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amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

Msg: 77 (view)

ultimate revenge Posted: 1/27/2009 11:50:18 PM
i agree w my darling bestfriend camba :> what better way to get at a guy then haveing him see you with someone else?:>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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What happens when you meet a phsyco Posted: 10/2/2008 10:39:56 PM
thats horrible n sorry such a nasty thing happened to you and i hope they delete the wieredo..and alot of us get suckered in by some guys charm n dont see anything else till it's to late..but thank god you thought of doing things the way you did n dont let him deflate your ego..thats what he wants hun...hugs to you and goodluck:>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 10/2/2008 10:30:21 PM
i'd say no...sex between two people has way to many emotions...if i am haveing a sexual relationship with someone then they are the ones i love not the ones i will love n leave...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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what does my girl want to hear? Posted: 10/2/2008 10:26:57 PM
thats true long as it is from the heart and honest is the best but...hey i would love to hear the following... do you know how much you mean to me? do you know how much i appriciate everything you do for me? do you know how much i love you? oh and of course.. do you know how much i love to see you and be with you? ya i think those amongst a few others make me pretty darn happy :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Great girl but not much action! Posted: 10/1/2008 7:29:01 AM
from what i've read from everyone i agree...some woman do not feel like it when it is there time of the month..and some do..if you love her it shouldnt matter that she doesnt want to and you shouldnt be so selfish...she has feelings too...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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first date- he farts in the restaurant!! Posted: 10/1/2008 12:01:40 AM
giggle...sorry...had to giggle a tad about that one...but ya he was a creep....isnt there a thou shalt not fart infront of a lady unless you are with them rule???

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

Msg: 135 (view)

Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 9/30/2008 11:41:15 PM
i've found some men dont like them and some men obviously really do...but if they are into you and after a time you explain things to them i am sure they would agree bj's are completely out and that you and your feelings are more important :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Multiple dates.....do you tell the other dates? Posted: 9/30/2008 11:13:40 PM
personally i believe honesty is the best policy...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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To improve your marriage -- be quiet (Really ????) Posted: 9/30/2008 11:04:29 PM
ok i gotta get this book cause this does sound interesting...but i for one am not for shutting my mouth either but communication is key and respect and understanding amongst a million other things..but i agree w u on this one some men should talk and express themselves more..it might help some of us ladies...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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I still love him, but I wish I had never met him Posted: 9/30/2008 10:09:52 PM
(First: I never really wanted his money in the first place. I took me a week and having someone else tell him I would accept it. I suck at gold digging. Second: I shall try the plucking thing. X_x Third: I get SSI because I am legally insane, I get survivors bennies because my mom killed herself and was insane, and I sell stuff online. Honestly, the selling stuff online gives me most of my money.) hun who is your caretaker???i know when u get ssi u have to have someone take care of your money...they need to start and they need to start takeing an intrest in what you are doing to you and for you...you really obviously need more help and starting a relationship w anyone WILL not help you!focus on you and your cats and dont bother w a guy for a while...it may help a little...hugs atcha hun :> n goodluck

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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I still love him, but I wish I had never met him Posted: 9/30/2008 9:56:05 PM
hun...i've been through something a little similar when i was 17 n it lasted 4 horrible years...do yourself a huge favor..one contact woman in distress and get a restraining order and forget couple thearapy and get yourself help!do things for yourself and not for him!and just so you know..it was never ever YOUR fault!your only fault was choseing him!there are plenty of programs that can help you in your comunity so you dont have to worry about being on the streets or anything..please seek them out..and the only thing that will help is breaking contact w him completely and working on you...good luck hun...my prayers are w u..

