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TANTRIC7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

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It could be worse. Posted: 8/14/2008 7:39:58 PM
Msg: 17... Wrong terminology used, sorry. This can possibly be used to help in her grief. May peace, contentment and God be with you all.

TANTRIC7777

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It could be worse. Posted: 8/14/2008 7:08:33 PM
Very true, OP. As for a child dying before the parent, perhaps the parent can start a charitable fund in the son's remembrance. Take a negative and turn it into a positive. It could be for anything that he or she, may have an interest. Start a college fund for sending 1 child through college, buy x amount of PC's per year for a school or a fund to help the homeless or hungry. Turn a tragedy into a way of helping others and the memory of the son. Just a thought..... Just a thought...

TANTRIC7777

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He spanked me & choked me...is he a perv? Posted: 8/14/2008 10:08:26 AM
To some this may sound like a pervert, to others anything other than missionary sex is the act of a pervert. What is normal for one person does not mean that it is normal to another. Is French kissing normal? I think so but I've dated a woman who thought it was gross and it was a deal breaker, in her book. French kissing yucky??? Who'd a thunk it? LOL I was afraid to ask " does that mean a blow job is out of the question?":LOL: If you feel uncomfortable with it and he knows what he is doing, enjoy. You do need to communicate your desires and wishes with your partner, as he should his with you. If either feels uncomfortable with something, discuss the situation, regardless to what it is about. Life is full of different things and ways to experience pleasure. If you feel safe with your SO and you enjoy what they do, ride along. Always ask questions if you are concerned or are not familiar with something. You would not want to fly in a sailplane with a person who didn't know how to fly! BTW.. the choke technique, that you speak of, is suppose to heighten an orgasm.

TANTRIC7777

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thoughts, please Posted: 8/6/2008 9:09:56 AM
OP, 1st calculate the % that gas has increased over the past 15 years, then is how much you would need to charge today ( simple equation) There is more to deciding the price of delivery than this step, but it will give you an idea. I concur with Glass slipper11... How many kids miss moms home cooking? There had been a small shop here that did something similar. .... "meals to go". Home cooked meals that you just had to reheat.. She also said that there are different marketing strategies,, Very true statement! If I were contemplating a delivery service, one thing that I would do is to buy one of those extremely small cars, sorry I do not know the name of it. They are so small you can fit 2 into a parking place, they are smaller and more narrow than a mini cooper. but taller. Think green..LOL That reduces your and the customer cost plus it sets you aside as being concerned about the environment. The car also causes people to do a double take look. If you need money to start you business, get a business consultant to help you fill out a small business loan from the government. Use a consultant, as they can tell you what the government wants to see on your application. It will not be cheap but it will be the best money you spend. Business consultants can also help you set up your projections and potential growth expectation and much more. How many people you will hire and expect to hire in the future plays a large part on whether or not you get the loan. If your more interested in catering, you will be happier doing that than delivering food. A simple way to get off the ground,..... just an idea... College town = parties and munchies... Perhaps a large smoker, do BBQ .... you can have beans and coleslaw on hand easily... Throw a BBQ party every time there is a sporting event, know when Fraternities are having parties, set up an agreement to service the party.. ( Business consultant can help in legal agreements ) Throw a Friday the 13th BBQ party somewhere and make it a tradition.... yada, yada, yada... Post note.... I would not advice going into the restaurant or club business at this time. People are cutting back on extras, most restaurants are having trouble today, with cost of goods and price of gas. Going for the college crowd does sound like a good idea, depending on the demographics of the students attending that college.

TANTRIC7777

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Small Problem????? Posted: 7/31/2008 6:50:59 PM
Your friend may be getting love mixed up with infatuation. Just tell her the different consequences that she is faced with and let her decide. Tell your friend that nothing good will happen with this relationship. If the man is cheating on his wife, even if he left his wife to be with her, she will remember that he cheated before. Her integrity will be questions at a later time. Suing for alienation of affection is possible Divorce her reputation ETC There are times when the attraction and chemistry is so strong, it causes one to be blind to all of the negatives...... This is no excuse, just a fact.

