A person's past should have no bearing on ones future. In short, what happens on day one and forward should be something totally new.

Fact of Dating Life: Actions speak much louder than words so pay less attention to what he (or she) says and close attention to what he (or she) does. If a man (or woman) is interested in you, they will call on a regular basis and will take/make the time to see you. If this isn't happening, then it isn't going to.

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Begs the question: how do you not have expectations? Just read a profile… the person wants this, doesn’t want that, must be this old, this young, this tall, this physique, this far away, etc. Yeah… no expectations?

Ok, so I was informed not everyone likes our idea of going to Sherlock's for parties (according to someone I talked to its become ' gay bar'.... However you want to interpret that...).

We talked constantly from the time we got up till the time we went to bed.

We can only draw on our own experiences for comparison.

it starts at 9PM. I'm planning to get there at 8. Are you coming?

You blew it!!
He was propbably going to surprise you with an airplane or helicopter ride!

Because when a man meets a woman and they only become friends.

Then they only stay friends

If this handsome and attractive man is persistent, (he has to be VERY persistent) then I might see about meeting him.

One shouldn't worry about the past. One should only be concerned about the future.

I'm kinda bored about same white players.

I really don't have an issue with my weight, but that's just rude. Right up there with asking my cup size!

if the lord wanted us to date interracally he would have mad one race.

In my experience of starting a new relationship with a new man though, it is the man who wants it to be monogamous from the start. I'm usually thinking in terms of getting to know him and seeing how it goes before making any sort of commitment and he is thinking of being a one-woman man and that I should be doing likewise.

Honestly, the only thing new here is that we are more open and more people have that opportunity because fewer of us are doing back breaking labor that leaves us no energy or time to pursue outside relationships.

i'm a firm believer in polygamy. i don't believe that monogamy is natural for men and i think that forcing it on them is cruel and unusual punishment. monogamy is not a choice that i feel most men make.

Alot of single mothers out there. Just look around. They're all over the place. Women just want to get the genes of really good looking tall guys. They dont need the guys to hang around as fathers. As long as their kids are goodlooking, tall, strong and sexy - super model sexy. Whether or not the guy has a relationship with her or is devoted - she doesn't care. Its all the commodity of the quality of his sperm.

Obviously I am in the minority here. Yes, it would matter to me if a potential BF was promiscuous and had such casual regard for sexual relationships--even if I were to ignore all the inherent risks. So yes, I think I have a right to know--maybe not actual numbers but if he engaged in that type of behavior then obviously we do not value sexual relationships the same and THAT is very important to me.

And second - regarding your above statement, just because a woman could perhaps get sex in a bar easier than a man.....what sort of woman would??

Would OP have been as upset if she'd still said 7, but the answer was two? Would the "lying" have been the issue then?