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mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Online dating even seems hopeless Posted: 6/30/2005 12:36:17 AM
I love getting this lady all worked up man its fun. Well hello there motherof2 it seems you disagree with me here. I can tell just by looking at that stunning picture on your profile that your probably dating a monarch or something right, or maybe a supermodel which is it. By the way nice dress. Next time show off some skin and quit being such a tease, damn its just never enough for chicks like you is it. You know you got it and then tease us all with half naked skin shots. Wassup wit dat.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Because I won't put out... Posted: 6/30/2005 12:16:25 AM
You don't have a boyfriend right now because you may be looking for some impossible combination of good looks money and charm. While I will admit these are admirable qualities too look for, it is pretty hard to find somebody who has an abundance of all three. So my suggestion to you is try too find a medium somewhere. A middle of the road kind of guy that is down too earth, rather than your super stud. Here is the thing about super studs, your not the only women out there that wants too sleep with him. My brother is one of these guys and women are trying to sleep with that guy all of the time.This is normal every day stuff for the dude. So when a chick says no he's like, "are you kidding me, with all of these other women throwing it my way". So if it is the case that your dating really athletic dudes that are high on looks don't think that your the only person chasing after the dude. There are girls pawing at him all day every day and you'd best believe he is very accustomed to women saying "Yes". It is admirable that you want the dude to wait, however its not likley that the guy is going to wait around for you. I've literally heard women brag about being some of these guys one night stands. So think about that the next time your out with one of these guys, remember this, CHICKS BRAG about screwing them ONE TIME. I mean come on with that kind of stuff pumping up your ego would you wait around for some girl who wants to hold out. Puhleaaassssssssse.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Is size that important? Posted: 6/29/2005 11:46:47 PM
You should have said like 11 inches just to see the stunned look on his face. That would have been cool.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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THE B FACE Posted: 6/29/2005 11:43:13 PM
Well Dammmmnnn you don't say tweetie. Lets just imagine, and this may be a stretch here, that nobody intends having a conversation with these women, and they are just actually a bunch of mean bi#ches. Damn that kind of sucks to think that there are that many angry women out there. You know what I like to do I like to rile them up by being as friendly as possible and try to piss them off, that makes my day too see these overbearing turbo-bi$ches get all worked up. Phew they get all pissed off and look out next thing you know their getting kicked out of places because they're yelling and screaming like a pshyco, I just love that. I guess that would make me a trouble maker wouldn't it.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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THE B FACE Posted: 6/29/2005 2:02:14 AM
I'm just curious here and this isn't directed towards all women, but whats up with the Bi#ch face. I mean seriously, its like this perma frown I see on alot of womens faces. I mean they mind as well have BIT#CH tattooed to their foreheads. Its a trip. Is this supposed to be some sort of defense mechanism or something. I have to tell you I see that face and I go the other way. SOOOO whats up with that ladies, whats up with the B FACE

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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to respond or not to respond Posted: 6/29/2005 1:20:57 AM
WHAT HE SAID. Its pretty easy its ctrl-x and then where you want the rejection message ctrl-v. ITS CALLED CUTTING AND PASTING. A very useful skill for office work and perhaps even chat forums

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25???? Posted: 6/29/2005 12:06:48 AM
Got one word for you madam VIAGARA, That stuff could make the dead rise and AHEM other things also. If your dude has even the inkling of a sex drive that stuff will make him tear down the walls.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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don't you just hate mind games! Posted: 6/27/2005 10:46:52 PM
I'm a bit confused here I'm looking at your profile and there is definetley ummmm, well a picture of your ass. I'm not too sure of what kind of guys your trying to attract but I'm pretty sure that its probably going to be guys who like womens asses. So here is the thing I'm sure your using the feminine wyles that God gave you but your probably going to have to step your game up a bit. The first thing I thought when I went to your profile was "she has a great bod". Now I was reading through the profile there and it was all good, buuuuut I don't think that anything you say in the profile can be overshadowed by the fact that there is a picture of your ass. What kind of guys did you expect to respond to you. Your sending the wrong message here. I'm sure that your very proud of your figure, as well you should be, but you probably have a better chance of meeting horny dudes rather than guys serious about anything

