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calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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shaved bald men Posted: 12/6/2008 3:21:41 PM
think it depends where you live and what kind of girls there are..i had my hair bald pretty much my whole life...most girls liked it where i grew up in california..most girls now that i meet i find prefer guys with hair

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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What do you consider social drinking?? Posted: 12/6/2008 3:07:40 PM
i would say a few drinks at a bar maybe on weekends

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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What do flowers on a first date mean? Posted: 12/6/2008 3:01:00 PM
i dont see anything wrong with it typically i bring a girl flowers on a first date if im picking them up

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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breaking up over email, acceptable or not? Posted: 12/6/2008 2:53:09 PM
i think if its kinda cowardly. seems like it would go better if you talked with them about it

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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what can i do if im being pushed away? Posted: 4/21/2008 12:37:53 PM
well we are broken up now...she claims the strong feelings she had went away just like that...which i dont really believe..i can just tell shes doing this stuff on purpose...even the small things that she would laugh at she says just ok. its like shes forcing herself to not feel that way anymore...so its not likely we going to work anything out.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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what can i do if im being pushed away? Posted: 4/15/2008 3:09:59 PM
thats possible maybe i took it the wrong way..but i was thinking the reason shes pushing away is because the feelings she has making her try to hide them...push me away etc...i thought that was what everyone was saying maybe not...but one thing i ask anyone and everyone who does that..pushing away guard up...so far nobody has ever had a answer..but what does that accomplish...besides staying alone?

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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what can i do if im being pushed away? Posted: 4/15/2008 2:57:52 PM
ok but shes just as weird for having strong feelings in a short time...why dont they say shes weird

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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what can i do if im being pushed away? Posted: 4/15/2008 2:28:40 PM
UPDATE ok well things were looking better...but i dont know..its like she will go one way then the other..then one way again... last couple of days she has been kinda saying mean things she didnt really mean..she admitted that..its part of her trying to push me away i suppose. we had a long talk and thought it was ok but then today its like going in reverse...something i find odd is her family says im a little weird that i have these weird feelings so quickly...but then she has strong feelings too and they dont say that about her...i guess they probably think so just support her because its family.. for those of you commenting on my page on here being single..well first off nobody writes me on here nor do i write anyone. my for the moment gf has a myspace that says shes single. so who knows maybe we will break up maybe we wont but dont think i should care about changing it till she does.. all the sudden its coming out that shes mostly afraid of being able to stay commited about me leaving...if she met someone or whatever...so yeah i dont know...im getting the feeling i should stop trying im the one who has been keeping us together...a part of me says i dont need to keep doing this just so she can just break up with me later.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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what can i do if im being pushed away? Posted: 4/14/2008 2:57:21 PM
i just dont believe these feelings just go away...like i said she says she let me get closer to her heart than any other man so if thats so then why would someone want to let that go..even her sisters and family tell her they know its something real.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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what can i do if im being pushed away? Posted: 4/14/2008 2:16:41 PM
ok me and my gf havent been together long. we have strong feelings for each other. i told her i more than just like her so that scares her..but its been ok...now shes saying she doesnt know if we should be together...shes basically saying its because shes afraid of getting hurt. what i dont understand is shes told me things like shes let me get closer than any other guy in the past and just that she never stops thinking of me misses me all the time etc...now shes trying to say she doesnt..i think shes trying to force herself to not feel those things...i dont believe it that she doesnt..we arent broken up but shes saying she doenst know...so basically shes pushing me away and all that...in the past i would just tell them my feelings strongly and more often. and remind them of the feelings they are trying to not think about..usually the girl would just get tired of hearing that so would push me away even more or just stop talking all together...if i just let them go in hopes they would come back they usually dont..i find out they are seeing someone else not that long after that...so is there a better approach or when a girl does this is there really nothing to do but move on?

