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Name_Taken

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another question Posted: 8/27/2009 7:22:43 PM
Not to mention that any woman without a sense of humor isn't invited to my world anyways... It's all about what "type" of things you want in a woman.

Name_Taken

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another question Posted: 8/27/2009 7:21:15 PM
Well, it is true, if you are the least bit concerned with what a woman thinks of you, then by all means, don't risk coming across as a jackass. guys like me on the other hand, I don't really care. If a woman isn't interested to begin with, what do I care what they think of me? I may as well have fun anyway.

Name_Taken

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another question Posted: 8/27/2009 7:12:47 PM
Like I said in the previous post. Online dating is an entirely different thing. If you expect a woman to actually respond to you, forget all about the concept of sharing about yourself, women do not respond to this stuff, don't ask me to explain why, I have no clue. Instead, tease the shit out of them in initial emails. Women whether they love this behavior or not, tend to respond FAR more often. Find something in their headline or their profile to bust them on, and do it, playfully, of course. this can ignite conversations. Best of luck

Name_Taken

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When To ask for a # Posted: 7/28/2009 8:10:17 PM
I have great levels of success getting a woman's phone number AFTER I have made the suggestion to move from emails on POF to a real time chat format such as MSN messenger. Also AFTER I decide that I would like to actually speak to her on the phone. That usually happens within an hour or so of chatting on MSN but most often after a couple to several days of witty banter on MSN. I just tell her at that point hey listen, you can obviously hold a good conversation and I wouldn't mind talking to you like normal people do on the phone. Ding, done around 98% of the time. Whatever goes from that varies.

Name_Taken

Joined: 8/30/2007

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Help please! so confused! Posted: 7/10/2009 10:31:02 PM
A man either knows how to make a sexual commitment or he does not. When a man says that he is committed and then has sex with another woman, he doesn't even know his own values. I wouldn't bother with these types of men unless you want to be hurt. Furthermore, if you do, then you deserve the hurt in my opinion. A man can choose to NOT be sexually committed and have sex with more than one partner. He can also be upfront and honest about the behavior so that his partners understand and have the ability to choose for themselves whether or not they can handle that. These same men also have the ability to CHOOSE to become sexually exclusive and do so when they feel it is warranted. Hope this helps.

Name_Taken

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y push me away? Posted: 7/8/2009 1:04:34 PM
men do this regularly though not usually to the extreme that you are describing. It is perfectly normal to experience a man going through the "elastic-band" routine however. This is a regular and consistent pattern of drawing close to you and distancing himself from you. It is important to know that you can not, nor should you even try to change the behavior. Men typically need time of closeness and distance and the routine is different based on the individual. The best you can do is to understand the cycle and learn how to support your man in it. If you do this, you will find that not only will the times of distance grow shorter, you will not feel upset anymore as you learn that it has nothing at all to do with you personally.

Name_Taken

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Approaching a woman - Opinions please. Posted: 7/8/2009 11:26:38 AM
"Dayum...honestly that's way too much time to go over something so simple." If only you knew how vast and interesting this subject truly was...

Name_Taken

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Approaching a woman - Opinions please. Posted: 7/8/2009 10:30:00 AM
Dude. I have over 10 hours of video specifically focused on approaching women. There are infinite right and wrong ways to do it.

Name_Taken

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If I ask a first date how they think it went, is that a good idea? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:27:42 AM
Asking a woman how they think a first date went is a very sure way of making sure there will not be another one. Do not do this.

Name_Taken

Joined: 8/30/2007

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How do I get a response? Posted: 7/8/2009 9:50:57 AM
If all you are interested in is getting a response from women, send me a mail, I will tell you how. I won't post it publicly.

Name_Taken

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Things men seek????? Posted: 7/8/2009 9:30:31 AM
1) Chemistry (Is she attractive, do I feel an emotional rush when I am getting to know her?) 2) Compatibility (Is she confident, intelligent, witty, humorous, sexual, have any similar interests to me?) 3) Commitment (Is she available, loyal, interested in pursuing things with me together?)

Name_Taken

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Do guys really like....? Posted: 7/6/2009 9:55:31 PM
My style is confident women who do not put themselves on display. Although women who display themselves might also be considered confident, I am still the sexy librarian type of guy.

Name_Taken

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If a woman.... Posted: 7/6/2009 8:47:44 PM
Overtly and overly sexual women turn me off. Most likely for similar reasons that those types of men may turn women off.

Name_Taken

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Should I Really Believe this? Posted: 7/6/2009 7:17:52 PM
It sounds to me as though he is simply interested in having you as 1 more option to keep his options open. What you do with that is up to you.

