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Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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New age restrictions on searchs, yay or nay? Posted: 5/19/2013 11:33:39 AM
The biggest reason women leave is "creepy old men" and men who are just here for hookups. I doubt very much that both groups are one and the same. Which is bigger in numbers, us "creepy old men" or the boys/men looking for a quick phuck????? I'm betting the ones looking for that quick phuck, cause, well,males are males, no matter the age. Us old farts have to take a night off every once in awhile.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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motivated towards pleasure or away from pain? Posted: 5/19/2013 11:17:21 AM
As per most of Mr.Robbins words, it confusing by the babbling Bullshiat. I don't know a lot of people will enjoy "pain and discomfort" but, I do know people that will "face" this "pain and discomfort" to lower it's affect on their lives,not just run from it. I would also suggest most people are "motivated" by attainable "pleasure",as long as this "pleasure" meets within their lifestyle. Holy phuck, just trying to reply to that guy's(not the OP's) thoughts can give a guy a phucking headache,without the whiskey intake.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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About to Lose my Best Friend.... Posted: 5/19/2013 11:09:06 AM
Well, personally, I would pick better "friends" if this "life long" one is your bestie. Though, at 22 years old, you may not know that some people will come into AND out of your life no matter "what" you do but, it will and does happen. Looking at it all, it sounds pretty highschoolish to me. Sounds like no matter how "innocent" things seem, it has affected one of the parties involved. Now, it seems it's up to the other two parties to smooth things over. Good luck on that one.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Controlling ex or 3 problems in 1 Posted: 5/19/2013 5:43:29 AM
Take a look at the young lady's pics this morning. Holy moly macaroni. Looks like she was trying to attract someone for something last night. OP, you truely need to speak to someone professionaly, and hopefully listen to them. I would also suggest you show them your profile(and it's pics) and ask THEM why you are trying to attract what you are. Or, even better, give you parents a look see. I'm sure they will have a word or two of advice for ya. And yeah, I'm no prude but, honestly, young lady. Ya gotta know what you are asking for putting that type of photo up. Gotta.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Why do Men of a Certain Age HATE Facebook? Posted: 5/18/2013 2:47:51 PM
FB,,,,just another tool that a person,group,company, business can use, or not. Some business' have found a great value in it. Others???? Haven't figure out how to "use" it just yet, or it's just too much effort to try. If I was an owner of a business the "numbers" of users alone would make me at least consider the options. Ditto on the Twitter thingy. I use mine basically to keep in touch with actual friends and family that I have across North America. I also use it gaining valuable information for a couple of my passions, gardening and fly fishing. I have saved myself a lot of time and money using the information that I can gain just by doing a little clicking. Some people will use, some won't. Most have a good reason or two, at least in their heads, for not wanting to do either.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Controlling ex or 3 problems in 1 Posted: 5/18/2013 2:14:39 PM
I want advice on what to do with my ex, how to deal with the problem of needing sex and him not wanting to meet with me now and I wont just sleep with anyone so a hookup is out of the question Ummmm, buy a sex toy and name it Bob.(don't forget,LOTS of batteries!!!!!) Simple. Now, just to let ya know, you don't "need" sex, you "want" it. Two different animals. Stay away from the men and boys right now, and go talk to a relationship professional before even THINKING of ever doing so again. You're setting yourself up to be one those batshiat crazy psycho biatches that ya read about.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Is 5'8 too short for a male? Do you use the height search filter? Posted: 5/17/2013 5:30:19 PM
Well it is kinda short the NBA but, ya still got a shot if you are willing to put in the effort. Good luck!!!!

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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New Feature : Give date feedback on inbox Posted: 5/17/2013 5:25:24 PM
It provides some serious motivation for the men and women on POF to behave properly, treat others with respect, and practice good dating etiquette... or you're reputation will be ruined if you don't. You're just short one message from a psycho biatch to find out how much you DON'T know or understand humans in general. This little feature is gonna get nasty. Real nasty.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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When Is It Time To Say Enough is Enough? Posted: 5/17/2013 4:40:52 AM
When Is It Time To Say Enough is Enough? I usually call it a night when I just can't get up off the ground after a good 10 minutes of trying. That, or when I see the bottem of my empty bottle. I just hate when that happens.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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how common is it Posted: 5/17/2013 4:37:29 AM
It's very cool for the girls to play together. It seems it isn't very cool for the boys to do the same??????? Funny place, this world.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Most of those who claim to want a relationship play the most games ugh! Posted: 5/17/2013 4:35:18 AM
I wonder why the ladies never understand how the "game" actually ever begins,,,,,,,every time. One day,maybe, you'll be attracted to those that don't say what ya wanna hear?????