calihispanictx

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im not against a girl having guy friends BUT Posted: 4/11/2008 11:20:29 AM
DROP? i didnt say drop. but ok heres another angle. majority of time when these so called friends met it was an attraction factor. guy sees girl likes girl wants #. and obviously if she gave the number it must have been a mutual interest. for all the guy knows. all of her friends may be guys she dated in past. so if she starts seeing someone else is one to believe that he just instantly says shes a friend..maybe. myself included i think most guys if they like a girl and she either starts a relationship or says its better off as friends...well thats kind of like a hope factor.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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how a girl dresses Posted: 4/10/2008 7:56:59 PM
WOWWWWWW...lol umm well i dont really recall that i had a problem with it...i think i stated something like some guys do.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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how a girl dresses Posted: 4/10/2008 6:39:26 PM
well yeah most guys will like it...and maybe not want them to stop. i hear guys dont want them leaving the house wearing some of that kind of stuff. im kinda in the middle on that. if a girl goes out with her friends to a club or something..i been with girls like that in past. usually all kind of guys flock to them or not...some wont care if their bf is there or not.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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how a girl dresses Posted: 4/10/2008 5:37:48 PM
i dont know about that..for the most part girls who wear all that provocative revealing type clothing...its for the most part when they go to a club an obvious place to attract a guy or on a date...

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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how a girl dresses Posted: 4/10/2008 5:06:25 PM
ok so not many guys are going to say they dont like the look of the short skirt skin tight jeans low cut tops little black dress etc...in my opinion majority of time girls dress that way to attract guys. so does that at all change if a girl gets in relationship? im guessing most will say no...alot of girls tell me its like u met them that way so shouldnt expect to change.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Car Pictures? Posted: 4/10/2008 5:02:28 PM
doesnt it matter what it is...i can see if its some mercedes or something...but somebody got a taurus why would someone care

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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im not against a girl having guy friends BUT Posted: 4/9/2008 7:08:16 PM
another factor to all this is im joining army in 2 weeks more likely than not ill be overseas in a few months.....she hasnt been doing any of this as of yet...ironically a few of her "guy" friends are coming back from iraq in few months. so do i really want her hanging out with all kinds of single guys friends or not while im gone..not really..personally i think its a thing a guy shouldnt even have to ask. its just a respectful corteous thing that shows u care about the others feelings.. think about if i a guy didnt know and just happen to see his girl in a restaurant laughing with some guy...more times than not hes not going to take the time to hear her say its just a friend.

calihispanictx

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im not against a girl having guy friends BUT Posted: 4/9/2008 6:48:01 PM
i didnt mean give up..i mean like i said its ok to hang out as group call them from time to time...but i got agree with the other guy....dinner has date written all over it. its kinda hard to say it just happened if you dont create a setting for it to happen in.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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im not against a girl having guy friends BUT Posted: 4/9/2008 5:25:17 PM
shouldnt that kind of slow down once your in relationship? i mean like its cool to have guy friends hang out with them in GROUP settings...but as far as 1-1 going to dinner stuff like that...is that crossing the line?..personally i believe it puts people in unecessary risky situations.. if something happened the girl cheated or the guy tried to kiss them..first thing i would think is well you shouldnt have been there to begin with. so i guess the question for the ladies is if a guy friend asks you to dinner knowing you have a bf what do you say?