TANTRIC7777

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Smiles, what do you benefit from making someone else happy? Posted: 7/28/2008 6:56:15 PM
Superb... Every day, I make a point to make someone smile! It can be the checkout clerk who's legs are tired from standing in one place all day, an elderly woman who is exhausted from a long day or has a blank look on her face, a disadvantaged child eye balling that huge jaw breaker in the coin machine. Even people who seem to be happy can be made to smile by say something... example... You look like the cat that ate the canary, sporting such a huge smile. Example for making a kid smile... You see them yearning for a toy in a coin machine, slide a couple of quarters into the palm of your hand, tell him/her, when you were their age you always jiggled all of the handles, sometimes a toy or coins would come out. Now jiggle a few machine handles, slide the coins in and show the child. Their eyes will light up and smile.... Nooo this is not cruel, fact is, many times the machine will drop coins out that did not slide into the correct slot. Try it, you'll be amazed at how good you will feel. What do I receive from this? I get a very good feeling knowing that I've said kind words to another person and possibly brightened their day. I feel better giving than receiving.

TANTRIC7777

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 7/27/2008 8:20:10 AM
Bullielover has a funny and interesting profile. I wonder if she had the dog "snot" cleaned from her window yet? She should make her profile longer and show more of her humor. Open up a little more, don't be so guarded. Shame on you for being a thief!

TANTRIC7777

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Health papers Posted: 7/22/2008 2:31:36 PM
addendum.... And no, I've not been lucky.... It's been... ummmm.. let me think... ummmmm ohhh wow, I've been celibate long enough to become a Monk. I've never been called or given papers either, just ask and Dr. office, they will send your results.

TANTRIC7777

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Health papers Posted: 7/22/2008 1:56:31 PM
OP.. "I'm a stickler about wrapping that rascal," I get tested 2 to 3 times a year, regardless of having a partner or not. Yes, I keep my papers, Never can tell.... Even a blind hog finds an acorn, once in a while.

Tantric7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

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ho many excuses do you put up with? Posted: 6/30/2008 8:14:23 PM
OP, I understand people being a little late, occasionally but not every time on everything. IMHO, people who are always late and never do what they say, shows disrespect for others. The only person that matters is himself / herself. Beyond that, you allowed him to keep toying with you and disrespecting you. Don't take that line of BS, next thing you know he will have to attend Uncle Joe's funeral 4 different times. It sounds as though he is married....... to many excuses... If he was attacked, he should have been able to use a phone. hmmmmmmmm I think it's a DUCK....... He is quaking very loud and often

Tantric7777

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Are women satisfied with American men? Posted: 6/23/2008 11:56:11 AM
son shine .... Why play with semantics? It appears that your post are meant to be more argumentative than informative. You ask about changing this thread to be about North America, then you ask if Irish would ... #(&@@@#&% Just answer the OP's question. OP, I hope most women are not dissatisfied with American men.

TANTRIC7777

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Leaving it up to Him/Her to Contact you/Show you Interest Posted: 6/7/2008 1:27:03 PM
I will tell the woman that I am interested in her, though most advice to play cool and get the other person to chase. I'm wayyyy over the games and will break the ice, if things progress, I will let them know of my feelings and put myself in the vulnerable position of expressing my feelings. Why waist time playing hard to get when its easier to be direct? If the woman begins to think that I am too easy or accessible and decides to go with another guy, so be it, she was never that interested. Being honest, nice or making oneself is not a weakness, it is more dangerous to show vulnerability, in fearing rejection. Never mistake kindness, openness, wearing your true feelings about a person on your sleeve for weakness.

TANTRIC7777

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Why do younger men love older women, but rarely date them? Posted: 6/4/2008 2:32:19 PM
This is a joke, you can't be serious as to the reason. Do you really not know the reason? You're how old? hmmmmmm

TANTRIC7777

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What would you do? Posted: 5/16/2008 3:35:25 PM
You want someone to take the blame for something failing. There does not need to be a winner or loser to everything. If you know that her new guy was cheating with her 2 1/2 years ago, ( I read your post as saying you have been divorced for 2 1/2 years) you can not do anything about it. She doesn't care if you know or not. It will not serve any purpose in finding out the answer, even if the person actually tells the truth. You are looking for someone to blame. Resolve your own personal issues, realise that it is over and move on...

TANTRIC7777

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How Do You Initiate The First Kiss? Posted: 5/16/2008 3:18:33 PM
Whoaa... Simple, just close my eyes and stick my tongue out as far as I can!

