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 Author Thread: How long will you stick with POF?
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
How long will you stick with POF?
Posted: 11/19/2009 11:45:29 AM
I have been here on and off for about four years now....how time flies!
I must admit I enjoy the forums and have seen some good posters come and go over the years. I hope you all enjoy your new lives away from the site , proof that perhaps it does work?
As for dating, I have had some good experiences and the odd not so good experience , however I remain full of optimism
Edinburgh also has a very active 'meet' arrangement going on , so all is well up here (apart from the weather)
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
christmas decorations
Posted: 11/19/2009 11:39:02 AM
I don't usually put mine up till about a week before Christmas.
My two kids have moved to rented flats within the last six months and each has a new kitten......yes, you have guessed it, they are ALL coming for Christmas
I supect there wont be a Christmas tree being put up this year ....would be a bit of a waste of time don't you think?
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Spontaneous,a romantic dream?
Posted: 11/18/2009 3:18:56 PM
I meant my message was too short......Big Fish told me as much
And again....have the limits been changed?
And again...............reckon I amnt supposed to post
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What is meant by the 'left' and 'right'?
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:58:57 AM
Interestingly enough, the Latin word for 'left' is 'sinister'
Just thought I would throw that into the pot
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Sharing your bed again..
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:53:16 AM
I love my big bed....love being able to roll over onto the cool side.....although it would be lovely to roll over into a pair of big strong arms hehe
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
shopping a chore or fun?
Posted: 11/15/2009 2:40:34 AM
Shopping? Hate it and would rather be on the golf course
God......maybe I am turning into a man?????
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
being honest with yourself?
Posted: 11/13/2009 4:37:15 PM
If you can't be honest with yourself, you can't be honest with anyone else
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Flirting with Married people
Posted: 11/13/2009 3:21:00 PM
There is no point........too short, too attached, too complicated, too much hassle
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
expensive tv at poole hospital
Posted: 11/13/2009 12:30:38 PM
If I was in hospital all I would want would be my music...a good book...someone putting my meals down in front of me (maybe not the best but at least I didnt have to prepare them) and lots of rest.....last thing I would think about is TV
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Looking good for your age
Posted: 11/13/2009 11:02:31 AM
I take it in the spirit itis intended...as a lovely compliment
An auld trout like me needs all the compliments she can get hehehe
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Have you cheated death?
Posted: 11/13/2009 9:55:59 AM
Yup....I nearly drowned in Loch Lomond as a kid....and my brakes once failed....doing 60mph.....downhill.....ARRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHH
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
pre-marital sex? your thoughts
Posted: 11/12/2009 3:20:28 PM
I can allllllllllllmost recall it! Been divorced 10 years and was married for 16 hehehe
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Hairy backs - are they an issue?
Posted: 11/11/2009 3:56:55 AM
When it gets to the stage where the hair can be gathered up and pulled over their shoulders and tied in a rather fetching bow -tie effect......that's when there is an issue
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 150 (view)
 
Baldness - is it an issue?
Posted: 11/11/2009 3:49:03 AM
Nothing nicer than the feel of a 'fuzzy-felt' head
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Dancing Strictly for poofs
Posted: 11/10/2009 2:32:10 PM
mess 74...that was harsh!
I agree.....men who can move on the dance floor....well need I say more

Lorraine
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Does Gordon Brown deserve such criticism over his miss spelt letter?
Posted: 11/10/2009 2:21:09 PM
I appreciate that he is partially sighted.........but the least he could have done is have his secretary check his spelling and the detail (i.e correct name)!!!!

