I'd be pissed off if I didn't get to participate in the night hehe

she has every right to be upset....i don't agree with bachelor/bacheloret parties anyway...why would someone who is about to get married wanna see anyone else naket anyway??? to me thats cheating anyway and if they need that party before marriage then there not ready to settle down yet

Of course, those are all guys that haven't first been rejected on the basis of looks... so it just means you don't mind having a smaller target audience.

Wait until you get to know him before you go calling him a gentleman

Having recently joined POF, I wasn't aware of the other 15 threads...thanks for informing me in such a kind and welcoming way. I am sure you're having lots of success here of POF....keep up the great attitude!

Let me get this straight. You're a grown man, that has never been married, who is fat. You are judgmental and superficial and we're supposed to tell you how to handle it? I agree deoderant is needed, but sounds to me like you're probably lucky to be seeing anything in terms of a woman's body from what I see of your profile. May I suggest thanking your lucky stars and leaving it at that?

Could you please tell me, do you prefer to have a long reletionship with a woman that was her own job and is able to keep herself, or do you prefer to have a woman that lives on benefit and/or is anemployed? And why?

They are nice people but laugh at themselves are a lil bit too harsh and pointless.

Does this happen? Is this ok with you guys or do you not "automatically forgive?"

If you are an engineer, it is a good start.
If you are a smart engineer, you can be very successful.
If you are a smart engineer with a personality, you can take over the world!

whew, I thought your boyfriend was pissing on the furniture.

I said this to my ex.. and he still doesnt understand

I wonder.. is it possible to be high maintenance but not at the same time??

However you do have a relationship with them (a non-intercourse based one perhaps).
You do get involved intimately with them.

If you are failing to understand why this may be a problem then perhaps you need to broaden your sensitivity, empathy and comapsion - for many this will be a deal breaking issue.

My ex was very capable of loving more than one...It was I that was unable to handle it...I thought that his love for this other woman (who lived SOOO far away) would take away from our relationship...it was difficult for me to comprehend...but honestly, I am starting to believe that it can be done....it just takes a HUGE amount of communication and understanding....and not a stich of jeolous blood....

Hey guys I have a problem, how can I tell a guy that his ear hair is grossing me out? He's a good looking guy otherwise, I just think he's not aware, or doesn't care....but it's all I can think about and I keep staring at it! Help!!!!!! I'm too embrassed to confront him about it and I may just have to dump him, which would be a shame....

My god you're so young! I thought this was some sort of "old people " drama! lol

It generally takes two to play such drama! Totally ignore him! Even posting
here is feedback for him!

If things don't get better, talk to the police!

But be ABSOLUTELY certain, that part of you doesn't like the attention!

Then tell me what Confidence is. Tell me what it looks like. Because whenever you ask women what they want, and they say Confidence, it doesn't help the situation. They could say Cheeseburger, and still get the same non-message across.

Then why say "Some guys got it, others don't?" What's the reasoning behind such statements? There is something there that I obviously lack. So yes, I probably am bitter. But it's either keep shooting myself in the foot to get what I want, or say screw all of that garbage and do what I want, and make myself happy. It's not worth the trouble...

Am I the only one who sees the vast amount of contradiction in this statement? Or am I to understand in order to get a woman I must walk a fine line of not too much to the left, or not much to the right? If thats the case, I would rather walk on my own, without being forced on this tight rope.

men are weird! they think they know how women's mines work.

BUT!!! None of you answered the question...

Is this symbolic?

So if you are somewhat attracted to a girl but you think she is not in your league in terms her looks, are there any other factors that you consider when weighing the pros and cons of a relationship?

Just wondering.

So if you are somewhat attracted to a girl but you think she is not in your league in terms her looks, are there any other factors that you consider when weighing the pros and cons of a relationship?

I have a right to post on these forums as much as anyone else here. I have been a very active member on POF since 2005 in the state of Maryland...Missouri and I will be meeting my gal pal Kathy in New Mexico next month after b1tching about some bad and good dates we have had over the years. I even met my boyfriend through these forums....how about you??

Probably. I'd hate to think a "friend" is that shallow but obviously I'm just not girlfriend material.

I am 60 now, and just do not feel the motivation to go back to school. Am not totally dumb, do belong to Mensa, but I agree that is not the same as education. When I was a young woman, college was not quite as reachable for everyone as it is now. But, that is an excuse, I am sure. Busy raising a family, whatever. Never, ever considered myself a leech.