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sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

Womens n Toys vs Men and Mags Posted: 9/21/2008 4:23:19 PM
Moral relativism? Or maybe women as a gender talk about these things more, out loud, and to other people, so we hear about it more. That's my guess but what do I know?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 9/21/2008 4:17:05 PM
Masturbating....hee hee.....

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex? Posted: 9/19/2008 3:02:25 PM
Well I believe if your gal is not giving you oral, then she is not really that into you. So if only 17% of American women like giving oral, then only 17% of women are in relationships that they actually lust after the guy.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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I think I will be single forever Posted: 9/19/2008 1:16:25 PM
OP, I doubt that is your problem.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Desensitized -- VS -- Making the connection :-P Posted: 9/19/2008 12:53:44 PM
Thanks Pandamoose... (is exactly what I was trying to ask)... So you expect a Man to be articulate while you can not even articulate your own question?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Talk to or Talk at.. Posted: 9/18/2008 3:49:53 PM
If I talk AT a woman here, it is probably because she had nothing on her profile that inspired a genuine open ended question on my part. That could be because we really have nothing in common. Or that could be because she was too lazy to really flesh out her profile in an intriguing way. Either way, I guess it was not meant to be. Often I find myself really wanting to send a message to gal who strikes me. But I don't because she just did not put anything down that really intrigued me and I can't think of anything REAL to say to her so what's the point? And to think we could have potentially been hot passionate lovers and soul mates, but the formalities of communication got in the way.

Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Good looking women and sex Posted: 9/16/2008 2:50:16 PM
I know, it can't possibly be true. But the hottest girlfriend I ever had, and she was smokin' hot, was lame in bed. It's like she just didn't think she had to do anything except lie there and radiate her hotness. But that attitude is not exactly a turn on.

Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 60 (view)

Why would a man send that kind of pic????? Posted: 9/16/2008 12:26:13 PM
But what if we prefer RISK or Stratego? they are much better games to use sex as a weapon with .. Dominate the world through cleavage shots ... who wants to pass go and collect 200 when I can take over Greece and Turkey instead? What about Go Fish?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

Why would a man send that kind of pic????? Posted: 9/16/2008 8:25:17 AM
In my vision of the future, women are not offended by penises, or pictures of them, but rather love the idea of them and crave them and seek them out.....but we aren't there yet. Maybe it is because women as a gender have benefitted greatly by selling their sexuality. When women exhibit themselves they can be rewarded greatly for it. So any hint of a male exhibiting that must be shamed and discouraged as to leave the female gender with a monopoly on sex.

Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Why would a man send that kind of pic????? Posted: 9/15/2008 4:24:14 PM
Hmm....another thread with a woman asking why a guy would do something that did not win her over? Maybe he didn't really care to win you over. Maybe he just got off sending you a picture exhibiting himself. Mayeb he just wanted to shock you.

Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman? Posted: 9/8/2008 11:56:54 AM
As I recall, when I was younger being attracted to teachers and Moms who were obviously older, but it was more physical than anything. But at this age, I am usually only attracted to women younger than I am. Probably because my primary focus is now a long term relationship.

Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Muscular women... Turn-on or off? Posted: 9/8/2008 10:03:50 AM
I like my women dainty. A muscular woman would not intimidate or make me feel inadequate. Not even sure why the OP would think that she could do that to a man. Trying to prove something?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Makeover? Would you do it for a girl? Posted: 9/6/2008 10:35:15 AM
Why do we find it offensive to have someone we are interested in suggest changes in our appearance? Yet when we do it on our own, it is a source of self esteem? It applies to me as well as I was turned off by a gal who suggested I would look better with short spikey hair. Maybe I would, maybe I would not? But I can't find any logic in why that turned me off. If I got a new hairstyle on my own that looked new and good, then I would be pleased with it. What gives? Is it just ego?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Are you afraid of a woman smarter than you? Posted: 9/3/2008 8:43:08 AM
Smarter or more educated? Most people have a basic sense of intelligence, aka common sense. It's the level of education and knowledge of the world that is most significant difference between people. Anyways, no I am not afraid of a woman smarter than me. Since it would be rare anyways, I would consider it a treat. As for female engineers. I have had one experience with a female engineer. She was tall, blonde and good looking. She also told me she was complicated and difficult. And I found her to be boring and dry.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 115 (view)

How have you been pampered/spoiled by a woman? Posted: 9/3/2008 7:38:09 AM
She enjoys cooking dinner for me. She buys my favorite beer and/or favorite dessert. If she wants to do something like go to a show, she plans it out and buys the tickets instead of passively hinting that I should. She gave me back rubs at night and foot rubs in the morning. We go dutch on vacation. When we go out to eat, sometimes I pay, sometimes she does, sometimes we split it. It's never a big deal. When we go out with friends, and my drink was empty, she brought me another one. When we have sex, she asks "What do you want me to do?" When I was feeling sick at 3 am, she went to the pharmacy. That one was really sweet.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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do women like gay guys? Posted: 9/2/2008 3:15:29 PM
I am now less of a person because I am not gay? I am straight, so all of a sudden I am threatening? Hate to break it to you brother, but all us straight men are considered threats as we are guilty until proven innocent.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 261 (view)