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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What do people think of a girl at a bar alone? Posted: 4/7/2008 3:55:14 PM
i had a odd experience few weeks ago. i dont really know when a girl is interested...i went to a bar to watch a basketball game it was pretty empty...was like at 8pm. other than me and the bar staff....it was empty. this girl walks in...sits at stool next to me...has a beer...asks me for a lighter...is kinda looking in my direction the whole time...she has another beer and then leaves...so yeah i was shy...didnt want to say hi i guess...could have been something could have been nothing who knows.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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THE L WORD Posted: 4/7/2008 3:48:44 PM
ok well were they actually like your "boyfriend" or just someone u dated a year..dated other people and stuff...if its not obvious this is about me and a girl..whats odd is she say she got strong feelings thinks about me all the time other things like that...but she doesnt love and gives off the vibe shes nowhere close to that...i would think thats the next step. i have told her a unspecified time will pass and if its clear her feelings havent progressed then we would have talk about where relationship is going...anything wrong with that? surely u dont stay with someone for years hoping one day they will love u like u love them.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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THE L WORD Posted: 4/7/2008 11:33:09 AM
isnt their a timeline of some sort? i mean if 6 months go by maybe even a year..and they have the same feeling they had in beginning..isnt it time to look at the relationship isnt going anywhere? even with that if the person who had their feelings hurt if they dont hold them back then even if the other person does love the other one day...then it turns into well i love you but not the same way you love me...so just seems like its a pattern of never being on same page.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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THE L WORD Posted: 4/7/2008 9:49:17 AM
what if one person feels that way and another doesnt. if its mutual then its a great thing but then its kinda like rejection if its not. can they ever feel the same mutually? on one hand you have one person put their feelings out there just to fall on their face..so naturally they are going to hold back their feelings from getting hurt worse. on the other side the other person is going to notice that and not like it but so i guess the qutestion is after that happens can it ever be the same or is it just something hard to overcome.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Do platonic male friends scare off those interested romantically? Posted: 4/6/2008 8:10:20 PM
what if its their best friend? short version i met a girl who has this so called best friend..said they dont talk all the time but when they do its for hours..says everyone sees them as thinks they are a couple...she says all of the guys she dates think hes more than a friend and dont like it..so really its maybe not so bad if i do the same thing. mentioned him having her picture on display like in living room..isolated away from all the other friends pictures...so theres alot more but thats the basics... i guess the keyword of the OP is platonic...

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Do platonic male friends scare off those interested romantically? Posted: 3/17/2008 6:29:52 PM
i say ESPECIALLY for the girls who got more guy friends than girls that theres always a few that like her and want to be more than a friend...u will know too...usually they arent too friendly to you.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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if your boy friend got into a street fight!!! Posted: 3/17/2008 6:27:38 PM
what happened to the girls who would jump in their and help their man out.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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eyebrows Posted: 3/17/2008 3:23:51 PM
not cool with the chola look huh lol

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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How closely do you look at someone's teeth? Posted: 3/16/2008 6:31:49 PM
i think some of the people who are judgemental arent very understanding...personally myself i dont make it public on my profile but i have not so great looking teeth...a few years ago i had a tooth broken playing sports and it actually chipped some other ones which began to break down. for those of you who dont know thats how it works..if the inner layers of teeth get exposed they began to breakdown...doesnt matter how much you brush them...i dont have dental insurance..and really doesnt matter if i did. most insurance companies dont cover much if any of restorative/cosmetic procedures. if i had to guess i would say im looking at a good 8-10,000 dollars US in repairs. just an estimation ..could be more. so for all of the people who say thats unattractive and wouldnt date anyone like that...maybe you should take a outside look in. how many of you even have half that kind of money laying around..if you do im sure there are other things you would want to be able to spend it on. sometimes i wish it was as simple as just being overweight..i wish i could do some 500 situps or so and they would grow back.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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how much to call? Posted: 3/15/2008 5:23:37 PM
could someone please explain to me the quote process? well i mean she liked me enough to give me her number..for those of you who arent aware of my other posts..it got deleted for some reason..i asked her if she would like my number and she declined. but for whatever reason a few days later she sent it in a email. must have had a change of heart..i didnt bring it up again or anything. she has recently apologized for not being able to talk more..so hopefully that will change in the near future.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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how much to call? Posted: 3/15/2008 4:39:00 PM
ok well basically what i was getting at is how much should you call when the other party isnt calling as much. like i said if i just stop calling alltogether they will call. or send me a message or something. when they arent calling they still are sending me messages and stuff so i guess maybe i dont have much to complain about. theres several other factors..i kinda work not so great hours that during that time is the time most people would make these sort of calls..i work 4pm till 230 so not so ideal.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Nfl Draft what are your favorite teams needs /who will they draft Posted: 3/15/2008 1:28:44 PM
i hear jerry jones would give up both picks in 1st round and possibly barber for the chance to draft mcfadden....heard hes in love with him since he went to arkansas..im a raider fan hard to say what that nut al davis will do..if it was me i would trade down...jonathan stewart is my sleeper in this draft...4.37 speed..and at 230 pounds..maybe the next jerome bettis