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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FWB and new BF Posted: 5/16/2013 4:51:16 PM
I'm so glad I posted because I'm getting advice from people who are clearly moral, upstanding members of society, and well adjusted with wonderful permanent relationships built out of complete honesty and respect, without any conflict. :P Funny thing about asking questions on a public forum is that the general public will reply. Up to the person asking the question and reading the answers if they can actually see what some are trying to say. If you already have an answer to your question, why even ask????? Ya know what I mean????? I think the concern with your little scenario OP is the "flip flopping" back and forth with your "friendly FWB whenever it suits your personal situation that happen to be in. A relationship doesn't work out???? Well, at least I got my FWB to satisfy my personal urges. Me????? I just fall back into another bottle. Hurts no one except my head.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Learn to Take a Hint...I Don't Want to Be Cruel Posted: 5/15/2013 5:06:03 PM
Seriously, dude...stop acting life a fag...and please get a life. Even the "kids" nowadays know that the words used by the OP are,well, not very intelligent or appealing. To the male or female gender. I again, agree with Tall.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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What's wrong with my profile? Or is it just the way I look? Posted: 5/15/2013 4:55:27 PM
He/she/it is gone.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Is he interested or not?? Posted: 5/15/2013 4:53:20 PM
Some women/men find what you have just explained reason enough not to date women/men with children. My first suggestion would be to sit down with him(next time that he and you are on the same schedule) and express your concerns. Oh make sure you make him sure you understand and "admire" that his children are important to him, you just want to be "part" of the schedule,if possible. As you know, it's not "easy" being a single(part time) parent. Throwing a potential relationship into the mix, just makes it a little more "not" easy.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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What are some of the things that women do that drive men crazy? Posted: 5/15/2013 4:08:30 PM
Bringing the man back and forth to an explosion that would make the fourth of July fireworks look like a little matchbox fire. Only had one women that had the skill to do it though, so I wouldn't consider it an act of the majority. It's kinda too bad really.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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FWB and new BF Posted: 5/15/2013 4:04:36 PM
Did ya "tell" your "boyfriend" about the "trying of a relationship" with this FWB???? Correct me if I'm wrong, Walts, but wouldn't the OP and her FWB "trying a relationship" now make them ex-lovers as well? Actually, if I have followed correctly, an ex-friend, kinda turned into a boyfriend, who is now a "really good friend" with an addition of being a on again, off again FWB all according to the placement of the moon in the nightime sky. Of course, I may not have followed correctly, so ya have to excuse my ignorance on this one. Blame the freaking whiskey.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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FWB and new BF Posted: 5/15/2013 4:55:30 AM
I only have one FWB friend and I have to admit that we weren't entirely "friends" only. We tried a relationship but it was too weird, so we reverted to friends and we're very happy that way. I'm his best wing woman :) My new BF (we've been together for a couple of months) knows that all my friends are guys - in most of my activities, Did ya "tell" your "boyfriend" about the "trying of a relationship" with this FWB???? Along with instead of a "relationship", the two of you just decided to phuck????? And then, this "most of my friends are guys" thingy. Potentially, that sure is alot of FWBs!!!!! Maybe your "boyfriend" is just setting himself to be added to that group. I don't see things going well here. Good luck though OP.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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It's Baseball Season... Posted: 5/14/2013 4:16:04 PM
As long as he's not wearing crocs with the hat he should be fine. Or is that the hat with the crocs????? I know I've got tons of crocs, one colour for every hat I own. Shiat!!! I'm confused. I should have said I have a fly rod for every pair of crocs. My bad.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Learn to Take a Hint...I Don't Want to Be Cruel Posted: 5/14/2013 4:09:49 PM
At least I now can see why some women believe men are phucking nuts. It wouldn't be bad if your "tactics" actually got to a goal but all you are doing is mixing yourself and your brain up. I think whiskey is in order here. Lots of it in fact but, I suggest keeping away from the good stuff. Seems like it could be a waste. Good luck though.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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FWB and new BF Posted: 5/14/2013 3:55:42 PM
At least you now know why your new "boyfriend" hasn't told you he "loves you". And no, I'm not kidding. He probably has picked up more than one or two vibes from you during the early times of the two of you getting to "know" each other. Today, he knows even more about you with you telling him about your really "good friend" and FWB. He'll be walking, sooner or later. Or, he may just decide to become #2 FWB?????? Either,or, you ain't getting no "I love you" from him for at least a couple more months or so. And yeah, I checked your age,,,,,,again.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Something that started so casually.... Posted: 5/14/2013 4:50:03 AM
I've taken the OP's advice and decided to "go with the flow" with a younger friend of mine. She makes me feel great whenever I'm with her. She also enjoys the things that I do for her, though the odd time I do get "what are doing back there?????" from her. After a couple of minutes she usually answers her own question with "ohhhhhhhh, that's what you are doing!!!!!!" I agree there is nothing better, though it came as no surprise to me. The best thing about it????? The young lady is gonna make her future hubby a very happy man, though, there are times I don't really see the need for the note pad and camera. To each their own I guess, though I don't know how she will explain the body fluid stains. One day we are hoping to go out for dinner but, for now, we'll just keep enjoying ourselves.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Trauma & dating Posted: 5/14/2013 4:24:06 AM
Don't forget OP, you actually HAD a date last Saturday. Many, and I do mean many here did not. But, you decided to come here and tell us how bad you feel cause after the date, nothing more was added. You had a date. It went well, and you had fun. Dating does not always end with marriage, or a long term relationship. Dating is suppose to be a social interaction with another, and "fun" is one of the goals within it. So, in fact, Saturday should be looked at with nothing but good thoughts.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Too strong? Posted: 5/14/2013 4:10:10 AM
It's true most good men will enjoy an honest approach to,,,,,anything, do remember that you are dealing with boys at your age. Be honest, to yourself, and others and the world should turn as it should. But,again, some of the boys will have no problem abusing your honesty, and toss it to the side for the one thing they are looking for. A little kitty cat. Yes, that's what boys do.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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WTH, I mean, really??? Posted: 5/13/2013 4:53:59 AM
Not to mention,they are uncanny at telling people what they want to hear and using it against us to get thier need for power met. As in too good to be true???? Well, I've always thought if it was too good to be true, than it probably it is. I tend to raise my eyebrow at these kinds of things, but, then again, I question almost everything and everyone. I'm not "blaming" anyone. I'm suggesting for everyone to actually be keenly aware of what actually IS going on, not what they think is going on. Of course, that requires the emotional variable to put aside for a minute or two. Love with the heart, think with the brain.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Proper/improper attire? Posted: 5/13/2013 4:40:31 AM
To me, they say, gardening grandma Well, it could be grandpa but, the kid hasn't started breeding yet, though the gardening part is bang on. Of course that includes getting your hands dirty, of which I am sure most do not enjoy, cause we all know dirty hands look bad. Crocs are also very usefull around campfires after a day walking rivers in stinky waders, but, again,there still is the smell. I don't do 4-5 inch heels but, if you girls say they are comfortable, they must be. Somehow the physics just doesn't work for me. ;)

