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iiceiice

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hey how you doing? who do you live with? Posted: 11/27/2009 7:39:39 AM
I want to know who someone lives with... there seems to be a recent flood of people living with their parents at my age.... which says a lot about your ability to take care of yourself... roommates situations are fine.... but please be grown enough to not live with the folks....

iiceiice

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What should I do next? Posted: 11/27/2009 7:28:44 AM
if you slept with him on the first meet..... then he wasn't really interested in you just wanted booty and all compliments or attention prior were just to get to the end result..... we are never too busy to return the text of someone we are interested in.... we always have enough time to contact someone we want to contact.... there is never something more important that someone you really want to get to know.... my guess.... you jumped the gun and believed the words of a man you never met in person..... live and learn.... next time make sure the guy is really who he says he is before you get naked with him.... then you won't freak out and over texted because he will be texting you,.... and he will be continuing what you guys started because there will be genuine interest.... good luck to you..

iiceiice

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age Posted: 11/26/2009 10:14:39 AM
I am with Desert... mine changes each year for me..... and it is correct....

iiceiice

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Please have a nosy at my profile..... Posted: 9/8/2009 2:50:28 PM
I would add.... that when you put a few extra pounds... you really need more of a body pic... men think a few extra pounds is code for extremely fat.... and generally want a better idea of what you mean by it...

iiceiice

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Like this Man but not the Jokes he makes Posted: 7/13/2009 5:43:09 PM
wow... he sure thinks highly of himself... that would bug me... don't compare me to you... and make you look better... good luck to you with this one... hopefully it isn't a sign of what is to come with him... heaven forbid you gain a few pounds...

iiceiice

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Unplanned Pregnancy Doesn'Have to Lead to Birth or Parenthood Posted: 6/12/2009 11:59:44 AM
hmmm... so... if a man... who can walk away since he doesn't carry the child.... chooses to walk away... is that the same as the woman.... who can't walk away.... choosing to have an abortion??? women really only have two options.... abortion or birth.... men have two options... walk away or stay.... walking away is an emotional abortion.... just a thought...

iiceiice

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Should bio father be let back in childs life Posted: 6/12/2009 9:07:51 AM
I am going to have to agree with Mosaicart.... there are a few details we need to better understand this and why you are even considering allowing him in your childs life.... and yes I said YOUR child.... you have to do what is in the best interest of your child.... and I am not thinking that hanging with a man who raped you... father or not... is really in anyones best interest.

iiceiice

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What I have... to give you Posted: 6/7/2009 10:31:56 PM
Raxxar..... what are you boinking the op??? why else would you be so hot on someone who plagiarizes.... and actually people have thanked me for pointing out that she has not written her posts... I highly doubt Maya Angelou or a Buddhist priest would come to claim their writings... but credit needs to go where it is due.... overly suspicious would mean I was wrong about my post.... but I have been able to say where she has gotten what was written.... which stealing/taking credit for others works is a crime... even if it goes unfound.... and I think I have more than a clue.... since I knew of the posted works... as for everywhere you read?? wow.... only read a couple threads huh??? jeeez.... good luck getting that date now....

iiceiice

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What I have... to give you Posted: 6/2/2009 9:12:56 PM
Heavenly.... are you taken credit for writing this??? because you might want to let this website know that you did so they don't list it as an unknown author...... http://www.trueinsights.com/inspirational/55

iiceiice

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Uncomfortable Date Posted: 5/30/2009 12:38:04 PM
manners shouldn't go out the door because someone isn't attracted.... he is a loser.... he did you a favor by showing you that right a way.... also... there is no one who is out of our league.... especially if they have no class....

iiceiice

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Dilemma skirted around? Posted: 5/29/2009 10:27:14 PM
if I had it to do again.... I would have never done it.... I miss the coconut cake.... and would feel stupid going back... since I know I made him mad when I ended things.... damn coconut cake... and corn muffins... and chicken and dumplings.... damn damn damn.....

iiceiice

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Dilemma skirted around? Posted: 5/29/2009 9:41:45 PM
I made the mistake of dating the chef at one of my favorite restaurants.... didn't end well... sadly I can't go there anymore.... since you are the person that works there.... I guess you have to decide how you will feel if she comes back if.... A.... you date her and it doesn't go well.... B.... she doesn't want to go out with you.... ...... and she still comes to the restaurant.....

iiceiice

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The Beauty of Woman Posted: 5/29/2009 8:51:19 PM
well someone had posted before me... and he didn't know.... so we need to remember to give credit where it is do.... without that it implies that you are the writer....

iiceiice

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I'm not attracted to you Posted: 5/29/2009 12:11:14 PM
sounds like he was mad you turned him down... kinda like dumping someone you know is going to dump you.... just to beat them to the point.... no loss...

