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Thread: Tanzania Safari's? Looking for Advice
Mr. Right..
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Tanzania Safari's? Looking for Advice
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9/7/2009 8:37:38 AM
Is there anyone out there that wants to share their story? Please!
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Tanzania Safari's? Looking for Advice
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9/6/2009 4:12:03 PM
Hello everyone I’m hoping to get some advice on Safari’s, in Kenya or Tanzania. The odds are that I’ll be flying to Tanzania this X-mass and would like to know the best way to go about booking some tours. I’d like to hike up Mt Kilimanjaro and do a Serengeti Safari among other things. Now I realize I can do this via websites however it’s insanely expensive, and those types of tours are mostly for old people and couples. I’m looking for the bare bones tours (basically show me the path or take me there and I’ll do it by myself).
I’ve met people backpacking before in Africa and they have told me you can negotiate when you get on the ground in Tanzania. I wouldn’t mind hearing someone input on the matter and hearing the ballpark prices. If you look online tours run from $2000 to $8000 depending whom you choose. However the dude I talked to told me he backpacked Africa and when he got there it tagged along with a tour group that had vacant seats and he only paid $700. I’m hoping that someone out there can provide some advice on the matter.
Cheers,
Nelson
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Another Lesson Learned
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8/3/2009 8:31:52 AM
For pure entertainment reasons I would have saw the meal through, but I wouldn’t have paid for her half. That’s like rewarding someone for being an ass. As for doing the manly thing or picking up the bill, or whatever you want to call a guy picking up a check. This principle doesn’t apply anymore or at least not as much. Many women of this generation feel that there is an obligation affiliated when the guy picks up the bill so in order to make sure that that obligation doesn’t exist more often than not the women will at least attempt to at least pay for her portion of the meal in order to avoid any misunderstanding etc.
Mr. Right..
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Another Lesson Learned
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8/3/2009 6:09:53 AM
What a weird situation. I wouldn’t have paid for her meal either. Not after her little episode. Of course she will need to save her money for the therapy so maybe you should have picked up the tab.
I’ve had women yell at me for trying to pay for their meal (claiming their independence etc), had women go as far as count out pennies to make sure they paid for their half of the meal and had women not even budge when the check came. I love this part of the date to be honest. It says a lot about their character. You never know which one you are going to get until the bill comes. I like a girl to at least pretend that she has intensions to pay her share.
Here is the bright side of this though. Now you have a great story for you buddies. Whenever I have a gem like this I make a point to share it with my friends just for a couple of laughs, at my expense of course.
Mr. Right..
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If a woman approached you cold asking for your phone number what would you think?
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8/28/2008 11:15:43 AM
I'd be very impressed for sure. It would say a lot about the person’s confidence, character and the fact that the person knows what they want and does what it takes to try to get it.
Lots of women apply this principle to their everyday lives but don’t apply it to dating. At least I don’t think so anyway.
Mr. Right..
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More Pictures?
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8/28/2008 11:05:35 AM
As others have suggested. They are looking for full body shots. I know that sounds bad but I'm sure that's what they trying to get from you.
Mr. Right..
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Air miles
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8/27/2008 2:00:24 PM
I totally agree with "Lana in Torana". I've flown from Toronto to Peru and also to Costa Rica. I also used miles to fly from Halifax to Calgary twice and once from Halifax to Toronto.
Needless to say I've used the program to its fullest. The key is to use your MasterCard or American Express card when paying for everything. Usually when I pay for something using one of those two cards I come home and pay them off using online banking ASAP. Basically I'm just using them for their air miles. I rarely pay an interest payment.
Think about it. For every trip to the liquor store, grocery store, gas station etc you will get air miles from your credit card and from the sponsor themselves.
If you can't control your spending then it's a bad idea, but if you are self aware of your financial status then you can really gain from this.
Cheers
Mr. Right..
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How you deal with catty women?
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8/27/2008 10:23:05 AM
I could never date catty women. It's just too much work to maintain. However I encourage my male friends to date them b/c it's entertaining. I'm always up for a good laugh.
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Guys, would this hurt your feelings???