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Online dating even seems hopeless Posted: 6/26/2005 12:14:12 AM
Post a pic of a really muscular dude, and man watch the emails fly. They'll be kissing your as$ from here to timbuktu hahhahhahahaha. Chicks allllll think they are going to marry a muscle dude who can cook and is a monarch of a small country LOL.Man that was funny

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Someone explain this to me. Posted: 6/26/2005 12:10:38 AM
Just before you close the window be sure to leave something sarcastic in there, Like, "I hope you and Vin Diesel have a nice life together", or "Tell Tom cruise I said whats up". Just to bring them back to reality for a quick sec.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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How busy is too busy? Posted: 6/26/2005 12:06:10 AM
Lets go on a date, Are you happy now.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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TOO ALL THE MEN Posted: 6/26/2005 12:02:58 AM
Well I know that in this society that wieght is a really big issue. I mean a serious issue. I used to be a rather large myself, and I lost the weight, and it wasn't for my health either. I lost the weight simply because I couldn't even get a date with a female before I lost the weight. That is no lie either. Women have a stigma attached to obesity, and from my own experience find it completley unacceptable. Trust me the pendulum swings in both directions. When I was overwieght I couldn't even get a girls phone #. Now they think I'm the most charming witty guy. However weight is a controllable thing its nothing that is permanent at all. So there is always the option of seeking a physicians advice and trying to find some safe and healthy method of removing said pounds from said body. I look back at some old pics and I realize now why women gave me so much grief. I was so big it made me look unhealthy and distorted my features beyond anything you could ever imagine. One day I woke up and said enough is enough, I decided to go on a diet and I've lost close to 100 lbs and now the ladies aren't too big of an issue nemore. Soooo obesity isn't just a woman issue its everyones problem ,men and womens. However you have choices so if your just plain fed up with being big my suggestion is to see a doctor and try to find some way to remedy the "fat" situation and you'll be alot happier.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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I might have just made a huge mistake..help!! Posted: 6/25/2005 11:48:34 PM
Welp if he doesn't know about it now, he is surley going to find out about it. Quit playing games and just tell the dude. Seriously a fake account come on now. I didn't quite catch the age on the profile sista, but man, don't eva stoop like that. If the dude doesn't want yah tell the son of a bit#ch to scoot dammitt. You gotta be up front with the guy and I'm sure he'll appreciate the honesty.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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He wants me to what? Posted: 6/25/2005 11:44:16 PM
Holy toledo, RUNNNNN as fast as you can sista and thats truth madam. DUDE must not have gotten some in a really long time.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 6/25/2005 11:40:33 PM
hell yeah and man did that $hit backfire. The chick shows up and I swear she is as big as a house. I was so pi$$ed off I could have just flipped out. I was like no wonder no pic.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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pictures Posted: 6/18/2005 11:07:39 PM
I have to agree with my friend here if 95 % say looks don't matter they are lying. If you don't like the way somebody looks nothing in the world is going to make you want them, at least not from my experience. Everyone likes to think that they are not that superficial but let me tell you you can't make a judgement about somebodies personality just by looking at them but you can definetley see if you like the way they look and thats a fact. The reason anybody wants a picture before they talk too you is because its a whole lot to judge your looks and then maybe you can make some sort of determination about their personality. Even though its probably not a good thing to do too people we are all a product of western societies pressure to a good looking person next to us.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/18/2005 7:18:29 PM