calihispanictx

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how much to call? Posted: 3/15/2008 1:08:06 PM
ok so i got mixed opinions from different people..but when you first get someones number how much should you call and expect them to either answer or call you back. i have heard if you call everyday makes you look desperate. most of my guy friends are of the player type. they say to purposely not call. it just sounds like a bunch of game playing stuff..i mean in the past i worked well with people who made time to talk everyday. even if it was just a few minutes..but mostly would be a hour or more. theres one specific person that when i call them most of the time dont talk very long...or they dont answer...but if i just stop calling them altogether they will start calling...so sounds like signs of a game player to me..but anyway any thoughts?

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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i'm not into night clubs, bars and dancing places - dealbreaker ? Posted: 3/15/2008 12:55:30 PM
most girls i have met..one of the things they like doing..is dancing...for most would be a turn off if a guy doesnt like to dance. think about it this way...say you formed a relationship with a girl who liked dancing and u didnt..im sure she would still go out anyway from time to time...its either her dancing with you..or some other guy because your not there...take your pick...on the other hand im sure there are some women out there who dont go out much.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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What does it mean? Posted: 3/9/2008 6:47:32 PM
heres an idea im not saying its wrong but with me its been proven..that girls dating multiple people..first off dont want any part of a relationship...i knew one girl said she didnt want one ...and really didnt even want to date...but the sole reason of calling it a date is so the guy would pay...2nd more times than not if they do become so called exclusive they dont always cut ties with everyone else...meaning they stay friends...and hows that work to have a bunch of guy friends u used to date..i say spells trouble...

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Beer Posted: 3/8/2008 1:25:39 PM
just curious anyone ever heard of that beer mexicali? is it still around or got discontinued i think it was primarily on west coast. i had it at a bar when i first came to texas few years ago..but couldnt buy it anywhere now nobody has it anywhere. so i wonder if its just not here or not anywhere

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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What does it mean? Posted: 3/6/2008 11:08:04 PM
i personally think if you go out with someone and have a good time...tell them u like them and like where things are going...then if you go out with someone else or keep your options open whatever u want to call it...then your basically saying u dont like this other guy as much as you told him.

calihispanictx

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the online/phone connection Posted: 3/5/2008 4:30:26 AM
ok ugly betty you got a answer for everything huh lol..i hate that show by the way. would i be wrong to say our personalities clash? lol well i get what your saying. however i think your approach to things arent really anything i ever experienced before. so i guess its just my opinion that these ideas of yours arent typical of a majority...but hey i could be wrong im ok with that.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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the online/phone connection Posted: 3/4/2008 11:29:00 AM
hmmm interesting. well i wouldnt say i ask them if they missed me more times than not they come out with it. its more along the lines of missed talking to you if hadnt talked recently or something. i would say i still think if u talk to someone on a regular basis for an extended amount of time...its next to impossible for any feelings not to come from that. not really sure what you specifically mean b y terms of endearment or emotional talk... i think for the most part its girls who get this whole LIKE feeling and then majority of time when the real time meeting comes..if there is a reason to not feel a connection usually its something out of not happy with appearance or something. so i dont think im the only man alone when they say its a little angering to hear all the things that were said before didnt mean anything. its kind of like if there isnt going to be anything after that first meeting then the girl tries to downplay all that...