TANTRIC7777

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Is your soul just too old? Posted: 5/14/2008 3:42:33 PM
we are one ^^^^^^^ I concur. Very insightful and explained so all souls will understand.

TANTRIC7777

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Question for men over 30? Posted: 5/14/2008 3:10:24 PM
OP Based on your second post, I see women of all ages to be attractive. This does not mean that I think a young woman is more attractive than a woman who is 60 years old, nor does it mean that I would prefer a 30 year old woman over a 50 year old woman.

TANTRIC7777

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Randomly contacting you again Posted: 4/29/2008 2:36:41 PM
In the grand scheme of life, how important is this? D aimn, why do so many people complain over such minuscule things? Stop crying and complaining over minute issues such as this. What do you do when faced with an important issue, such as, Why didn't they reply to my message or read it? WHINER..... WHINER.... WHINER.....

TANTRIC7777

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honesty or avoidance..which is the better in this situation? Posted: 4/28/2008 11:48:08 AM
OP, The sooner people realize that everything we do, affects something or someone in a positive or negative way, the sooner they can make a positive difference in this world. I prefer to tell the truth, it may be something that only bothers me or it could be something that my date does not realize that she does to put off many people. Example ( talking badly of the Ex the entire time we are together or being a pessimist.. ) Your experience happens to both genders and IRL as well as on line dating. You are looking for closure, most people don't care about that unless it happens to them. Then they will be the first to shout about how poorly they were treated, never thinking that they have done the same thing themselves. Peace

TANTRIC7777

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Whatever Happens Happens Posted: 4/25/2008 11:18:14 PM
When I say " Whatever happens, happens", I mean, lets meet and if things go well perhaps we will expand the time of the date, take in a movie... play putt putt, have dinner, dance or attend a local event. If I am going out on a date, it means the same thing. If we try one venue and she is not enjoying what I've suggested, I'm flexible and will take her somewhere she would enjoy more. I say exactly what is on my mind, no hinden agenda. I may be good but I ain't cheap or easy!

TANTRIC7777

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Raleigh~April 26~Saturday~Social Get Together @ Longbranch with Southbound 85 Posted: 4/25/2008 10:45:13 PM
Hi everyone, going to try my best to be there. Also, I'm unable to change anything on my profile or view any profiles....

TANTRIC7777

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At what point do people marry for money instead of true Love? Posted: 4/25/2008 1:07:33 PM
Message 2 "I've had money and not had money -- lived well and lived humbly -- none of it matters if you can't share your joy or concerns." I whole heartedly concur! When they think money is the most important thing in life. When they don't want to settle and take what appears to be the easy road in life. Money does not = class, integrity, good morale's/values!

TANTRIC7777

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Are US women being taken for granted? Posted: 4/25/2008 12:15:31 AM
Both men and women in US are taken for granted, IF they allow or accept this treatment. We all have the ability to access what we want, need and desire from our SO. IMHO, each person must be in touch with reality, their true self and consider the ramifications of our choices. We live in an age of instant gratification, which is not conducive to a long term relationship. Relationships are constantly changing, as each partner's needs, wants and desires change. Accessing our self first is needed, as to not allow anther to use or abuse oneself. After reading many post in this thread and others, there is a commonality in complaints of HE/SHE did xyz to me. Most seem to dismiss or have not acknowledged their contribution to the demise of a relationship and it is usually the other partners fault. Take time to know yourself, the type person you usually gravitate towards or person you attract. Acknowledge and accept this, before deciding on your next partner. There are many people of both genders, whom blame to opposite gender for the way they were treated. Remember how and why your were drawn to your past mistakes, don't let lust or a quality that raises your endorphins over ride qualities that are truly important to you. Also get to know the person and how well they compromise and adjust to change. All choices have consequences, are the choices that you make, when entering a new relationship based on the same qualities of a failed past relationship? If so expect the same results. Guys, if you base your decision on who you date, based only on youthful looks or a woman 15 years younger, you are asking to be used. If she is great in bed but you don't like the way she speaks, most likely it will ultimately end with each going your separate ways. Women, if you base your decision on who you date, based only on youthful looks or a man 15 years younger, you are asking to be used. If he is a great provider but your opinion is rarely considered, most likely it ultimately ends with each going your separate ways. Keep blaming others for your own mistakes and you can expect to repeat your past mistakes. Wake up people..... Look within to find where and why the real problem exist. Both men and women allow themselves to be used or unappreciated. Fix an internal problem. Make changes in why and how you made past choices.

