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 Author Thread: Let me know what you think
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Let me know what you think
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:57:46 AM
The only thing your going to attract with that face jewelry is skanks. If thats what you want thats ok.

At least take the ones out of your lip. It screams white trash.

Lots of chicks dig tattoo's of course.

Your a decent looking man other than that.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How do you cut the ties...when the ex is your best freinds sister?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:40:44 AM
I would personally stay away. Too much to think about when you are that close.

It will just mess up your head again.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
I'm a dork...and I think my profile shows it...help, please!
Posted: 2/13/2009 2:16:09 PM
Delete the part about how well you and the kids dad gets along.

If you get along so well why are you not with him? That was a huge turn off when i read it.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
I know you don't want to hear it...
Posted: 2/13/2009 2:12:55 PM
Talk about where you want to go in life.

Delete the part about liking video games. Most chicks hate that. Some dont. But i have had more than one woman comment that they were glad i am not a gamer.

Pics are priceless.

A couple different ones.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Why do I only attract guys that want to hook up?
Posted: 12/3/2008 12:17:48 AM
They want to hook up because you have a vagina.

Your hot, your pics look semi-trampy. Party attitude.

If i likes skinny girls i would want to bone you too.

You mostly attract what you emit. Don't look like a tramp. The responses will slow down.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
I must be doing something wrong here.....
Posted: 10/1/2008 10:30:52 AM
You changed your profile a little. Its better.

Get those stuffy clothing pics changed.

That will help.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Could I get some input please?!
Posted: 9/30/2008 11:15:10 AM
Get rid of the 2 pics you have with the blue turtleneck on.....they make u look gay.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
I must be doing something wrong here.....
Posted: 9/30/2008 11:12:46 AM
Ok, im going to be hardcore. Dont get mad. You asked.

I mean well really.

Your a dork. Get contacts. Ditch the glasses. Lose the uptight clothing. Get a pic of you in a t-shirt and jeans. If you dont own any buy some.

Grow the goatee back. Chicks dig them.

You could have the best sense of humor in the world. But women would feel uncomfortable with you. Why? They cant lounge.

You are in an age group that you will find women with kids. They dont always want to be dressy. Thats how you come off.

Read my profile. Its not visible right now. But when it was viewable i got lots of emails telling me how nice it was. Feel free to steal from it.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
About ready to give up.
Posted: 9/30/2008 11:01:05 AM
Your pic looks like your on dope. Change it.

Change the hang out, to dating. Most women dont want to hang out.

And, wtf is up with not having a car? What 32 year old dude dont have a car? That tells a chick your a loser.

You cant take her out if you dont have a car now can you?
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
He wants to text only, avoids phone calls.
Posted: 9/16/2008 12:27:12 AM
I had a woman tell me she would rather text than chat on the phone. WTF?

No relationship ever started.

If you cant talk to me what the heck do i want to waste my time for?
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 133 (view)
 
Husband Fights Charge of Having Sex w/ Comatose Wife
Posted: 9/14/2008 10:58:14 PM
WOW. Interesting thread.

I am very glad to know that this guy got out of all this trouble. I too would like to know if his wife ever came out of the coma. And if so what was her response to what happened?

Made me hope i am never in this position.

And also glad i am not married to any of the vicious women who posted here. Dang.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
leaving this site
Posted: 7/17/2008 11:00:57 AM
This site is cool. I have met some really nice women. Its all in what you put in your profile and are willing to do FOR YOURSELF.

Anyway, go ahead and leave, nobody cares.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Does our partner have the right to know?
Posted: 6/30/2008 1:12:46 PM
Never ask what you truely dont wish to know. I will tell the truth if they ask. But i will also ask "DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW?".
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
So is my friend cheating?
Posted: 6/29/2008 11:12:48 PM
Sounds to me like YOU are interested in his girl. Therefor you are irritated that he is able to keep her, and bang other women.

Otherwise who gives a crap? NONE of your business.

He was getting ready for a date while YOU had nothing better to do but hang out with HIM.

SUCKS to be you. Keep your nose out of it.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met
Posted: 6/24/2008 11:20:58 AM
Simple. If they lie about the stuff you are going to see first...... Then there is sure as heck more skeletons in the closet.

