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as advertised? Posted: 1/1/2008 7:19:02 PM
you missed the point I think...you shouldnt have to advertise your a nice person. It should show through your behavior. Take for example: I saw a profile from a lovely lady in England, she never mentioned her personality, but what she didnt say showed through her wit and charm, even though she was having a bad hair day! lol her sweetness showed without fan fare.

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as advertised? Posted: 1/1/2008 6:55:27 PM
Hey I've been reading alot of profiles with these phrases in them: "Im open minded" "Im a sweet person" "Im a caring person" "Im spontanus" And so on. Well are they what they claim to be? If they have to advertise their a "nice person" , or open minded person" chances are their to good to be true. Those who are nice or openminded dont need to advertise they are, because it shows how they act toward you, or just by their presence on their profile...

Joined: 9/2/2007

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Disabilities Posted: 1/1/2008 10:07:24 AM
I've been disabled all my life. What gets me is that Women who aren't disabled think their better than everyone else. God forbid if we should talk to these stuck broads! They'll just brush you off or treat you like a CHILD! I read a profile here recently saying infect, " if your disabled you need not apply" Not in those exact words, but you get the picture, I mean really, what kind of Stuck up @*#! would say that? Such a person isnt really worth the bother and any abled bodied guy who would date this Witch would be the kind of guy who would just as big as a loser than she is!

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Best wishes for the New Year Posted: 12/29/2007 8:01:12 AM
I just wanted to pop in and say Happy New Year. I hope you don't get to wasted,...cough, cough! Hope everything goes your way, like I always say, never compromise your standards in a mate, and dont let anyone say you should just settle for second best! When it comes to the heart, you must be true to yourself.

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Blogs Posted: 12/29/2007 7:48:20 AM
There should be a page on this site, so members can create blogs.

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people with mild disabilities-deserve relationships Posted: 12/27/2007 8:13:38 AM
We who are disabled must first start stop feeling sorry for ourselves, and deal what been handed to us. No one likes a whiner... We must go about our lives, and start getting out there for others to see. I know I feel sorry for myself at times, but I dont let that stop me from seeking out that special lady, that I choose to be involved with, as long she is willing to come along for the ride. Guess what Im saying is we who are disabled, tend to settle for whoever comes along, and we dont need to. Everyone has his/her taste in a partner, and shouldn't allow others to say otherwise...hope this made sense.

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I would like to have your opinion on dating people or having sex with disabilities. Posted: 12/24/2007 6:11:29 PM
I was born with my disability. Its been almost 10 years since I had sexual realtions... Yeah, I know the feeling bud. I compromised in my taste in women, and that was a big mistake, well maybe once it was so bad. I got burned anyway. So I say never compromise on your taste on women YOU fine attractive. I've been reading this newsletter I get online by John Alanis, he gives pointers on actracting desirable women.

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online games Posted: 12/24/2007 5:47:30 PM
Hiya, Okay I looking online games like WOW or anyother type of interactive online game, that aren't so huge and that my computer can operate win2000 with 384.500 KB RAM/w AMD 3d processor...know of any?

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Being Single during the Holidays Posted: 12/24/2007 9:25:25 AM
Regardless of the circumstances you fine yourself in....MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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internet dating and disabilities Posted: 12/24/2007 9:15:56 AM
I agree with your posting to a point. That no one likes a whiner, or someone who is on a pity party. However, I believe in being honest and upfront about my disability, I just mention it briefly in my profile. Its part of whom I am, and there's no way to get around it. In short Im a MAN with a disability, not a disabled MAN. Hope you get what Im saying?

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Disabilities and dating.... Posted: 12/24/2007 8:56:20 AM
What I think is that those of us who are disabled, like yours truly stops gripping about being disabled, self pity parties, people will warm up to us. Instead focus in bettering ourselves and our communties. The rest will fallow...

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X-rated videos featuring people with disabilities Posted: 12/24/2007 8:39:29 AM
Now, Now let just send this guy to his room without any supper...because he dared mention gasp, SEX! Be sure to have a playboy bunny there waiting for him! Why is it that those who claim to be so understanding, and tolerant towards people with disabilities, need to scold us like children?

Joined: 9/2/2007

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X-rated videos featuring people with disabilities Posted: 12/23/2007 1:37:34 PM
Amendment to my post Didnt mean to sound preachy... Theres a bunch of busy bodies in this world, People who think people with disabilities as children, and we need to be talked down to, or treated with condesending behavior. I was trying to say I dont pay for sex...I need the real thing!

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Disabilities?! Posted: 12/23/2007 12:24:48 AM
Just wanted to pop in and say Merry Christmas, hope you all have a prosperous New Year too!

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X-rated videos featuring people with disabilities Posted: 12/22/2007 11:45:21 PM
I got one word to hero, BRAVO! I looked at some of these postings, and I must say, those who claim to be tolerant and understanding needs to take a refresher course. I dont agree with us who are disabled need to turn to porn for sexual gratification, What is needed is for us to seek real realtionships with real women. Focus on being part of the community, being involved in a cause, and things like that. Who knows some young woman might take notice in that, and you wont need artificial superficial women, who wouldnt give you the time of day otherwise. Again, even though I dont agree with the porn, I do admire those stick up for others who are being judged.

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People with disabilities and ignorance in society Posted: 12/22/2007 10:23:44 PM
"Our own kind" What do they think we who are disabled are from, another planet? I say those who say such things outa go to another planet, then they can be with their own kind...ASSTROIdS

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People With Disabilities Posted: 12/22/2007 8:14:26 PM
Just popped in to say Merry Christmas! Lets remember the real reason for the season, of hope and world peace!

