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newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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How to show a Man you Like him without being Clingy Posted: 11/23/2009 4:12:56 PM
op,,, hope you know who that is. just kidding.. anywayif you've been friends with him along time and you both said you like each other then don't be afraid of scareing him off, or being too clingy. be positive and say anything you feel . he's already told you how he feels as you've said. so he's not going anywhere. don't try to make him jealous and play games, the outcome won't be what you want! the forums, will give some good advice and some not so good, but you'll only learn from your own doing good luck

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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so confused! Posted: 11/23/2009 2:30:06 PM
op,, why did you feel like you had to sleep with him after a date or two? considering you both agreed you wern't boyfriend and girlfriend? are you insecure? or a nymph? sounds like one or the other.......too bad , too late...

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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told myself I would never do it Posted: 11/23/2009 2:16:24 PM
what was the question again? oh ya "do i break up the marriage?" get over yourself fast buuud. you arn't breaking up anything, the so called marriage is gone. you said they hate each other. she's f'in you ONLY to screw her hubby's mind ,when you tell him.... one big , sick game....

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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No sparks should I try again? Posted: 11/23/2009 5:26:02 AM
op,,,he told you there was no chemistry for him! let go, live and LET LIVE. so your going to dwell on ,,," well he said he thought i was attractive?" oh my! He clearly was being nice to call or email back and say NO CHEMISTRY for him.. end of story. PS, where's the sh#t happens icon when ya need it??????

newberrys

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ok Posted: 11/22/2009 12:48:39 PM
ah , yahhhhhh... but why don't you just not and say you did

newberrys

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PLEASE HELP!!!! Posted: 11/22/2009 12:37:05 PM
msg.8 " getting all drunk and THING" what the hell is that????? re-read it op and do tell

newberrys

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PLEASE HELP!!!! Posted: 11/22/2009 12:29:19 PM
ek, this sounds real school girlish. if you DON"T want him, don't have any contact with him at all. he'll go back to his ex and you'll be free and clear. why are you with him anyway, if he's sleeping with someone else? when your mad at him? weird

newberrys

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Wondering if I went too over the top? Posted: 11/22/2009 8:03:42 AM
it was not over the top, by any means. she wasn't feeling well, you sent flowers i'm so sure, she's gonna thank you! Good Work

newberrys

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:13:07 AM
well op... if i gave you exactly the response you were expecting, i'm glad i made your day! now you may want to go take a cold shower and reboot. if you KNEW she wanted that, and you diden't want to act like anything but a gentleman, why diden't you tell her that before you went on your date? maybe the outcome would have saved you all THIS time and trouble

newberrys

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/16/2009 5:30:52 AM
op,,, why do you immediatly think this gal was piss#d that you diden't rip her clothes off? you say ,, you had dinner, drinks etc. and it was getting late, sounds to me like she was getting tired, ready to go! period so she just wasn't into you,, ya ,, it does happen to men too! so, she called to say thanks but no thanks, that's all. move on, that's all.

newberrys

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In case your a serial killer in a profile Posted: 11/15/2009 8:09:27 AM
that line sounds like a bunch of crap! i wouldn't read further, yeah, she must be brand new at this game.

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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My friend and I love the same girl Posted: 11/8/2009 7:50:56 AM
alling dibs, on a girl???? who does this? and where???? what the hell is that ????

newberrys

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Asking out a chick during 'exams' Posted: 11/8/2009 7:43:18 AM
definately after the exams, my friend. let her stay focused . college isn't for scewups,do her the favor. you'll probably thank yourself later

newberrys

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Give it two weeks and I always screw it up! Posted: 11/8/2009 7:14:38 AM
c'mon now msg.5,,,, there's nothing about this that sounds like he's a switch hitter. why are you going there? he has issues, and in time he'll figure them out, i'm sure but i think your way off.

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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What's going on here? Posted: 11/8/2009 6:53:20 AM
you've already discovered something's not right. and she lives 2-1/2 hrs., away? NOTHING tells me it's going to be a match made in heaven... run don't walk. stop messaging, calling etc, etc, and i'm betting she will do the same. soon you'll learn all the tricks of the trade

newberrys

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women who say i'm really busy or i have a finite amount of time... Posted: 11/7/2009 4:36:03 AM
well if their writting it IN their profile it probably means they have VERY limited time to socialize and are seeking the same. or maybe when their thru with work they just want to relax and vent , so they browse the dating site. something to do without committing. who knows? anyone who posts -" very busy with work", doesn't do it for me, so i just move on

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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hairdressers Posted: 11/7/2009 4:17:17 AM
you guys have nada good to say about hairdressers, but ya all love lookin' at em, and dreaming! We're the ones that make you look good. cuz ya can't do it on your own. and yes we do change you,, cuz that's what your asking for when you walk in the salon and sit in the chair. if you like what you look like already, why come SEE us???