TANTRIC7777

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Dinner then a HOTEL? Does this happen a lot? Posted: 4/23/2008 1:56:32 PM
ncrosebud.... Every man I have met and/or talked to here has a horror story about some woman trying to rip his clothes off when they first meet...showing up naked at his home on the first date....having him pick her up at her house only to greet him at the door naked as jay-bird...you name it. My theory is that there are just some real horn-dogs out there (both male and female), and some think of having sex as nothing more serious than shaking hands. Yes, some men and some women are guilty of the same behavior. There are times when I have interpreted a woman's behavior or flirting as nothing more than being flirty. I've later been asked, why I didn't act on their hints. D amnn, it's difficult dating, for both genders. Bottom line, is that women, ultimately have the last say in what happens.

TANTRIC7777

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Dinner then a HOTEL? Does this happen a lot? Posted: 4/23/2008 1:30:04 PM
I'm old school and was taught to respect women. I think Most men try reading body language, the extent that a woman flirts and innuendo's made, into consideration, as to his ultimate decision on what his next move will be. I'm not condoning his actions, only giving you some signals that you can examine, to ascertain if you did anything to cause him to think you wanted to have sex the first date or if he was simply a jerk. I am not saying you did or said anything... if this has happened several times, perhaps you should look back on everything you said, did or implied. If you dissect the date and you did nothing, you were simply dating a jerk. I regret that women are treated this way by some men, as it reflects on an entire gender. Good luck in your future endeavors in the dating world. It is not always what we say or do, but how we are perceived by people. Men are from Pluto and Women are from Jupiter....

TANTRIC7777

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What is a good first email? Posted: 4/20/2008 8:52:36 PM
J-me Baby, I concur. I want to exchange a few messages here, progress to IM and e-mail then to phone and to meeting in person. I offer personal references for a woman, if she is interested in checking on my character before meeting. Don Coyote Don Quixote I know where that Hat is And might even ride there for the right gal for coffee Ummm Isn't this the same person who fault windmills and battled imaginary enemy? Hmmmmm If I recall correctly, he fault demons in his own head!

TANTRIC7777

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When nice guys go bad... Posted: 4/6/2008 10:02:11 PM
nexthyme .... Not knowing how deep your conversation went or what was said. Each person has the right to change their mind about anything. You decided that things were moving to fast and wanted to slow things down, keep your legs crossed, keep your knickers up, not have sex. That is your decision and should be respected by everyone, not only "the nice guy". It sounds as though you made a decision which proved to be correct and wise. I wonder if he would have gotten upset and broken things off, if you had decided to have sex with him on the second date. (Doubtfully!) It appears that you were seeing a guy who has a self esteem issue rather than, good guy syndrome. Lastly, at times, it is difficult to know what women really want. ( Not directing this towards any particular woman) I've been with women who acted and said that they wanted to cuddle and make slow love, then found out later, that they actually wanted to be ravaged and have rough sex, time they walked into the bedroom/house/hotel room. Some have said no real kissing on the first date and later asked why I didn't put a lip lock on her. Nothing surprises me anymore but it would be great if women actually said what they want, rather than saying one thing and wanting to opposite. You were direct, honest and did nothing to have caused him to react the way that he did.

TANTRIC7777

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What was she thinking? Posted: 4/6/2008 8:52:29 PM
Bullieover.... I concur, she probably would never recognise him if they were the only 2 people in a closet. She was in her own little world at that time, it's now a new day.... Not sure if the OP is actually serious about thinking of this constantly or if he is fishing by mentioning size! Just a thought..... just a thought... Time for me to jet... , gotta take a whizz... and need to hike my pant leg up 2 inches so I don't whizz on my socks or shoes...

TANTRIC7777

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A woman needs a reason to cheat while a man only need the opportunity and a safe place Posted: 4/5/2008 11:47:04 AM
Miashakti.... what you speak of needs to be seen from outside the box. How many people are willing and/or able to do so? peace and harmony in life, what a concept!