NEXT.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
You or the inlaws?
Posted: 6/22/2008 1:10:53 PM
Wow. A post that hit home. My mother in law was/is controlling. After 12 years i couldnt take it anymore.
Her way or no way. God forbid i get an oppinion in my house.
Wife was an only child. Her mother made her feel guilty if she didnt listen to her.

But when you come home from work, and your house is getting new siding and a roof. And you know you are not paying for it. OR EVEN KNOW IT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN. You know who's money is paying for it.
And the Inlaws want you to be grateful forever about the "gift". And bring it up often.
The list goes on and on.
Wish i would have gotten asked about the color.

I didnt get asked about a lot of stuff. Because my oppinion didnt matter.
Hard to be a man in your own house when your not allowed to wear the pants.

Dont totally blame my exwife. She is a great person.

Oh well. Mother in law cant live forever can she?????? Maybe i can work it out sometime.



 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
False Teeth ........
Posted: 5/27/2008 9:15:29 AM
Teeth do matter. Dentures are fine. I have dated a woman with dentures. But she NEVER had them out.

She had the intelligence to leave them in.

I realize not everyone has great teeth. Sometimes it is hereditary.

But if he kept them in for a few weeks he should still have them in.

I wouldnt keep him around. Would gross me out.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
My Experience
Posted: 5/26/2008 8:45:53 AM
Quit whining. Get out of here. More women for the rest of us.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
are women willing to look past a mans flawed teeth.
Posted: 5/24/2008 1:52:56 AM
Teeth are a must. Deal breaker? Heck yes. They need not be perfectly white, or strait. But you must have them and they cant be rotten.

I realize not everyone has a orthodontic insurance plan. And i for one have no desire for braces. But i am not putting my mouth on someone who has rotten teeth.

Getting your teeth cleaned is cheap. Paying for dental care is expensive. But so is beer, cigarettes, car payments, blahblah.

Bad teeth, no date.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Single women w/ children living with their parents
Posted: 5/13/2008 12:07:50 PM
Met plenty of them. Been there, done that. If you can NOT support yourself. I really dont want to bother with you.

Was once married to a woman who actually TOLD people that she married me because i could support her. Because i have a great job.

Almost done paying child support. BTW. Cant wait.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
A guy over 30 who doesn't want sex
Posted: 4/25/2008 11:23:05 PM
I think most of it is in your head. If you have no sex drive you need to see your doctor. That is really odd. I mean, seriously. Might be a chemical imbalance. Never met(or heard of) a man who didnt have a sex drive.
If you dont want sex, why would you want to date women? Get a dog. Unless your gay, then get a dude. Dinner by yourself all the time stinks.

Sex is very important to most women. All the ones i know anyway.

And why do you let women tell you that your not worthy of them? Get real. Somebody wants you.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
it was fun, but I'm leaving
Posted: 4/15/2008 10:50:50 AM
Who cares if he leaves? Buhbye
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
What if your SO became disabled/chrnic condition
Posted: 4/9/2008 8:40:32 AM
Of course i would stay. If you make that commitment that is what you vow to do. If your married.

I think about this topic when i date someone. Do i think this person will stay through thick and thin?
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Drunken pictures on a dating site
Posted: 3/23/2008 11:42:50 PM
I also find it wierd that many women have pics of them in a bar. Holding a drink.

I have NOT emailed women for this reason.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
When to tell about a checkered past?
Posted: 3/8/2008 9:39:00 PM
Dude, NEVER tell anyone this crap. That was then, this is now.
What i want to know is why you waited 10 years to decide to date?

Yes, Divorce sucks. But it happens.

You should delete this whole post if you can.

And rewrite your profile in a more upbeat way.

MOVE on from crap that happened eons ago.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Would you marry someone who wants just to get out their (poor) country ???
Posted: 2/17/2008 5:59:14 AM
He ain't that poor. He has computer access. And enough intelligence to try to scam you. People made it to this country hundreds of years ago. Came with no money in their pockets to start a new life.