I did more than tell her to take a flying leap to tell you the truth.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/18/2005 1:06:45 PM
I beg your pardon madam. If your not bothering anyone and somebody walks up too you and tells you to quit staring at them, even if you weren't staring at them, I would call that imposing.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Where did 'Strength of Character' go? Posted: 6/18/2005 12:58:00 PM
I will have to partially agree with you here. It seems more often than not people these days are leaning towards physical beauty. I have seen both sides of this coin being a former athlete that gained weight (and lost it again I might add). However I did attend college and do find irregardless of that and any of my other successes that women preferred me when I was an uneducated athlete. However I have also had the opportunity to date a few women who just were not my type (physically) thinking that I could get by that and look deeper, and I soon discovered that appearence does count for something. Maybe not everything but definetley something. Now education and achievment yes those are good things too look for and I will agree with you there 100%. I find too often Women and Men for that matter spend alot of time obsessing over good looks. I'll even admit I'm one of them. I've dated some very beautiful women who where nothing more than bums. I soon realized that beauty isn't everything. I mean what good is it too be in love with somebody who is a beautiful idiot. On the other side of the coin I do also believe that you should at least enjoy looking at the person your dating. if you don't enjoy at least looking at the person one important aspect of the relationship is in the $hitter right from the start. That is SEX. Yes I said it SEX. Sex is also a very important part of a relationship. If having sex with somebody repulses you then you can forget it. It turns into a chore rather than something you enjoy doing. That goes both ways ladies and gentlemen. Now I've been in both places superjock with no brains and muscles, too braniac with no muscles and all brains and I will admit this, I was having wayyyyyy more sex when I was a super jock with no brains, simply because I was nice too look at. I think its peoples inability to find some sort of medium when they are trying to find a partner that makes relationships so difficult for them. Of course its nice to have a very sexy person next too you, but at the same time I would imagine you want to be able for that person too have some kind of intellectual conversation with you. Peope should quit being so extreme and try to find some middle ground where you get just the right combination of looks and brains. Not all brains and no looks and also all looks and no brains, rather somebody that kind of fits in the middle there somewhere. If everyone here and everywhere else can do that they will be alot happier as far as relationships go.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/18/2005 12:24:05 PM
Well sir if you haven't taken the time to read through the thread the attitude is here for a reason. Carribean king says I need therapy. For what, because women choose to act like idiots towards me. I'm a pretty decent and normal guy, I don't do anything out of the ordinary, I don't stare, and I don't chase after them like some sort of lounge lizard. I would think they are the ones with the problems. I mean seriously if some group of people are continuously trying to impose their bad will upon you isn't it just natural too defend yourself.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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i do realise this is a two sided discusion guys Posted: 6/18/2005 12:26:53 AM
EVERYBODY IS HUNG UP ON LOOKS. Women, Men, $hit apes are hung up on looks. This is a built in instinct that everyone has. The truth of the matter is it is an animal instinct that we all have and there is nothing that you can say to change that.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Sexy, FIT and healthy!!!! Posted: 6/17/2005 11:53:05 PM
Let me think hmmmmm well I like the fit ladies with the cute little pouch up front. HMMMMM just like butter. I would have to say that makes my head spin. Or when fit chicks have two cute little dimples on their backs just above their buns, sahwwwweeeet, that $hit is soooooooo graaaavy. les manufique