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Put to work Posted: 9/30/2008 9:43:20 PM
giggle i like some of the things u guys wrote on this one :> and true..he was used plain and simple...and heck think about it..one she is getting a free day watching a game she didnt have to pay for..and what did he get??a day of moveing her sht and her w him...poor guy!and dont knock him for being a good guy guys cause heck any of us girls would be more than happy to have a guy like that!and it doesnt make him any less a man for flexing his pecks ;> i'm sure we'd all like to watch

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Should I have stayed friends even though he dumped me? NC question Posted: 9/30/2008 9:11:30 PM
very interesting subject to me....been through sorta the same things...best thing to do is to delete him from your myspace and set yourself to private..and break from him totally...when he sees you dont care he will either want to know why and start bugging ya or just not care himself...n as much as it may hurt ya hun it really is the best to do...(n interesting on the book i gotta get that!)..sometimes the best way to break w someone is to do it completely and make yourself happy first and then if something comes of it all later well it could be good or bad...life is just that way....just make sure he respects you and doesnt take you for granted and start showing your stronger side otherwise he will just keep doing what he is doing..and that you dont want...if i hadnt of done it that way i wouldnt be back w my honey today...hope that helps n goodluck atcha :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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First Date, Second Chance? Posted: 9/29/2008 10:19:17 PM
good for you hun..you at least didnt leave him hanging but he did and honestly that wasnt right..goodluck hun :>

amithyst26

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Waste of Time Posted: 9/29/2008 10:39:42 AM
nods a week isnt enough hun...i've made some great friends from here :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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is sex everything in a relationship? Posted: 9/29/2008 10:38:24 AM
sex is important but it's not everything...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Strangest Compliment Posted: 9/29/2008 10:34:38 AM
your as cute as a gothic button...giggle..i think that is one of the silliest i got...but i've heard tons..i get alot of you know you look like betty paige...(n no i dont think i do)

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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I have a friend who says people on dating sites have something to hide... Posted: 9/29/2008 10:25:21 AM
i agree w ya ils99 some people just dont have the time..i meet people at clubs work ect but it's the people you actually get to converse w online for a time that seem more interesting to me cause i get to talk to them more and get to know them and ya i am one of the shy ones so i prefer the online setting cause it is easier.

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Put to work Posted: 9/29/2008 10:14:24 AM
giggle..sorry i had to laugh a little at that one...she used you as the moveing guy??? i mean there are favors and there are favors!but thats just wiered!and you are obviously a sweetheart for doing so and kudos to ya hun but next time some girl asks you to do all that when first meeting ask her where the door is so you can move on out it :> mwah atcha n luck b w ya

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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First Date, Second Chance? Posted: 9/29/2008 10:10:54 AM
i kinda go through the same thing..if i make plans it has to be when i can otherwise i cant and if the guy understood that from the get go he should of been there..and you have every right to of been angry..and honestly i dont think he deserves another chance..there are just so many before he does that to you constantly..trust me i've been through that over a year now..n it really grates on you..good luck hun :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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A crazy sense of urgency and restlessness!!! Posted: 9/29/2008 9:59:19 AM
we all go through it hun...n after a point you date again n then it all goes nuts from there when u find someone that you think is right and arent and then your back to where you were n sick of bothering again...if i've learned anything it is really time that helps and if the right one does find you then your lucky...just be happy being you :> i hope that helped a little..mwah atcha n good luck

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Can't seem to get it right!! Posted: 9/29/2008 9:54:36 AM
and i think thats why i stick to the forums lol...