Marriage is out of LOVE. Let him hook up with someone else. Do YOURSELF a favor, hit DELETE.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Thorny Issue
Posted: 2/14/2008 10:29:36 AM
Do yourself a favor and NEVER speak to her again. She is USER. Been there, done that.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
i added new photo's and still nothing......
Posted: 1/11/2008 9:25:29 AM
Too many pics. Take the ones off with the child. And you are a smoker. Tons of good guys hate that.
Take out pics that include other chicks.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Do you think the person that breaks up with you ever has regrets
Posted: 1/8/2008 10:31:47 AM
I sure hope they do. Dated a woman for 3 years. She broke it of VERY abruptly. NO reason. Other than she just didn't want me anymore.
She said, Your the best friend i ever had. Nobody will ever love me like you do. That was it.
Now she is unhappily married. Go figure.

Her loss. Thats how you need to look at it.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 3:40:26 PM
Join the rest of the world who has had crappy stuff happen to them. If i told you about my childhood it would make you cry.
So get over it. Everyone has to, or wallow in self pity forever.

And i don't have time for that. You shouldn't either.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
some hints on what to add? traffic to my page slow.
Posted: 12/30/2007 9:52:44 AM
Honestly, nobody will want to meet your family the first time they meet you. They cant concentrate on you that way. Too much distraction. They will normally be nervous enough around you. Let alone a group of people.
I would never do that. But if you are going to meet someone from here. DO SO IN A PUBLIC PLACE. You scare guys off letting them know they might as well meet your family first. I wouldn't email you.
The drinking thing is good. I don't drink either.
The pics in your bedroom were not weird in my mind.
Your very cute, shouldn't have trouble getting emails if you change a few things.

Good luck.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
I've worked hard at my profile... what do you think?
Posted: 12/23/2007 8:32:08 PM
Its good, except for that picture in the grey t-shirt. Delete it, makes you look fat. Just being honest. Most women like a thick/stocky guy. But your gut is sticking out. I have a gut by the way. But don't showcase it.
The profile part is good though. Much better than most.

Check out my profile. I gets lots of great comments on it. The other advice on your request has been good as well.

Good luck, i think you will get some good response.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Does free spirit mean irresponsible?
Posted: 12/15/2007 8:53:18 AM
I dated a girl for almost a year who claimed to be a "free spirit". And YES it means irresponsible.
Wouldnt keep a job. She always seemed to know more than the bosses. Had HUGE dreams but no goal to achieve them.
How someone can be like this is beyond me. She has 4 kids too.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
“Viewed me” link on POF
Posted: 12/13/2007 9:50:04 AM
I check my "viewed me" link. I have messaged women who have viewed me. Gotten good response. Many women use it in hope that you will email them. Several have told me so. Had a few dates because im not afraid to message them. But lots of women are afraid to make first contact.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
I Think I Need A Review
Posted: 12/12/2007 11:08:20 PM
Man, these guys gave you great advice. Advice you asked for. But dont wish to heed. Actually hate in fact.
If you dont want to read what they have to say. Then refrain from posting here.
Read my profile. I get lots of compliments on it. Had lots of dates. Met some really cool women.
Not my soulmate yet. But you cant look like a 18 year old kid who just got up out of bed and expect to have women flock to you.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Is this a major turn off for anyone else?
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:10:46 AM
HUGE issue. I always meet in a neutral location. For everyones safety. I mean , you can get out if you want.
If he/she doesnt understand that. Then DONT bother with them.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond?
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:08:00 PM
If its just a couple of words no problem. If its a majority of the message I WOULD DELETE IT.
If you do not proofread your own stuff you do NOT deserve a response. I dislike ignorance.
 dingolover
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Anyone not seen a living parent for years?
Posted: 10/28/2007 8:59:50 PM
Father died some years ago. Hadn't spoken to him in quite some time. Slept like a baby the night my mother called to say he died. Didnt go to the funeral either.
Since then tried to mend the relationship with my mother. No luck. She asked me to not ever come back.
Some things you can fix, some you cant. Depends on what others want to do. If you already have great family. Then why worry about it? My family is who i choose to be my family.
I am MUCH better of without those people.

You probably are too. Just because they are blood relatives doesnt mean you have to be family with them.
 
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