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Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

Guys thoughts on women alone in bars Posted: 10/20/2007 5:51:01 PM
Roxiebaby you look like a very pretty girl. If you do this please watch your drink at all times. I'm not judging all men but it only takes one scumbag and there are plenty of them out there that think we women were only put on the planet for their perverse pleasure. I don't beleive it should be the case but it's dangerous girl. Watch your back and your front.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

Most of my Boyfriends do this what does it mean ? am I crazy or what ? Posted: 10/20/2007 11:50:20 AM
Yes really are you a Pro or dating married men? That's kind of what your thread indicates. It's easy to be the "Perfect Woman" when it's all fantasy.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

how to get a man to chase you ? Posted: 10/20/2007 11:45:22 AM
I personally don't like being chased. I can't run that fast. Soccer accident bum knee. I'm way too easy to catch.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Why is it guys do this? Posted: 10/20/2007 11:33:21 AM
Look I'm not defending the guy because, obviously, we don't know the whole story. I do know this. I have had my heart broken and I've broken a few hearts. People fall out of love. It happens and someone always gets hurt. It's just a sad fact of life. Is there a right way to let someone down? I don't know. I'm a fan of the clean break. Make a decision and don't look back.. for some that's not so easy. If he's not still calling you and confusing you consider yourself luck and for God's sake stay away from his My Space.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

Why do guys never say bye? They just fade away quietly! Posted: 10/19/2007 9:30:36 PM
D.J.W. STOP SHOUTING AT US. WE HEAR YOU. We aren't crazy. Just tired of being lied to.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/19/2007 8:19:35 PM
Did that. Restraining order???? Just joking. I don't call him he calls me. I was genuinely concerned. So I stopped by. My son was with me for the first hour because he hates and distrusts him. I just don't get the mind games after all this time. That was the point of my post. Maybe I didn't make it clear enough. Maybe I'm too simple for this site.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/19/2007 8:16:00 PM
Did that. Restraining order????

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/19/2007 7:35:50 PM
So the sex was good and he ruined the relationship so that he could pursue booty calls instead of a relationship? Please tell me that men aren't this shallow? He told me time after time that he isn't very deep. He even asked me to dumb down. Ridiculous. In my world the rule is smarten up. So, I was just a sex toy to him? Well I must have been a good one if he can't stop thinking about it after two years. Jesus. I loved this guy. Wow am I stupid.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/19/2007 7:23:32 PM
Why? Seriously why after two years???? Just masterbate for god's sake why stir up the crap again?? This is what's confusing me. I'm not just a booty call I never was. Totally confused now! Actually, I've wasted way too many brain cells on this.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

How can a man in love change his mind so quickly? Posted: 10/19/2007 7:19:45 PM
Poster, daydreamer is completely correct. Love yourself and expect the best. It's hard advise to take with a broken heart but if you can love yourself more than all others right now when you are hurt and confused, you will rise above in no time.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

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The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/19/2007 6:26:06 PM
Thanks Suzanne, I did quit. I was worried, snared and won't ever do it again. This is the kind of thing that makes you stop trusting. I really don't want to be that person.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/19/2007 5:20:51 PM
I ended it. I always end it because he becomes verbally abusive and rude when he is bored with me. He gets resentful. His job sucks, his daughter sucks....blah blah blah utlimately he lashes out at everyone. It ruined the relationship for me. It's like he thinks he was destined for this great "Rock Star" life and was cheated. Grow up dreams don't come true just because you dream them.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

he says he's thorough with the relationship but comes back ! Posted: 10/19/2007 5:13:42 PM
Get the hell out now. I know I'm not a guy. Just run girlfriend. This could go on forever and it won't end pretty. RUNNNN!!!!! Practice these words. NO life is too short to waste.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

Do political opinions matter to a guy? Posted: 10/19/2007 4:53:13 PM
Wow, will you marry me. JK! I love a man with an open mind that enjoys the diversity in life. You go boy. That was intended for marryingman. Sorry still getting the hang of this.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Do political opinions matter to a guy? Posted: 10/19/2007 4:52:15 PM
Wow, will you marry me. JK! I love a man with an open mind that enjoys the diversity in life. You go boy.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/19/2007 4:38:33 PM
Thanks. I've made it more than clear to him that I don't want to hear about his conquests and I won't talk about mine. I don't think we can be friends. Maybe 10 years from now if we are both happily with other people but otherwise..... it's too weird and painful because he plays these games. I shouldn't have gone to his house and won't ever fall into that trap again.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

how do u like it daddy? Posted: 10/19/2007 4:16:20 PM
No I am Spartacus. ha ha I want to play too.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

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The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/18/2007 6:29:10 PM
You're right of course. Wounded ego maybe? It still seems ridiculous to me after all this time. I thought we had both moved on and our relationship wasn't a booty call for the first 2 years.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

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The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/18/2007 6:20:47 PM
Yes darlin' I get the booty call part. What I don't get is the call back just to try to make me jealous because I wouldn't bite. I avoided his attention for two years. I am avoiding his attention now. I want some explanation for his bizzare behavior.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

