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ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Guys approaching girls at the mall. Posted: 4/3/2009 8:10:50 PM
I am a very shy girl at first, I don't really go up to strange guys cuz I am that shy. - Would a girl just laugh? You are a really good looking guy so I would end up blushing and gigling like a lil girl. lol. - Would I just ask to talk to them before asking them out? Yeah it would be good to chat for a while cuz if you don't talk to her before asking her out she might turn out to be somebody you don't want to be around. - Would it flatter her?It would flatter me - Is this something normal to do? I know a few people that do it. it's one way of making new friends. - What if she is with friends? like one of the other women said it depends on the "pack mentality"

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Some quick style advice Posted: 4/3/2009 7:58:37 PM
I like men who dress comfortably, I'm not saying that you should wear sweats but jeans and a tee is cool. If you're trying to impress then the tie and sha-bang is good. basically dress how you feel.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Am I being impatient? Posted: 2/9/2008 7:13:20 PM
Ok so here's my story. I havent' had a boyfriend in 3 years and I've never been in a long term relationship. My longest relationship was 2 months. I am getting sick and tired of being the only one single out of all of my friends. I really want to expierence what it's like to be in a l.t.r.. Everybody keeps telling me that I need to stop looking and just wait for it to happen and I did that for 2 years. All I've been able to find is guys that just want sex. I've been through the bad relationship thing and I refuse to go back. I am to the point where I don't want to talk or hang out with my friends because all I hear about is their relationship with thier bf/gf. It is really irritating because I want to be a good friend and listen to them but I just can't stand it anymore. I'm not quite to the point of going back to guys that will treat me like crap. I dunno am I being impatient about this? I could really use some advice from people that I don't even know because the responses tend to be a lot more blunt and truthful than advice from your friends. Thank you.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Why not tell the truth Posted: 4/13/2006 11:36:05 PM
be blut a lot that helps sometimes

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Why amI so scared of commitment? Posted: 4/13/2006 11:34:19 PM
maybe ur afraid of getting too attached and then lose that person or something

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Heartbroken women needs advice. Posted: 4/13/2006 11:33:23 PM
i have a friend who is going through that and ya men follow their**** and ya but im not say all men. and sry that u had to go through that.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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A request for the ladies regarding photos... Posted: 4/13/2006 11:30:23 PM
dude you'll find somebody hell... i write to people without pics some girls are just picky and care only about looks

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Just want to know Posted: 4/13/2006 11:28:39 PM
when u look at a girl and she looks away she's just playing hard to get

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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im in love brothers Posted: 4/12/2006 9:40:40 PM
sry i havent repiled in a while. joe has a gf now and blue (the brother that's his nickname) and i have been hanging out a lot well... the past three days but anyways yeah i know what ya guys mean so ya. im not going to do anything and if things happen they happen so ya thanx for the advice

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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May I ask for some advise please. Posted: 4/9/2006 4:39:10 AM
hey dont loose hope cuz you will find someone and friends. i would have to agree with sonjarobin because there aren't many guys that sound as sweet as you. i grew up in a town made up of ***holes and drug addicts. but the thing is to keep going and youll find somebody

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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im in love brothers Posted: 4/9/2006 4:25:11 AM
hey, this guy joe has had my heart since the 7th grade and his brother james has just come home from the cities to live there and now i think im starting to fall for him and i dont know what to do.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Advice Posted: 3/7/2006 12:16:13 PM
k ill lay back a lil

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/7/2006 12:15:42 PM
lol we dont have a cheeleading team nor sports for that matter which really sucks

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Advice Posted: 3/7/2006 11:59:44 AM
we have done that and she is so tied around his finger that she cant see it

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Advice Posted: 3/7/2006 11:53:19 AM
telling her to leave his as*, dont get too caught up, and to be prepared to get hurt cuz you probably will.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Advice Posted: 3/7/2006 11:48:50 AM
yeah your right. her parents aren't really there for her either that is why im sooo worried

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Advice Posted: 3/7/2006 11:41:16 AM
yeah your right but her parents already said yes to their engagement and i am older than she is and he is moving here in July and that is when i start college and i cant be there to protect her.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Advice Posted: 3/7/2006 11:35:48 AM
I have a friend who is dating this guy and she has never met him and only talked on the comp and the phone. She is only 17 and he is 20 and he just asked her to marry him. I have told her that she should leave him cuz he is an as*hole and she won't listen to me. He yells at her for the stupidest shit and then goes back and tells her that he loves her. And every damn time she goes back to him. I guess im just afraid that he is going to beat her or something. I dunno what to do to make her wake up and see that he is a bad guy. He also wants to have children right away when she turns 18. She is like my sister and i am scared i dunno what to do.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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Does a kiss have significance on a first date? Posted: 3/7/2006 11:30:09 AM
To me a kiss on a first date isn't necessary because you don't even know what he/she wants so i would say wait until the second or third date.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/7/2006 11:22:55 AM
hey everybody he said he would rather die

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/6/2006 5:46:22 PM
ok ill give it a shot tomarrow.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/6/2006 5:41:12 PM
ok but how am i supposed to get him alone when the only time i see him is in school?

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/6/2006 5:38:47 PM
true but yet the school im in i am considered the least popular person and i have a gut feeling that he wont go out with me because of this popularity contest that my school goes off of.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/6/2006 5:32:33 PM
i dunno and thats what im afraid of and ive been backing off lately. Yet im still getting confused and more scared everyday to ask him. im to the point of not asking him at all.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/6/2006 5:28:49 PM
i dunno cuz to me he likes me but im too afraid to ask him out. Like i said he is the most popular guy in school. i mean he looks at me out of the corner of his eye. The thing is i want to ask him to prom and i dunno.

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/6/2006 5:21:12 PM
Hey just looking for advice on how to ask this guy that i really like but is popular. Someone found out that i like him and now everyone is making it into some big thing and im afraid that he will say no. what should i do?

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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what should i do? Posted: 3/6/2006 5:10:49 PM
Hey just looking for advice on how to ask this guy that i really like but is popular. Someone found out that i like him and now everyone is making it into some big thing and im afraid that he will say no. what should i do?

ultimatefrisbeegirl

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the bottles Posted: 6/30/2005 9:55:24 AM
As I drik the more I think I think why live when you're not happy. All my life I have been hurt and sad All my life it's been dark and cold. When I look at the bottle And pour myself another drink I feel nothing and I like it But the more I drink The sadder I get and I think about my life All the painful memories come flooding back Then I think maybe I can sleep Sleep for the rest of my life In a perfect dream world So I pick up the bottle and open it I count the pills as I take them out I count away my horrid memories Then I wake up in confusion I realize that God controls my life not me Ever since that morning I haven't touched the vodka bottle And I never will again

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