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Joined: 9/27/2007

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Guys Who Post Long Term and Don't Mean It?????? Posted: 9/28/2008 11:46:26 AM
Start dating other people. Guys like this either aren't connecting on the same level that you are or they don't know what they really want. Has this guy ever been married? Saying you want to commit and doing it are 2 different things. Actions speak louder than words. Good luck and keep fishing!!!! Southern

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Emotiona/Physicial closeness Posted: 8/27/2008 4:39:21 PM
Wow, I am impressed!!! You are one of the first guys I have seen on the forums that talks convincingly that women need to stop having sex first and work on building a friendship instead. I think you are so right in talking about building the friendship and getting to know your best friend first then go from there. Boy, I have to say I have make this mistake and I guess I ask myself, like Dr. Phil, how is this working for you? The answer is always the same. It doesn't, it really stinks!!! Thanks for your level head!!! You are a breath of fresh air among men!!!!! Lou Ann

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This site did nothing for me Posted: 8/27/2008 4:17:21 PM
I have met more nice and real guys on this site than any other site. I have dated some for a few months at a time and can say I am still having fun and still hoping to meet more nice people. I miss the emails so much when I turn my profile off that within a couple of weeks I am back. Keep fishing but have fun at it and ignore the ones that turn you off.

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He 'doesn't know what he wants' Posted: 8/24/2008 7:52:54 AM
I had a very similiar experience and I too cared about this man but in the end committment is a problem. They can't decide what they want because they can't commit. Everyone, men and women, have pass hurts but we all have to suck it up and try it again. People with commitment issues are people who are scarred, scared and afraid to take a chance. Life passes these people by and them rob themselves of the joy and pleasure of a great mate!!! Hang in there and move on it he can't commit.

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The more they like you the less they communicate. Posted: 8/22/2008 6:21:04 PM
Bravo to you!!! I wish more guys were like you. I have experienced this with a guy recently and the more we contacted the less we shared. I felt he was slighting me because the relationship was ready to go to the next step but he just couldn't take that step. His reaction caused me to drop out of the relationship.

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i dont understand women sometimes Posted: 5/26/2008 6:23:05 AM
I have had the same experience from the woman's point of view and for me the chemistry just wasn't there. We had really clicked on the phone and emails but when we met it just wasn't meant to be. Who knows, maybe she had a fantastic date with someone right before she met you and that person was on her mind that day. Hard to compete with uh.

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