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night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 15 (view)

How did you finally....let go? Posted: 7/27/2006 10:11:10 AM
I just let go some sort of at a time. Well, I decided that things were going to far with him and another woman while we were broke up. I still care about the person and all...but realize that he is probably happy with her since they are married....we were only engaged.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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so tired of hurting Posted: 7/27/2006 9:57:08 AM
I am too. But when he decided to marry someone else so quickly after breaking up I had to sort of move on. Now. i sort of know how he is doing. yes, people can be jerks sometimes...but I still feel you can work it out. Sometimes its hard to understand someones attitude about certain things.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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makeup, new lines on the market Posted: 4/21/2006 10:44:28 AM
No. I haven't tried that kind yet, but I have to be careful because some make my skin break out. (don't know why that is).

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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tanning and its benefits Posted: 3/13/2006 6:56:49 PM
How do you know if it is melanoma? I think that is painless. Cause I've got a brown patch of skin.

night_lover

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Msg: 48 (view)

tanning and its benefits Posted: 3/13/2006 6:54:33 PM
sun is okay just not too much

night_lover

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Msg: 36 (view)

Never give all the heart.... Posted: 3/13/2006 6:43:26 PM
I agree. Someone once told me that other people won't be as protective of your heart, so its wise to protect it.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Still hurting, wondering if it ever stops? Posted: 3/13/2006 6:34:08 PM
know what you mean. You could consider you may get back together one day. It does hurt, but you could just have to enjoy being single or having more time. Well, I found out my ex boyfreind was getting married this past weekend. We've sort of lost contact anyways. THey said he seemed really happy, but it ruined the chances of us being together. For some reason I thought he'd wait to marry since we were once engaged. You could try excersising or more physical activity to help yourself heal.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 42 (view)

Why do I still miss him?? Posted: 10/20/2005 8:29:27 AM
I think that's the same for me too. I just think sometimes It could've worked out, and it was going to.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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It Hurts So Bad Posted: 10/20/2005 8:13:43 AM
That's so sad,especially at that age. Hope things get better.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Hurt Posted: 10/19/2005 5:29:49 PM
That is sad, is she divorcing you or not? It has to be a pain, but some times people aren't honest with us at first.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Hurt Posted: 10/18/2005 10:13:51 AM
It's sad that that happened, even if she said it when she was angry.

night_lover

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Why do I still miss him?? Posted: 10/17/2005 10:39:00 AM
Does he live in the same town or area? Just asking.

night_lover

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Msg: 26 (view)

Why do I still miss him?? Posted: 10/17/2005 10:33:46 AM
I sort of know how you feel. THis guy I was dating did me like that. He decided to end it and see someone else. I still miss him now and then. You know, I'm still hoping he remembers me and all that. In fact, he once said we aren't meant to be together. I don't really know what to tell you except to try not to think to negatively about it. I guess that in order to be in love you just later go through the hurt.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 148 (view)

Who loves it when a man ACTUALLY sings to you? Posted: 10/16/2005 5:15:22 PM
I think it would go pretty far but depends on the person.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

Alcohol Posted: 10/16/2005 7:30:08 AM
I agree people are different like that

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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tried n tested cookie recipes Posted: 10/14/2005 3:43:06 PM
Some of the older cookbooks have better recipies.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

Canned Salmon Posted: 10/14/2005 3:36:54 PM
yeah you can make patties out of salmon. That's about all I know. Sorry. I guess you could mix it with other food.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Alcohol Posted: 10/14/2005 3:27:00 PM
It's probably fine in moderation, as long as you are sure to not over do it.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 131 (view)

Do you believe in Astrology? Posted: 10/14/2005 3:21:05 PM
I don't know. Some say it's real but I don't know.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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strange: Guys only care about how youthful female is Posted: 9/23/2005 9:04:02 AM
Well, I think that a guy/man wants someone who is youthful in actions as well. I've seen things work out with age differences though. They want someone who can do things with them too and not be worried about everything.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 27 (view)

what is it people are REALLY looking for, and why cant they just say Posted: 7/20/2005 12:32:14 PM
I think it is because they don't want to say something that the other may not like or want as well. I mean you must connect with the other in order for things to turn out a certain way.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Getting over a relationship when you work with them!!!! Posted: 6/20/2005 1:34:19 PM
Well, just don't show it anymore if she isn't into it. I'll make it harder for you to get over it (in case she never is interested, hate to sound negative).