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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the online/phone "connection" Posted: 3/4/2008 2:18:36 AM
does it really mean anything? in the past i met a few girls online. depending on person some want to really get to know you well before they agree to meet...few weeks or so. usually what happens is both people get into that whole like mode...miss talking to each other...been thinking of you that kind of stuff. so if i meet them and if they arent attracted or whatever then i look back to before i met them and think...so what happened to all that chemistry before that. so i question if that really means anything. maybe im one of the few..but for me if i have a real connection and like this person before i meet them...then i would overlook some flaws from the meeting...anyway any ideas.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Ex Boyfriend Back in Picture Posted: 3/4/2008 1:59:41 AM
i reccomend you tell her to make a choice..it sounds like your not too cool with her hanging out with her ex..its one thing for calls here and there..but hanging out on a regular basis i would find that unacceptable. tell her to put herself in your shoes...im sure she wouldnt want u seeing your ex on a regular basis.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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sign of interest or something else. Posted: 3/3/2008 11:11:42 AM
ok kinda looking for girl advice. or better yet advice from a girl. i met a girl online but not here more like through another site thats not so much for dating. and their profile pretty much looks like they just want friends. im not so good at picking up signals of interest even in person..if its not completely blunt and obvious i wont pick up on it. well this person isnt online alot..but she writes me when she is..its only been like a week or 2. anyway shes constantly commenting on my looks...complimenting i should say. most recently she mentioned something about wanting to know if i ever attended a specific event...and to let her know if i had...its in a few months i think. so i kind of think potentially that could be a not so obvious invitation..but i would hate to be wrong too..like i said im not so good at judging interest i either never see it coming or make too much of something not there. so any ideas?

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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question about being single. Posted: 3/2/2008 10:16:53 PM
ok some good points..maybe i got the wrong impression or view...i just seem to hear all the time that valentines day and holidays are the time where people see all the time people together...pretty much when i see my friends and family ..if i hadnt talked to them in awhile the first thing they want to know is if im seeing anyone. i have one single friend that calls valentines day singles awareness day lol. maybe alot of you are different..its funny though..i noticed within the time frame of valentines day i got alot more calls from girls who may have not callled otherwise. so its my opinion...certain times in people lives make them more aware of being single...i dont think there is a single person that can say they been that way for extended amount of time and havent gotten lonely ...

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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question about being single. Posted: 3/2/2008 9:40:07 PM
ok basically im asking for those of you who are perfectly fine with being single. i know some who claim it wont bother them if they never meet the right person...so i guess what im asking is that just a line or what. i mean i dont believe any human being wants to think about being alone. i notice that around valentines day "that wasnt that long ago" people become more open to the idea of finding someone.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Is It Wrong for a Latina Women To Have A Preferance For Only White Men? Posted: 3/1/2008 9:20:56 PM
what about family....i know all are different...but alot wont accept it...i have known some to refuse to attend wedding....some are even disowned over it.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Rescuing a girl from a pestering guy Posted: 3/1/2008 7:39:18 PM
not sure where you live or whatever..but in alot of places guys will be offended and want to fight you or something.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Is It Wrong for a Latina Women To Have A Preferance For Only White Men? Posted: 3/1/2008 6:57:17 PM
i wouldnt say its wrong..but to other latinos and latinas they arent going to approve most of the time...especially if its not just a preference but a requirement..i meet alot of latin girls here in texas that only date black guys and thats it. my feelings arent as strong as others..but i know a large percantage of latinos see a girl with someone of another race and view it as not being true to your race...im sure other races are same way for some people anyway.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 2/27/2008 4:19:55 PM
depends on what they wear i guess..i think its crazy a girl to wear low cut stuff showing all kind of cleavage and want to know why guys are looking.

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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My profile says a few extra pounds but men still expect to meet someone who's skinny. Posted: 2/27/2008 4:13:00 PM
my experiences are a few extra pounds is never just a few ...more like 25-50

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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My profile says a few extra pounds but men still expect to meet someone who's skinny. Posted: 2/27/2008 4:12:45 PM
my experiences are a few extra pounds is never just a few ...more like 25-50

calihispanictx

Joined: 9/25/2007

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Girl more picky on Plenty of Fish than they would be in real life? Posted: 2/27/2008 4:10:00 PM
i think its true...what i find funny is alot of the women are pickier beyond what they should be. like they want the guy thats not going to go for them. there are times where im just bored online late at night and i just send a message or two to people and some deny to talk to me. and my first thought is just wow. i mean no offense to anyone but if your of the larger fashion and are frequently in the list of people with no emails..how picky can u be.

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