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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I am having trouble with this one. Posted: 11/4/2009 11:20:55 AM
op,,, as you say in yur profile " if there's no connection, move on." sounds like there's NO connection, why arn't you moving on??????????? dah????

newberrys

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What gives with the whole where are we now and where are we going with this Posted: 10/21/2009 3:57:12 PM
i think a women starts to wonder things like you say, only when they've been in a relationship for a few yrs. or more. maybe they have long term on their mind and want to know if the man is on the same page! unless your meeting very young, naive,grade school aged girls.

newberrys

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burger and chips Posted: 10/21/2009 1:49:16 PM
veggie burger at mcDonalds??? never heard of it! where is this place? i wouldn't be taking a first anything to mickey d's. if your low on cash, hold off til you have enough for a real date, with real food.... good luck

newberrys

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They're not here looking for sex... booohooo Posted: 10/21/2009 1:32:03 PM
yeah, don't loose any sleep over what you read in profiles act on the ones with structure, and forget the rest!

newberrys

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I like this girl Posted: 10/21/2009 12:56:13 PM
hey op,, you really need to talk right! is that how you talk to her? all sickening??? she likes you for what you are? what are you ? a smoothe talker?

newberrys

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a young beautiful wife with a much older husband Posted: 10/21/2009 12:38:11 PM
op, you say your friend " loves him dearly "? NOT! she wouldn't be thinking of cheating at all ever if she loved him dearly. why did she marry him anyway? she sounds like she's missing something

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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Is this a deal breaker. Posted: 10/7/2009 4:48:15 PM
well without a job, there's no money on your part! what do you expect to do with a girl if you want to date? do you take her to your house for dinner that your mom paid for and cooked? watch tv and pretend your at the movies? what? cuz everything costs.

newberrys

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are girls to much intimdated with previous relationships ? Posted: 10/7/2009 4:00:54 PM
everyone has a past! do you tell all your new potential dates all about your previous ones? that would just be sickening, not threatning

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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distance relationships Posted: 9/23/2009 3:59:00 PM
well op, you live in a small town and your still married! you should drive to another state and start there. maybe your running out of women cuz they ain't fallin' for yer,ways.

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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Dating or Long Term? Posted: 9/23/2009 3:26:15 PM
op, i've read that biker poem before, and i thought it was great. yu may be new at this online dating thing, so give it time. i'm sure you'll make out well.

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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Dating or Long Term? Posted: 9/23/2009 3:12:34 PM
if your goal is longterm, then maybe you should put longterm in your profile. then you shouldn't wonder if that's what's holding your replies up! it takes awhile , hang in there

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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First date feedback... Posted: 9/23/2009 2:36:12 PM
OP,, what's all this bull hone ee,, about how long to wait, how long to call, how long to what ever?? you've been married/children. you know the route! sounds like you want some more attention.

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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Is it Wrong to want to be with a Younger Woman Posted: 9/23/2009 2:07:50 PM
OP,, read your profile and to me ,, your way too judgemental! you, have soooooooo much to offer ? like what? your pic say's "doesn't get better than this"! maybe YOU think it doesn't get better than that, and maybe, for YOU it doesn't oh, and to answer your question, no ,it isn't wrong to want to be with someone younger than yourself. lighten up buddy

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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is it weird to have a foot fetish for female feet. Posted: 9/21/2009 10:00:09 AM
big woop!!!! people have fetishes, yours is a foot! is there a problem? question? what is it you want an opinion on?

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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No Interest in Sex a Warning Sign? Posted: 9/21/2009 9:28:48 AM
maybe he was stretching out her clothes? or borrowing and not returning! op, i understand your confused about things with this long term g/f of yours, but maybe,, just maybe, your confusion started before her.

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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How would you react??? Posted: 9/21/2009 9:19:40 AM
c'mon now,, not like no-one on here never returned a call or dissed someone when it wasn't right! we've ALL avoided people at sometime or another for whatever reasons. don't lie now, and say it 's soooo bad. sometimes it's actually the right thing to do and i personally think if she was really pregnant,she was the creep in this situation, not him

newberrys

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No Interest in Sex a Warning Sign? Posted: 9/21/2009 8:18:52 AM
OP, how can you think your hobby-[ crossdressing], has nothing to do with your life, it is part ofyour life! just like smoking , drinking, drugging etc.,etc., that will all have some part in your relationships or other areas of your life.so will your " hobby". don't kid yourself. she may have just gotten sick of that idea,and it may have slowly turned her off, sex wize! but you probably diden't think of that right? it's not a healthy thing for a kid to be around in any way. but you asked for opinions just giving one

