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Joined: 9/5/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

How do you make yourself be attracted to the unattractive? Posted: 5/26/2009 10:44:25 PM
You should keep doing what you're doing until you realize that maybe there's more to life than physical appearances... like personality... Unless you spend more time in the sack than doing activities with your partner, I think you need to look at your priorities.

Joined: 9/5/2007

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If you're single and not dating, what's your reason? Posted: 5/26/2009 10:40:31 PM
I don't because I haven't met the right person and I don't want to settle... relationships take up alot of time and energy and money why go into a relationship for the sake of having one. Your time and energy is better spent on other things...

Joined: 9/5/2007

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 5/26/2009 10:36:55 PM
Bingo! why settle when there could be a better guy/girl in your inbox...

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Msg: 185 (view)

What are women really looking for? Posted: 5/26/2009 10:30:17 PM
Ya but that still proves that woman go for "jerks" regardless of the disguise.

Joined: 9/5/2007

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do you look like your pictures? Posted: 5/26/2009 10:19:57 PM
I look exactly like my pictures in real life... the only thing I get is that I look like I'm 17 several times I've had to show photo ID.

Joined: 9/5/2007

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hot guy when met in real life was anything but sexy Posted: 5/26/2009 10:16:48 PM
People just need to be realistic about what they're looking for... ask yourself why would a person that looks like a 10 be on POF when they could just as easily meet people in their day to day lives? I'm not saying only ugly people are on here lots of people have lots of different reasons to be on POF some are just here when they're drink, some just like to have their ego boosted by the number of interested suiters they get. I find that for woman you always have to be weary of the top down shot and if you have a big nose every pic looks like a mug shot head on. Also the ones that show a little too much skin... you're partner should be interested in your personalty... physical attraction is just the introduction it's not what keeps the relationship going.

Joined: 9/5/2007

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The Dreaded Are You Interested? Posted: 2/14/2009 9:48:33 PM
"For some reason, this type of e-mail tends to make me feel like I have been put on the spot. I don't really know what to say because in some cases, the profile is so sparse I have no clue and I think it sort of pisses me off and I tend to have a negative vibe toward them when they might be nice guys." See the problem with this site is that they have no wink button... and if the other person is interested they just wink back. From a guys point of view we write a crap load of email and get very little responses, from a womans point of view your inbox is bursting at the seams. I've pretty much given up on these kind of sites there is not legitimacy to any of it. I've actually had a lot more luck on craigslist w4m. I think it's because you are forced to atleast repost your personal add when it expires.

Joined: 9/5/2007

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Why are most men looking for Friends with Benefits? Posted: 10/9/2008 5:44:31 PM
I think the door swings both ways, I think the only difference is woman have an easier time than men so it's an after thought for them.

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Why do tall big men want tiny women ? Posted: 10/9/2008 5:33:42 PM
Same reason short woman want tall tall guys... I have a friend who's like 4ft 3inchs she like them 6ft tall.... can you say odd couple??? I've asked a few woman allot of them say because it's a sense of security... and so they can wear heels... I'm not going to argue with that to each their own. What I am going to say is I think the people who put up barriers or "preferences" as they call it really limit themselves.

Joined: 9/5/2007

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ETHNIC ATTRACTION... Posted: 8/9/2008 2:52:23 PM
I read up until page 5... I find most people will never publicly admit they have a preference only to be politically correct. I've date someone from almost all ethnic backgrounds, I don't have a preference at all. Although I would appreciate it if people with preference stated it, so I don't have to waste my time, it's their loss but in the end we can't change the world. I find that preference is based on where you grew up and what the majority of the ethnic background is where you grew up, I spent alot of my high school year in a predominantly caucasian town and low and behold I was attracted to caucasian woman but then I moved back to the city where there is more select. I remember getting glances when I dated a Russian girl once... her friends would rib her about it sometimes. Let me say for those of you who haven't dated out of your background or ethnicity you are MISSING out you learn so much from dating people from different ethnicity's.

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Woman's Blatant Online Ad For A Millionaire Creates Worldwide Stir Posted: 10/11/2007 5:14:55 PM
I've read a few forums about woman and money and I just came across a thread asking why woman don't date unemployed men... I thought this was appropriate. (original article) http://www.citynews.ca/news/news_15594.aspx These are some of the smoothest lines I've ever read taken from the article "Your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity ... in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful! "So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Let me explain - you're 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35, stick a fork in you!" "It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) so I'd rather lease." --------------------------------------------- I am by no means saying that all woman are gold diggers and I don't support this article I just thought it was an interesting read.

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Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers? Posted: 10/6/2007 11:42:20 PM
I'm going to chime in... I'm 26 when I was 23 I dated a single mom... I didn't mind the kid actually but the relationship between her and her ex (the biological father) was a complete mess. I had to hear about all the crap she was going through with him and in the end I just didn't want to deal with it. Don't get me wrong I loved the kid, the kid wasn't the problem it was just the relationship between her and the ex. I don't have anything against single moms but I have to say you have an uphill battle and I don't want to generalize all single moms but here are some of the things that go through my head... 1. Baggage I don't want to deal with it period. 2. If you wern't married and had a kid and your under 24... once upon a time you were hot you could have any guy you wanted and you ****ed up... again I don't want to deal with the baggage period. 3. I've never experience this only heard it... people say that single moms if given the chance will go back to the biological father and try and work things out if she sees a chance for "the perfect family" now wouldn't it totally suck if you were dating her for oh a little while and she decided to go back? it would probably make you feel like a door mat. After all I've said, you really need to convince a single guy that none of that is gonna happen, and to take a chance on you.

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