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 Author Thread: I quit believing
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
I quit believing
Posted: 7/18/2008 6:55:40 AM
Dont give up. youre a beautiful girl. its a crap shoot finding real love. i think its wrong
to say all men or women are like that. maybe its the type of man that youre attracted to which is not right for you. go for someone a little different. most important be yourself. dont let a jerk or jerks bring you down. hang in there and good luck.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 176 (view)
 
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/16/2008 5:45:39 AM
ive noticed that here too. i thought it must be money. i agree about the looks fading there has to be more.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Feeling hollow inside
Posted: 7/11/2008 1:24:34 PM
love i something we all crave and feel hollow about if we dont have it. i think its probably worse in your case because you yearn for it. i thought i was in love with many people in my past but i know now that there was only one true love. unfortunatly passed away. its a rare and wonderful thing. youre a beautiful woman. be true to yourself and love will find you or you it. its better to have had one true love than a lot of relationships that ended up in hurt. be patient.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 95 (view)
 
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 7/11/2008 6:49:00 AM
got too comfortable. took too much for granted. big mistake.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 12 (view)
 
What are your expectations?
Posted: 7/9/2008 12:42:48 PM
most of the experiences ive had on here have been mediocre at best. it just seems like theyre not the same people. im not talking physically. i used to have high expectations but now while i still hope the realization is that it may not happen here but maybe elsewhere. good luck to you jim
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 223 (view)
 
Losing a loved one to death
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:44:13 PM
i lost my fiance a few years ago. time heals things, dont rush into anything right away because nothing can replace what youve lost at this point. if you really loved this person they will always be alive in your thoughts and your heart. you do have to move on and you will. its ok to grieve. connect yourself with your family and closest friends and slowly things will get better. good luck to you.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Age? How important is it?
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:35:09 PM
its depends. what age group are you looking at?
 HARRIFAN
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 235 (view)
 
is there faithful or decent men out there
Posted: 4/7/2008 9:16:51 AM
THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE. I BELIEVE IM ONE. CHEATING GOES BOTH WAYS. WHAT I FINDING IS THE LACK OF SINCERITY. ITS ON LINE DATING. ITS NOT MUCH DIFFRENT THAN THE CLUB SCENE. HANG IN THERE.
 HARRIFAN
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Have you ever given attention to get rid of someone? Did it work?
Posted: 4/2/2008 1:33:56 PM
I AGREE. CLINGY? BUBYE
 HARRIFAN
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Took me by surprise
Posted: 4/2/2008 11:26:26 AM
I KNOW MEN LIKE THIS. SMOOTH LOSERS.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Why are people afraid to meet in person?
Posted: 8/30/2006 10:33:22 AM
possible fear of rejection
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Is True Love Really The Kind That Awakens The Soul?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:22:08 AM
true love is very rare. i was fortunate to have it once. unfortunately she passed away. most marry and never know true love. many marry for other reasons. if you have true lovethe most trying times can be worked without much hassle. abusive relationships are diffrent. i would suggest putting him out of your thoughts and heart and move on. youre a beautiful woman and could have your chioce im sure. be careful not to get into a cycle of abusive relationships. try dating other types. thats what i did and found it. since shes been gone i dont grieve her but remember all that she gave me. good luck
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:12:28 AM
the 2 true loves of my life started like that. depends on the people though. avoid it with people whom you have doubts about their character.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
H0w soon is to soon?~*~*~*~*
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:18:28 PM
thats difficult to say. i did it twice. the first time was something fabulous. unfortunately she passed away. the second time? .......she turned out to be hound dog, watching my every move. im monogamous so that hurt. id be very picky about it next time. good luck!
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Disabilities
Posted: 7/3/2006 11:25:49 AM
i have a disability. ive wondered the same thing. im older than you want but i just thought id let you know. youre very pretty, hang in there.
 harrifan
Joined: 4/8/2004
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 12:12:41 PM
not hostile just frustrated
 
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