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internet dating and disabilities Posted: 9/30/2007 9:11:55 AM
I know lately my postings have been a lot to be desired, but at the time of those postings, I reflected how I felt at THAT time, don't mean I feel those feelings now. apologize for any offense. Since when does being a christian is considered a stike against you? That is what someone recently told me. I pity that person.

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internet dating and disabilities Posted: 9/29/2007 6:32:57 PM
I thought these forums were to share our frustrations about dating? I thought these forums were to educate and inform? You should have seen the email I gotten today here on POF! It was full of venom! I wonder if the lady who wrote it ever heard of the 1st amendment? And if she knew whom she was talking to, would know being a online journalist enjoys exposing pinheads like her! My postings and my profile is my business and my right to express myself...to have some busybody come along and do the "hit and run" rountine on me, tells me that lady, wasnt as tolerant as she claimed to be,,,

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Cold Responce vs. Read/Deleted Posted: 9/29/2007 6:23:00 PM
You should have seen the response I got today from some lady today! whew talk about nasty! she chewed me out royally, and get this, because of my past postings, which I was just reflecting my opinions on issues. I wonder if she heard of the 1st amendment! Little does this "person" realizes that I'm an online journalist, and enjoy exposing arrogant pinheads like her!

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Disabilities Posted: 9/28/2007 1:36:29 PM
I am a man with a disability and I get the same thing in regards be given the brush off by women. So it isnt just men who do that, women are just as gulity. And get this, I get the brush off by disabled women too. Example 1: One time a woman who was disabled I was attracted to, told me she didnt date disabled guys! Example 2: I was interested in a Native American girl who was disabled, and she told me she couldnt date me because I was white! Example 3: I just wrote to a attractive disabled girl here, and she didnt even answer me email I sent her. Now talk about closed mindness and intolerance! Then they cry their eyes out because they cant fine a 'nice guy" and theres those like me who goes out of their way to offer friendship the door gets slammed in my face.

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internet dating and disabilities Posted: 9/28/2007 8:16:14 AM
It amazes me that when I read profiles that say: "Im open minded" But when I drop a line I either get no answer to my emails, or something like" keep fishing" or Im not your type. What happened to being "open minded" I think they need to delete "open minded" out of their profiles. There goes tolerance!

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 9/27/2007 1:55:57 PM
Hello, My name is Peter, Im 47 years old, single, and no kids. Guess I never found that special woman in my life. I have a physical disability ( use wheelchair) Im active in my community, I'm currently forming a organization in the Port Angeles area and all fo Clallam County which will help disabled people who uses electric wheelchairs and scooters, in getting financial assistance to get their chairs fixed in a more timely manner. Anyway thats alittle about me. Check my profile for more info.

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People with disabilities and ignorance in society Posted: 9/26/2007 8:04:30 AM
My OWN kind? Wonder how people feel if they referred that jackass statement in regards to races? Same thing... I'll date a woma from a different race, or abled bodied, or disabled woman. People who say such trash, are trash themselves.

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internet dating and disabilities Posted: 9/26/2007 7:20:36 AM
One thing thats frustrating about online dating is that some use this as a way to con people out of their money. By doing the Nigerian African scam. They put up a fake profile, claiming to be from the states, but some how find themselves in Africa or some other far of country, and need your help in getting money, or a ticket to the states. They try to agian your trust by agreeing with everything you say, and get you to chat with them on either on yahoo or msn messenger, then they one day declare their undying love for you and need to be with you and stuff like that. What their really doing is to see if they can con you out of money. Secondly, its the cam girls. These are college age girls trying to make a fast buck by agreeing to have sexual encounters via webcams, they wouldnt even consider you off line if you met them in real life, they are just wanting to make money period. However, what these girls dont think about is their futures, until one day someone uses what they did online against them when they seek real high paying jobs, then they regret what they do, but the damage as been done. They dont realize that whats on the net "STAYS" on the net forever. Those are my two frustrations about online dating disengenuous, con artist! Not because of my disability.

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Disabilities and dating.... Posted: 9/23/2007 6:25:24 PM
Im a person with a disability, but I feel as long theres mutual respect, and no nags, or control freaks the world be a better place. It is generally known now that you put the person first before the disability, not disabled person, rather "person with a disability" sounds better dont it? have a good one

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I'm disabled. Should I admit it up front. Posted: 9/23/2007 2:47:31 PM
Hey Dude! Im a man who is disabled, not a pity party. I admit my disability right on my profile, its part of who I am. But, if a woman is judging me because of a disability, then I wouldnt want to know HER in the first place. She misses out on what could have been a good thing. And she'll answer for her bigotary in the after life leave it in God's hands! We need to be proud of who we are not ashamed of it, become involve in our communities, and who know maybe some HOT young woman might take a shine for us, who isnt from the stone age! PARTY on dude! Remember brother, its on them not US! Either way Im going to have fun whether Im with a woman or not, and I am going to do great things for my community.

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WOMEN AND DISABLED MEN Posted: 9/23/2007 2:35:23 PM
Friend, Im a disabled person, or should I say, A man with a disability, and it dont make a darn bit of difference whether your disabled or not, and if there's some who say it makes a difference they not US who aren't worth knowing to start with. I think we need to stop feeling sorry for our selves and focus on being involve in our communities, and who know some hot young woman might even notice, and let nature take its course. Same thing with race it dont make a difference there either, as long shes not a nag, or control freak good things can happen.

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