iiceiice

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Going out with a cop, a good or bad idea? Posted: 5/28/2009 8:10:24 AM
nope... wouldn't do it.... I work with the police.... and love most of the men I work with.... but most of them are not dateable....

iiceiice

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The Beauty of Woman Posted: 5/28/2009 8:03:53 AM
should probably give credit where it is due.... that was written by Maya Angelou

iiceiice

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Are looks the most important? Posted: 5/28/2009 8:00:38 AM
looks alone can get you in the door... but there is more to attraction than just looks.... need some substance to keep someone around.... some of the people I have been most attracted to... were not initially the best looking people I have met...

iiceiice

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screwed up bad. how do i fix this Posted: 5/28/2009 7:56:06 AM
I am thinking that this conversation should have happened BEFORE the nakedness happened.... shouldn't even be messing around if you haven't had the STD conversation if catching something is a fear.... we need to remember... condoms aren't 100% protection against HPV or HSV.... my guess is... if you weren't in the heat of the moment..... and had the convo before messing around... there would have been no problem no matter how you said it....

iiceiice

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sibling rivery Posted: 5/20/2009 7:21:46 AM
sounds like both of your sons have issues too.... if they didn't they wouldn't be messing with this girl... your boys are grown.... sadly they have to learn their own lessons..... even if it means destroying their relationship with each other....

iiceiice

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No show on first meet Posted: 5/2/2009 12:51:49 PM
WOW... I guess I have been lucky because that hasn't ever happened to me.... but... I always meet at starbuck or the sort... and bring a book.... I get there early.... get my own drink... and sit and read... something I would do with or without someone meeting me...

iiceiice

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Is it safe to travel to Cancun???? Posted: 4/12/2009 2:34:24 PM
are you people serious??? jeez... the problems in Mexico are not likely to be happening in a resort city like Cancun... I was in Mexico for a few weeks last summer and will go again this summer... never had a problem there...

iiceiice

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Pictures Posted: 3/23/2009 3:46:16 PM
I think there are magazines.... videos.... online sites.... where someone can provide you with all of that... why bring another person into your equation???? that just ends up messy...

iiceiice

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STD TESTING BEFORE DATING OR BEFORE MARRIAGE. Posted: 3/23/2009 12:56:25 PM
it takes upwards of a year for HPV and can take that long for HSV to show in a blood test... many people that have HPV or HSV are asymptomatic... and have no clue they have something... without a symptom many doctors won't test for things.... I would hope that they are doing more than swabbing your pee hole.... because a complete STD work up includes about 6 veils of blood... you can get HPV and HSV even when you use condoms... the only person you can be sure doesn't or isn't cheating is you... I have a good friend who's mother died of AIDS... she was married for 40+ years.... her husband cheated.... she had no clue.... I have a good friend with HIV... she got it from her husband... he had not clue he had it.... they found out when she tested positive during pregnancy.... he had been tested... just never retested.... so.... they had no clue... but they took the first test as gospel... as many people do.... the first test is good that day.... wait for 6 months.... test again... wait another 6 months... test again... then... maybe you are safe.....

iiceiice

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STD TESTING BEFORE DATING OR BEFORE MARRIAGE. Posted: 3/23/2009 12:27:15 PM
this is a redundant topic.... STD tests are only good the day they are taken... for this to work.... you would have to get tested often... and before you even thought to engage in a sexual act.... and be able to trust that the other person is as serious as you are about not being with anyone for the year it would take to be sure you are both STD free... and need to make sure you get tested for everything as HIV, HPV, HSV, and Hep are not standard tests... have to ask for them and pay for them.... oh but wait.... there is no test for HPV in men... so women are still at risk of the asymptomatic HPV male....

iiceiice

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question about breast cancer Posted: 3/18/2009 7:51:32 AM
a couple good books to read... Why I wore lipstick to my mastectomy... Crazy, Sexy, Cancer,.... both books tell womens stories about cancer.... they are amazing support during the process.... especially the Why I wore lipstick one... they are both also movies.... just know... you will be fine.... cancer is not a death sentence anymore.... I am surprised you can't have the reconstruction at the same time.... they are usually pretty quick on that now...

iiceiice

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I'm in Lust Posted: 3/15/2009 8:56:56 PM
Call Amtrak.... there is about to be a train wreck.... you are a contradiction.... you don't want just sex.... yet you are settling for something that is sex based..... you want a commitment with a man who clearly states he doesn't want one.... you are willing to give your body to a man in hopes that will change his mind about the commitment..... also.... you say you don't do the sex thing.... yet in a later post say you gave up some FWB's to be with him... so you do the just sex thing??? confused??? you need to sit back and think about what you are doing.... because no good will come from this situation if you are already this sprung on him.....

