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cfb62

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Almost 2 years...and im not over my FIRST LOVE LOL How? Posted: 11/28/2009 6:08:02 AM
You need therapy. Life's too short. Are you obsessive in other areas of your life? Best of luck.

cfb62

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how do i save myself?? Posted: 11/28/2009 5:54:55 AM
As childish as you are, I'd think you'd take whatever you could get.

cfb62

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Why so many replies with an intentionally unoriginal profile? Posted: 11/28/2009 5:53:25 AM
Since how others view us is rarely anything like the way we'd describe ourselves, I won't spend the time to read a lengthy profile. The really long profiles can make you appear to be an online dating "pro". No woman wants a player.. Good for you that you're getting more responses!

cfb62

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Ladies, this will turn you off; buy why? Posted: 11/28/2009 5:35:39 AM
There are physicians who are bi-polar. If your meds aren't quite right, have them changed. Women want to feel safe. You can't offer that right now. Maybe you need to focus on yourself until you get it all together and date at that time.

cfb62

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Is it because Im big? Posted: 11/28/2009 5:31:19 AM
Hey OP, disregard the advice about how looks are everything....women will put up with crap from good looking guys.... Looks are only "everything" to shallow people. You don't seem to be looking for a shallow girl. Best of luck!

cfb62

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Would you tell after the relationship was over? Posted: 11/28/2009 5:26:25 AM
Geez I'm so sorry you had to hear that. It's clearly miser loves company. She must really be hurting. Have pity on her.

cfb62

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Presents from a stranger. Posted: 11/28/2009 4:22:19 AM
You need to man-up and ask her out.

cfb62

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it actually happened... now I need advice... Posted: 11/27/2009 5:36:53 PM
If you enjoy drama, she's the one for you.

cfb62

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Is it because Im big? Posted: 11/27/2009 5:34:08 PM
It's not you! It's her and your age group. Get out, date, and don't take it all too deep. Geez! You're only 22!!! You're going to have your heart broken and you'll break some hearts along the way as well. It's what dating is. Best of luck!

cfb62

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Presents from a stranger. Posted: 11/27/2009 5:28:37 PM
There's more to this situation than you've indicated. There is a missing puzzle piece. What makes you think she was staring at you? The only way you'd know that for a fact is if you stared back at her, or a third party watched her stare at you. You can't just be dropping these gifts off without any conversation. What's the rest of the story?

cfb62

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hey how you doing? who do you live with? Posted: 11/27/2009 7:51:06 AM
I'd bet they're really asking if you still live with your parents. (No offense intended whatsoever--it's probably due to your age.) They may be just trying to assess your sense of responsibility?? Best of luck!

cfb62

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Is he interested Posted: 11/27/2009 7:47:55 AM
He's either not interested, or he is interested. If he still hasn't put on his Big Boy pants and asked you out yet... would you really want to get involved with a spineless jelly fish?

cfb62

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Friendships in Relationships Posted: 11/27/2009 7:41:28 AM
Do what's right for you. There's no right or wrong way. However, I find it interesting when men want to jump into sex fairly soon, but want to take things slow as far as a relationship. Men bond between their ears. Women bond between their legs. So if you need to take things slow emotionally, you should take things slow physically as well. Happy Holidays!

cfb62

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Is this really happening again? Posted: 11/24/2009 11:38:42 AM
You really need to assess your self worth. It appears you have none. People will use you if you let them, and you let them.

cfb62

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Help with getting your foot in the door Posted: 11/24/2009 11:35:46 AM
It's one thing being shy, but another having low self esteem. Which one is it?

cfb62

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Best way to find out if she's single Posted: 11/24/2009 11:33:03 AM
You're 30 years old! For crying out loud----ask her!!!

cfb62

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Introducing myself to a woman Posted: 11/2/2009 3:29:46 PM
Hand shake please!

cfb62

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Advice Please Posted: 11/1/2009 5:22:18 AM
Sounds like she didn't like the idea that you weren't dying to date her. Some people just want to be chased, even when they're not interested. Sounds like she's insecure that way.

cfb62

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Need Advice About A Girl I Like Posted: 11/1/2009 4:53:43 AM
I'm guessing she's in her early 20s as you are? If so, she's young and will bounce back quick. Be honest and tell her what you told us. COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE She'll find it endearing at the very least. Best of luck.

cfb62

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What do you think? Posted: 11/1/2009 4:50:06 AM
Just let it go. She's not interested in you. It really doesn't matter why, just move on.

cfb62

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Do you notice men when they're in cliques or when they're alone? Posted: 10/31/2009 1:40:49 PM
I would pay attention if he was alone and not even "go there" if he was in a group.

cfb62

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Making an Excuse to Party on Halloween - Roadblocks if any? Posted: 10/31/2009 1:39:04 PM
Ummmm... I got over celebrating Halloween when I was maybe 20. You do get it's for children, right?

cfb62

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Terms of endearment too early. Should I run? Posted: 10/31/2009 1:37:19 PM
Run. She's claiming her territory waaaaay too early.

cfb62

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Does being a father scare women away? Posted: 10/31/2009 3:31:42 AM
Men with kids are much less selfish than men without, IMO, so I'm very open to it. As a matter of fact, I prefer men with kids. You're going to get a million different opinions on this.

