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Joined: 5/9/2005

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Never been in a relationship. Am I missing anything? Posted: 12/4/2007 5:37:28 PM
I have a great friend who's approaching 30 who hasn't ever been in a real relationship, but he seems happy with it. Its not that he's an evil ogre or socially inept hes a good guy its just not in his agenda, he's having fun living his life with friends. Relationships should be like two stars orbiting each other, each one is complete in its own right and can shine just as bright

Joined: 5/9/2005

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Does physical intimacy deter knowing eachother well Posted: 12/4/2007 5:31:02 PM
i think jumping in the sack too early has the affect of setting (emphasizing) the "physical" tone to the relationship People may be physical early before really knowing people's motives and may get duped (maybe wrong word) by those meanies who are only out there for booty. If you wait at least you know your on the same page. But like anything it just depends on the dynamic of the two people.

Joined: 5/9/2005

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ok. you've met 'the one', decide to join forces, now what?? Posted: 12/4/2007 4:38:32 PM
Leave nothing unsaid, better to be chided for saying i love u too much than not enough congrats for the good fortune!

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Romantic Gifts this Christmas Posted: 12/4/2007 4:32:58 PM
He's a guy though He'll probably actually use the soap to wash the dog! Unless he's a super techy, i'd get him something electronic and completely useless like a remote control helicopter, or his fav sports jersey, beer mug? i'd try woot.com they usualyl have good stuff

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Are people these days 'too picky'... Posted: 11/7/2006 5:30:44 PM
its all about what you want and what you will settle for

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No more POF dating experiences Posted: 11/7/2006 5:20:41 PM
Its a great that the internet has both given great people a chance to meet eachother and yet its a shame that it is also a breeding ground for liars and cheats. I have had both and have been around the internet dating block for a while. IT sucks but jsutlike in life you have to develop a thick skin about things. In the begining i useto get offended with responses like "hey baby, wanna have some fun", cringed when i was asked for my measurements, and was apauled once when one seemingly nice guy tried to manhandle me in a CVS. I sometime would respond with a lecture on the person's lack of decency, but that never changed any behavior. SO now i just chalk it up, and i always encourage people. There are decent people out there who know what they want, and theres even more perfectly decent people who dont know what they want. Then theres alot of filler. And just like in fairytales, you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you get to the prince. My only advice is: 1. Know what you want, and know what you'll settle for 2. Be polite, but dont stand for rudeness 3. Asking to meet after 5 minutes of conversation is not ok...its kinda creepy 4. Every once in a while take a break, keeps you from getting jaded 5. Never wait too long to meet someone, meeting them in person is almost like meeting them for the first time...stuff can chance and you dont want to be disapointed. I speak from experience and I hope I'm not sounding too arogant (sic). Happy Hunting! -a

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Dating Behavior: The Nature vs Nurture Great Debate Posted: 11/7/2006 4:59:24 PM
i do agree with raising the bar bit...People are too caught up with initial impressions. Being nice is to someone is a bare minimum, should always try to impress if somones an a-- you cant pat them over the head and say "aren't you a cute caveman/woman"

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Instant Messenger Help. Posted: 5/10/2006 3:10:02 PM
unable to install i.e not a fault of pof try the windows tech support. Ims arent working for me today 5/10...they are shutting i.e. down in case anyones having the same problem and think they broke their comp.....they really should debug their code before changing it ...usability testing!!

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Fun One Liners Posted: 4/21/2006 6:08:31 PM
ive gone to find myself, if i should happen to stop by, keep me here until i ve returned thoughts for 2006 Number 10 - Life is a sexually transmitted disease Number 9 - Good health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die. Number 8 - Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich. Number 7 - Give a person a fish and you feed them for a day; teach a person to use the Internet and they won't bother you for weeks. Number 6 - Some people are like a Slinky.....not really good for anything, but you still can't help but smile when you shove them down the stairs. Number 5 - Health nuts are going to feel stupid some day, lying in hospitals dying of nothing. Number 4 - All of us could take a lesson from the weather. It pays no attention to criticism. Number 3 - Why does a slight tax increase cost you two hundred dollars and a substantial tax cut saves you thirty cents? Number 2 - In the 60's, people took acid to make the world weird. Now the world is weird and people take Prozac to make it normal. AND THE NUMBER 1 THOUGHT FOR 2006: We know exactly where one cow with mad cow disease is located among the millions and millions of cows in America but we haven't got a clue as to where thousands of illegal immigrants and terrorists are located. Maybe we should put the Department of Agriculture in charge of Immigration and Homeland Security.

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Best come backs , let's see what you got ? Posted: 4/21/2006 5:56:36 PM
how about "cancel my subscription, cuz i dont want your issues!" cheezy i know

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When someone says I'll never hurt you... Posted: 4/21/2006 5:49:23 PM
everybody gets one chance to fk up i think but when someone tells you "i'll never hurt you" automatic red flag there when a relationship ends it ends in pain or with a sigh of relief...even if you didn't intend to hurt them...it still hurts

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A question about phone calls how many is too many??? Posted: 11/26/2005 4:30:38 PM
oh definatly over the course of the whole day if hes out with boys, maybe a nudging text message or something, but why bother calling if you wont be able to hear em anyways with all that background noise

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A question about phone calls how many is too many??? Posted: 11/26/2005 4:25:26 PM
yeah 15 calls is a little excessive general indication that someone "thinks" they might not be getting enough attention. As a girl i set the limit for 3 "just to say hi" calls. And ofcorse after the third time i wouldn't call anymore. Unless ofcorse your meeting up somewhere and you need to exceed the limit just to clarify stuff

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How to get over someone you don't want to get over.. Posted: 6/21/2005 1:31:54 PM
aww well first id like to say {{{hug}}} gettign over bites the big one, and it realyl sux thats that there is no expiration date on getting over somone, its more or less a psychological excerse in how to lessen you feeligns for somone. Like getting over a bad flu...it may suck everyday but all you can look forward to is that someday it will start to hurt a little less. and soon youll be making progress. heard somewhere that it takes the average person about half the time they were going out with someone to get over them (ex. 3 year relationship may take about 1.5 years to get over) which you can look at which ever way you like my advice though: allow yourself one big drunken fest (if you drink) allow yourself a good cry everyonce in a while *and embrace the fact that there is someone out there that will make you feel justas happy if not better, then your ex. and finding the person is much more fun then sitting at home brooding about the past remeber it can only get better! -ang

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Expiration dating Posted: 5/13/2005 12:54:31 PM
we;ve all been through that one brilliant experience, where it seems the universe is playing the great joke on you. Meet the perfect man, the perfect woman, next this you hear out of their mouths goes along something like "im moving in a few weeks" or "I'm only here for the weekend" DOH! Dating with an experiation date? How do handle? cope? forget about the person all together or relish every last moment? its tough lending your heart out to someone when you at the end of the rainbow they might just have to go or do they -a you thoughts?

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