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8/27/2008 10:12:19 AM
If a woman told you that you were, " not good enough for her" how would you take it? Would it hurt your feelings? Would you assume she was referring to your social or economic status rather than merely your character?
I really can't believe you are asking this question to be honest. Of course it would hurt. Not to mention the person wouldn't be prepared for such an attack against their character. To be totally honest it is cruel to say such a thing to someone. It would say a lot about the person saying it, that much is sure.
Although the statement maybe true, there are definitely more classy ways of breaking off the relationship and taking the high road. If someone told me that I wasn’t good enough for them, then I would probably lash back too.
Mr. Right..
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Genocide in Africa and Sudan
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8/9/2008 11:53:29 AM
Hmmm..being a Canuck myself....well...got to admit I do feel hmm...a real let-down by my gov't for not sending more. 16 advisors? Well...that's what we have to spare. Our military is in the pits and has been there a long time, with no end in sight. (Some soldiers have had to go to food banks with their families, just to give you a clue how bad it is...and I'm NOT talking about just a handful of them....)
We have 32 Military Observers and about 10 Staff Officers and you shouldn’t feel let down b/c the people that we send are well trained and represent our country very well. Not only that but we provide based off of UN requirements. It’s not a matter of counting the troops that aren’t doing anything on Canadian soil and sending them over. As for your food banks comment……… haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Military members are well paid…I would go as far as saying overpaid. Those people that are going to food banks are people that can’t manage their money. You can drive to their house and see a mustang in their driveway and three kids in the yard. Well I hate to tell you but a private’s salary can’t pay for that. The key word here is money management. If you can barely afford to have one child then doesn’t have three.
The major reason we didn't go with the US was because we couldn't afford it, and didn't have the manpower or supplies to do it. BUT, to save face, and "take the moral high-ground", our then PM said we would follow the UN mandate. I had never heard such totally Politically correct rhetoric BS spewed forth from a politicians lips since the Trudeau era! I just shook my head....(OH..and some Canucks did go join the US Army...just to get over there I guess...)
The reason we didn’t go in Iraq has nothing to do with funding. Iraq was doing nothing wrong and therefore an invasion wasn’t required. The fact that they were slowing down UN Site inspections is irrelevant not to mention it’s the job of the UN to sort that out not individual countries. Only now, many years later do people realize that we made a good decision not to participate into the Iraq Invasion. Instead we participate with NATO with our work in Afghanistan.
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Friends who cuddle.....
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8/9/2008 11:30:27 AM
You are in a friends with benefits situation.
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Vacationing alone, where to go
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8/9/2008 10:11:56 AM
These are my top places to go to backpacking.
1) Go to Cusco located in Peru so you can see Machu Pichu;
2) Go to Jordan so you can see the Royal Tombs of Petra;
3) Head to Egypt and see the pyramids, The Valley of the Kings and Abu-Simbel;
4) Take a trip to Italy (Rome) and check out the Coliseum and some other historical sights.
5) Another cool place is Turkey, you can check out the Blue Mosque and The Hagia Sophia;
6) My last suggestion would be to go to Ethiopia to see the Churches of Laliblla.
I hope this helps a little. I've seen all these places so I wouldn't suggest going see them if I didn't think it was worth it.
Cheers and good luck.
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top 10 dive spots in the world...
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8/9/2008 10:00:16 AM
I would have to say Port Sudan.
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Dating Over Achievers, When Is The Cluttered Schedule Too Much?
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1/26/2008 6:17:47 PM
if the girl your dating has been pretty busy before hand ...that's pretty much to get herself preoccupied (since she's not dating anyone or anything). you pop along, and it's pretty realistic that she won't all of a sudden drop all that for you. when you two get things pretty serious n what not, i'm sure she'll eventually drop one or two of her appointments, just to spend more time with you. again, like what a previous poster said...she's probably not as interested.
pnayplayr - Well put! That makes a lot of sense.
maybe you need to try and date woman who are more established?
You are right, I probably should, however I like dating women that are younger than me.
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Dating Over Achievers, When Is The Cluttered Schedule Too Much?
