I know. I was married.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Why so many advice to move on when the relationship may be workable? Posted: 1/1/2009 2:08:54 AM
look at the audience. People on POF are people who are not in a relationship. That means that they can't/won't engage in one. Such people would logicallly have a greater experience with relationship failures, and therefore be more prone to ditching a relationship for some reason. Our responses are in part a response to our experiences.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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I enjoyed my visit with my GF.. yet why do I feel down? Posted: 1/1/2009 1:57:42 AM
Ouch. I can feel your pain. Sometimes we as men follow a course because we have said, "I love you" and then buy into everything it implies. I recently broke up with a woman I thought would be the love of the rest of my life. I didn't want to do it, and I still don't. Why did I do it? I realized that I was crying silently. I mean the tears were there although I wasn't sobbing or even sounding upset. In the twenty-four hours since I broke up with here, I miss her, I know I can never replace her, and I believe I may never love anyone like I lover her again in my life, but.... But. I'm not crying silently any more. Sometimes, people (men) don't know what is hurting us, what is causing us emotional pain. Too often we are told to just "suck it up". It is only when the knife is pulled out of the wound that we realize how painful it was in the first place. You need more space and more time to relect and find yourself.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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What should I do..? Posted: 1/1/2009 1:41:26 AM
Get a job. Women cannot love, respect or desire a man who doesn't have a job or a car. If you get a job, she might come back.

roving_adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Is there Passion after 40? Posted: 1/1/2009 1:36:23 AM
definitely, but with a few provisos. There are a number of issues that dampen the ardor of both sexes. 1. Menopause affects feminine libido and the femine response. Lubricant may be required. 2. Blood pressure meds, and cholesterol meds can effect a masculine response, leaving him feeling a little flacid. 3. obese weight can interfere. On the other hand, there's the freedom from pregnancy, and and more confidance in ones skills and experience. Finally, just because you are over forty doesn't mean you won't run into the jocks, the geeks and the drama queens. I sometimes think people never grow out of highschool

roving_adventurer

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Forgive if if silly, however: I'm not a cologne guy, but... Posted: 1/1/2009 1:17:29 AM
Can honestly say that I never thought of that.

roving_adventurer

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Scars, do they scare you (guys) Posted: 12/30/2008 8:59:52 AM
No. Scars are the price of living, and the price of surviving. 25+ years ago I knew a lovely woman. We had been lovers and remained friends. After she had emergency surgery for an obstructed bowel she thought she was scarred and ruined forever. I told her is wasn't even something a guy would notice. Since thing I have known women who have survived c-sections, hysterecomies, breast removal, and other operations. They all remain as vibrant as before and as desirable as before. If your scars are new, they will appear raw. In time that should fade. If, after a couple years you still find them unsightly, consult with a plastic surgeon. One might be able to reduce the obviousness of the scars. However, do tell the guy so that he is prepared, and doesn't explain "How sh*t, Did you get caught in a paper shredder?" or something to that extent.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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What ever happened to committment and chivalry? Posted: 11/13/2008 10:43:49 PM
Then there`s this song from Camolot: Where are the simple joys of maidenhood? Where are all those adoring daring boys? Where's the knight pining so for me he leaps to death in woe for me? Oh where are a maiden's simple joys? Shan't I have the normal life a maiden should? Shall I never be rescued in the wood? Shall two knights never tilt for me and let their blood be spilt for me? Oh where are the simple joys of maidenhood? Shall I not be on a pedestal, Worshipped and competed for? Not be carried off, or better st'll, Cause a little war? Where are the simple joys of maidenhood? Are those sweet, gentle pleasures gone for good? Shall a feud not begin for me? Shall kith not kill their kin for me? Oh where are the trivial joys? Harmless, convivial joys? Where are the simple joys of maidenhood? --------------------------- Sorry ladies. I have not intention of feuding for you, dying for you spilling my blood for you, or leaping to death for you. You`ll have find a younger fool