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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what turns guys off on a woman's appearance? Posted: 6/17/2005 11:48:16 PM
Yup I would have too say obesity is up there pretty high on my list. I kind of analyzed why. I personally think that its because women are generally too small to carry too much extra weight. Like this one time I dated a girl who was 5 foot 2 but she weighed 189 and man when she took her clothes off ouch hit the lights it was horendous. Ever since then dude forget it. I can't even imagine sleeping with a big girl anymore.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/17/2005 10:29:17 AM
Thats kind of what I thought you would say. Therapy or some bull$hit like that. You see because you've never had anything like that happen to you because women in your country can probably be beaten for sayin $hit like that. So you can't even talk about it but I'm sure plenty of guys here can. So all of this advice you and all of your handsome little friends have been giving is trash.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/17/2005 1:46:58 AM
Oh and I almost forgot to mention, My attitude isn't without reason dude. Women can be just as $hittly and as horrible as men and trust me I mean downright $hitty. There doesn't even have to be a reason for them to act like $hit towards me but they seem to go out of their way to do it. So don't give me that $hit about my attitude busta. I didn't make my attitude they did. I'd like you to imagine sitting in a restaraunt and having women tell you not to even look at them for no reason for no fuc$in reason. I mean out of nowhere, come on man with crap like that going on in my life you expect me to have a good attitude about women. Give me a Fuc#in break.Or how about this a girl saying I don't have a name, my fu#kin waitress for that matter. You want me to have a good attitude.I go through this all of the time and so do alot of other men just like me. So lemme tell you mister carribean this bad attitude of mine is here for a good reason and so fu#kin what. What the hell am I supposed to do and any other guy supposed to do for that matter. Are we supposed to let these sicko's trample us like we are $hit under their heels. I'm not $hit sir and I refused to treated as such. To hell with being trampled. So after those are just two little examples of some of the idiocy that I deal with, I want you too make comment on that. Or should I start out your comment for you I'm sure Its going to go something like this "Not all women are the same", or Your gonna say something like "you shouldn't generalize about women". This kind of stuff is always happening to me and all of my friends. So unless you have anything like that happening to you don't even try to compare yourself with me or make any comments about my attitude. This bad attitude of mine comes from YEARRRRRRRRRS of women acting like idiots to me. So quit with the sunshiny bull$hit. Your fu#kin A right I got a bad attitude sir. I could fill up an entire page with the crap these sickos tell me but I only gave you two examples. Now I hope you have a good idea of why my attitude is bad.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/17/2005 1:02:18 AM
,sometimes things are just bad. If its bad changing how you use it isn't going to make it better. You missed the whole point dude. Your not getting it man. Whats she encouraging guys to do sucks. Did you even read the post. 30 to 40 unread deleted per month. I didn't have a bad attitude until these women made it that way. So don't blame me for being skeptical my man. You gotta be kidding me. Try those numbers for six months. $hit anyone would get the point after that length of time. So share your wisdom elsewhere. Mister Carribean. I'm sure theres no problem finding women in your country but here the women are can be a$$holes just like guys can be a$$holes.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/16/2005 10:59:24 PM
AWWWWWWWWWWW what no boobs nemore. Whether or not I'm dating, or who I'm dating from where is really none of your concern. I'm off the market If your off the market maybe you should be off of this website. I can hear you now telling some poor guy now, "Oh we should just be friends".Adding yet another notch on his dissapointment belt. I don't see how you can even imply that you have any idea what any of these so called "nice guys" are going through at all. I am certain that who you date is none of my concern, however I'd be willing to bet your dating somebody. Now you act like some of these guys woke up one morning and said themselves "Oh I'm not that attractive", or,"I'm just average". NOPE thats not how it goes down at all. If a guy thinks that then he had to hear it from somebody not once but a successive number of times.I'm sure you've never studied psycology but its called conditioning. Its not that I have a negative attitude at all. My attitude is a realistic attitude, and trust me motherof2 this reality is the same for numerous guys here and everywhere. You don't know that though because you're not out there, you don't know these people. I know plenty of good men right now that are single and may remain single for a very long time, specifically because WOMEN ARE SO SHALLOW. So when I tell these guys to Unplug I mean it. Its already bad enough that these poor dudes have to deal with $hitty women every day of there lives in public that don't want them. Your now making the suggestion that they come home and deal with these same a$$hole types on the internet. Give me a break. Give us all a break. Its like this, have you ever