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1/26/2008 2:36:08 PM
... but the truth is life is short & for women now a days even shorter... we can only have children until a certain age - so if we want a career we have to get it done before that age expires, stay fit not only for our dating status but for ourselves, and some how snag a guy and have a family - then maintain that! Its absolutely crazy! Humor her.. go to yoga - it will be good for you
An interesting perspective for sure, however I’m confused how lifetime goals should be influenced by the fact that you are female and have less time to do everything.
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Dating Over Achievers, When Is The Cluttered Schedule Too Much?
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1/25/2008 12:12:19 PM
My thread has died. Does anyone else have anything to contribute?
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Dating Over Achievers, When Is The Cluttered Schedule Too Much?
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1/24/2008 2:39:21 PM
There will also be some women that toss it up as a hurdle so that you will give up and they won't have to tell you they're really not into you.
I suppose this could be true, but when I give up or call it quits they peruse me which leads me to believe this is not the case. To be honest I gave up on all them b/c it was too much work and I didn't feel like chasing them. They were quality girls but I'm not in the habit of chasing women.
Uglybetty – You have different priorities, which is fine. I am looking for a healthy and stable relationship that doesn’t involve high maintenance and chaotic juggling of schedules.
If I don’t think it’s going to work with a particular girl I won’t continue to date them. I’m not into dating someone just so that I have someone on the go and I’m not alone. I don’t agree with the something is better than nothing philosophy. That’s a recipe for disaster. So, if I’m willing to date someone I honestly want it to work, which means I will make time for them if it’s within my control. The only time it’s not within my control is if she asked me to do something during working hours otherwise I will do my best to accommodate.
Mr. Right..
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Dating Over Achievers, When Is The Cluttered Schedule Too Much?
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1/24/2008 12:25:43 PM
CassaGo – You hit the nail on the head.
Neogen84 – We aren’t talking about canceling a night out with the girls at the club or darts with the boys. We are talking about canceling night classes they paid for or are teaching, aerobics classes that they instruct, volunteer work at the Hospital, shift work or extra shifts, son/daughter’s soccer practice etc. The list is endless. I’m not talking about the small stuff. These are legit activities that they are committed too. A lot of these activities impact other people so it’s not like they can bail out on their commitment. I appreciate you opinion though.
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Dating Over Achievers, When Is The Cluttered Schedule Too Much?
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1/24/2008 11:49:06 AM
I definitely like ambitious women and yes I’m attracted to them. I’m just saying sometimes it can be too much.
Monikerjak – Granted, I see what you are saying. However I haven’t asked them to cancel any of their prior commitments. I’m just saying that there is little room in their schedules for anything new…..aka quality time with yours truly.
CG5000 – Perhaps you are right, I probably should cut them some slack. It just has me wondering sometimes why they overwhelm themselves with activities if it only stresses them out. Thanks for the advice.
SteveCollingwoodON – That could work in some cases, I’ll keep that in mind. You are correct though, they were just examples.
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Dating Over Achievers, When Is The Cluttered Schedule Too Much?
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1/24/2008 11:18:11 AM
I have a question for the ladies.
The last 3 or 4 women I have dated or have gone on dates with have been over achievers. Now don’t get me wrong, it’s great to have goals and be ambitious however there comes a point when your timetable gets a little maxed out.
These women I have met work during the days or attend school and either mother during the nights or have constant activities for every night of the week. It’s crazy I tell ya. To be honest the past couple of girls I’ve dated have been great people. However getting them to cancel their Monday Night Palates class or Thursday Night Yoga class is almost impossible. It’s almost like they are slaves to their own goals or should I say scheduling.
I can relate to a certain extent. I got my masters like some of these girls are working towards and this takes up a lot of time, so I understand. Not to mention you need to treat yourself to your favorite pastimes/hobbies but having every hour of every day accounted for is a bit much. When these girls are telling you they are free after 8 or 9 on Thursday Night is a bit much. If I have something scheduled on Thursday nights then that basically means the relationship won’t even get off the ground. Anyways that’s my vent of the day. I would appreciate the female perspective on this topic. No bashing please.