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Ok I have no idea what happend Posted: 11/13/2008 10:38:31 PM
I`m sorry for your pain. I can read it in your posting. Several of the responses (from women) have suggested you give her more time. You said, `Now it has been several days and I can not get a return call to voice mail, a reply to text or email! ` I have bad news for you. You are history. It isn`t anything that you did. She has found someone else that make her heart chimes ring.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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when I guy says he made love to me Posted: 11/13/2008 9:11:04 PM
speaking for myself, that phrase refers to a kinder and gentler form of sex, usually with cuddling afterwards and a concern for my partner`s pleasure. Let`s see if I can make the difference clearer. If I gently kiss you and then take your hand and lead you into the bedroom. I light candles and then undress you slowly and gently with my tongue teasing your nipples. Then if I slide you onto the bed and then, lieing beside you, you tongue and c*ck and hands to bring you to the heights of passion, that is making love. If I slam you against the wall, pull you hair as I kiss you roughly, tear a button off your blouse as I slip my hand inside to pinch you nipples and then pulll you dress up and your panties, down then that is fvcking. do you see the difference...

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Full Moons ??? Posted: 11/13/2008 8:55:50 PM
I`m a sailor, and I prefer to make longer (days) sails on the ocean around the full moon. When you are out of sight of land and away from streetlights, the full moon gives almost as much light as the sun. You can see your shadow. Horny... I`m a guy. I`m always horny.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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What I learned today Eeek! Posted: 11/13/2008 8:39:53 PM
Do research on the internet. There are a couple of positions (medical and political) on the issue of AIDS that cloud the issue. There are the people who will convince you that unprotected sex with anyone will give you aids unless, and there are the people who claim aids is not an issue. First. In the province of Ontario, (and I assume your province) AIDS testing is free, simple and easy. Its a blood sample. Tests should be taken no less that 60 days after the incident (the sex.). Second. Aids is not particularly easily transmitted. Condoms, unless they rupture are 100% effective. (Sorry to the religious people who claim only abstinence will work.) Third. AIDS is most often transmitted by anal sex. In countries where Anal sex is common as an alternative to avoid pregnancy, transmission between men and women is higher. Fourth. Men are less likely to get AIDS if they are circumcised. Fifth. In the U.S. testing for AIDS is less common. People are afraid to test for AIDS because if their HMO finds out, it will conclude that they are doing risky behaviours and cut them out. Sixth. In the U.S. the rate of AIDS among African Americans is far higher than among other groups. Some people claim that rate is comparable to the worst parts of africa. In Canada the rate is higher about first nations. Seven. AIDS transmission during oral sex is low, and some say none existent. (Sorry to the religious groups that consider oral sex perverted.) In summary. Get tested. Make him wear a rubber until you know him. Then make him get tested. Avoid IV drug users. Finally, as one person remarked the rate in Canada is less that 1%. In other words, you chances of hitting the jackpot are low. Even if you have 20 lovers, you chances are less than 1 out of 5 that you will be in danger. Still, that doesn`t mean you should be silly

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Men Pretending to be Women Posted: 11/13/2008 8:12:03 PM
This explains all the women that will email, but won`t talk on the phone or meet for a coffee. Hmmm. Maybe 98% of the people on POF are actually male.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Men Pretending to be Women Posted: 11/13/2008 8:10:36 PM
It goes both ways. when my daughters started to go onto the internet, and into chat rooms, I warned them about the dangers of lurkers and so forth. One daughter replied, `Don`t worry daddy, my profile shows I`m chuck and thirty five year old plumber. Women used to hide behind male profiles to avoid being hit on. Men, especially Gay men, used to pretend to be women, to flirt with men. I`m surprised to hear it is still going on.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Divorce...ticket to freedom land of happiness? Posted: 11/13/2008 11:26:18 AM
there's a reason that your are separated. There's a reason that people are divorced. Me. I'm free and happy, but it took me several years to grow and learn. I had to discover what I had lost during the unhappy times and come to terms with it. There is no simple ticket to buy to the land of happiness. It's a journey made step by step.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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I'm going speed-dating tonite!! Posted: 11/13/2008 11:18:53 AM
how about something related to your interests, dreams, aspirations, hopes? What have you done in the last six months, besides, work, bars, out with friends, and T.V.?