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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No Interest in Sex a Warning Sign? Posted: 9/21/2009 7:30:55 AM
well, like you say, AFTER a FEW YRS. she lost interest in sex. the honeymoon is over, my friend as the yrs., go by her child is growing, she's in school, she works, all full time things going on in her life, time consuming. she sounds like she's advancing and your still dancing around in your little world! of fun and games! put her shoes on and wear them for a day, { no pun intended} then see if you still want sex 2or 3 times a day!!!!! you need to find someone who's life is less complicated and more like yours.

newberrys

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Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend? Posted: 9/21/2009 6:10:31 AM
yeah, the dude being well off, then trying to save money together , gets me thinking there could be something going on besides friends! or they ARE friends with benefits.

newberrys

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Ok, so this is why I don't understand women... Posted: 9/21/2009 5:55:59 AM
sunds like you had a great time , and you both enjoyed each other, so i'd call her a few more times, 2 anyway, and leave a vm, for her to return your call. if no reply in a week, then give up and move on. she may have been busy over the weekend, so now is the time to see if she's interested in you or not! let us know!

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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Need some advise please Posted: 9/14/2009 8:48:52 AM
you let him spend 40min's, talking about another date? ek! what's up with that? why diden't you get him off that subject, like after 3min's? if you want to be his friend, then go out with him. or better yet , go on a date with him and talk about your ex for an hour see if there's a second date. lol

newberrys

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Does she think I am hitting on her? Posted: 9/14/2009 7:22:17 AM
don't start to read into things! if you enjoy talking to her ,and pass the time together, it's just that. a bit of insecurity on your part , i think!!!

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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3rd Date - Covered the Basics Posted: 9/14/2009 6:18:49 AM
well just ask her what she wants to do, and if it doesn't matter to you, what you guys do then go with her suggestions. there's a whole world out there. have her over your house, make a meal together, have some wine . call her tonight and invite her over, simple!

newberrys

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Is he telling the truth only friends? Posted: 9/9/2009 3:57:23 PM
why do you want to BREAK up your friendship, cuz he says he doesn't love you???? true friends will love you in a friendship way, not romantic! do you want to be more than friends with him? sounds like it. he won't go away cuz he's your FRIEND. mind games????? how?????

newberrys

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How can i tell if she still loves me? Posted: 9/9/2009 3:14:27 PM
are you kidding???? your 19 and you've been in ' deep' love for 3 yrs? c'mon! why don't you take your own advice and move on. they'll probably be 100 more 'steph's' in your future Go out, get some activity's and enjoy your YOUTH

newberrys

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Is anyone on here serious?? Posted: 9/9/2009 3:05:34 PM
it certainly is a game!!!!but a fun one at that just think,,, you have front row seats, so get your popcorn, and sit back and watch the show! unless your a good actor/actress, then you can be in the movie

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/8/2009 5:29:27 PM
sooooooooo,,, there's being nice, and there's wasting your time, which is what your doing. why don't you just let it go or should i say , let him go! why do you care, he doesn't?

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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How far are you willing to go on a date? Posted: 9/8/2009 5:13:32 PM
i think guys tend to be willing to drive further. sometimes you want to see your SO on the spur of the moment, and if your 50 mlies away, it may not happen! you have to always make " plans ",rather than just up and go.For me it wouldn't work to well.

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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New Way Of Thinking Posted: 9/8/2009 3:21:01 PM
it's not about womens lib or being equal or anything like that! it's about that woman, and doin what SHE wants to do. people behind computers have different lives. so you did your homework ,,,,found out you weren't impressed and ran.... good for yu

newberrys

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/8/2009 2:22:44 PM
he hasn't replied to your email on sunday, and your meeting wed???? i wouldn't call or write either anymore if he was really interested he had plenty of time to let you know,, we all work and sleep and we still have time to date! i would ignore him, if you hear from him and move on! he sounds lazy lifes too short

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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Sending Mixed Signals Posted: 9/8/2009 2:01:40 PM
your taking the dating scene way too personal, my friend. the flirty hair fling???????????????? omg i never knew flinging hair was flirting,i fling hair all day long , by no way in hell am i firting,,,maybe they did that way back when we all know how to flirt,, even you, i would guess.... so lighten up,and have fun when you go out. don't waste all your energy on analyzing peoples every moves......

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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why do girls say one thing and do another Posted: 9/7/2009 6:09:06 PM
your question is what? exactly why do they do that to you? or just do that in general? what?

newberrys

Joined: 9/4/2007

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Lady friend that wants to be more Posted: 9/7/2009 5:32:46 PM
ya better just tell the broad { however you spell that },,your busy!!! and avoid her as much as you can whenever and wherever. hopefully she'll get the hint if she doesn't go away ask her what her fiance would think of the questions she asks you?

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