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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WTH, I mean, really??? Posted: 5/12/2013 3:40:39 PM
I don't think it has anything to do with these "types" being attracted to you but, more of the fact, that you can't see the trees because of the forest. When these "types" enter our lives they do leave hints,sometimes subtle but, usually right there for you to act on. It's not always what we look it, it's what we see.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Need some help organizing my thought and would like some opinions Posted: 5/12/2013 3:28:30 PM
I think in the past 8 months I have grown a considerable amount. This may be showing some insecurity but ill say it anyway. What if I were a bigger 'man' while I was with her? Maybe I am less of a man now? BEfore this break up I had a very difficult time expressing my emotions, now I think im complete opposite. Does that make me less manly? It's not about being more or less of a "man" but, being your own "person". You(and her) are less of an "individual" than you think you are because you have been "partners" since you were 16. You will not understand this for a few years but, it will happen, unless you dive back into another relationship too early. The two of you "missed" soooooooo much being "together" at such an early age. I'm surprised your/her parents didn't express this to the both of you???? A man will never know how strong he is, until he has to be. Use this time in your life wisely.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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BC Election 2013 Reality Checks Posted: 5/12/2013 2:36:08 PM
Well, a couple more days and hopefully the shiat flying at us thru the media from our potential "leaders" and their parties will ease up. I decided to watch the so-called "debate" and the only thing I got outta of it was confirmation on my thoughts on how phucked up our politicians(and politics in general) are. It was the most disgusting display of "acting" I have ever witnessed.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Proper/improper attire? Posted: 5/12/2013 2:18:33 PM
i too hate the crocks blahhhh!! They are called crocs. And have you ever tried a pair on????? They weren't made for "looks",by the way. Not like high number of pairs of "shoes" found in the "average" North American middle age woman's closet. What some of women do in the name of "fashion" is phucking hilarious.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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What am I doing wrong? Posted: 5/12/2013 7:28:54 AM
What is the hurry OP????? You question alone makes me think that you believe you SHOULD be in a relationship already????? How have you come to this line of thinking???? Is it because of the people you see around you???? Or what???? My constant advice to the young ones, is to concentrate on becoming the person you want to be, and then, and only then, will those that find THAT person attractive will COME to you. And yes, there is potential that it may never happen but,honestly there are worse things that can happen. Oh, get off this site. It ain't the place to be for someone your age. I'm being serious here.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Is he inlove with me? Posted: 5/12/2013 7:22:43 AM
And the saga continues...sigh Kinda what I was thinking, though, I'm a little foggy this morning,so my thinking could have been off. The OP's constant "scenarios" give me great satisfaction knowing that my placement of "dating" of my list of things to do is exactley where it should be. Holy moly macaroni. OP, you can't "make" anyone say (or feel) what they don't want to. Orrrrrr, he could just say it, so that you can sleep at night???? Honestly, I have to keep checking your age when you post your questions. You are one very confusing young lady.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Need some help organizing my thought and would like some opinions Posted: 5/12/2013 7:16:23 AM
Since you never got the chance the last 8-9 years, why not trying to actually live your life without that "other" around????? Yes, it will take some getting use to but, usually, people figure out who they "are" when they are growing up. You didn't. You did the complete opposite, so, I'm betting you don't even know the man that you are, or could be.