Name_Taken

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What did I do wrong? Posted: 7/6/2009 3:50:17 PM
I'm with Steel on this one. The thing you did wrong was not paying attention to the signs. There is no reason I can see for you to invest any time nor energy on this person, in ANY sense. Inet, text or voice. Leave her alone and see what she does and move on to someone new.

Name_Taken

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A question for you serious-minded men... Posted: 7/4/2009 9:17:37 PM
Yes. Intelligent women intimidate me. Which is exactly why I draw closer to those ones. So I can learn to become less intimidated by them. Besides, I find intelligent women the ones I learn the most valuable lessons from.

Name_Taken

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WHAT KIND OF MEN DO WOMEN REALLY WANT Posted: 7/4/2009 7:01:05 PM
I just told you how to appropriately be bad. Research the info from those who went before us and figured it all out. As far as being something I am not, everyone is exactly this any time they apply themselves to learn any new thing. You do it until it becomes second nature, thus who you are at that time. Until then, sure it could be considered phony. I never was an advocate of be yourself, that only works when you have what you want. I believe in being your BEST self. That takes awareness, knowledge and application.

Name_Taken

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WHAT KIND OF MEN DO WOMEN REALLY WANT Posted: 7/4/2009 6:32:13 PM
It happens rarely, but I actually side with the women in this case. Women do not want asses/jerks. The fact that the traits those guys possess that women DO want happen to go hand in hand with their personality is a misfortune. I find women typically want nice guys who know how to be a man. Because typical nice guys do not possess the attractive and critically important traits women also desire. Fortunately, it is far easier for a nice guy to learn how to add the bad boy elements than it is for a jerk to mellow down. For the record. I am a nice guy learning how to appropriately be bad and women respond a lot more to my favor than previously. If you're serious about your post, research David D Angelo. The info he teaches is intact. It's no quick fix though, I had not noticed results for several months before things picked up for me.

Name_Taken

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Why are woman such a one way street Posted: 7/2/2009 12:56:59 PM
I think it is interesting to note that for every 1000 women vs men, far more men will talk to far more women than the other way around. It is almost as if a women will not correspond to a man at all unless they feel it could actually lead to something.

Name_Taken

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Can any women explain? Posted: 7/2/2009 12:38:15 PM
I am curious as to why women seem to be more generally inclined to be active and outdoors. Exercise and activity is good and all but it appears to me that a high majority of women seem to be into this above average. I am wondering if this is a difference between men and women or whether I am out to lunch in my observations. A lot of men that I know are what I would classify as "moderately" active. IE: They have maybe 1 main activity hobby or they are complete muscleheads and over the top. With women though I seem to notice far more of them into heavy outdoors and activity things. I am simply wondering if there is anything to this.

Name_Taken

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life after separation HELP!!!! Posted: 7/2/2009 4:56:57 AM
I have 2 suggestions that transformed me over time as I hear the type of feelings you are expressing and I as well used to be subject to them. 1) Research information on David D. Angelo and do some exploration with the information you find. 2) Research the concept of "The Secret" Neither of these are immediate fixes, but they are a wealth of theory and concepts that can be used to radically transform the state of your reality to something happier.

Name_Taken

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Is there a way to express interest in a profile without sounding like a slut? Posted: 7/1/2009 3:13:20 PM
Yes. Accept and believe in yourself that any interests that you show in a persons profile will be taken exactly how you wish.

Name_Taken

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Why are guys so obsessed with their cars? Posted: 10/21/2007 8:50:20 PM
I'm so obsessed with my car because it was passed to me by my father and it still runs great for being an 85. I also love to watch a woman's reaction to it just for fun.

Name_Taken

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Response Time To E-mails Posted: 10/21/2007 5:52:20 PM
Playing games my certainly be high school behavior and even for children, however, it is far from immature. In fact "maturity" or at least what people refer to this as is often the thing that kills relationships, not strengthens them. Human beings relate very strongly to that childlike game playing behavior. This is what makes things fun, exciting, and fresh. You show me any people who have no games in their relationship and I will show you a dead relationship.

Name_Taken

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Response Time To E-mails Posted: 10/21/2007 5:36:33 PM
I would wait till the next day.

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Question to fellow dudes, and to woman Posted: 10/21/2007 4:36:07 PM
It only works if you don't do whatever you did to get the current rep. Otherwise it just starts all over again.

Name_Taken

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Do you like it when your girl calls you baby? Posted: 10/21/2007 3:35:35 PM
Recently I grew an attachment to the term "fukker". I liked that one.

Name_Taken

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How often do you think a couple should have sex? Posted: 10/15/2007 8:18:12 PM
There are waaaaay too many missing variables to even offer an answer to this question.

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I go back to my ex, and he freaking dissed me? What the hell is going on?!?! Posted: 10/15/2007 8:13:01 PM
Just another real life example to solidify my recent observations about women. Keep them coming.