TANTRIC7777

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A woman needs a reason to cheat while a man only need the opportunity and a safe place Posted: 4/5/2008 10:41:18 AM
ahhh OP... Careful with the wording.. someone may call you out as to the actual quote... not only semantics Rolling A Long Msg: 5 The original quote is about sex, not cheating. A woman needs a reason to have sex, a man only needs a place. Let's keep our pop culture idiocy straight...

TANTRIC7777

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Infidelity while being financially secure but only existing Posted: 4/5/2008 10:23:58 AM
Contrary to replies to this post, assuming that I am bashing, it is not about bashing. I read several threads yesterday, written by women, asking for advice on whether to cheat on their SO or not. These threads are under Relationships in the forums. The women that posted, told of being bored; not listened to by the hubby; lonely; no excitement; no or little sex; no or little kissing and cuddling but they are entertaining thoughts of cheating, rather than leaving or working on the relationship that they are currently in. Thus the question, why do most unhappily married women / women in committed relationships ( semantics ) stay in a situation which is unfulfilled mentally or physically, but do not divorce/ leave due to materialism? At some point, I think, the relationship will end and the woman will be in a worse bargaining position. Why give the man a reason to file for divorce, due to an affair that the woman was involved. Why not divorce first, then see any man you desire to be with? forum_reader <div class="quote"> TANTRIC7777, are you waiting on a married woman to leave her husband? It sounds like it won't happen N, I'm not waiting and I'm not interested in married women or women with a SO. RedCassandra <div class="quote"> Methinks it is. And, if you think that Most women are like that..... yada, yada Most women in a unfulfilled relationship... 747grad <div class="quote"> it sounds like you might be a little bitter. Not a bash? It sounds like that and like maybe you've been burned!? Read this... I am not bashing, bitter or burned.

TANTRIC7777

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Infidelity while being financially secure but only existing Posted: 4/4/2008 9:52:04 PM
Expanding on my question. Personally, I prefer being happy and enjoying a relationship, rather than living with a partner who buys me everything. Just trying to understand the mindset of any person that would rather live a life feeling void or empty, rather than to strike out and live a life full love, mutual respect and happiness.

TANTRIC7777

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do I cheat after almost 20 years? Posted: 4/4/2008 9:37:06 PM
Thanks Bassman... It is a helpful sight, when thinking of cheating on ones SO.

TANTRIC7777

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Infidelity while being financially secure but only existing Posted: 4/4/2008 9:32:59 PM
Mominatrix .... Are you saying that you believe the majority of women will stay in the relationship simply for the money? Why not divorce, get what is due them and become self sufficient? I know that most men will cheat, instead of divorcing, due to losing 1/2. I'm a man and know how most men think. I'm curious as to the thought process of women on this topic.

TANTRIC7777

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Infidelity while being financially secure but only existing Posted: 4/4/2008 9:13:33 PM
raiderfan18 , I'll let you ask that question in another thread. :-) I think there are more men who married and began working to support the family, than men who know that they are paying for a trophy wife. Most of these women are not eye candy.

TANTRIC7777

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Infidelity while being financially secure but only existing Posted: 4/4/2008 9:06:52 PM
My apologies.... Most not All...... blk velvet, thanks for pointing out my error in not using 1 word. It's just semantics. No, this is not a bash thread...

TANTRIC7777

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Infidelity while being financially secure but only existing Posted: 4/4/2008 8:26:27 PM
This is not a bash thread, I'm simply curious as to answers, if anyone is willing to be honest answering. I personally know married couples where the man works and the woman goes shopping, spends freely and for the most part is bored with her hubby. The women complaints are usually .... he doesn't listen to me, he doesn't do things sexually for me, he isn't at home enough or he doesn't do anything on the edge to excite me. ( there are many more examples I could list) Many then decide to have an affair and maintain the life of luxury, instead of becoming self reliant and independent. So, you married an Alpha man who works and makes great money, you wanted the materialistic things and a life of luxury. Now you live an unfulfilled life, go through the motions of being happy and pretend "All is well with the world". Why do women stay in these relationships and have affairs, rather than become independent and pursue what they think they are missing in life? Why do so many women stay in a relationship, in which they are unhappy with most aspects of their life, except the financial security that it provides? Kids are only an excuse to stay with the man, as kids are smart and realize that something is askew. Do you want your kids growing up thinking that love = money? They also see and feel that the parents are not in love, resulting in the way they live and their future relationships. BTW... Money can't buy happiness, you can't take it with you and in staying with your SO you are not letting him live his life with a person who truly cares and loves him.

