Has a woman ever walked up to you in the middle of a store, or in the park, or at the coffee shop.....and struck up a conversation with you? If so, what was her opening line?

That's it. Some men seem to have this skewed vision of themselves because THEY MADE IT SO.

Some women rely on others to give her a vision of herself, thereby never forming one for
herself.... and always going by what others think or feel about her.

Stupid girls. I'm with Stuart Smalley on this one.... "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and gosh darnit, people like me!"

Hey, wait a minute....

i think women dont want to advertise that they want sex as much as men for the labeling of such names will come into play like whore or something of that nature.

No there isn't someone for everyone, this isn't a fairytale baby. Relationships are about who has the power. It's all political. If you want to control some dude, then get your life game up, get in shape, and get the money. If not, prepared to get trampled because the competition is fierce.

Probably tied into that romance novel type of thinking, that the woman finally surrenders herself to him after he has fought long and hard to win her. And thousands of years of patriarchal society that suggested that part of the marriage contract was the sex, that woman were good for little else but sexual receptacles and bearing children. Until relatively recently, children and women really held little value in society. Childhood was not special either, they were seen as a liability, unproductive mouths to feed.

"my question is why is it when females meet men they get so blinded, and so stupid that when you tell them the truth , they rather bite ur head off than to deal with it...."

maternal instinct and relationship preservation (aka denial). Been there, done that. Idiot me. If it had been me the email would have had a reply to him and CC to her which bluntly told him his email was unwanted and out of line and she was your friend and that put him so far off limits to you that he could never ever in this lifetime get near you.

She might still have dumped you. Preservation, ya know. Dang how sicko relationships can ruin perfectly good friendships in their wake

This is obviously the delusions of a paranoid...
but don't worry, if you see your doctor, he will have just the right drug for that.

Do you remember in high school when the attractive girls hung out with the biggest idiots they could find? It's nature! Sometimes, they are just attracted to these types of men. Daddy didn't get the discipline done, so they look for the daddy trait somewhere else.....Forget eet!

many men have changed their attitudes and tried to improve


The point is.......why did it take sooooooo darn long for men to finally start listening and why did it take a "women's movement" to finally bring about changes........that would be conducive to women getting some respect and appreciation for their contributions to the community and their countries.

Just a little exerpt from the internet.........


On a January day in 1914, a prairie housewife walked through the doors of the Manitoba Legislature in Winnipeg to convince the government that women should be allowed to vote. Her name was Nellie McClung. By early 1916, with the help of McClung, the women of Manitoba would become the first in Canada to win the right to vote.


From 1914 until now 2008.......94 years of an uphill battle.
Way back in 1914 when women complained that their sons or daughters were being sexually abused..............they were told to "hush up" and the pedophile got a "get out of jail free card" and was simply told to get out of town. When women were being raped......they were told to "hush up" and that they usually deserved what they got. When widows needed jobs to support themselves through their old age..........they were told find another husband as soon as possible.

Anyway 2 wrongs don't make a right and we will all have to deal with the
"Beefs and Bouquets" that the women's movement brought.

I actually believe that men suffer more an deeper than women when it comes to love, Ithink men love more genuinley and unconditionally,

I zone in on "he hit me" and say "he doesn't love you. Full stop, end of story. You don't hit people you love. Drop him and move on." And she goes "yea but (insert another half a page)" and I go "No. HE HIT YOU. END OF STORY."

Very, very, very few heterosexual men really want to just be friends with any woman that they find attractive. We're not wired that way. If a man finds a woman attractive he wants to and will have sex with her if the negative consequences aren't too high. Bottom line: you should probably assume that all men you meet, whether friends or not, want to have sex with you.

Ladies, let's give it up for our first male response....hoo, hoo, hoo


It was a joke...it's Ask A Guy...no guys were responding...chill out, dude...



Could be stereotyping like this that have landed some of the people on this site wondering why oh why their relationships are not working out.


Dude, you seriously need to grab yourself a full meal deal, with an extra order of humor on the side...



Honestly you can stop the pretending, there are just as many women who focus on sex just as much as men do. You are not fooling anyone with the women innocence speeches...


Who's pretending??? She played him like a friend, he wanted more, she wasn't giving anything, he left.....nothing too complicated there...

We see so much heartache and we see so much pain and no doubt, i would say that 99.9% of people in this place have had there heart ripped out and shoved under the grill for 10 minutes.

Not also fogetting the fact that we have this high divorce rate going on.... kinda tells me that people are just not 'happy' with there lives and want to see if the grass is truly greener on the other side??

So why do we put ourselves through the pain of relationships?

What is the point?