seen somebody picking on someone and you had to intervene because you couldn't stand to see the person suffer. Thats how I feel right now. These women are basically picking on these poor guys.I've been in and out of these forums and I read the threads. "Always friends" or "Nice guys finish last" or "Why she blocked me". I mean enough is enough already. I'm not conveying a negative message here I'm just tired of women here being a$$holes to some reasonably good guys just because these guys aren't what they want physically. I mean where is your compassion. Do you think a guy emails one girl and no response and all of the sudden he's making a thread like the ones I mentioned earlier. No its more like 30 or 40 unread deleted or read deleteds, PER MONTH. You leading these guys on with threads like this is only helping to add just a little bit more misery too their lives. LEAVE THEM ALONE already, and quit leading them on.You and every other person who as ever posted a thread like this one need to realize one thing,sometimes things are just bad. If its bad changing how you use it isn't going to make it better. Like this site. This site is bad for some people and rather than feed them a line of crap about "Improving their profile" or "Ways to get replies", I'd much rather they just left it alone. Thats what you should do too things that are bad for you. Leave them alone. With that being said, I've got one last thing to say to all of the guys out there that are frustrated with web-dating, let this $HIT go. Life is hard enough without having different idiot women step over you every day.If they have made it clear too you they don't want you screw them. You just keep trucking. Have faith and soon enough your time will come.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/16/2005 9:34:47 AM
As a matter of fact My ego is still here and so is my optimism or should I say realism. I just know when to pick my battles and this is one not worth fighting momof2. The reason I say this is because women here have way too many choices. They are going to quite obviously pick the best looking guys, after all who wouldn't. I guess I'm just old fashioned and prefer too meet my women in the traditional way IN PERSON. To tell you th truth I'm not here trying to find a date I'm actually on here because I like these forums. Other than that I don't really email too many people here because the exact reasons I stated before. I absolutley hate it when people sugar coat things. I don't understand why people are so afraid to say that looks don't. Well they may not count for everything but let me tell you this, 70 % of what a person thinks of you is determined when they first SEE YOU. I think its time for everybody to quit lying about it. YES I WILL BE THE FIRST TO ADMIT looks do count, and yes everybody cares about looks. Nobody wants to date or be with somebody they don't find attractive. This I'm sure for everyone here is a fact so lets just get that out in the open. Now you said this specifically I agree that looks matter, but everybody has their own idea of what is attractive to them. And even though looks might get you in the door, it takes a personality that is compatible to the other person's to keep their interest. Now with all of that being said how do you feel that a persons personality can really show on through a website. I can't even beliieve that somebody would even make such a suggestion. suppose your hope and optimism disappeared around the same time that your ego was shattered, and that those are the reasons you feel like you're the size of a penny? Again, I'm sorry that you feel that way. However, I don't think that you can honestly say it is the fault of women, whether they be shallow and petty or not. After all, we cannot choose what happens to us, or the way that others will act. We can only control our own reactions. As a matter of fact I never let things get to the point of egos being shattered. I decided a long time ago that this is whole situation is ridiculous a very long time ago. Before you start telling men to 'replace' their pictures, try uploading one yourself. Like I said before I'm not here dating and I'm not an underwear model so whats the point Once again, I find myself questioning your motive in wanting all of the gentlemen and average Joe's to leave. I would personally rather that they stayed and we got rid of a couple of other groups in their place. Are you actually dating these guys, that you want to stay. After all this is a dating website. Probably not. I suggest you go on a date with an average joe first before you start telling them to stay on this DATING WEBSITE. I'm sure that would be reason enough for them too stay. I'm not sure which thread you are referring to that you feel proves your theory that I'm giving out advice for no reason. However, I'm quite sure you're not referring to any of the threads in which the question, "Why don't people reply to my emails?", has been posed. Here is the link just so you know I'm not making this stuff up http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts1053816.aspx Your comments about women do not reflect a positive personality, and nobody has negativity on their list of "must haves" in a partner. What you call negativity I call reality. Its easy for a picture of a women with a picture of her boobs on her profile to give this kind of advice too other people but you haven't lived it.So you can't really give anyone advice on much because of your lack of experience on these kinds of issues. I will admit that I'm am average in appearence, and guess what getting a women to like you with emails and a profile is just plain ridiculous. My suggestion to all of the hopeful average guys out there is this. If personality does indeed count then UNPLUG YOURSELVES FROM THE COMPUTER AND GO OUT AND MEET SOME GIRLS. If you say that personality counts than it shows in person much better.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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all I haft to say is what the f*ck Posted: 6/15/2005 11:00:50 PM