Who likes coffee for a frist date?? Posted: 9/2/2008 10:01:54 AM
A coffee date is a boring date. Lame and unromantic. And it's gonna be short, because most people only drink one cup of coffee. Coffee makes your breath smell bad so that makes any kiss less pleasant. I guess I will do it if she insists. But she better be WOWing me. If so, then who cares where we meet and we can always bounce some where else. Having said that I find coffee shops to be a great place to meet women.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Why does he not like me? Posted: 9/2/2008 9:52:16 AM
Next day he said he'd come round but never did. I got a text from him saying he didn't want to hurt me but didn't know what he wanted. What did I do wrong? Well from your own story you acted like a basket case. It probably wore on his nerves. Maybe start suggesting things you want to do to put you in your comfort zone?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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do women like gay guys? Posted: 9/2/2008 9:48:38 AM
I can see why straight women would enjoy the company of a gay man. He is like them, but not in competition. But I have also observed some straight women who want to try and arouse or seduce a gay man. I wonder what their motivation is?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 212 (view)

is everyone over 30 taking antidepressants? Posted: 9/2/2008 9:43:40 AM
I don't take them. I get depressed sometimes, but it is because I am in a situation that I do not want to be in. I just change/correct/improve the situation. It's pretty simple really.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Found him! What a catch! Posted: 9/1/2008 9:50:19 PM
That's great. But let's hear the details. Who is he? Why is he a catch?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 221 (view)

Is there such a thing as a normal man?? Posted: 8/30/2008 11:47:38 AM
I am normal. I am just about enjoying life and not biting off more than I can chew.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Would you, or would you not DO IT? Posted: 8/28/2008 11:39:58 PM
It depends on who the friend is. I mean some friends no, other friends maybe.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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so many men just don't know how to do it! Posted: 8/28/2008 11:20:12 PM
I am sure a lot of men and women are bad in bed. I usually just have my way with her for my pleasure and she gets off on it.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 214 (view)

Being Choked while having sex Posted: 8/27/2008 11:39:17 PM
Yeah I had a chick who wanted me to choke her. It was kind of weird, but I didn't mind doing it for her.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 112 (view)

Do men really care about a womans religion? Posted: 8/27/2008 11:32:25 PM
It depends on how much I like her and how into this religion she is.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Why do men want sexual slaves? Posted: 8/27/2008 11:29:38 PM
I would never have to ask slave if they wanted to be slave or not.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Deceptive Dates...Want feedback.. Posted: 8/27/2008 3:08:05 PM
Ok. I will admit it. I am that guy that has a great time on a date and then moves on. I guess the issue is I want to at least go out with the person and see. And I'm the type that will at least try to have a good time since we are both out together. To me that seems like the polite thing to do. But the only reason I do that is because none of the women I actually want to date on POF will return my messages. It's maddening.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Gold-digger Posted: 8/26/2008 2:47:17 PM
I think the 1st def is more accurate. Also I think it more specifically applies to women of modest means who seek out wealthy men in hopes of living a life of luxury and indulgent consumption.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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He doesn't love me anymore?! Posted: 8/26/2008 1:36:17 PM
Does he ever call you when he is sober?

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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why does success not work the same for both genders? Posted: 8/26/2008 12:11:22 PM
Successful women through the ages have been called "****es" because they worked their way to the top, No, it's more like women who are called b!tches usually are just b!tches. I have known plenty of "successful" women who were really not nice people at all. They earned and deserved their b!tch title. Maybe it comes with the territory. I have know plenty of "successful" men who were big b!tches themselves.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 164 (view)

How often per week is a normal sex life? Posted: 8/26/2008 11:00:32 AM
In the beginning, it should be every night, maybe twice. And 3 times on a weekend day. And then after a while, once every couple of days. At least 4 times a week. I am a scorpio. I will bed my woman on a regular basis.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Marriage based on convenience Posted: 8/25/2008 4:36:19 PM
I have a friend who is a married to a woman. And I don't think they are in love. I get no sense of it at all. She nags and yells at him all the time. Demands that he buy her stuff. And from what he tells me, only allows missionary sex with a condom on. No Bjs, no doggy style. I am not sure why she put so much pressure on him to marry her, other than I think she just wanted to be married due to social and family pressure. And I don't think he was really in love with her. He just thought she was the best he could do, because she is good looking and a lawyer. Like finding a partner was about moving up in life. If you could call it that.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 209 (view)

Why is a great person like you single? Posted: 8/25/2008 12:44:52 PM
I am surprised people take offense to such a question. I have had it asked of me and I only took it as a great compliment.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 212 (view)