amithyst26

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Midnight lover Posted: 9/29/2008 9:43:07 AM
honestly i kinda am in that situation but it is only cause i work nights...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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How to tell a girl off nicely Posted: 9/29/2008 9:35:23 AM
well one ya all were obviously a little tipsy..n u did dance w her so her impression must of been ok he wants me..doesnt matter weather your fat or not she is human ya know..(i used to be 310lbs once) just next time if your not into the girl...dont dance w her..say nicely you have to go to the bathroom...that usually works...good luck lol...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met Posted: 9/28/2008 11:10:55 PM
well i have met some people that didnt look exactly as there pics...but still stayed talked to them n became friends w some of them...i just cant be mean...but i did tell them they dont look alot like there pic...n heck on that make up post...some people do want to look there best when they take a picture or go out..n yes alot of people should put new and old pics cause it helps alot...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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You worry about things too much. Nobody is Normal. Posted: 9/28/2008 10:56:08 PM
giggle..i liked it..and i've been saying the same thing for years...no one is normal and to think as such is a joke...if we were all so called normal wouldnt we all look and act pretty much the same???that would be kinda boreing wouldnt it??normal is just what an individule percieves it to be in there own mind:>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Odd dating requests... Posted: 9/28/2008 10:49:40 PM
wow....oooookkkk...now borrowing a shirt from a guy or his robe is ok when you are with him so you can feel he is near..but there undies???ya...thats out there...and the fact that it was a first date?!?!!oookk...run...do not walk away from this chick..she is totally mental...if a guy asked me for my panties on a first date it definately would of been my last date w the dude...i'd call n ask for my undies back lol...mwah atcha!

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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old ex's healing hearts Posted: 9/28/2008 11:54:36 AM
i completely agree with gpsweetheart..it is wrong n if you dont have feelings for them and dont want something that they do why put them through that kind of heartache??? would you like the same done to you???

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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What do yo do when a guy tell you that he's not stringing you along? Posted: 9/26/2008 10:50:56 PM
he is strining you along hun...he wants you to be there when he wants you and thats it...so DONT be there...i've been through the same thing..it's a sick game that guys are playing nowadays and it isnt worth your time or your aggrivation..tell him good bye..

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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So confused by what to do? Posted: 9/25/2008 11:45:58 PM
depends on the guy hun...to be honest some guys keep there profiles up for other options and some keep them up to just talk to friends or do forums...you really need to discuss it w him...good luck:>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets Posted: 9/25/2008 11:42:19 PM
(Why are you happy to be sloppy seconds or thirds with this man ????? He hasnt the guts to get out of his marriage til hes got another woman lined up. Ms.Right?? No such person.... You are headed for heartbreak with this guy..) I agree!RUN!!do not walk from this guy!!!he may seem like such an oh so good guy honey but to be a true really good guy he wouldnt be doing this to ANY WOMAN!!and how come he is with all of them and hasnt said boo to his wife??if he wanted miss right then why is he still with her???he isnt a catch hun..he's a sinker

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 9/24/2008 9:15:43 PM
honestly..as a mom i dont want drugs around my kids so no i dont think i would like to be w someone who is stupid and high all the time...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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ok, worse first date ever? Posted: 9/24/2008 9:09:51 PM
yup i agree..just another one night stand hun...just chock it up to a lesson learned..he obviously got godsmacked for it...hugs atcha :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Do you think I was wrong?? Posted: 9/24/2008 9:05:31 PM
i think you were in the right but still should of told him...and as a single mom struggleing to make ends meet myself i can completely understand..he should of thought about the fact that you have a child to take care of and he isnt it..