I don't get what you mean. Some guy promised to fly you to paris or something. I'm sure you won't have a problem finding a guy to pay your bills one of these days so just relax dammmmmmmmmmmmmn. You nineteen year olds are so impatient you can't have the rich sexy movie stars right away. These things take time.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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Ways To Get A Reply ..... Posted: 6/15/2005 10:53:59 PM
This is all bull$hit. I'm going to share something with all of you. There is a good reason why these women are even on this sight to begin with. That reason is because ALOT of them are too socially challenged and shallow to make any attempt at meeting a good guy in any other fashion. I'm mean lets be serious here, you could email the women in this place forever but your not going to have any real success unless you look like an underwear model. I've heard alot of crap just recently about personality counts.Well guess what it doesn't take precedent over your appearence. At least not on the internet. I read a post recently entitled "THe research is don", here is a small piece of that thread and I quote. After I was don emailing them, the results were this. The fitness models got 18 responses and the average joe got 1 response. The fitness model got mostly offers to chat and one woman went so far as too give their phone number to me. Now it sucks to just point fingers but this guy went out and actually proved what alot of dudes here have been saying all along. Women are indeed shallow and therefore doomed to be miserable for the rest of their dating lives.Unless by some strange chance plane jane actually hooks up with that imaginary stud that they all dream of. The only statistically sure way to get women in a place like this to pay any real attention to you is for you to be an underwear model. Numbers don't lie. Now lets do some math if you read any part of that thread I have listed above he says 18 out of 50 women responded to the underwear model which is 36% as opposed to the other guy who got one response out of the fifty 2%. I can't argue with those numbers. I'm going to give all of the guys in this place a piece of advice. If you're not an underwear model forget about web dating services alright. They are never going to work for you. This hunk character gots a good point. There really isn't much for a woman to look at accept for a picture and thats it. If they don't like your pic your screwed. I'm thinking maybe try going out to a club or something or enroll in a college or something else because women on sites like this are far too shallow to even think about attempting to date somebody they don't want to tear the clothes off of right away. Mother of two is giving advice to guys for no reason. The thread above proves that much. I'm sure there is the occasional exception out there but man let me tell you its occasional and its rare. So gentlemen you have two choices you can either become a fitness model or go elsewhere to meet your women. Dating sites are doomed to failure for the average joe. There is just too much choice here. Believe me if we had the choice of having whoever we wanted we're for sure going to take the best options given to us. So find your lovers elsewhere, this stuff here is hopeless. Forget about all of the advice "For nice Guys", and "ways to get a reply". That is a bunch of garbage. Here is a test for all you guys out there.Replace your picture with some superhunk from the internet. I'm willing to be that your for sure going to get a reply then. Otherwise forget it. Internet dating sites are good for one thing for a normal every day guy, and that is too crush your ego, and make you feel like your the size of a penny. To all of the frustrated men out there, Get out of this plac before these shallow petty women suck all of the hope and optimism out of you. Its one thing to be alone but man who needs to be reminded why they're alone every day. I sure the hell don't.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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What's up with the way outa my league mentality? Posted: 6/13/2005 11:16:31 PM
Alright seriously here besides the whole moving thing, I think your going to have to be one of those chicks that makes the first move. I've met girls like you before and when I meet them it always seems to me that they have bf's. They got this kind of motherly responsible way of doing things. Which I guess isn't a bad quality but it made me believe that they were involved with somebody. I mean seriously when is a good looking women not being hit on. Especially a headstrong women like you put it. I would always run into these women and think to myself, "There is no way that chick is single". I used to think that because these ladies seemed like such a catch that it would probably be near impossible for them to be single. SOOOOOOOOO if you see a guy you like make a move.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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What's up with the way outa my league mentality? Posted: 6/13/2005 10:51:57 PM
Move away from fargo ND to start with LOL