iiceiice

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I need Opinions please-HELP Posted: 3/15/2009 8:51:31 PM
I hope you really didn't need opinions on this.... he is an ass... if you didn't know that before this thread..... then... well.... you need help.... glad to see you are done with him.... hope it is true.... for your daughters sake....

iiceiice

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Genital Herpes Posted: 3/10/2009 11:09:01 PM
wow.... why was this useless thread bumped today??? there is so much misinformation in here it is sad.... darn shame....

iiceiice

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what can I do if someone accusing me of playing him Posted: 3/8/2009 11:00:35 PM
ummm.... did you tell HIM you aren't interested in him??? or was he thinking your chatting was going somewhere??? not that he can stop you from dating.. but if he was thinking you guys were going to meet and you know you weren't ever going to do that.. then you did kind of play him.... or at least lead him to believe something could happen.....

iiceiice

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50 and retired Posted: 2/28/2009 7:49:23 AM
this is funny.... about a year ago.... on here..... a 40 something guy hit me up.... his profile said retired.... he lived out of stated.... he tried to get me to come visit him.... I don't do long distance... but I wanted to see how he expected that to happen.... so I said.... you sending me a plane ticket??? and dude said he couldn't afford it.... money is tight... I laughed.... and said..... I guess retirement isn't working out too well for you... he got mad at me.... but I was like seriously... you want me to come there... and be with you.... when you can't even afford me to be there..... how would that work if we worked out..... he said he would have moved and lived with me.... that was when I learned that retired at a young age... is generally code for unemployed and lazy.... he ended up not having shit to his name... and was looking for someone to take care of him... he had the wrong person.. with that said.... I am sure there are people who saved and planned... blah blah... and were able to retire early... my father retired in his early 50's.... it is possible.... just not always probable on the web...

iiceiice

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 2/22/2009 12:34:12 PM
wow@forum101.... that was harsh...... for something that you said was none of your business... you sure as heck formed an opinion on it.....

iiceiice

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Question about pseudo blowjobs Posted: 2/22/2009 12:00:58 PM
you basically told her she didn't do a good job... there is no helium to lift that balloon.... should have either encouraged her to do it how you like while she was doing it.. example.... she is doing it and you say.. oh baby run your tongue down it... or something like that... all men are different in what they like... what gets one man off doesn't do shit for another..... doesn't seem like you dig her too much anyway... since you even said she is only fairly good in bed... however... I tend to think... it takes two to have good sex... and if you aren't having it.... you aren't good either... chances are her socks aren't blown off either.. communication is key...... but telling her you would rather not have her do it.... yea... that was a huge mistake... but hey... she isn't doing it anymore... so.... hows that feeling????

iiceiice

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i think i met her today, could use some advice. Posted: 2/18/2009 10:48:55 PM
Creepy= calling someone you haven't been given permission to call... you only have her number for business reasons... not personal..... keep it professional unless she professes some interest... she may just be being nice....

iiceiice

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Ex very much on the scene? Posted: 2/7/2009 8:53:12 AM
ohhhhh.... you already let him spend the night????? on the second date???? wow..... well dayum..... hope lesson learned..... any man that runs out first thing in the morning... on a Sunday none the less... has other things going on.....

iiceiice

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Ex very much on the scene? Posted: 2/7/2009 8:47:23 AM
scratches head why do we even have this thread if he told you what he did in post 8??? that is a slam dunk... he isn't ready to be dating if he can't tell her...

iiceiice

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Ex very much on the scene? Posted: 2/7/2009 8:31:56 AM
one would think that good relationship with an ex when they have a child is a blessing.... better than baby mama drama..... as long as I would eventually be able to me said ex.... I would not have an issue.... and as long as I was able to have a home number and know where he lives..... I have several ex's that I remain friends with.... and hang out with.... they meet my current and I meet their current... not all break ups are horrible.... BUT... in your case... you have only had two dates... it is up to you if you want to invest time to see where it would go... if you an trust that the ex is just a friend....

iiceiice

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Confused and need help... Posted: 2/6/2009 8:25:55 PM
what's the phrase??? a closed mouth don't get fed.... if you are interested... tell her... it really is that simple.....

iiceiice

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Trust me... Posted: 2/6/2009 4:25:00 PM
no.... I don't think it is just needy women... I think women in general want to be liked... and that it doesn't matter if they like someone.... they want to be liked.... needy or not... and we spend hours talking with our friends about why things happen or don't happen.... again needy or not.... let me add.... I don't think it is a bad thing.... wanting to be likable is a good thing... wanting to be attractive to others is a good thing.... it makes us strive to improve both the inner and outer us....

iiceiice

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Trust me... Posted: 2/6/2009 4:04:43 PM
I think it is more because.... women tend to want ALL men to be interested in them after a date... and worry about if the man will call.... a lot of times... unless the date was horrible... a woman wants the man to still want her.... even if she isn't interested.... men aren't that complex... if a woman doesn't call.... a man generally moves on...