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Fixing myself... Posted: 9/24/2008 8:56:36 PM
well it could be anything honestly...it could be the sex..attention..just about a million things...depends on the woman actually...you've just been dateing the wrong girls...take some u time n feel better :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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I lost my soulmate my friend and my lover:( Posted: 9/24/2008 8:46:27 PM
wow that was long! n no you shouldnt miss him..just go on...n he shouldnt of treated you or your children like that...it was wrong of him and his family...it takes two to work things out when there are kids involved...n no you probably should of talked w him about how you felt instead of going on a dateing site looking for someone else..that right there wasnt a wise decision...it takes two people willing to make a relationship work in all areas...i think you bolth just werent ready...n someday you will find someone who is...good luck hun :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 9/24/2008 8:36:42 PM
i think thymekiller said it best in his post...guys are guys girls are girls...we are more emotional where men are not...thats just how it is....n they do care it just depends on the guy and the circumstances i think...trust me...i asked my boyfriend when we started seeing eachother again if he had missed me when we stopped our relationship n he said to me no cause you are right here...i have figured no one knows what they want anymore n to just go w it in life...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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How offten do you let them come back if at all?? Posted: 9/23/2008 11:40:26 PM
not all guys should get the benefit of the doubt hun..once they do it they'll do it over n over n over again..trust me...my darling is on here but i know what type of person he is...so i just accept it...you either have to accept them the way they are or tell um to take a hike...thats just the way it is...well good luck out there :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Were women better off 50 years ago? Posted: 9/23/2008 11:34:37 PM
i think you are absolutely correct on this issue...todays men and woman dont even know what a relationship are anymore n believe more in friends with benifits then commitment..n we lost something as woman when we gained our rights to be oh so independant...think about it..we now have to take care of the kids ourselves,clean the house ourselves,pay for everything ourselves,work,and still get underpaid...and look at society today...how many kids are torn between two homes and conflicted and have a million psychological problems today?and how many crimes and rapes and murders are there today???ethics,manners,morality,and respect got thrown out the window along time ago...it is very sad in my oppinion...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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how is your dateing experiances on P.O.F?...feel free to share! Posted: 5/25/2008 8:32:13 AM
nods this is true...n i met a few people from here...n they were nice..n i went to one social thing n i had a nice time..but spent most of it w one of my old friends....but funny thing is i didnt even meet my current boyfriend from here at all of all things lol...hence why i am doing just the forums now...n guess it doesnt matter where or when u meet someone cause everyone you meet effects your life in some way weather it be good of bad...it is still an experiance...i guess sometimes we should all just stand back and not look so hard...cause that usually is when we meet someone...well hugz atchas! Ammy :>

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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I'm an idiot Posted: 2/24/2008 3:34:54 AM
all woman do lol...i think we are glutten for punishment or cursed or something lol...n yeah they all play nice guy...till you see them for what they really are when you find out it is like CRASH..oh sht...be CAREFUL and REALLY find out about the guy before ya meet him is my new motto...cause trust me..i am still feeling ill from my last one... icky icky icky icky pooo!!!!! lol...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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I'm an idiot Posted: 2/22/2008 2:10:15 AM
i live in florida and trust me i remember the after effects of katrina...uggg...still havent fixed the fence lol..but glad everything is going better for u hun and dont worry..you werent the idiot and he will realize what he lost someday..they all will...probably not till they are on there deathbed but hey kay sa ra sa ra...at least you know now that if you meet another man that acts like that run the other way!!!hugz at ya!

amithyst26

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Plenty Of Fish Lost a Great Woman Posted: 2/22/2008 12:53:25 AM
how very sad...always remember the person she was and how she was..hugz n hope and prayers go to her family and to all that know her.. gods bless...so mote it be...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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......medication and love...... Posted: 2/20/2008 6:38:34 AM
i personally think that psychiatrists are makeing a big mistake in todays society handing out medication like that like it is freaking candy...i'm sorry but have we really become a society of idiots that cant deal with our problems and have to turn to medications to cope???someone has a hard time in life or issues n crys..oh just give them some zoloft or xanax n ok that will take care of it...god forbid humans have feelings or emotions...lets all be walking talking zombies instead yay!geeez what did our ancestors do withought psychotropic drugs huh????how did we ever survive as a species...i think that psychiatrists need to treat the patient and the problem and stay away from the medication because in all honesty i think it really doesnt help the person at all...(i have had x's on and off meds..and trust me..they were crazy jerks anyway you look at it lol...even on the meds they would go crazy..medication doesnt help...getting over there problems do!)