a_second_life

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Looking at younger women / girls. Posted: 11/11/2008 3:31:15 PM
teenage girls and kittens. Fun to watch, but stay clear of the claws

a_second_life

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so.... the WIFE called me Posted: 11/11/2008 8:06:58 AM
actually I have. She was calling to tell me about how my wife was destroying her marriage. I suggested she call back and talk to my wife directly.

a_second_life

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She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history? Posted: 11/8/2008 2:23:17 PM
The women say cut her some slack and most of the men don't. Strange. According to a survey (no I don't have the source) there is one working girl for every thousand people. In New York city that would be about 1500 working girls. That's at any particular time. Some wander in and then wander out. How many women are there in the United States that once turned a trick. More than 300,000. Probably triple that. That doesn't include strippers, showgirls, nude models, and hooters waitresses. in other words about one out of every 150 women at some time turned a trick. Have you any idea how many of them are currently on POF? So, The first thing you have to understand is that your experience is neither new nor unique. In fact it's part of a plot cliche. (Watch the Original Poisiden movie). Second. It's you problem. You should go for counseling and start to understand that nothing in your relationship with your girlfriend has changed except your perception of her. Reality is sometimes how we perceive it. In some societies, a courtesan was a highly respected profession. During the time of the Byzantine empire, one rose to be queen of the empire. We should not forget the past, but neither should it rule us.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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When Are You Too Old to Date? Posted: 11/8/2008 1:49:05 PM
After my mother passed away my father eventually found a life on his own. One of his secrets that he kept from the rest of the family was about his new girl friend. (She was a doctor.) They remained a secret pair until he died at the age of seventy nine. On of my duties was to call her, tell her that he had dies and when the funeral was. I don't know if she came. I think that unless senile dementia sets in there's no limit to dating.

a_second_life

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Never being successful...over 50. Posted: 11/2/2008 8:49:22 AM
George Bernard Shaw did not see any of his plays produced until he was 55. How did he live? He lived at home with him mother. I'd say Shaw was pretty successful

a_second_life

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Going to seed - our fate? Posted: 11/2/2008 8:31:50 AM
When we were young, we could run for the joy of it, and stretch as much as we wanted and eat anything in sight. Now, 'Use it or lose it'. I see people who can't take a step off the sidewalk any more. I see people who weight twice as much as me, and I know they can't ride a bike, or go for a walk. They have lost that capacity. They can't play tennis, climb a tree, and so forth My cardiologist believes the if everyone got ride of their car, he would have more time to golf. For mental capacity, it is the same thing. Those who take classes and courses and continue to learn, retain greater mental acuity. I know a lot of people who use age to judge physical capacity. That's a mistake. I know 60 year old men who spend three days a week in the dojo, teaching 20 year old fellows how to stretch and do 50 push ups. I've seen 20 year olds who can't walk up a flight of stairs without huffing and puffing. It's not about age, but activity, both mental and physical Eric

a_second_life

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Is partner swapping ok???????? Posted: 10/31/2008 9:15:50 PM
What happens from this day on is something you can control in part. You can control your actions and your interactions with you bf, and your best friend. Talk with you boyfriend, and then talk with your best friend. The danger lies in mixed responses; where some people want to repeat the experience and others don't. Unless everyone was comfortable with what happened and want to repeat it, then mark it down as an experience and say you'll laugh about it in 20 years. (Everyone includes you.) If everyone isn't comfortable, then blame it one something, booze, the time of the month, the phase of the moon, emotional vulnerability because of .... Just find something to blame and move past it. You have two relationships to worry about, your boyfriend, and your best friend. You may have an issue convincing both of them (and her boyfriend) that both these relationships should continue. Be strong. There's a term for it. It called polyamoury. There are a lot of responses in this read that basically read. "I wouldn't do it, and since you did it, you must be some sort of pervert." Ignore those. They don't help. They believer that their values are the only values that count and should be imposed on everyone in the world, by force if need be.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Really Weird Experience Posted: 10/27/2008 6:11:38 AM
Its a condition, sometimes affects people of either gender. It's spelled M.A.R.R.I.E.D. Although there is a related condition called U.N.D.E.R....A.G.E. In case you didn't know there are people of both genders who get their kicks by putting up an profile, sometimes with a fake picture and then trolling for people who they then flirt with by email with no intention of ever meeting. I don't know what the kick is, but they do it.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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How do you get deal with being a one nighter to someone? Posted: 10/27/2008 6:03:27 AM
It hard, when you realize that someone just wanted to **** you for one night and then disappears. It happens to men and women. It happened to me. I know how it makes you feel. But the issue here isn't how long you knew the person, or how many dates you went out, or that you had sex. It's that they didn't want more than one quick bang. That's their issue. So pick youself up and think, 'What can I learn from this?' Good luck