Name_Taken

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Is it being too forward for a girl to initiate the first meeting? Posted: 10/15/2007 8:10:30 PM
I have some sad news for you...in 2007 it is considered too forward for a GUY to ask a woman out.

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I don't know what to make of all of this. Guys please help! Posted: 10/15/2007 8:08:48 PM
Does it really matter what anyone here advises you to do? You already know what you are supposed to be doing.

Name_Taken

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Why do men stare at other women overtly, even when with a beautiful woman? Posted: 10/14/2007 9:18:59 PM
A man has to consciously choose to ignore other women when he is with one. This being said it's incredibly rare to find such a man.

Name_Taken

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i have a BIG TIME crush......god help me! Posted: 10/11/2007 9:49:46 PM
Think of a subject to start a conversation with to get him talking to you and make it something neutral yet interesting. Don't try to think about what he would be interested in talking about and also don;t make it something partial to women only. Make it a unisex topic or ask him something about current events and hope he has an opinion. Make sure to throw in a light amount of teasing in the conversation once he gets talking. Teasing is good, anyone who doesn't like it I would avoid. Nothing too serious at first though. These 2 things will give him enough confidence to try and keep a conversation going and you should be able to figure the rest out within a few minutes.

Name_Taken

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Men, successful e-mails written to you by women Posted: 10/11/2007 9:44:35 PM
Only a woman would ask a question like this.

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would you have sex with some 1 you knew when they were a kid? Posted: 10/8/2007 11:08:43 PM
What sort of child porn question is this? Having sex with anyone you knew when they were a kid can get you thrown right into prison.

Name_Taken

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Girlfriend and friends with benefits question or something lol Posted: 10/7/2007 3:25:46 PM
Tsk, man, I need to be as fortunate as this guy.

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Beginning to lose faith Posted: 10/7/2007 3:04:30 PM
I have been around here for almost 2 years so far and continuously see the same women that I did when I started. I have no faith in online dating for finding a serious long term relationship. I have found quite a few flings on the other hand so depending on what "value" means...

Name_Taken

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Have you ever tasted male ejaculate? Posted: 9/29/2007 7:18:00 PM
Come on now, do you honestly believe a man who has is going to let you know on a public forum?

Name_Taken

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Some advice, please guys.... Posted: 9/29/2007 7:16:18 PM
Men behave this way when women show such a serious interest. You basically have a couple of choices. You can start over with a new man or you can allow the man some space and busy yourself as best you can while showing very little if any interest at all. When a man feels as though a woman may have left him high and dry, he comes around more looking to find out what may have changed. This is just basic human instinct. If you enjoy the man's company, give him some space so he can miss you some more. If he doesn't call you in a week or so, then I agree that he is not really into you anymore.

Name_Taken

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Used condoms in the trash - believe she's not cheating? Posted: 9/29/2007 4:06:25 PM
This is just dumb...

Name_Taken

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men and oral sex... Posted: 9/29/2007 4:05:18 PM
Well, some women love it, some don't. If you're one that doesn't, I hope you have alternative plans regarding a relationship.

Name_Taken

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I am woman, hear me fart. Posted: 9/29/2007 3:58:29 PM
What??? Women don't fart.

Name_Taken

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IS MY COMPUTER BROKE? Posted: 9/29/2007 3:57:24 PM
Fageddabouddit. I have so many women looking at my profile and not so much as sending me an email or responding to an initial one I send them that it took a while to accept it as normal behavior. This is a normal part of internet dating sites, honestly, I don;t know who thought of the idea of allowing us to see who has viewed us as a positive thing.

Name_Taken

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Catering to alternative relationships Posted: 9/29/2007 3:55:05 PM
Yes, it is worth considering, however, it also will make it far easier to attract the worst of the worst flamers to the forums as it will be easier for them to find a specific place for their hobbies.

Name_Taken

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I saw a study... Posted: 9/19/2007 7:29:28 PM
I can verify as one man that I perceive blondes to be great for non serius relationships whereas I perceive brunettes to be marriage material. I can not however explain why.

Name_Taken

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Are guys turned off by a girl that won't put out on the first date? And why? Posted: 9/19/2007 7:26:35 PM
The only guys that are turned off by this are ones you don't want to be involved with in the first place.

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is a pic in a bathing suit porn Posted: 9/14/2007 6:41:21 PM
It's totally porn, you're a complete and utter whore now.

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Do players ever settle down? Posted: 9/14/2007 6:31:55 PM
I'll keep you posted on this as life passes by.

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how to get a man to chase you ? Posted: 9/14/2007 6:31:21 PM
You'll never get a man to chase you. You'll have to make due with boys, sorry.

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Men who want beautiful women, when their grooming sucks? Posted: 9/14/2007 6:26:18 PM
Quit f uckin whining, you don't give a shit about us well groomed men either.

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