Thanks,
Mr. Right
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Guys I Need Your Perspective
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1/24/2008 8:27:12 AM
I'm a one women kind of guy. If I find out she is interested/dating someone else other than me and doing the feeling out process, then I walk.
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Why do guys mention other women?
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1/22/2008 12:49:57 PM
I never understood that either. I avoid talking about past relationships, honestly who cares, the past relationship didn’t work and now it’s time to move on. I’ve dated women that have done the same thing.
I’ve always thought they have done it to show me that other men think they are hot. To me it just means our conversation has bottomed out. To me it’s a personal failure if I’ve let the conversation get to this point.
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Is he actually interested?
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1/22/2008 12:43:56 PM
Sounds like you both are used to different paces when starting a relationship. Someone I dated complained to me for the same reason. My rational behind not speaking with her every day was that I didn't want to smother her. Anyways, my point is, people start at different paces. I wouldn't worry about it.
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What was the nicest thing anyone ever did for you?
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1/21/2008 6:30:43 PM
I got my heart broken many many moons ago on a New Years Eve and needless to say I was very drunk and upset. A girl I know, not even a close friend stayed with me and tried to cheer me up all night. I must have ruined her evening. I wish I could have given her a more sincere thank you. She really came through for me.
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Anyone ever been to....
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1/13/2008 8:12:18 PM
Starting off in Cairo - then onto Luxor, then Sharm el Sheikh...
If I were you I'd obviously start in Cairo, see the Pyramids and the Citidal, head down to Aswan and see the Temple of Ramses II (Abu-Simbel) & the Philae Temple. The Luxor Temple was kind of a dump, however being in Luxor will give you a change to check out the Valley of the Kings/Queens/Nobles. While you are in Sharm el Sheikh take a 3 hour drive North to Mount Sinai whre St Catherine's Monastery is located. That should cover most of what Egypt has to offer. If I had of known about Petra I would have checked it out while I was in the area. Next time I guess.
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He now mentions a girlfriend??!!! HELP
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1/12/2008 9:57:06 AM
If you go out with this guy again expect to be cheated on eventually if or when you actually have a relationship with this clown. He just showed you his hand of cards. He is showing you that he is a cheater and is always on the prowl for better women.
Mr. Right..
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Men DO NOT want to be persued? A rule to the stupid book he's just not that into you
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1/12/2008 9:48:08 AM
I've dated lots of women that have perused me or made the initial contact. I don't have a problem with it at all.
Mr. Right..
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I know of a person whose boyfriend is on this site
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1/12/2008 9:42:14 AM
Well, he did give me his email address, I don't know her personally, but his profile states he is on for dating.
I find it funny when people say to mind your own business. It just shows how selfish some people can be. Ask yourself this, if you were her would you want to know. I'm thinking that you would. I know I would. If you are her friend then you should tell her.
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What does laid back mean?
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1/9/2008 12:48:01 PM
I think laid back people tend to like to go with the flow and not make any decisions. You may find that they are always on the fence when it comes resolving a dilemma. They are followers.
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What is stalking as opposed to chasing?
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1/9/2008 12:44:56 PM
The same principle applies to both the only difference is your state of mind;
1) If someone is chasing you, you are probably somewhat interested or you find them attractive;
2) You are not attracted to the stalker, in fact you are most likely intimidated or frightened while in the presence.
Mr. Right..
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3rd date sex? acceptable or slutty
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1/9/2008 12:35:14 PM
I don't mind waiting if I really think there is a spark between us.
I find it funny the way you put it "Giving it to him on the 3rd date". I’ll be honest with you. If you feel this is a reward process where we have to earn it then we will eventually figure out that’s how you operate and there won’t be any more dates. Guys shouldn’t have to beg for it, we aren’t pets.
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Is my boyfriend gay if he looks at gay porn?
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1/9/2008 12:23:14 PM
No question, the guy is gay.
Mr. Right..
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When men get all GIRLIE.
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1/9/2008 10:42:49 AM
Through dating I’ve experienced both extremes. The “I don’t need a man to take care of me” attitude and the “you are the gentleman, you can plan and pay for the date”. I have no problem with either to a certain extent however both can get tedious if it gets too far.