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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I'm an idiot Posted: 2/20/2008 6:16:14 AM
wow ok ugadog99 and the op just got me totally in tears lol...i was in that no men aloud void for years and i mean years..then i met my x and let him in..got pregnant got treated like utter garbage n felt just like the op when it was all said and done...but let me tell ya..you do pull yourself out and you do go on...while i still am in a not to sure about men state,and am much more gaurded and choosey w men i still want a relationship..alot of people do...weather it is to be loved or what have you...we all want someone there for us...and yes if we could wouldnt it be great to just get away from everything and just vegg n not think about things..but...no matter what they will still be here when we get back...so the best i can say is no matter what the guy does DONT take him back no matter how tempting...cause he will be the same lieing skeezy jerk he was in the begining...remember that....get your life on track,think about you,your kidd,and bettering your life...forget him and try to find someone that can appriciate you for you...thats about all u can do at this point. hugz n stay strong n remember how he ticked you off when he comes wagging his finger at you..either that or imagine him w devil horns on lol

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Help on erasing Posted: 2/20/2008 5:54:50 AM
hmmmm...totally break contact w the person , put away everything that was either from them or would remind you of them... dont go to alot of the places you went together unless with others to create new times to remember.. talk to other people and socialize to create new times in your life... imagine a chalkboard in your mind w everything they either said or a picture of them on it and erase it before you go to bed.. get all the feelings,emotions,love,and anger you may have ,or had for them out.. put there pictures away where you will never see them till you are ready..it is a way to temperarily forget till you are emotionally ready to deal with it and to move on...it's kind of like a baby step before you take the leap and say ok i can deal now and i'm ok...it is also a way to get yourself out to create things to make you not dwell on it..and sometimes even in the end it might lead to you being friends with that person again..i know that sometimes when you do this you might become friends with those people again after time..(unless they were completely psycho,violent,or had drug problems in wich case i do not advise)..while it might not be the way some people want to deal with things i think you need to do what is right for you..i hope this helps you a little..hugs..n stay strong hun..you'll get over it and feel better and stronger with time..

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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What should I do Posted: 2/19/2008 6:34:14 PM
congrats and you did the right thing!i had to do the same not long ago n it is for the best n you will feel TONS better trust me...a few months and you will feel like yourself again and everything will be fine!hugz n koodos at ya!

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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another one bites the dust... Posted: 2/19/2008 4:35:42 PM
Excuse me while I get this dust that I just bit into out of my mouth! Thats better. Yeah, we're all clueless to one degree or another. There are areas in life where I am quite confident and competent. There are other areas where I fall flat on my face (and bite dust) The best knowledge I've collected over the years is to know the difference. And we are all different. Areas of life where I fail may be an area where you excel, and vice versa. It sounds to me like you (OP) feel that you are quite good at interpreting body language. I can't. That doesn't mean I don't have common sense, it just means I don't have any in that field. I feel it is unreasonable for you (OP) to expect others to read people the way you do. (ok i agree w that one...n hey no one is perfect that is my view...and it isnt a thing of being clueless or not..sht look at the world the economy everything...the whole freaking world is clueless then...but i think of it as just go w the flow and learn what we can and use what we know to help those that DO need it...shrug...just my oppinion... even if it doesnt matter at least i said it lol )

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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Girl advice --- when she won't take the hint! Posted: 2/19/2008 4:17:02 PM
ok yes she has a crush on you...a big one obviously lol...tell her VERY nicely but bluntly that you are NOT interested...thats the only way to do it to be honest...

amithyst26

Joined: 10/2/2007

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What should I do Posted: 2/19/2008 3:52:29 PM
ok one do yourself a favor.she abandoned you with the children..face the facts....go to a lawyer, get a job ,take care of your kidds..you can see if there are any financial aid places or see if any family can help w takeing care of the kidds or even go to your local state aid office...because what is the most important are you and your children and she obviously doesnt give a ka ka if she abandoned you and the kidds...she is most probably out for herself...wich is a sad fact but true...(cause there are alot of people like that nowadays in the world,wich in my book is sad but all to common nowadays..but am not really going to get to into my view on todays morality,ect)..now as for the car there are a million ways to get to work..taxi,bus,bike,walking...and you could probably get everything back when you get a lawyer...and remember that old saying once a cheater always a cheater...just like once a liar always a liar...dont go back to her and see her for what she really is...you will feel better about it in the long run trust me...

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