The paradox of female liberation Posted: 8/25/2008 9:35:59 AM
But I can't help but think that female candidates are taken a little less seriously in some instances. Look at the Democratic race between Senator Clinton and Senator Obama. Don't you think it's funny how she is largely referred to as "Hilary" while he is referred to as "Senator Obama" or "Obama"? I'm just saying - why can't they be given the same amount of respect? It is/was Hillary Clinton's own campaign team that packaged her as "Hillary". Just go to http://www.hillaryclinton.com/ and look at the neat little campaign logo.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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The paradox of female liberation Posted: 8/22/2008 6:38:58 PM
Not sure who you mean by "society". I think that women seem to expect it of themselves. I agree. Also I would like to say that while women now have the option to pursue careers instead of just being a wife and mother, nothing ever changed for Men. We still have the same old single role and expectation that our Fathers and Grandfathers did.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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How you deal with catty women? Posted: 8/21/2008 3:01:10 PM
I have observed the cattiness many times, and I empathize with those nice, good hearted women who have to deal with it. I don't deal with catty women because I don't have to. I don't get wrapped up in their drama because I just don't care. And if some chick acts like a ****, then I pretty much ignore her.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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Weed Addiction Posted: 8/20/2008 4:19:44 PM
She has to reach rock bottom before she asks for help and means it. Can one even reach rock bottom on pot? I mean in a way that is recognizable as rock bottom.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 78 (view)

why do men always want sex so early in a relationship? Posted: 8/20/2008 1:43:50 PM
It is in a Man's nature to try. A lot of women will start thinking he does not find her attractive, if he doesn't try. I have dated girls when I was just casually dating. And while we had fun on the dates, made out and I tried to seduce them, they made it clear they wanted to wait and be in a committed relationship first before sex. I respected that. And it made me decide if I really wanted to pursue her for her. I have also had two gfs who I had Hot sex with in hours of meeting them. And we ended up being in a good relationship for awhile. Sex has a way of bonding people.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 94 (view)

When you see a woman you like, what do you do? Posted: 8/20/2008 1:25:35 PM
When you see a woman you like, what do you do? What that really means is when I see a woman I find so physically attractive to me that I want to approach her. I don't know if I "like" her yet. There are lots of good looking women around, but I don't see too many that make me think "Wow, I really want to get to know her". But when lightening strikes, usually instinct takes over and I feel compelled to interact with her like a new born sea turtle feels compelled to walk into the ocean. Unfortunately, I have never had success when approaching a woman who struck me like that. Not that it was a bad experience, but they usually are already in a relationship, or they are not really my type or just not reciprocating in a way that compels me further.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

Why doesn't he GET IT? Posted: 8/20/2008 12:27:35 PM
I need some girl adivce from girls... LOL...so you want to screw this up then? Just give him one hell of a blow job and he will come back for more.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 314 (view)

Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts? Posted: 8/19/2008 11:56:19 PM
I sometimes find it amusing to stare in the direction opposite of cleavage. Two can play at this game.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

E-Harmony Posted: 8/19/2008 11:52:15 PM
The creepy old man and the overly plain looking couples in the E Harmony commercials turned me off from it.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

loves walks on the beach Posted: 8/19/2008 11:48:57 PM
^^I believe Canada actually has more coastline than any other nation in the world. I like walking on the beach. I mostly have done it alone. Sunset is the best time.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

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would guys date a female cop? Posted: 8/19/2008 11:27:24 PM
I have no reason not to date a female cop. I have seen some cute ones.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 132 (view)

I'm glad I'm not a man! Posted: 8/19/2008 11:23:32 PM
I enjoy being a Man. There's a harmless way to flirt with someone and gauge interest and not put either person on the spot. It's not approaching, it is more liking having polite conversation with somebody. I'm not even the smoothest guy, but it's all good. And sometimes I just trade eye contact and a smile, because there is really nothing to say.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

A lot of women don't like sex? Posted: 8/19/2008 4:01:49 PM
Just because a woman enjoys sex as much as a man doesn't mean we want to hop in the sack with just anyone. Contrary to popular myth, most men don't either.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

A lot of women don't like sex? Posted: 8/19/2008 3:13:16 PM
Women like sex. But for some reason, too many women like to send out this message to the world, that they are above it all. And they are above men, men who are foolish, or bad, because they are consumed with sex. It's like some women just can't admit they like Sex, unless it is in the "right" context. There always has to be some qualifier. Like they will give away their power or compromise themselves if they just say it. So from a guys point of view, it can very well appear that women don't like sex. It's another mixed message.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Is this weird-Am I too caught up in looks? Posted: 8/18/2008 5:01:58 PM
I find it amusing that so many women are critcizing the OP. Seriously no offense intended, but my first thought was he sounds just like a woman. I don't mean that as an general criticism of women, but honestly I have only heard women express such a sentiment about not wanting to be with someone who does not find them physically attractive. It does not seem like something a man would think. It's all good, I am just saying. And I would never worry if my girl finds me physically attractive.

sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

Guy freaks out during sex Posted: 8/18/2008 12:26:17 PM
He was still freaking out, saying he was too small, our bodies did not fit, he was too fat and that his penis had been bigger when he weighed less. If he is overweight, then he probably has what is called a "hidden penis". The penis is still the same length and connected to the inner body, but the fat bulges out and hides the length of the penis making it appear shorter. He is probably insecure about it. And the reason he was so eager for sex, was he probably was just really horny because he probably hasn't had any sex in a long time.

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