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

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What's up with the way outa my league mentality? Posted: 6/13/2005 10:27:14 AM
AMEN Ronin, I 'm currently going through the same type of situation. And yes I used to be the same trim chick magnet. But alas I also gained weight and now zilch. SOOOOOO what are you going to do. I joined a gym and I know once the weight is off LOOK OUT. Now I agree that you shouldn't walk around thinking you deserve dirt but I also believe you should give yourself every possible advantage that you can before you go out there to meet these girls. One of those advantages is a good appearence. Once you have the all important combination of decent looks and charm you can't lose

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 32 (view)

What's up with the way outa my league mentality? Posted: 6/13/2005 12:44:42 AM
Dude you didn't read the thread the whole way through The one for sure way to learn how to deal with women and how to approach women is to go out and talk to them and I don't mean like some kind of poser. Just talk to them like human beings and sooner or later you'll get a feel of who you should or should not be talking too Now if that doesn't say it all I don't what does. Oh and by the way I know plenty of very funny and very charming good guys out there right now that are single. So if looks aren't everything how come these dudes are single.I'd like you too explain that.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 10 (view)

A note for you all Posted: 6/12/2005 11:56:51 PM
AWWWWWW. I think I heard this once in a disney flick somewhere. Man sometimes things are just bad, lets face it ladies and dudes. Its always easy for someone in a relationship to say this stuff but when the tables are turned man look out. I have this too say everyone, don't let these jerks get too you,be a fighter.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

What's up with the way outa my league mentality? Posted: 6/12/2005 11:39:18 PM
Man that was sumthin. I have to tell you guys, niether of you are making much sense here. I am going to say this. Whether anyone here wants to admit or not there is a natural engrained instinct for women to look for the most attractive person. This is a simple biological fact. All of the smooth talkin and humor cannott override that instinct. I'm not a super model but I do okay with the women. However I haven't slept with any model type women in some time now. The primary reason for that is because model type women sleep with model type men, 9 times out of 10. This is fact not fiction. Everyone in this place tries to pretend this is not true, and sugar coat everything. In simple truth though it is in our own human and inherant nature to want attractive things. You cannott argue with that in any fashion. Women and men alike are subject to their own nature and desires. While I will admit that personality has something to do with meeting women, NOTHING and I mean absolutley NOTHING can ever beat good looks friends that for sure is a garuntee. If a woman thinks your not attractive you can hang it up friends and the same goes for the ladies. Nobody in here is willing to back up anything they say with true life experiences well I am. I have a brother that is what we would consider to be an attractive man and the girls wont leave him alone. He doesn't have a golden boy personality or an amazing sense of humor but one thing he does have is good looks. I keep finding these types of threads in these forums and lemme tell you guys and girls out there if you feel like somebody don't take any risks with that. Its like playing russian roullette because you just don't know what their response is going to be.What they think of you is in their head not yours and all of the co$kiness and charm can't change that at all. If they decide they want to be A$$holes that is going to do more to hurt your confidence then anything. One thing is for sure in this harsh world confidence is something your going to want to keep in good supply. So everybody it goes like this if a girl likes you she will let you know in some fashion or another. She might buy you drink or ask you to dance or whatever. So throw all of that Double your dating garbage out the window puhleaase. Nobody likes a barfly or a lounge lizard. I'm very glad all of you dudes here feel confidence but man please quit setting people up for failure. All of this crap about jokes and stuff like that is for the birds. The one for sure way to learn how to deal with women and how to approach women is to go out and talk to them and I don't mean like some kind of poser. Just talk to them like human beings and sooner or later you'll get a feel of who you should or should not be talking too

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 2 (view)

Always getting ur the sweetest guy, which always ends up in friend mode Posted: 6/12/2005 11:01:25 PM
Stop acting so damn friendly and they will quit trying to be your friend.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

I Still CRY at Night ALONE!! Posted: 6/10/2005 11:12:50 PM
For we know him that hath said, Vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord Never cry, friend ever when you cry that means that they're winning. With a little faith and trust your time will come. All I can say to this is if things are that bad friend and women don't think your good enough don't ever shed a tear, leave them to their own misery.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 14 (view)

What's up with the way outa my league mentality? Posted: 6/10/2005 8:22:36 AM
Thats easy for you to say pretty boy. But I'd like to see you go out there and prove this. There are indeed women out there who enjoy being on a pedastal,and will let you know that they are there right away. Thats why I always go out with at least one ruff bit#ch to keep these broads in check