Walts

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Mail Order Brides has anyone tried Posted: 5/12/2013 6:22:24 AM
personally I see it as renting a wife - sending a monthly check home to held support her family for the pleasure of her company. I have also talked to a couple of guys IRL who seem to figure it's a good idea as well not an inexpensive idea but a good one. Pretty much exactly, after the six years they learn to get jobs as strippers at the local strip club and leave their adoptive husbands. Happens all the time... Guys, gotta ask, what's the difference between a mail order bride walking away leaving the guy , and a local girl walking away leaving the guy?????? Think about the amount of $$$$$$ it takes to get that "local" girl to walk down the aisle with you as compared to mail order one.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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19 and never had a boyfriend...is this normal? Posted: 5/12/2013 6:16:37 AM
And yes, school is my priority now. Good girl. Keep it up and do your thing. There is no need to worry about the "boys" right now, cause, well, they are boys. Nothing wrong with a date here and there but, there is no need for a boy to be hanging around, sidetracking you from the important "stuff" that you are dealing with right now. Good luck!!!!

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Proper/improper attire? Posted: 5/11/2013 7:27:06 AM
Maybe ya should have told your date beforehand you want him all dolled up in Abercrombie and Fitch attire???? I know I'm gonna start doing that. At least I know she will be "healthy". :O

Walts

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ideas for speed dating icebreakers Posted: 5/10/2013 4:25:17 PM
Keep it simple and just ask them if they have seen Walter around. :O

Walts

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Is 'Respect' an Overused Word..? Posted: 5/10/2013 4:21:52 PM
I've never met a person that deserved respect or that I personally respected biatching or whining about not receiving it.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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why not read forums? Posted: 5/10/2013 4:18:48 PM
I love the forums, and especially when those without pictures take personal shots at you about your pictures when they don't like what you say. Ooooooooooo I'm a skinny guy with a receding hairline, my feelings are hurt, as if I dont look in the mirror every morning Throw enough shiat around and you'll get some on your face. Didn't your Daddy explain that to ya????? If not, he should have.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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moving in after 3 days...can it really succeed? Posted: 5/10/2013 4:15:22 PM
What's that generic saying some people like to throw around???? Oh yeah, "live for today"!!!!!! Isn't that what your "friend" is doing???? "Common sense" says this shouldn't work. Of course, "common sense" also said Bush wouldn't get re-elected but, we all know what happened next. Not much ya can do OP, other than express your "concerns" . After that, supposedly, "friends" are suppose to sit back, watch the train wreck, and then offer a shoulder to cry on. Yeah, that's ticket!!!!!!