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Paid Dating Sites a Scam? Posted: 10/25/2008 6:28:59 AM
what ticks me off are the sites that advertise they have members in your area. Then you go through the hassle of signing up. 2 hours later, with a complete profile, you do a search and all those members in your area? all five of them, none of whom have been on since 2001. And the sites keep using the same pictues over and over again for these imaginary members.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Asking permission to marry, what will her dad ask? Posted: 10/25/2008 6:19:04 AM
As a father, your action goes a long way towards making things work in the future. Aside from job and future, I would ask about religion and your family. After money religion can be the source of conflict within a marriage. As for Family, you don't just marry my daughter, my daughter marries into your family, and our families are connected for the next 30+ years more if there are grandkids. Ask your father and grandfather about thisss. They'll tell you. There's a difference in viewpoint. What can you expect? He will ask questions, say he will discuss the matter with his daughter, and suggest a long engagement. 22 is young to commit for life.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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important circumcision question: not a debate Posted: 10/17/2008 9:08:32 PM
If its an issue to you, talk to a plastic surgeon. They can restore you to your original state. I understand that it takes a couple of months of pain, but that is does restore the look and even eventually improves the sensitivity of the head. However, stats out of Africa show that circumsized men have a 40% lower chance of catching HIV.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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date other asians or american? Posted: 5/5/2008 6:33:52 AM
There's a term for it. Banana. Yellow on the outside but white on the inside. In Canada there's an entire generation of people like yourself growing up. In Vancouver or Toronto you'll run into thousands. (The exodus from HK in the 70's 80's and 90's created this group.) However, in Toronto, many of them do speak some Cantonese or Manderin, and can read and write some Chinese ideographs. Saturday schooling. Of course the same was true of the previous waves of immigrants (Polish, Italian). I would suggest you go out with those people whom you find attractive and find you attractive. Unless your parents have a strong preference for you marrying someone of your own ethnicity, it shouldn't be a problem. Ketch

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Men Who Tint Their Hair Posted: 5/5/2008 6:24:51 AM
And what about those with a toupee, or whitening kits for their teeth? Seriously, men are now under the same pressure to preserve a fit youthful look that women have been under for years. Small wonder they resort to hair dye, teeth whitening, and so forth. "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." Agism is particularly apparent on POF, where women consider a man more than five years older than them as too ancient to consider. Age may be a state or mind, and a state of health, but the mind and the health don't make the first impression. He may be able to jog fives miles and bike all day, but it's the hairline that shows on the picture. ketch

a_second_life

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dating a younger woman Posted: 5/4/2008 10:29:57 AM
stop smoking. start jogging. Join a gym. If you can`t keep up now, what will you be like in ten or fifteen years. Do you want to be one of those people shuffling on a walker for the last ten or fifteen years of you life...... As for keeping up. She`ll cut you some slack. If she wanted a hot stud who could get it up three times a night, she would be with an 18 year old. (I remember those days.) Nothing worth having is easily won. Nothing worth having is achieved without effort. Ketch

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Un-called-for Posted: 4/21/2008 5:32:48 AM
cell phones can be turned off. It sound like a co-dependent relationship. On the other hand perhaps its just a form of attention grabbing. Ketch

a_second_life

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I cant BREATH!!! Posted: 4/21/2008 5:31:20 AM
You count too. Your goals, health, happiness are as important, if not more important than his. You deserve something out of the relationship, something more than self sacrifice. I can't live your life for you. You can't live his life for him. If you don't care, then you are cheating both of you by staying. You are cheating yourself of a relationship with someone that you care about and cheating him of a relationship with someone that cares about him. Ketch