TANTRIC7777

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do I cheat after almost 20 years? Posted: 4/4/2008 7:44:24 PM
OP, cheating is not the answer to anything. Not knowing all of the issues that have brought you to this point, I can only suggest a few different scenarios. If you think that you have missed sexual experiences, talk with your hubby about it and change things up. Talk with him about what you want and desire. If he is not complimenting you on your looks, smell or other things that are important to you, talk with him about what you need and what you want. It is extremely easy to be attracted to a person who does not face the everyday life issues that you and your hubby face. The OM/ OW massages your emotional needs, without dealing with kids, bills, work family excursions ETC. I have to say work on things... I want to say, become independent!! You can make choices which the consequences are only endured by you and not your SO or kids.

TANTRIC7777

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do I cheat after almost 20 years? Posted: 4/4/2008 6:41:04 PM
Do not cheat on your SO, no matter how much you bath and shower there is no way to clean your mind of cheating. It sounds as though you will stay with your hubby simply for friendship and financial support. If you feel strongly about not working on your marriage, divorce him and have your fling. D amn I despise people who stay in a nowhere relationship only because of financial reasons. Have the BALLZ to support yourself and be independent, you'll then be able to have a clear conscious and not destroy another human being. For your information, only about 2% of married people who cheat will end up marrying the person they cheat with. CHeck out this site. Womensinfidelity.com BTW.... Why are you on a dating site asking this question?

TANTRIC7777

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All men cheaters or just some? Posted: 4/3/2008 9:22:32 PM
Whether a man cheats on his SO, has more to do with integrity, morals, character and values. All men are not cheaters, just as all women are not gold diggers. Sex plays an important part in my life but my personal growth, integrity, values and spirituality are characteristics that help in keeping me faithful to my SO. Peace of mind is more important than a piece of a$$.

TANTRIC7777

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What do you make of this? need some perspective Posted: 3/27/2008 7:28:17 PM
At this point in time, it sounds as though you have done everything that you can. You have no control over what happens, do not try projecting what is/is not happening. If he is hurt or sick, he will contact you as soon as he is able.. Hang in there, attend to your affairs as there is nothing you can accomplish by projecting or worrying. You're only other option is going to his location.

TANTRIC7777

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Advice! Is this guy into me or does he just want to ****? Posted: 3/22/2008 10:06:52 PM
OP, the guy has done everything except tell you, point blank, that he wants to Boink you. You don't sound as though you are upset or offended by his talk or innuendo's. If you are interested, in having nothing more than sex with him, call him to arrange a date. He plans on boinking you're brains out. LOL... Does he need to write you a formal letter of intention or RSVP?

TANTRIC7777

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when is a man in love? Posted: 3/21/2008 10:37:24 PM
soulmate08.. I agree with most of you comment. Age does not = knowledge, unselfishness or experience. Maturity and a willingness to become more in tune with ones partners, wants, needs and desires helps immensely. Being unselfish, uninhibited to whatever extent and thinking of the partner first is imperative. I feel, that if I make my partner experience utopia, my partner, most likely will want me to feel /experience that same Utopia. It might be possible to find a man with the knowledge/wisdom/experience as you see in tantric..... but usually we older people.. (hes 17 yrs older than you)..... know what we do from exactly/age/experience...(that dosent mean all older people do have wisdom from experience though) When people learn that the second largest organ is the brain (the first being our skin) it makes sex, relationships and everything better. Both showing love and sexual experiences, require a person to be unselfish and willing to think of the other person 1st! dree>>>> I'll be glad to let you know when I know a younger person with the insight and knowledge.

TANTRIC7777

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when is a man in love? Posted: 3/21/2008 11:48:28 AM
dreeinthet... Actually, I'm into older women but thanks. Plus I don't share.