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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What doe it take?? I am ready to give up! Posted: 5/27/2005 5:15:05 PM
I think you have been sincere to her. But, sometimes, people don't really take to romantic feels if they already have someone in mind or something. Sounds like she may already have someone in mind. And sometimes nothing you do is going to change it.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Are there shy people out there? Posted: 5/25/2005 7:08:50 PM
I'm shy some, but you need people. It's the thought of rejection that is also a problem.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Car Bombings Across Iraq Kill Dozens Posted: 5/24/2005 5:59:45 PM
It is sad , very. Just saw that on the news program.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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GW Bush's resume Posted: 5/23/2005 9:19:24 AM
I still think America has the right to want protection regardless of who hates us and by that I don't mean the war. Look at our troops , they are also in danger it's not just others that are. I just think certain things happen for a reason you just have to think of that.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 129 (view)

National Health Care? Is it for the USA? Posted: 5/23/2005 9:10:20 AM
Well, there needs to be a change in hospitals. They need to help regardless if you have insurance or a rich or not. I've seen too many go without help at hospitals, and puts life in danger. Don't know about health care personally, but it would cost. Just change some of these hospitals that's better than nothing.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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The world Hates America Posted: 5/23/2005 9:05:25 AM
THey don't like what we are doing, but I think its for a reason. We haven't been good freinds with the middle east really since desert storm. The war is still on, but Bush does insist its for a reason. And, so many hate us regarless IMO.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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just a question Posted: 5/22/2005 8:41:05 PM
Does anyone ever have trouble relaxing? I have a friend too that says she used to have panic attacks, but are they normal? If anyone knows anything I can do about them please let me know. Thanks.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Cheating??? Posted: 5/22/2005 8:37:15 PM
I think that some are honest with others that they are taken and others are not. At least they are telling you the truth though. (i'm not saying it is okay) someone once told me about chat rooms saying that seems like most that are wanting to chat are married.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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How do I get him back ? Posted: 5/22/2005 8:17:50 PM
It's not always possible to get someone back. I know this, but my old boyfriend just showed hatred towards me and that was also painful. But if that is what you want then just be patient and he'll come back. Or you'll meet another that works better. I tried to get mine back but he just still is mean and would not be willing to treat me right. But I keep thinking it could have worked that's the sad thing. But your situation is much different probably.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 58 (view)

How about the behave yourself emails??!!! Posted: 5/22/2005 7:45:58 PM
Yeah , but its hard to behave in life sometimes isn't it? haha

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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How about the behave yourself emails??!!! Posted: 5/22/2005 10:45:50 AM
Yeah, I think that you are right, what has age, weight, or haircolor got to do with anything. I mean it's the person inside. Although I wonder if its even possible to love someone just over internet I mean you don't even know them really.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 145 (view)

Why do MOST men want SKINNY WOMEN... not Average Women? Posted: 5/21/2005 2:13:52 PM
Well weight isn't the most important thing, If you like someone then you do. But, the thing with online is that you just never know if they are set on a certain body size, hair color, eye color,etc.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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Typing it out.....OR Talking it out??? Posted: 5/21/2005 2:10:10 PM
The thing with typing is words are just not taken right sometimes. The phone and convo is sort of different.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

Do men need romance? Posted: 5/21/2005 2:06:21 PM
There are different types of men you know and some want romance, marriage, or just a date. It just depends. (Some I know are just different).

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

do all woman go for the little preppy hard bellied guys? Posted: 5/21/2005 1:58:42 PM
I think most guys are into the preppy girls. I'm just looking for someone who is into some of the same things I am and that we can have something in common.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

Are you into PDA's Posted: 5/21/2005 1:56:22 PM
My opininion is I would want someone to do that and in public as long as it isn't something others like kissing or something to serious.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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To what lengths would you go to, at your partner's request, to be attractive to them? Posted: 5/19/2005 9:49:50 AM
It'd be exercising or dieting, because i'm pretty active in that and wouldn't want to pay a dime for anything else lol.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 87 (view)

Is It Possible To Fall In Love Before Meeting???? Posted: 5/19/2005 9:42:19 AM
I had someone once ask if I felt this fantasy I had over someone was wrong or didn't feel right. But, it is possible to develop a friend or even some type of intimacy online if both are open to it (wouldn't want to scare anyone by not knowing them). So many people email back and forth that it proves something is there.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 86 (view)

Is It Possible To Fall In Love Before Meeting???? Posted: 5/19/2005 7:56:04 AM
Well, a fantasy or fantasizing is not the same as that. It's different I guess. But as long as both are honest with each other about things, then maybe you could. It's when your too dishonest that it messes it up.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

You make perfect sense. Posted: 5/3/2005 10:02:04 PM
I don't know, personally I don't like being single or whatever but it's what works best for you. If your happy single or alone, then just enjoy it.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

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i hav this huge crush on this girl at work Posted: 5/3/2005 10:00:23 PM
I don't know but you should be caughtous about what you say to her. I'd give it time to see if there is any chance between you two, because sometimes there isn't and it can hurt to be rejected. Try talking to her at work breaks or maybe offer to eat lunch together to talk about a problem at work.

night_lover

Joined: 4/24/2005

Msg: 84 (view)

How much younger is too young? Posted: 5/3/2005 9:46:54 PM
To me it really doesn't matter as long as you are both comfortable. Age isn't the biggest issue, and it's more the compatibility or the spark. Because plenty of people try to date others the same age and they don't hit it off. You just have to hit it off enough to be more than friends.

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