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The jealousy card? Why? Posted: 10/18/2007 5:54:58 PM
My ex has made it clear that he really isn't into me. We have had an on again off again relationship for almost 7 years. I accepted that we are mismatched and walked away. He didn't seem to care. We have been completely without contact for two years, although my son informs me he has called frequently and he just didn't relay the message. I'm not angry about that, it's good. It gave me the time I needed to end it. What I want to know is this. He always initiates the contact with an attempt at a booty call. Last time, a month or so ago, he was really drunk. I stopped by to check on him. He didn't sound good. I was a little disgusted and he was sloppy and all over me. I left. The next day he called to apologize and asked to buy me dinner. Ok it was alright. No sparks but he was contrite and he said he really missed me. I told him to keep in touch and maybe we could be friends. He called a week later to tell me he was going to a concert (which he knew I would love) with his buds to pick up women. His exact words. What is with this shiz???? Clearly it is an attempt to make me jealous but why after all this time? Can't he just leave me alone. He didn't care when he had me and I doubt he does now. What is this? We are way too old for this crap.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 644 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 10/17/2007 7:09:27 PM
I totally agree. Long hair is easier unless you have bald spots. If you are having a bad hair day all you need is a ponytail. Perfect.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 643 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 10/17/2007 7:06:20 PM
I personally keep my hair longer because it suits me. My son keeps begging me to keep the gray with the length. He thinks it's cool but he doesn't realize how dry gray hair is. Length and gray don't go well together most of the time. That being said I think it is an individual choice. I know that if my hair was thinning I would definitely keep it shorter. Long hair shows balding spots. I have one thin spot near my forhead which I cut and style correctively. I wouldn't wear my hair stick straight and down to my waist though. That's a look that even very few young women can get away with. Even when they think they do.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

he keeps coming back Posted: 10/17/2007 6:06:03 PM
I've been in this damned situation off and on for seven years. I know I don't love him anymore. He shattered us the first time. It was sabotage and I think he acted on cold feet and complete fear of committment. I gave him space. He came back. This pattern went on for years with each split lasting longer. The last split has been over two years. In that time I refused his phone calls and wouldn't fall into the same traps. Recently, due to major changes in our children's (from different marriages) lives we got together to catch up. He tried to turn it into a booty call but I'm done. I wouldn't bite. He got drunk and persistent and I left. The next day he apologized and asked me out to dinner. I went because if he really felt bad I didn't want him to stew. He told me he loved me and missed me so much. Then I didn't hear from him for a week. No we didn't have sex. When he called a week later he said he was going to a concert with a friend to pick up women. OK. I'm almost 100% certain that this attempt to make me jealous was to salvage his ego. I was soooo in love with him before he couldn't understand why I didn't roll over for him. Honestly, what gives though. I was really nice to him. I put up with a lot of crap in an attempt to make it work. What's with the gut punch after 2 years? I wasn't cruel just didn't jump into the sack.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

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What is your personal fitness routine/workout regimen? Posted: 10/16/2007 4:22:48 PM
butbutbutterfly, how tall are you that at 118 pounds you still feel like you have a few extra? I'm 5'8" and at 118 I look anorexic.

Magic Peachz

Joined: 9/21/2007

Msg: 206 (view)

Why are older men so SEX oriented??????? Posted: 10/15/2007 6:11:56 PM
I don't find that older men are so much more sexually "oriented" than older women. I'm only 48 my last man was only six months older. He constantly complained that I wore him out. Not so much in the beginning but I guess after the novelty of having sex whenever he wanted it wore off ....Unfortunately, I wanted more. I remember being insatiable in my 20s and dead from the waist down in my 30s. My sex drive just woke up in my late 30s after my children were more independent. Unfortunately, I wasn't insatiable for the man I married. Long story!! My point being that most of us are sexual beings. Most women need mental stimulation therefore, I completely understand the turn-off of the unsolicited sexual come on by a complete stanger. (But I also get it if your in the mood for it). That's probably why they do it. Playing the odds. I work with a man in his late sixties, not very attractive, clever or wealthy. The man looks and talks like Popeye without the bod. In other words, after two years of daily interaction I can't find anything attractive about him or his personality. Yet, he comes into the office every day bragging about his latest sexual conquest. All in our department are professional women and young for our age. We range from 39 to 49. I think he is trying to make an impression. My coworkers think he is a serial dating dog, moving on after ever sexual conquest that he meets on sites like these. I honestly couldn't care less. He's probably a liar. If he is getting lucky its a miracle and he must have some good karma built up somewhere. Yet I doubt he needs Viagra. I think he has a very active fantasy life better than any drug. More power to him. Sorry I'm rambling and this is my first post. I guess sexuality is individual. Is it tacky to bring it up before you know who you're talking to. YES. We are over 40 we should have learned a little discretion at this point. If you want to make any kind of impression leave the sex talk for when the mood is right. I THINK. I would block anyone whose first e-mail was only sexual in content.

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