TANTRIC7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

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Dating advice for younger men. Posted: 3/21/2008 9:44:28 AM
There are conventions on how to; Date an older woman; Finding a Cougar; Date a married woman... So this information you've posted doesn't surprise me at all. There is also a game which is played by young men/boys, Points are awarded to individuals for dating older women. The highest points are awarded for a married woman, how much she spends on the guy and how much older she is than the guy. Second highest points are awarded for how much older she is than the guy and how much he can get her to spend on him. Evidence for each, adds additional points. Video tape of the action is top proof Photos 2nd best Letters she sends to acknowledge the dirty deed. 3rd Lingerie Tooo many games!!! NO, I've never played the game and I don't approve of it! Just stating a fact

TANTRIC7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

Msg: 3 (view)

Restaurant Secret Recipes Posted: 3/20/2008 7:43:13 PM
T.G.I. Friday's® Broccoli Cheese Soup Very easy.... by tossing a few items into a saucepan. Try to find one of the large cartons of chicken stock at your store -- there's a perfect four cups of broth in there. Use Swanson brand if your store carries it. One bunch of broccoli should provide enough florets for this baby. Just cut the broccoli into bite-size pieces. Use only the florets and ditch the stem. 4 cups chicken broth 1 cup water 1 cup half & half 4 slices Kraft Cheddar Singles 1/2 cup all-purpose flour 1/2 teaspoon dried minced onion 1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper 4 cups broccoli florets (bite-size) Garnish 1/2 cup shredded cheddar cheese 2 teaspoons minced fresh parsley 1. Combine chicken broth, water, half & half, cheese, flour, onion and pepper in a large saucepan. Whisk to combine and to break up any lumps of flour, then turn heat to medium/high. 2. Bring soup to a boil, then reduce heat to low. 3. Add broccoli to soup and simmer for 15-20 minutes or until broccoli is tender but not soft. 4. For each serving spoon one cup of soup into a bowl and garnish with a tablespoon of shredded cheese and a pinch of parsley. Makes 6 servings.

TANTRIC7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

who can you trust Posted: 3/19/2008 10:21:50 PM
We are human and will make mistakes in life, the trick is to learn from our mistakes and become a better person in the future.

TANTRIC7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

Msg: 7 (view)

What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 3/19/2008 12:43:00 PM
IMO, listen to your intuition/alarm bells. He has told you, POINT BLANK, what his intentions and interests. What causes you to think he is joking? He clearly tells you that he wants sex and that is his priority. If... that is a BIG "IF" he were interested in anything else, do you think he would tell you, point blank, that he wants to have sex with you? Wake up...... You THINK there could be more, on your end. It's squirrel season for him and he is out to bang, I mean bag his limit. If it walks like a Duck, Talks like a Duck It is a "DUCK"

TANTRIC7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

Msg: 10 (view)

Woods for BBQ smoking & grilling Posted: 3/19/2008 9:51:37 AM
Any species of wood can be used, it simply depends on each individuals taste buds. Try different woods to and broaden your experience with the taste. However, I don't know anyone who uses soft woods in smoking. In my region of the country, we use Hickory, Pecan, Maple, Birch, Oak (red, blk and wht) Apple... I don't think evergreens would be very tasty or healthy but who knows, the thick gooey pine sap may be tasty to some people. LOL. ackk I always soak whatever wood I'm using in water, for 1 or 2 days prior to use, to insure it smokes slowly. As for steak, I agree, searing is best, it seals the juices and flavor of the meat inside.

TANTRIC7777

Joined: 9/17/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

What's the point Posted: 3/18/2008 10:55:54 PM
Savona said <quote">Yet here you go and put the "Blame" back on her ... as if He got taken. Nawww I don't see it that way. After reading my entire reply, I pointed out that neither of them knew each other. My apologies, my comment was not articulated well at all. <div class="quote"> Yeah, you got taken but you jumped wayyyyy to fast. I am telling him that he was taken because he screwed up in jumping to fast. In my opinion, whenever a person is in a hurry or jumps too quickly, as he did, the person is desperate and whatever happens to them was due to their own actions. After reading the information which he provided, up to this point, it appears that he was thinking of himself and his needs only. I had originally planned to write about the points which you brought up, then changed to what I posted. You, Ms Savona, introduced information which the OP barely mentioned, but being an astute and deep thinker, were able to ascertain that the glove didn't fit, therefore she must be acquitted. You are point on, in pointing out what may have happened. It does seem that the PO had reasons other than love to move in with the woman, thus he jumped too fast and should not blame her, but blame himself. I'm outta here....

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