For example, I’ve had girls get upset when I’ve held doors open for them or attempted to pay for dinner and stuff of that nature. It’s very awkward when they go off on their independence rant. It’s an absolute turnoff, and it’s hard to change the mood back to a comfortable setting. A simple “you don’t have to pay/hold the door open for me” would do just fine. I would then get the point. Instead of giving my a blast of shyt for trying to do something polite.
Then there are the girls that don’t even offer to pay for anything. On the first date it’s ok, but after the second and third date I start to see a trend that tells me that this isn’t going to work out. I’m happy when the girl attempts to pay; I don’t care if she actually does. It’s the thought that matters. I don’t like feeling used.
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he's a bum!
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1/9/2008 10:16:14 AM
Sounds like my brother. Other than the obvious shortfalls how is he doing? I haven't seen him in a couple of years.
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how do you feel about tramp stamps
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1/9/2008 10:08:16 AM
Right now I’m impartial; however I know when the girl gets older she will regret the decision to get one. Tats look stupid on older women.
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Why would a guy delete his profile
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1/9/2008 10:03:43 AM
It's possible that you were only one of a couple of girls that he was dealing with and that he decided to take himself off the site after committing to someone else. I could be wrong but that is the first thing that comes to mind.
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Why do guys just suddenly disappear?
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10/7/2007 4:40:33 PM
I've been guilty of this. I went on numerous dates with this one girl and she was really nice. However she showed me up on three separate occasions without giving me notice. Each time there was good reason, however the third time was the last. I'm sure she is wondering why I disappeared. Oh well, it had to be done. Unfortunately, I liked the girl.
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Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
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10/7/2007 4:30:36 PM
B/c they like what they see. Next question.
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Do attractive women forget why they are here?
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10/7/2007 3:54:14 PM
This is my last post on this. I was simply trying to make the point that men go to clubs to meet women. However for some reason numerous women in this form have misinterpreting this to mean that I think women shouldn’t leave the house, unless they want to get laid. I was just simply clarifying to simple fact that you will be approached by men at clubs if you go there b/c that’s usually why we go there, to meet women.
Another point I made is that if you can’t handle being bothered by men when you go to the clubs then don’t go to the clubs. If you know what you are getting into, and you don’t like it, then guess what???? Maybe you shouldn’t go. Entertain yourselves elsewhere, somewhere where you can have fun not have to deal with men. And yes, I’m aware that the topic has gone off path.
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Do attractive women forget why they are here?
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10/7/2007 3:34:42 PM
Mr. Right: this is like me asking you to change your perception of why you go out to the clubs. Maybe "men" shouldn't be going out there thinking they will meet up with someone and just go hang with their buddies and have a good time instead??
Don't compare a casino to a dance club.
We do go out to have drinks with friends and have fun, however we are not surprised when women ask us to dance or come over to chat. Nor are we mean to them if we are not interested.
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Do attractive women forget why they are here?
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10/7/2007 2:42:47 PM
Mr. Right: Am I understanding you correctly - if a woman has no interest in meeting a man, she should stay home? So unless I've decided I'm getting laid, I'm not to venture out in public? I'm to stay home and listen to music by myself? I'm speechless. I don't want to live in your town if that's what it's like.
No, I’m not saying that. I think you should move to a town where they teach people how to read. I said expect to be approached if you go to the bars. That’s why most men go there. If being approached at clubs bothers you then don’t go. If you only went to the clubs to listen to music anyways and dance, then listen to music and dance at home. Invite the girls over, or whatever. It’s not complicated. And by the way, I said people go to the clubs to meet people, I didn’t say get laid. You are twisting my words around. I’ll never understand how you interpreted my response to mean that I don’t think you should venture out in the public. That’s just feeble.
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Do attractive women forget why they are here?
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10/7/2007 2:32:27 PM
But just because they go to these clubs, hoping to meet somebody, it does not make them obligated to settle for just anybody who's in the club.
I agree with you, however we still know why we are there, and we don't try to mask it.
Speak for yourself. I for one have never gone to a dance club to meet anyone of the opposite sex. I have always gone because it was something different for us ladies to do on the weekend.