iiceiice

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Sexuality and sex after major weight loss----Is it better or worse? Posted: 1/26/2009 10:53:40 AM
funny.... I have matching bra and panty sets... no wide straps.... just the same sexy ones you see in Vic Secret.... no granny panties unless I feel like it when flo visits.... I am sorry you didn't feel you could be sexy bigger... and the insinuation that big women can't wear sexy bras is sad.... just because YOU didn't doesn't mean others don't.... my boyfriend loves my collection of lingerie and sleep wear... and.... sex.. well.... I can't complain.... I can't even pretend to complain....

iiceiice

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WHAT IS THIS SPARK PEOPLE ARE SEARCHING FOR? Posted: 1/26/2009 10:43:48 AM
Mandrake said.... on your side...chemistry! on his side....Lust! that's what it sounds like to me OP I have to agree... he is looking for the need or feeling like he wants to jump your bones.... and for women we are generally hoping for a mental connection..... me some mandrake....

iiceiice

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Sexuality and sex after major weight loss----Is it better or worse? Posted: 1/26/2009 10:32:38 AM
It is funny to me sugar... how many women who have the surgery.... later leave their husbands.... I have a good friend who's wife had the surgery.... then cheated on him and left... I know a girl at work that did the same thing.... and yes they changed.... I could care less who loses weight... I am happy for anyone who does.... especially if they remain the same in the process..... I am guessing if we asked your husband,.... he would say you changed.... bottom line... you need to find yourself and where you and your new body fit in... and then you decide if sex is better.... no one else can say what it is for you.... we can only say what sex is for us and how comfortable we are in our skin....

iiceiice

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Sexuality and sex after major weight loss----Is it better or worse? Posted: 1/26/2009 9:38:29 AM
Halo.... I am not delayed... I see where the thread went astray.... I am asking her why she went from sex to food.... I have never on a date had a man ask me why I ordered what I did... or why I didn't finish if I didn't..... and if he did.... I would simply say I wasn't hungry anymore.... personally.... I am still with wildman on this.... she just wants to be able to bring the topic up and say "hey look what I did"... which is great.... especially if she did it without surgery.... which I doubt because of the can't eat more than a few bites statement.... which is typical of gastric patients....

iiceiice

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Sexuality and sex after major weight loss----Is it better or worse? Posted: 1/26/2009 9:22:16 AM
what does ordering a meal have to do with Sexuality and Sex after weight loss???? if you are more confident now.... yippee for you.... that's swell..... we all feel better about ourselves when we feel we look our best.... maybe when you are naked you still see yourself as fat.... and can't handle it... self esteem comes from YOU and within YOU... no one else can make you feel comfortable in your skin.... saggy or not...

iiceiice

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Sexuality and sex after major weight loss----Is it better or worse? Posted: 1/26/2009 9:05:30 AM
I am kind of with wildman on this... why are you needing to have that convo with anyone you are just meeting??? I use to have brown hair.... I don't tell people I am meeting that.... if you are more secure.... good for you.... if you are less secure.... work on it,..... it has been my experience... that when people lose a bunch of weight... they begin to act like their $hit doesn't stink.... I have seen really nice people become c0cky as hell.... bottom line to me... I would hope that all of someones confidence is not encompassed by the weight loss... since as we know.... most aren't long term successful with it.... even if it was done with surgery..... edit.... ahhh.... I see from reading your last post.... the 20 bites of food.... you had surgery.... order small... who cares... why make a huge deal over it???

iiceiice

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MONEY CUSHION Posted: 1/25/2009 11:20:48 PM
savings balance.... if careful.... at least 6 months.... maybe a year if I was living off top roman....

iiceiice

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Possible STD or STI ? Posted: 1/25/2009 4:19:37 PM
hmmm... why did you start a second thread on this?? with different info.... I answered in the other thread....

iiceiice

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No biggie or a tad bit creepy?t Posted: 1/25/2009 12:46:27 PM
forums crack me up..... someone contacts us twice... it is too much.... someone doesn't return a text.... we worry..... we need to learn to relax... someone being interested in you... use to be a good thing....

iiceiice

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Most men are too picky Posted: 1/22/2009 8:25:14 AM
Have to wonder how those dating tips are working for you moonlight.... shakes head everyone has preferences... that is your right... but bashing what you don't prefer... not ok... I laugh at these threads... because there is a good chance that the person you are calling ugly in a relationship is the most beautiful person his/her partner has ever seen.... just because someone is not YOUR preference.... doesn't mean the aren't someone elses..... this topic has been done far to many time..... grown folk need to remember they are grown... and stop judging what others have....

iiceiice

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Longterm FB Posted: 1/21/2009 9:39:19 PM
ummm.... sex isn't a benefit to my friendships..... there is a lot I will do for a friend.... sex isn't one of them.....

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