Lorraine
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 51 (view)
 
How rude!
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:33:56 PM
is this thread still running??????
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
living with a partner with an ex addiction
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:00:04 PM
I lived with my ex husband for 16 years.....he had a serious addiction
He re-married about 5 years ago......his second wife is now suffering as I did...
Now my kids and her kids have to deal with an addicted dad/step dad
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
LOL!
Posted: 11/7/2009 1:59:13 PM
haha......I have never heard it used in conversation
And the first time I encountered it in text/email I thought the writer was shortening my name from Lorraine to Lol !!
Bit of a senior moment there LOLOLOLOL
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Christmas Dinner
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:02:02 PM
I will start to plan the menu around mid December........the main thing is my daughter, son and his girlfriend will be with me. The menu doesn't really matter much to be honest.
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
He forgot my name!?!
Posted: 11/2/2009 2:20:15 PM
At last he used a name......the men who never use a name are to be avoided ...often a sign of 'multi-tasking' hehe
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 202 (view)
 
Halloween Meet @ The Jam House Edinburgh Fri 30 Oct 7.30 - late
Posted: 10/30/2009 11:31:59 AM
Yes there is a cloakroom...think there is a small charge
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
New Feature: send a quick message
Posted: 10/28/2009 3:08:15 PM
they show up in your inbox as normal.......some guy just took less time than usual to ask me what size boobs I have !!
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 99 (view)
 
facebook whats the deal?
Posted: 10/24/2009 1:45:23 PM
I pop on...say hi to my two kids..then pop off again as I don't want to intrude
The only folk on my list are close family and a couple of friends
I amn't into adding any old person to my list to make me look'popular'
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Does anyone here look beyond the person in the pic and try to gauge how tidy or slovenly the person
Posted: 10/18/2009 1:53:49 PM
The boat behind me in one of my pics was very tidy!!
Just a pity it doesn't belong to me
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 85 (view)
 
do you drink tap water?
Posted: 10/18/2009 1:48:39 PM
I live at the foot of the Pentland Hills up here in Scotland........we have the loveliest water ever

Yummmmmmmmmmmmmmm
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Happy in your skin?
Posted: 10/13/2009 2:01:56 PM
yes, I am
At nearly 52 I am probably more comfortable ith my body now than I was when a lot younger.
I also look around me and reckon I compare favourably with women 25 years younger than me
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Contact lenses ????
Posted: 10/13/2009 1:57:30 PM
I used to wear soft daily disposables every day.....got to the stage where my eyes were so dry by the end of the day I could't wait to take them out.

I now wear varifocal specs all day at work and my contacts for nights out or vain moments

 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Airport body scanner optional, whats the point?
Posted: 10/13/2009 1:53:55 PM
I wouldnt be too upset personally.....I usually set off the alarms anyway. Was told it was the underwiring in my bra!!!

Messages this droopy shouldn't be allowed
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 54 (view)
 
scottish weather
Posted: 10/12/2009 7:25:55 PM
My wee friend was up from London at the weekend...she was shivering!!!
Heating has been on in the evenings, wore my gloves for the first time yesterday.....AND has to scrape ice off my windscreen the other day....

My snow shovel is at the ready!

Welcome to Penicuik
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Ever dated someone suffering with mild schitzophrenia?
Posted: 10/9/2009 3:17:05 PM
Yes, I have
it wasn't easy and ended in MY tears
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Looking good for your age
Posted: 10/3/2009 10:20:24 PM
hehe....I don't mind one bit if I am told I look ok for an 'auld trout'
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Are you musical at all.?
Posted: 10/3/2009 10:16:23 PM
I played piano as a kid.....can still batter out a tune if I have the music in front of me .
My daughter has a degree in Music (Classical Guitar is her instrument) and she is going on to study Music Therapy next year.
My son has a diploma in Sound Engineering and is currenty studying Music at Uni (Guitar) . He teaches Guitar 3 evenings a week at our local High School. His girlfriend also studies music and her instrument of choice is her voice..........so mine is a very muscal family
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Sikh policeman sues force.
Posted: 9/26/2009 2:14:21 PM
I am sure that helmets come in various sizes.....surely it is possible to find a riot helmet which is big enough to fit over a turban?
Or am I stating the obvious?
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
people with heavier thighs are less likely to suffer from heart problems
Posted: 9/23/2009 2:39:21 PM
I think what was being highlighted was that if the lower body is bigger /heavier in proportion to the upper body then there is less chance of heart problems...whereas we top-heavy folks may suffer more heart problems

