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Would you ever get your partners name tattooed on you? Posted: 11/28/2007 6:06:04 PM
Hell no! My tattoos are there to remind me of things that matter to me and what really counts. If I love you, I love you. I don't need to be reminded, because if you're it, I won't forget it. Not to say that the person I love wouldn't matter enough to have a place on my skin, I would just rather them have a place in my life instead.

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jealousy Posted: 11/22/2007 6:17:58 PM
It really sucks that anyone said that stuff to you. And it's a load of bs. There's nothing wrong with you that being jealous is not part of your dynamic, infact everyone should strive not to be. It's the kind of thing that damages reationships and dampens the spark between two people. (I learned that one the hard way) But it's a bloody shame that just because you are comfortable enough in yourself and with the person you're involved with that those who aren't chose to throw stones. F#*k 'em, and don't take it personally.

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jealousy Posted: 11/22/2007 6:06:59 PM
Jealousy is a very specific feeling and it's not always pretty. Guys and girls identify with that term differently, and trust me it's not such a bad thing that your guy isn't the jealous type, it's not the kind of thing you want to be on the receiving end of. Just because he says he wouldn't be jealous of you dating other guys doesn't mean that he wouldn't feel something about it. I've only ever met one guy who is point blank open about what he's feeling when he's feeling it and it's definately refreshing, but most guys keep that stuff inside. Just because he doesn't show you what he's feeling doesn't mean he's feeling nothing. I had a discussion once with someone I had a thing with about how he'd feel if I hooked up with a friend of his, he said the same thing about not being jealous. Then I got teased for pouting about it because I had translated that into I don't care. Maybe he would've, maybe he wouldn't have, but I think if you want any kind of a relationship with a guy you have to make peace with the fact that you won't always know what's up and they aren't always gonna tell you what they're thinking. Funnily enough I've started seeing someone who is the exact opposite, and that is almost as hard to adjust to.

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Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women? Posted: 11/22/2007 5:45:58 PM
I can't believe this is actually a discussion! Cracks me up. Are looks really that important? I need to be attracted to a guy but there's alot of ways to stimulate attraction that have nothing to do with how pretty the wrapping is. I'm pretty sure that there are guys out there that feel the same, even if they look to hansome to be real. I do have a friend that I am in the habit of referring to as man-pretty because he is just astonishing to look at sometimes, but alot of that has to do with what he has going on underneath. If he were a dud on those other levels it wouldn't matter how well formed his molecules are. Sure we've all had moments when someone is just too hot not to ****, but if you can't carry on a conversation before or after then their value as arm candy not withstanding, their stock plummets pretty fast.

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