Walts

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How do you convince a guy he's handsome? Posted: 5/8/2013 7:59:40 PM
Like others have stated, it's pretty hard to pull someone up when they are dragging themselves down. It's a losing battle, one that you should be in. It's his "problem" and if he can't figure out how lucky he is to have a person like you hanging around, then he's being a dumb a s s. And really, you can't fix that,at all.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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When you have broken nearly every rule in the book. Posted: 5/8/2013 7:54:30 PM
Wow. I am new to this forum and I did not expect these kinds of responses when I am trying to make changes for MYSELF as in a relationship of 2, mine are the only behavior I can improve. If you actually want to make "changes" get rid of the anchor. Not saying he is dragging you "down" but, he will slow the potential "changes" that you will require to become that better person(not couple) that you would like to be. You can't have someone in the background if you are actually serious about your "reflecting". You live in some of the most beautiful area around. Get out of town(you know you don't have to go far),by yourself, and rediscover. Oh, this guy. He'll have a tough go of not getting some after already have it before. Just sayin,no matter what he is or will tell ya. Us guys are like that.

Walts

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Proper/improper attire? Posted: 5/7/2013 4:38:13 PM
Walts...do you still have your polyester shirts from the disco era? That era was just about the time I started NOT "following" the fashion trends. Bars, by the way, are for drinking, not dancing. ;)

Walts

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Does it matter to you Posted: 5/7/2013 4:33:14 PM
Doesn't bother me at all. Of course, I have had "experince" living in what people would call a slum(my father was NOT a bum!!!) to living in a silly phucking mansion for a month. Despite what some people believe, we are all of the same species despite our abode. In Vancouver they're fortunate to have any roof over their head :-) This is so true it's scarey.A lot of people in North America couldn't even afford the "rent" for some of the simpliest places here. It's bumbackwards.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Deletion of posts Posted: 5/7/2013 4:24:42 PM
Whining and biatching is the biggest culprit I'm assuming. This topic is on the edge of whining itself. The mods are volunteers, and I'm telling ya,you couldn't pay me to do it(I'd get my bum booted off to the moon dealing with some of the posters here) so I would suggest watch the finger pointing. It's not the "subject" but, how WE(that's us, the posters) handle ourselves here. I actually have to check ages here we some of the comments made. One young man here sure shows his mental age, and he is already too young to be making the comments that he does, though I know his time will come, or it already has in the real world, thus his actions. There is a reason that the forum link is now not on the main page. The children here have made it happen.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Proper/improper attire? Posted: 5/7/2013 4:14:33 PM
You know actually I don't think those shoe things he had on his feet would be appropriate for ANY venue, not even a greasy spoon, actually in a greasy spoon they may have gotten him thoroughly beaten up Well, there you are. You already have your answer. No need to hear from us about what we forumites think about "fashion". Did ya hear nowadays it's cool to be a "hipster". Phuck, I'm pretty sure I already went thru that stage about thirty years, yet, here we are, it's back. Thank goodness I don't throw clothes away.

Walts

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Had my first POF date last week. What happens now? Posted: 5/7/2013 4:08:07 PM
Forget "proper" and do what YOU want to do!!!! If you want to see him again, try, well, something. If you don't want to see him again, do, nothing. Easy peasy. Asking these "types" of questions is not really going to get you the "right" answer. People are different. Everyone of us. And for those that say the guy "would" have contacted her if he wanted to see her again, remember, no kiss, so he could easily be confused on the OP's actual "feelings". A "hug" tells me phuck all about anything. I "hug" some of my best male friends.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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Is 'Respect' an Overused Word..? Posted: 5/7/2013 4:03:05 PM
I don't think it's overused but, instead, misused. I believe in treating others the way I expect to be treated. And if I'm being a moron, I don't mind being treated like one. But, with that, be ready to be treated as you treat not only me but, others, especially if I see it firsthand. People have told me I can be one vindictive phuck if I wanna be. Who woulda known?????

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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why not read forums? Posted: 5/6/2013 5:09:47 PM
2. As with all free, anonymous, internet forums which hold no repercussions for anything you say, most of the content is nonsensical trash From a forumite that has more than 50 posts to his name in less than 2 months????? Things that make ya go hmmmmmm. I wish we still had our posting history on our profiles. That WAS a bonus, and even a time saver sometimes.

Walts

Joined: 5/7/2005

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My Boyfriend's Dog Posted: 5/6/2013 5:04:05 PM
Being a "dog lover" yourself, you should have figured out this problem the first time you stepped through the door and "met" your BF's dog. Obviously, you don't know dogs as much as you think you do. This is not rocket science.

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