Perhaps I didnt word my OP correctly
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
healthy choices
Posted: 9/21/2009 11:17:53 AM
I see lots of kids walking to school eating crisps at 8am......
Also the younger folk in my office seem to feast on rubbish all day, from about the same time (ok, I work flexi, my arrival time can vary)
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy chocolate but the thought of eating it before about 3pm makes me feel sick
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
Talking about accents and voices
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:56:38 AM
it beats 'hen' up here

Lorraine shudders....or should that be clucks
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
people with heavier thighs are less likely to suffer from heart problems
Posted: 9/21/2009 7:23:52 AM
According to an article which I read today, people with heavier thighs are less likely to suffer from heart problems.
As a lucky lady with fairly slim thighs ....and high Blood Pressure...its looks as though there could be some truth?
What are your thoughts? Or is it just another way of talking about the apple/pear shape comparison ?
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Are kids immune to how annoying their parents are?
Posted: 9/21/2009 7:09:54 AM
Similar to another thread on here at the moment....but roles reversed.
Do you ever encounter families where you look at the wee ones and think....'you poor wee things' ?

It does strike me that some kids have drawn the short straw in life

 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Selection strategies
Posted: 9/21/2009 6:55:57 AM
Note to self.....must find a nice pair of comfy slippers for winter
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Tomato sauce and kids?
Posted: 9/21/2009 6:53:36 AM
I think that half the fun for kids is in the squirting !!
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Are girls put off by a guy who doesnt drink?
Posted: 9/21/2009 4:34:26 AM
Not at all...
Having been married to an alcoholic , a non -drinker or moderate drinker would be most welcome
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
MSN
Posted: 9/21/2009 4:22:34 AM
MSN is fine for me ....it's easier to have a two-way blether than be waiting for individual messages to come through on here.
I only switch to MSN as and when I have got to know the person and feel comfortable talking to them.
I have a nice wee list of close friends and family....any unpleasant incidents can be easily enough handled
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Talking about accents and voices
Posted: 9/21/2009 4:12:30 AM
'Scunnered'.......a brilliant word , especially when combined with 'fair'

hehe
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Old people driving.
Posted: 9/21/2009 4:07:53 AM
My late father used to drive along , checking his handbrake was off every 2 minutes.
I swear he thought that as he was going so slowly the brake must be on!!
He also used to comment that he often felt as if he was moving backwards, the number of cars that overtook him
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Dancing Strictly for poofs
Posted: 9/21/2009 4:04:36 AM
Have you ever checked out the thighs on male dancers?????
They are athletes not 'poofs'
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Talking about accents and voices
Posted: 9/21/2009 4:02:32 AM
I love listening to all the different accents around me in the office....I work in Edinburgh and have colleagues from Scotland, (Glasgow, Inverness,Edinburgh, Fife) England (Cockney and Geordie), Ireland,Canada, France, Africa , Asia...the list goes on

John who is from Nigeria is currently compiling a wee dictionary of 'Scoticisms' that I come out with.....

 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Real Profile Interests.
Posted: 9/20/2009 1:44:47 PM
If a man shares any of my interests then thats a bonus......if he doesn't then half the fun is in introducing him to some of them
Golf or yoga anyone?
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Talking about accents and voices
Posted: 9/20/2009 1:01:30 PM
Scots and Irish do it for me but then perhaps I am a wee bit biased......I am Scots with Irish blood in me too
A person's voice is a huge part of their individuality
 Lorri49
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
If a woman claims to have been raped shouldn't she report it?
Posted: 9/19/2009 5:18:10 PM
Well, yes!! And straight away, not years later!
It kinda casts doubt on the whole alleged episode don't you think?
 
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