cfb62

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Question about Internet Dating Posted: 10/30/2009 1:04:11 PM
As far as the psychology behind a females thought process of a first date: Some will be looking for chemistry others will be looking for a checking account to help themselves to others may be looking for a free meal there's no single answer to that question.

cfb62

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How bad can a kiss really be? Posted: 10/29/2009 9:39:36 AM
Oh there are bad kissers out there. Kissing is VERY important to women.

cfb62

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Slutty/Sexy Halloween Costumes Posted: 10/29/2009 9:34:41 AM
I've wondered this myself and don't get it either.

cfb62

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Whats the best why to get over shyness? Posted: 10/29/2009 9:33:07 AM
Try faking confidence. I was almost paralyzed with being shy. Faking it eventually became true confidence. Should a girl laugh at you, make fun of you - then she's rude and you're better off not having rude people in your life. Best of luck.

cfb62

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First date flake. Posted: 10/28/2009 1:51:29 PM
It really makes no sense. Maybe there was/is another guy in the picture and she's selected to be with him?

cfb62

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dress up or no ....... Posted: 10/27/2009 7:00:26 PM
Why not have a change of clothes and some hygiene products in your car that you can change into between work and wherever it is you go immediately after?

cfb62

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Do Women Really Play Matchmaker? Posted: 10/27/2009 6:58:11 PM
If you saw it on tv, well, then, it's a fact.

cfb62

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should i be worried for having sex with friends sister Posted: 10/27/2009 1:50:28 PM
At least you learned it now. Some guys never learn.

cfb62

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should i be worried for having sex with friends sister Posted: 10/27/2009 1:43:26 PM
Kissing and telling is SO low class.

cfb62

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Why does this keep happening to me? Posted: 10/26/2009 5:07:15 PM
You're the common denominator in this picture, so it is you. A first date is a getting to know each other event, not a "falling for her" thing. Maybe you're projecting what you want on the girls you don't know that well, yet admire???

cfb62

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Why Florida? Posted: 10/26/2009 3:39:02 PM
Excellent post idea! I grew up in the Milwaukee area and moved to South Florida as a single woman in '95. At that time it was still laid back and I love the weather and the ocean. It just does it for me. However, now that this area's grown and is no longer a place for a "nice girl from the midwest", I'm actually looking into relocating elsewhere in this state. The whole laid back atmosphere is long gone from this area.

cfb62

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Where to stay in Florida Posted: 10/26/2009 1:55:49 PM
I wouldn't count on hitting the beach down here that time of year. I live in South Florida and once it hits Halloween, it's pretty chilly until February. If you're going to stay north ar0und St Pete's, it will definitely be cold. Just make sure you have other plans other than beach time and you'll be fine. Check out www.myfla.com.

cfb62

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The eye roll and no response Posted: 10/26/2009 1:37:32 PM
He needs to get over his insecurities. It's an all around turn off.

cfb62

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you just know Posted: 10/26/2009 1:35:52 PM
I think it's B.S.

cfb62

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is stalking considered a big problem here? Posted: 10/26/2009 12:58:39 PM
you make a good point. I was just trying to keep the OP out of the big house.

cfb62

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is stalking considered a big problem here? Posted: 10/26/2009 12:45:49 PM
OP, I strongly suggest you remove your love of drugs from your profile. You DO understand that the internet is global, right??!!! You ARE trying to attract females, right? You do understand that indicating your love of drugs online makes you appear uneducated, right???

cfb62

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is stalking considered a big problem here? Posted: 10/26/2009 11:36:21 AM
And he admits on his profile he does drugs.

cfb62

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he took me for granted...too long...I said its over...will he think? Posted: 10/26/2009 10:46:32 AM
If you do get back with him, you'll just continue to break up - get back together -break up - get back together. It will never stop.

cfb62

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What does take care mean? Posted: 10/26/2009 10:43:42 AM
"Take care" can mean the same as "talk to you later". I think you're reading way too much into two words.

cfb62

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Should a guy only message one woman when he is lookng to date? Posted: 10/26/2009 10:42:07 AM
I'm with Cowboy. He knows.

cfb62

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Why do so many think these things turn ladies away... Posted: 10/26/2009 8:03:21 AM
Politics, religion, finances are taboo to discuss in any social situtation.

cfb62

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Does this really make me shallow? Posted: 10/26/2009 7:59:31 AM
You're going to get all kinds of responses, but IMO, these women lied by omission. They knowingly did not post a pic or fill in the body type field. I don't think you're being shallow. You know what you want/need. Best of luck.

cfb62

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I would like some advice Posted: 10/26/2009 7:34:27 AM
She sounds like a whack job! That she text'd another guy to ask about the kiss thing, that's insane!!!!

cfb62

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Could use some help on what happened. Posted: 10/25/2009 12:20:58 PM
No offense, but I'm sure it wasn't about you.

cfb62

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is she just being friends or being safe Posted: 10/25/2009 6:17:59 AM
Wow I feel for you. It sounds like you have the whole picture, but not really. Are you in a big rush? Have you ever had a discussion with her about dates, meaning you going on a date with another woman?

cfb62

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where did i go wrong? Posted: 10/24/2009 3:08:25 PM
You're 45?? Forty-Five??? Not 20??? This is a joke!

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