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Joined: 9/27/2007

Msg: 122 (view)

Men that have been single for a long time are looking for mostly intimate encounters! Posted: 2/18/2009 4:26:08 PM
Hi there my experience as well, many are looking first for sex and then if they think we are good enough maybe then exclusivity. I have met a few that say they are looking for long term when what they really want is a list of women for booty calls. Lots figure that a couple drinks or a dinner buys them sexual favours and at that age I think they figure sleep with as many women as I can before I get too fat too old too bald impotent what ever. I also think that many are thinking that if we have kids at home that we are looking for someone with $ to pay the bills . I find that some guys are intimidated by strong women. one can not control a strong independent woman . I think that scares them . You are obviously attractive. I think that scares them too, good looking people have more options when it comes to getting dates , I figure take your time weed out the unworthy six date rule I figure If I am not worth spending 6 afternoons or evenings with before the guy expects a sexual encounter then he is not worth my time. and i do not expect the six dates to be expensive for him either I would rather go dutch than have a guy think I am there for a free meal or evening out . Of course there are the once in a while occasions where the brain chemicals take over and you just can't keep your hands off each other and things just progress fast good luck with your survey

Joined: 9/27/2007

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What do I owe this girl? Posted: 2/18/2009 4:07:27 PM
clarify fool around ? if it was all and out sex then ya call her and be honest. if you were just making out an email would suffice still better to be honest than just ignore her that is very rude. Good manners will always make you look like the better person. good luck out there happy dating

Joined: 9/27/2007

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Is seeking my soulmate in a profile a turnoff for you? Posted: 2/18/2009 3:59:41 PM
Just had to reply to this. I have recently ended a relationship with very loving sweet spiritual guy who was seeking a soulmate . He was convinced after less than a month I was the 1 he expected a life long commitment after a month of dating. He proffessedto love me more than anyone after knowing me a week. I say that is not enough time to know if you love them or just LUST for the person. turned out baddly as the guy was so needy and insecure that i had to end things Iget scared by the term soulmate people use it too freely many use those words to get laid . i wish people would be honest anssay what they really want . had a guy from pof tell me he was looking for along term one on one relationship truth is him and his girlfriend looking for a 3some of 4 some play date so why b.s. say what you really want! and yes it turns me off big time!

Joined: 9/27/2007

Msg: 507 (view)

I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana. Posted: 2/18/2009 3:44:54 PM
I think the guy should lighten up smoking pot does not make you a bad parent !!!! being a coke fiend crack head that is different and as for the comment about being addicted ???? duh when will people learn yo do not get addicted to pot the same way you get addicted to booze and chemicals . I'd like to know how many of the comments came from folks who have several****ails after work most days . do not worry about what others think yo do what is right for you !!! as one single mom to another if all we do is smoke a little weed should not even be illegal as far as I'm concerned peace out girl!

Joined: 9/27/2007

Msg: 257 (view)

To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/21/2008 9:50:15 PM
i hope that some of the women you trick into having sex with you trick you out of you clothes then lock out on the street I'd pay to see that lol Dawg

Joined: 9/27/2007

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Smoked Chocolate Posted: 6/17/2008 8:51:48 PM
hi there I have smoked cocoa powder before quite by accident the first time try this put a couple tablespoons on a heavy pan place over soaked wood chips ( fruit wood best )in smoker or bbq let smoke for 5 min or so 1 tbspn cocaopowder +1tbspn marg=1sqare unsweetened baking choc add 1tbspnicing sugar for semi sweet good luck with your recipe

Joined: 9/27/2007

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Verbal Abusers Posted: 6/17/2008 8:34:10 PM
don't talk to any one who does not have a pic posted check outhis favs list if he is not on any got to be a reason i was married to one of those as well i feel for you chin up maybe he'll meet some body and leave you alone mine did finally good luck

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