I respect that, however you and your friends should not be surprised when you get approached by men. Nor should you use this as an excuse to be mean if you are not interested. Treat people like you would like to be treated. Rarely will you see men be rude to women when turning them down. Take the high road.
If I went to a Casino and I sat down at the blackjack table I would expect the dealer to ask me how many chips I wanted. After every hand if the dealer continuously asked me how many chips I wanted, yet I still didn’t want to buy any, nor play a hand. Well, I wouldn’t get angry with the dealer, even though he/she is getting annoying. Why you may ask, well it’s a Casino, and people go there to gamble. If I’m not buying chips then I’m not gambling, so one would have to ask why I’m there. Getting angry with the dealer and telling them that you only go their to watch would not be acceptable. Frankly I would be loitering (taking up space) and just in the way.
That’s just my two cents.
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Do attractive women forget why they are here?
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10/7/2007 12:55:21 PM
I’ve come to the conclusion that many people don’t know why they do the things they do. Yet I do understand that there are exceptions to every situation.
I’ll explain.
1) You don’t go to the car to watch TV;
2) You don’t go to the gym to do homework;
3) You don’t go to work wash your parents dishes.
Do we agree? Good
People go to dance clubs to meet men/women; this should be an obvious fact. Men will not dispute this fact b/c we are honest with ourselves. Women on the other hand will claim to go there just to dance or read books or whatever. If you want to just dance and not want to be bothered then stay home and listen to your stereo. If you want to read a book and not want to be bothered then you should stay home where there are no distractions and read.
If you choose to go to clubs to just dance, read or do your parents dishes, then be prepared to be bothered by the opposite sex. This should be common sense but apparently it’s not.
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Do attractive women forget why they are here?
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10/6/2007 11:57:07 AM
Searching 4 smiles,
That is too funny. I've done the same thing on numerous occasions. It's hilarious to watch the Bar Stars at work. They enter the bar with inflated egos and leave with their tale between their legs. Then the following week they return for an encore performance. It's pretty funny, yet sad.
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Pick-up line/Ice Breaker?
Posted:
10/6/2007 11:48:13 AM
spit out a piece of useless trivia!
That's actually pretty funny, and you would get a good indication as to what that person's sense of humour is like too. I'll have to use that technique.
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Pick-up line/Ice Breaker?
Posted:
10/6/2007 9:27:06 AM
I find it funny when women say "oh that line is lame" or whatever. As if someone is close by keep score. Highest points going to the person with the most creativity. If it gets you talking then it worked. If you are interested then you are interested, who cares what got you there.
I'd love to know how the female point system works. Oh, I'll give him 5 points for having a great opening line, however he is fat so that's -2, but he make a lot of money that's 3 points. Ya got to love the games. Nothing is ever what it seems.
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how would you react to this news
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10/6/2007 6:00:09 AM
Selfish people do selfish things. That’s just the way people are, everyone sugar coats it, but it’s true. Attractive people do not date people that tend to be less attractive. Thin people tend not to date over weight people. Educated individuals tend not to date underachievers. The list goes on and on.
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What pumps you up?
Posted:
10/3/2007 8:14:06 PM
Watching Ultimate Fighting (UFC) or when I'm about to play floor hockey.
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Fashion Turn offs!
Posted:
10/3/2007 8:12:05 PM
-crocs
-Paris Hilton type bug eye sunglasses
-the style of dress that makes all women look fat and pregnant.. dunno what it's called.. the dress part starts right under the boobs and women usually wear black tights underneath
-trucker hats
Nice post by the way. I especially agree with these two. When I see girls with those ugly shades it make me wonder if they actually want to be like Paris Hilton or Lindsay Lohan. If so, well....... that's pretty pathetic.
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Why do guys talk about how wealthy they are?
Posted:
10/2/2007 7:30:31 PM
I imagine Mr Right has a REALLY small ding ding
Oh you got me, just b/c I defended the insecure it makes me have a small ding ding.
Princess take a look at my profile, do you see any pictures of vehicles/toys or talk of money.
Enjoy.
Mr. Right
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