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Why do nice guys ALWAYS finish last? Posted: 6/10/2005 8:19:17 AM
This is in response to what dxkalc7695 says. if a guy treats me well, and theres an attraction specifically to the part that refers to an attraction. If a women is attracted to you how you treat her is irrellevant, bad or good. Whichever it is once she's decided that she is attracted to you how you treat her seems to go out the door with trash. The problem with women is they get lust and love mixed up most of the time. So once they start lusting after you they confuse that with loving you, and thats just that.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 69 (view)

To reply or not to reply? Posted: 6/9/2005 12:03:13 AM
yup

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

What does it mean when they say... Posted: 6/8/2005 10:52:44 PM
They don't mean anything because those are all lies

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

Dont you hate it when.... Posted: 6/8/2005 10:28:36 PM
Hell yeah tell her to take that friend $hit and get lost. Thats just another way of saying she don't want you dude. Tell the lady if she thinks she can do better to go out and do it and tell her to bring back proof of how much better she did LOL.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 14 (view)

Dont you hate it when.... Posted: 6/8/2005 9:59:35 PM
hmmmm pragmatic sounded intersting so I thought I would look up the definition of the word prag·mat·ic: Dealing or concerned with facts or actual occurrences; practical. 3: guided by practical experience and observation rather than theory. Okay so pragmatic isn't that bad afterall. Here is the thing mister carib king, I'm not really on this site trying to meet anyone at all, (I do much better meeting people in person). So updating my profile or anything like that would not do me much good at all.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

Dont you hate it when.... Posted: 6/8/2005 12:05:44 AM
I agree with your lamentations friend. However You can't be upset with these women given their circumstances. If you had your choice of really hot women to choose from you probably wouldn't even respond to just any old average jane. Only in this instance these ladies happen to have a wide variety of physically appealing men, or stereotypical "Hunk", to choose from. Could you blame them for ignoring your average joe.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 8 (view)

Dont you hate it when.... Posted: 6/7/2005 8:59:44 PM
Mister Smurf. I have recently come to the realization that this place is only good for one type of guy. That type of guy would be a very physically appealing person or something along those lines. My theory is this, there just isn't enough information here about a person make it worth a womans while to go any other route. Sure there is a brief description you can give about yourself. Other than that there is hardly anything else to go by. There is only one thing left for a lady to make her decision on, and that is your appearence. Not everyone can be blessed with stunning good looks but believe me sir there are some dudes on here that are some reasonably fit and handsome fellows. I assure you if you were to actually correspond with one these guys you would see this website is nothing but fun for them. So in dating sites my man, average just doesn't cut it dude. These girls have their choice of whatever guy they want. So it is only natural that they try to at least meet the best looking guys first. I'm not mad at all about this though, truth be told I don't blame these women for being this way, Wouldn't you do the same given the same option. This isn't an attempt to woman bashing or anything like that but in truth, Women in dating sites have options, and if you don't fit a certain mold that they like than your pretty much screwed. Try getting out and meeting some ladies in person instead dude. This way if you meet a woman you can let all of your good qualities shine through and not just your looks.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 40 (view)

POF members with no patience!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/7/2005 8:48:04 PM
Nope, your just not interested in him. You should be kind enuf to give him that much of a response. After all he did take time out of his day to email you. A simple yes or no will suffice. Its just good manners

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

Someone please tell me the answer to this Posted: 6/7/2005 8:46:23 PM
Is your girlfriend a hottie.

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 7 (view)

Someone please tell me the answer to this Posted: 6/7/2005 8:44:51 PM
So lemme get this straight you and your girlfriend are going to both become victims and she can't see that the dude is full of $hit. This is some funny stuff, This girl must be about as sharp as a bowling ball

mr_goodtimes2005

Joined: 4/23/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

Don't trust A desperate womans opinion Posted: 6/7/2005 12:40:32 AM
RIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHT, You lost me there Mister Ghost, but good luck with that, okay

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