a_second_life

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Who loves MORE? Posted: 3/30/2008 6:26:52 PM
WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN (Percy Sledge) When a man loves a woman Can't keep his mind on nothin' else He'd trade the world For a good thing he's found If she is bad, he can't see it She can do no wrong Turn his back on his best friend If he puts her down When a man loves a woman Spend his very last dime Trying to hold on to what he needs He'd give up all his comforts And sleep out in the rain If she said that's the way It ought to be When a man loves a woman I give you everything I've got (yeah) Trying to hold on To your precious love Baby please don't treat me bad When a man loves a woman Deep down in his soul She can bring him such misery If she is playing him for a fool He's the last one to know Loving eyes can never see Yes when a man loves a woman I now exactly how he feels 'Cause baby, baby, baby I am a man When a man loves a woman

a_second_life

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Chemistry...explain please Posted: 3/30/2008 6:22:42 PM
Chemistry = sexual attraction. When a woman tells you that she just thinks of you as a friend, that means she enjoys your company, but you have the sex appeal of her brother to her. Can't argue with it. What can you do? Change your hair, your dress, you ride, your attitude, and find another girl to kiss.

a_second_life

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My first Russian mail order bride! Posted: 3/30/2008 9:54:42 AM
How bout Northern Ontario mail order brides wink at Miss Teeq lol. Lets see Sudbury gurls, Timmins Gurls, or North bay gurls? [\quote] You won't find any. Those that don't marry before highschool graduation move to Toronto. Now the fellows of North Ontario, end up drinking and hunting Moose, or moving to Toronto to find a girl to take back to North Ontario

a_second_life

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I dont think he knows what he wants!! Posted: 3/30/2008 9:47:24 AM
Sometimes a relationship catches fire so quickly that it burns down the house. Sounds like that has happened to you. The intensity of the first couple of weeks couldn't be sustained and now you don't know what to do. Let him go. He's going to leave anyway.

a_second_life

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Boy have things changed in the dating world! Posted: 3/28/2008 12:27:51 PM
The problem is that women now expect men to view a date as a prelude to sex. That means that they won't go out on a date until they are prepared to say yes. Then if the poor smuck doesn't make the appropriate move, they get ticked off. I don't have a solution for you. Myself I just sort of try to each between the mines and hope for the best. Personally there was something to be said for the old ways.

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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Weight... Posted: 3/28/2008 6:13:46 AM
Arnold when he was winning all those titles was 235lbs on a 6'3" body. How he wasn't obese. However I don't think most fellows who are 230 pounds have a six percent body fat. At 6'1" his maximum weight according to the BMI should be 190. That would put him at the upper end over the scale. For the sake of his heart, his choresterol, his potential type II diabetes and his joints he should trim the weight. However, dieting isn't the solution. Walking is. Walking for an hour every day will improve his cardio, reduce his appetite and weight, and lengthen his life. Improved cardio also means improved , inside the bedroom as well as outside. Start taking him for a walk. (Buy a dog. Owning a dog adds seven years to the average person's life.) Finally, There's a book called the karma-sutra, which you might want to look at. Heck you can even find it on the internet. Personally, I'm 6' and 195. I'm going to trim that back down by another ten pounds. In cold weather I have a tendency to run up in weight. I prefer a woman who doesn't weigh more than me unless she is taller than me. 10 pounds to an inch in height. (I don't understand women's sizes.)

a_second_life

Joined: 8/28/2007

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The Wingman Posted: 3/27/2008 8:41:28 AM
Don't guys ask girls to dance without having a friend along. Without a wingman? I know. Go to any dance and you'll see the stacks of guys around the dance floor looking and drinking a beer. I think of them as the zombies, or in the zombie zone. It's an easy place to get stuck in. I remember once dance (for a more senior crowd) when I couldn't get out of the zombie zone. To break out I went and bought a soda. Then I was a zombie with a soda. Finally I noticed another guy by himself. I sat down at his table and suggested that we go and ask the couple of girls at the next table to dance. He agreed. I went over and asked the girls. They seemed confused when I mentioned my friend. I turned around. He was still sitting at the table. However I did start dancing and broke out of the zombie zone. Hint. If he's flying without a wingman and he asks you to dance, he's interested. At least he was interested until you started chewing gum with your mouth open, not making eye contact and looking bored.

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